I don't expect much from this "the more you look the less you see" boju boju government.

It is just ego. How can my nanny now become the madam of the house, that's what keep going in her mind. She has to suck it up, that's life for you.

I remember a story here on nairaland how a guy got upset because the driver or so his mum recommended for his aunt who lost her husband is now sleeping with the aunt. Thereby turning oga in the house.

imagine.

ProfGday:
This woman willingly gave her food to dogs...why?

1.She employed matured lady as nanny

2.She left the care of the house to this said lady

3.She failed to monitor her viginalnometer from over speeding untop of Dickson's highway

4. She already lost the support of her husband and his relatives....


It won't be a surprise if this woman is kicked out in the nearest future.


To all our ladies,buy and use sense to build your home,don't allow laziness kill you.

lol

kokomilala:
Being Catholic In A Multicultural World, With Imbalances In One's Own Culture

I've tried to offer my own humble answer in my title. You're narrowing your choices where u have nonsense of options: whites, blacks, hispanics, Aussies, Indians etc, etc..

Since women from ur kin don't want to date u, possibly because they've been culturally wired to see relationships as material transactions, then you should be open-minded to women of other races and cultures.

These women, who may happen to be much better socially and financially, would oblige u, I'm certain, in a heartbeat.

We have a dysfunctional culture, sadly. It's the culture of gender consumption, where everything is seen through the prism of how-do-I-maximize this relationship materially? from the mundane boyfriend-girlfriend relationship to marriage.

These days, when I see women in their. 40s still single, I no longer have empathy for them. Most of them, it seems, have traded their choices.

na so my brother

Resetinc:
There is no real love feelings for any Nigerian lady abroad, even when u dey on top her for bed she dey calculate her moves… Love to them is an ‘opportunity’ and when she is ok she wil kick your asss..

If you don’t want to regret the rest of your hustling life in your country of residence, avoid any woman that speaks pidgin .. just greet her as a sister and keep moving.. e get why😂

lol🤣

Klass99:


I am not in the diaspora but I stumbled on a thread where someone made a sensible comment about this same issue.

They said something to the effect of everyone being too smart because of their papers/stay, nobody wants to compromise or make sacrifices, for the sake of an authentic relationship because too much sense is worrying all of you there.Na una know wetin dey worry all of you sha!

From my observations, there's a tendency in most of you japarians to gravitate towards self conceit and a vain superiority complex, where you start to think you're better than other Nigerians because;

1. You've lived in obodo for XYZ number of years or you have papers, so even new immigrant Nigerians are like an affront to you guys (meaning their very presence in your host country is like an offence)

2. You think with your papers you have finally arrived what can any Nigerian offer you again. But your papers alone don't provide healthy social interactions, good friendships or companionship, laughter and fun moments with others.

I see that superiority complex even here on NL with folks who haven't lived overseas for 2 years, I smile and shake my head, thinking to myself, poverty is really not a good thing. When you grow up privileged very little about the white man trips you to a point where you start to insult or look down on your country and fellow country men. Because you grow up knowing what your own people are made of and capable of. It's not so much about privilege alone, but having a healthy dose and sense of self worth, self esteem and self love.

My friend engaged an asian cabbie in conversation in the UK, while riding in his car. The cabbie told her it is very disappointing to see the way we Africans/Nigerians in particular behave overseas. He said we are quick to throw away our cultural values to embrace western ones, we are the ones who are quick to talk back to parents and disrespect them (that was an incident he witnessed in his cab with a Nigerian family)

Whereas he sees Indians, Chinese and some Asians hold onto their cultural values and practices, maintaining the family unit, and refusing to let the west negatively influence them. I think the cabbie's experience and narrative, may help you understand why you are having a hard time finding a Nigerian date.

you're right

ezechi24:
E no concern igbo man at all... ocean Una wan carry everybody go we will go, The problem na if Una go fit follow them swim like fish, buhari carry us go desert, the mumu surprise how we take dey see water and food.

Now abgado don carry us enter ocean, he forget say we and shark na from same family .....igbo man no go beg no worry...hahahaha

no be lie

ShenTeh:
As a bonafide Yoruba youth (if I'm not too old to be called one), I don laugh tire. In fact I'm rotfrn.

Forgive my offhandedness, we are not expected to disrespect our elders. So my laughter is not that of derision but of knowledge.

