₦airaland Forum

If only the village made sense, shey I for go make them dash me land.

The igbo in this town go make sense sha.

DMeanMan:
There are going to be different shades of women (and people generally).

Some will enjoy saying no, some not so much.

All the above was on the assertion that

1. The Doctor was lusting towards her and was going to ask her out.
2. The OP wanted a piece of the Doctor so she didn't put him off out-rightly.
3. She had plans of getting down with the Doctor.

Damn, you're reasonable!

Don't mind the yeye woman and others like her.

EdDave:
Did I say it doesn't happen in real life?
Way back in 2005, when we started NL, we discussed real issues cutting across all sectors of human life and actually met these ppl in life. Stories like these had evidences.
The difference is so clear now.
Monikers are created and stories are just fabricated to draw traffic.
Don't quote one when you don't understand what one says.

Excuse me with the condescension, you and who dey do that one? If you knew such happens, why dismiss this as mod inspired with no evidence whatsoever? And you are one to talk about lack of understanding? Mschew.

EdDave:
This is obviously a fictitious story meant to generate traffic through comments.
Seemed to be plenty of them on NL these days.

What reasonable wife would agree to give another man her number, even if its a wrong number?

If you think things like that don't happen, then it's either you don't live in the real world or you are simply naive.

I'd be madder than your husband, was I in his shoes, what rubbish!


I don't understand women that simply can't politely say NO. Nonsense!

Then there's the fact that you are married but still play silly games, you are not to be trusted biko! I swear this story dey vex me.

25 years with this kind face, hmmm!

Happy bornday.

MarieSucre:
Hmmnn amd he is a red-blooded Nigerian man??

Well, I am happy for you. That he understands his partner(you) and respects your decision, on what you would like to do with your body. Salute!

Lol, he sure is Nigerian.

My darling sister, one thing I know for a fact, is that, no one can impose such things on me.

BoboYekini:
Go jor.

Mschew.

BoboYekini:
What a wuss @your partner. So he couldn't pin you face down on the bed and...

I don't know what you take a woman to be.

MarieSucre:
Your partner agreed to this?

Why wouldn't he agree? Did he even have any right not to agree? Ofcourse he agreed, after asking why and making sure that's what I wanted.

iamdurent:
total rubbish. But who am i to judge when I no fit afford am. Lol

You no need to fit afford am, to have a well informed opinion.

iamdurent:
people sabi waste money eh. D shirt no even fine sef. Shoo

as in eh, the shirt na rubbish.

MarieSucre:
A comment written fro experience. So how did that phase go for you? Was it for a religious cleansing, spiritual cleansing, psychological or physical cleansing?

Did you get the results you were hoping for?

I wasn't looking for any sort of cleaning or anything per se.

I guess I just wanted to be me, I was cool with the person I was with, I wasn't religious, my body was banging, blah blah. I just didn't want to have sex, so I told my partner, and I didn't.

blont:
like your man can decide not to have sex with u and u ar fucking ok... dont be silly jor.

Why can't he decide to? It's his life his pen1s, all I need do is listen to his reasons and analyse them, it's not rocket science.

BoboYekini:
Of course she can. It's your prerogative. But expect to be second(third/fourth) choice for that interlude.


Op, I like to think of women as cars. Na as your money reach your ride go tight. If your maintenance/security isn't right, the experience will break down or she gon get stolen.
You don't see my Corolla telling me how hard not to drive her. Still, I have fond memories of all my cars and I don't take a break down personally. On to the next.

For your mind o.

BoboYekini:
Duh. From the get go na.

Like a girl can't decide not to have sex no more? Don't be silly jor.

There's always the other person's side to a story, but if your wife is giving you ultimatums and saying she's getting a boyfriend, then she's either crazy or you aren't saying exactly what happened.

Mophasa:
I truly love her and wouldn't mind staying with her without sex, I even told her but she wouldn't have none of it.
Claiming there is no Way we could be together without having sex.
Am actually ready to do anything just to be with her,

Oh dear! If she said this then my friend, she's with someone else.

Laburos:
I sorry for una Boy friends Girl go nack every guy she dates and even the cucumber she bought then when they meet one unfortunate dude they start Celibacy or abnegation or what have they, and the expect you to stay? spreed the Legs or Walk

You make no sense.

Maybe it's a phase cos I remember a time I felt same way about sex, but mine wasn't about spirituality or whatever, just had a conversation with myself and decided I wanted to try celibacy, especially since sex wasn't doing any thing for my life nor relationship then.

Who knows, your girl might just be telling the truth or she doesn't love you anymore or she's seeing someone else. It's left for you to figure out which it is.

Tonto sha needs to be quiet.

Married ontop 50k for this economy, e no go easy o.

I don't get this, like you told her outrightly "I won't marry you" or you merely said you weren't ready for marriage as at time of dating? Cos I find it hard to believe that a woman of marriageable age, who is also interested in marriage, would agree to casual just fun dating.

Lol, the girl gat no chill, she said he's taken.

No be small thing, this kinda girl will fight any lady she sees around the dude, easy o.

Yea, she's really studying with a crying abi na laughing baby, na so.

Kudos for effort but the cake isn't fine biko.

Being photographed while stirring a pot, doesn't mean you cooked the meal.

All these attention seekers sef, mschew.

uzoclinton:
Not all bro.... so many back benchers stay there because they are not confident enough to stand and answer a question in class....

they know it'd be required of them to do just that if they sit at the front, that's y dey stay at the back' where teacher eye no go reach them....

Lol, you are not sure my dear.

I didn't have a particular spot at school but I sat at the back more and believe me, that's where everything happens.

One thing I'm sure of though, is that na sabi sabi people wey actually no sabi anything full front. Most lecturers even love asking back benchers questions, because of the notion that the are the bad eggs.

Pedagogue:

Really!!!

Look at the amount of words you wasted over a seemingly harmless public joke between a wife and her husband! Are you so uptight that you don't have a single iota of humour!

May God save this generation! I had to re-read your comment more than 5 times to be sure of what you were talking about!

Any person with moderate intelligence should know that she was just joking!

You need to find a better avenue to vent your frustration. Describing women as "brainless and stupid" shows the kind of upbringing you have.

My problem is not basically about your comment, but that your comment has many likes- which unfortunately suggests that many people share your views.

You and your likes represent what is wrong with Nigeria. You major on the minor, and minor on the major. Instead of lashing out at the government that has stopped you from acquiring quality education and kept you in poverty, you are venting your frustration on someone's wife, and other women!

I'm so pissed!

While I don't agree that women are brainless, the dude has a point, that supposed joke is inappropriate for a married woman, in the general sense. However, we don't know what the story is with her/spouse, so he may see nothing wrong in it, that doesn't make it okay for the public, hence the need to discuss such tasteless jokes in private.

Banky is her hubby's mate and if he too sees the nonsense of it all, I'm sure her hubby will think twice before laughing at such.

This toolz mumu sha, see how she's laughing at an obviously innapropriate joke, what kind of joke is that one sef?

Her husband better be careful, that dude will feck his wife if care's not taken, nonsense.

Why even post, to show off that he(Soma) finds you sexy? Biatch please.

Majoriki:
And that's no lie baby

Story.

Good thing is, he said he'd start from the church.