In fairness, many a Yoruba people, especially the elites, did not vote for Tinubu, and that is evident in the historic loss of Lagos to LP despite all the hanky-panky during the national polls, for example. So I have no apologies for those who commited social suicide all the alters of 'awa lokan'.

You see, inflation does not respect religion, tribe or sex. So is laughter. So is my laughter.

you're right

kingsceemark:
Yoruba people in connection with Hausa fulanis really want to destroy this country for good, since 1960 till today nothing is working, and the shameless people no even get shame at all. Na this front and backward the zoo go remain until we break up this country and Every tribe starts answering their papa names. Illiterate people controlling the economy and security of this country, what do you expect. FAILURE

lol

oluwaseyi0:
Personally I won't be surprised

Wherever Jasmine got her power over the ibu family seems suspecting to me

Also I don't think she was 'adopted' as a kid

Who adopt full grown adult female if not for concealed fucking purpose? Moreover mere adoptee can't be giving an entire family especially the wife a run for her money

you're right

That's the mistake my parents made which I'll never make. My parents couldn't wait for me to balance well after my graduation as a healthcare professional before they unleashed there retirement agenda on me. I'm the first child among 5 siblings.
He was never serious as a businessman during his active time in business.
Now that the economy is not good and everyone is trying to manage vis-a-vis the inflation, I do pity him because I know I'm not doing enough.

Nigerian parents especially the poor ones are fund of that nonsense. Especially now that Nigeria is not predictable.

Juoflife1:
National Embarrassment...See finish... No respect for Nigeria anywhere. They want only Saudi Air . My Nigerian people still go to these useless racist Arabs for Hajj. Big shame.

thank you my dear.. pure see finish. I dey tell you

Ladies and shifting blame is like bread and butter.
After wasting there prime on stupidity and unrealistic expectations from men, they resort to blame game and bitterness

Maxtipulation:
She don dey miss her husband anaconda

no be lie

DMerciful:
Not surprise that the certificate forger wants to collapse the universities and polytechnic so that agbadorians will turn to mass forgers like their master Amoda, who graduated from a school 4yrs before it was built

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Things I learnt are;
1. Verify properly before you involve yourself in any venture
2. Life itself is tough, only tough people succeed. Weakness is a unforgivable sin.
3. In a jungle, it's either you eat or be eaten. If you know you'll be eaten, fight with all your strength before you go down. Don't make easy for your predator. Who knows you might survive.
4. Greatness comes with a price, the faster you want to achieve it, the higher the price to be paid.

Machinegun91:
Same here


How can you pity a pity ?

I dey tell you

SeunOsewaIsDiot:
Those miscreants rice, plantain and cow thief from the brown roof south wasted waste no go like this great news. Their criminal brother dey in power but hunger and starvation wan finish them. One of them a 44-year-old man called Nurudeen Disu stole 36 cows few days ago in Lagos state from the hausa fulanis

🤣🤣🤣

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo



Too much pornography is what is making some men insecure about their D*ck size.


When they watch porn and see gigantic D*ck done with visual effect and watch how the women are screaming and squirting,

They will think their own D*ck size is useless

The moment you Cum with your small D*ck, use your index finger and massage her Clitoris till she cum too, don't kill your p*enis with enlargement none sense

lol

Onyiiobi7735:
I learnt that from my experience that a woman reveals her true colours when you appear broke or struggling and not flaunting wealth before her.
But the idiot that served me international breakfast suddenly repositioned to " interested" when she heard I had 8.5 million naira from sale of a parcel of land shared by my kindred and I got my share.

you are bro.

kinkymax:
This silly girl will have many naija guys over there in Canada asking for her attention o or number but she won’t acknowledge those guys … they will be looking for oyinbo wey no send them…na that loneliness go wound u ode

you're right

sonofanarchy:
I had American girl friend, met her on Facebook, she's a nurse she's very friendly and always want to talk to me. She works with a Nigerian lady colleague an Igbo lady, when she told her (Nigerian colleague)about her boyfriend( Me) in Nigeria, how she's planning to come see me and know me better, this Nigerian lady, told her I might be a ritualist who tied her to make her fall in love with me and I'm a fraudster she didn't end there, she said majority of the boys there aren't of no good. Is this how you demarket your own country just because you want to feel among. This lady told me all what she said. Mind you, I don't know this Nigerian lady from Adam, she doesn't know me. I guess she was planning to Link this lady up with her brother or something or she's just purely evil. Few months later we broke up because she started feeling insecure about the whole thing because of what that lady said. In me next life I prefer to be lion in the jungle than a Nigerian.

that's bad

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo


The way I ride my above 30 years old side chicks eeh. You will hate me if you are a lady.

Sometime I Pity their future husbands if they eventually find one unlucky chief.

I leave this ladies with a mark & title to remember called 'Empress Reservior Kpekus' (E.R.K1).

you are doing well bro. Ride them Wella.
During there prime they showed men shege

adanny01:


I met my wife a virgin. I was also a virgin. I dated othe people before we got hitched. I met and broke off with other virgins.

My experience with virgins is that they always delude themselves thinking virginity is a gift that will ensure them a perfect partner. They seem to think there is a reward for their chastity.

Madam, there is no reward for virginity in our current world, The fact that you are still mentioning it means you are still hoping for the reward. You expect God or your husband to reward you with everything your heart desires. Life isn't that straight forward.

I have been in your husband's shoes and have refused to do a job my friends are doing and making money from.

It is obvious you are not contented with what life has given you and feel you deserve more.

My advice; your chastity is in the past, contentment should be your present, prayer and hope is what your future needs. Your husband needs a loving home and a caring wife to encourage him.

U have 3kids, I am sure you know someone that has tried but doesn't have kids. You have a husband, even as a broke guy, another woman would love to have him. Count your blessings and pray for more. Continue to be the foundation your husband stands on.

What if he gets money today and start womanising or marries another wife. What if you get money and lose your home. God knows what we don't. Maybe these challenges are to make your home solid and stable before success.

well written bro. I love this

IjebuWarrior:


But, why are you Okoro savages running away from ur godforsaken jungle? Are you pple cursed?

Yorubas hate Igbos, simple! We hate you pple die, I swear! Everything about you stinks. Leave our lands and region, abeg. 🤬

hmmm

EgunMogaji2:


It’s never advisable unless there’s a seriously compelling reason. Not even love.

If you must then try to get a solid prenup and/or get your properties beforehand.

Don’t build with a woman. E get why.

I dey tell you

BabaOfLagos:
NO IT IS NOT!

Men,

DO NOT be cajoled into doing a court marriage.

Let me tell you why,

Marriage in any form favours a woman most.

Doing a court marriage is like surrendering your authority to your woman.

How do you surrender your arms before going for war?

Marriage is not a bed of roses like the Media wants you to see,

Marriage is a constant war for power.

There are many battles in this war, you can loose a few battles but never loose the war.

Why do you think women agitate for court marriage more?

Men,

Keep this rules:

- Don't marry a woman older than you.

- Don't surrender your independence to your wife.

- Don't allow your wife to be wealthier than you. Do whatever it takes to earn triple than her. If you are a mason and she is a doctor, own a hospital and employ her.

Have you read the 48 laws of power, LAW 7?

- Take control of your marriage. Be the leader. Your wife should never show any sign of masculine energy in your house for example making decisions that are primarily in your masculine domain.

When a woman insist on court marriage, and you fall for it, it's like giving out some level of authority to a woman, she would bank on it and destroy you soon.

Most of you don't want to listen. If you refuse you will suffer.

Remember, the world today is effeminate, you will suffer in your marriage, be dragged to court and lose your soul.

I recommend every man here to search and join IAJ ONLINE on telegram.

Join that tribe of men, know your place as a man.

aptly written bro

The Yorubas in Lagos are special kind of Yorubas. I tell you.
There liberalism is paying off and they will always be ahead of other omoluabis

Improve your perception of you from people.
How people see you is directly proportional to the value they attach to you.

How you talk, what you say, your dressing and the way you carry yourself does it all.

SaLongs1:
From looting a bus full of rice to WWE about palliatives, make una repent ooo.

hahaha

SemperFid:
Let it continue. My fiverr earnings plus my crypto daily trade de give me joy. I make 10$ daily in trading and that is just about 10k just lying on my bed.

My optometry practice license expired and I no even know because I studied optometry for 6 years and I have never thought about using it to find a job and I don't know if I ever will.

please give me update guy

Mipathy:
So it was all a sham?
I fear who no fear APC
That Ajuri Ngelale is a pathological liar with a sweet foreign accent. If you don't pay close attention to that guy, you will belive anything he tells you. A very skilled liar!

hahaha