advanceDNA: They should hit the nail on the head and stop sugar coating it..... same thing happened in the US.. ..the police told them straight up in to stop using the police to create false pattern of abuse against their husband that they will weaponize later to gain their husband's properties or government benefits...
MrBrownJay1: some of these women are really CLUELESS about us men.... CLUE #1 a man asking "how was your day" just want to make small conversation and dont really care about your day. we all know that such question can end up being a 30mins monologue about what your colleagues did and other boring stuff that men really dont give a fukc about. na so we just nod in silence as your day went.
CLUE #2 the question "have you eaten" is equally the same. as much as a man will gladly buy a snack, the minute you say "no" and start to order enough food to feed the whole population of Surulere, thats when there is a problem.
CLUE #3 whatever a man asks you, it doesnt have to always end up in some issue that can only be solved with money...is it? what about answers like:"my day was great, thank you" OR "i just ate and am full, thank you" or " i can pay for my own Tfare, gracias" etc? a man does not want to hear about your financial problems, just like you ladies dont want to hear his financial problems. so lets stop the hypocrisy! the minute you start talking about your money issues during a date (where you guys went to enjoy yourselves), then thats considered UNDERCOVER BILLING.... and men who fall for it should be flogged mercilessly in a public court!
There was a story I heard from a Catholic faithful who explained how these rev fathers rent houses for there lovers and visit often for knacks. Some even bring in girls claiming they're their relatives inside the parish house and knack them at night. These girls can be brought from very far places so they can't be easily known.
Gadafii: The land on which the dangote refinery is sited was paid for with $100million, those who claim to own Lagos didn't receive shingbai😂😂😂
The Lagos cabal of land grabbers of which tilinbu is one of pocketed everything, while the hungry batidiots come online to defend them with limited data subscription
When next you hear them say "go back to your region or state" ask them which part of Lagos or southwest their papa come from😁😁🤝🤝
Na the cane Dem take flog landmark Dem wan use flog dangote so
lol. Una kill person with laugh for this nairaland
Strange things are happening ....similar thing happened in my village some years ago....I use my korokoro eyes witness am.
Wife put to bed, her sister went to do the omugwo at her place.....during her time helping her sister out, we no know say she and her sister husband don dey lash.....
Story short, she got pregnant, and the man came to our village to do traditional marriage.
Meaning say he don marry 2 sisters.... Omo, see how they were dancing during the trad, with reckless abandon.
franchasofficia: Nothing concern Yoruba concern economy, Yorubas are only good in media propaganda, political activism, and maybe legal representation, but when it comes to economy, trade, commerce and money, it belongs naturally to the Igbos, but tribalism and wickedness made Buhari and Tinubu to sideline Igbos in those critical economic sectors and see where it has landed Nigeria?
Check when Soludo and Ngozi Okonjo Iweala were in charge of Nigeria's economy and CBN, at all at all, Nigeria's economy was booming against all odds
You're not wise than the man, he's talking from experience, that's an Alpha male talking not a SIMP
The last time I carried responsibility for my head I suffer am for 2yrs, abi make the lady get make we spend am together. No be say I go overwhelmed myself with burden of responsibility and the woman go move on after one don kpai
The owner of the house I'm staying is late, his wife remarried already and handover the care of the house in the hand of her new husband brother, what a man hustle to build?
This one na doctor's matter. This case would definitely lead to the weakening of NMA as a Union which would gradually reduce there influence in the healthcare polity.
Most unions in this country serve as a means to extort people.
NMA as a body seems to be a backbone which fights and protects the rights of doctors especially from the government.
They also serve as a Union used to fight other healthcare stakeholders.
UNNGRADUATEEE: I have worked in hotel when I was in Nsukka UNN. I worked in Golden valley hotel so I can relate to what you are saying. I caught the wife of a professor I know bringing a young guy there for sex. Omoh, she didn't recognized me.
lol. Prof dey read book and guys dey hammer him wife
Callosobruchus: Hehehe...she wants me to come to Abj fess before we start to negotiate.Shebi all di decent ones wey dey my area no get wetin you get? You don't need to have an eye problem to wear life's medicated glasses.Played or be played, and if you don't like the game of playing people always be sharp enough to know that people are always willing to play you.
Bobby4090: This shows that Lagos state is being held hostage and blackmailed by people of certain origin. Every other state in Nigeria is free to demolish infractions in order to build but once it comes to Lagos state government, you'll see some people shouting that the government is heartless for destroying people's investment. If it was in Anambra or Imo etc, that Landmark beach would have gone by now if there was an important major road to be built. But because it's in Lagos, you'll see Peter Obi and their group shouting. Obi that cannot comment on anything in the SE now sees Lagos as his home that must work according to his feelings.
Though I'm Igbo but I reflected on this your comment
MisterKings: Truth be told, the fact that some look down on others and others feel inferior is not their fault. In school, we have all been wired to compete with each other. You carry 1st they clap for you, you carry 13th they sing olodo rapata. Because of the myopic mindset that it has to be educational success, sidelining every child's God-given talent and gift.
You grow up with knowledge that does not fit into reality 90% of the time and then those who were fortunate to have parents who saw the B.S, quickly swerved their kids in the right direction.
In the end, most of our parents did not know better. Some parents made the right decisions, and some were just plain naive but of course, they are parents, they were always right and it is what they PUSH us to do we will do. If we fail we are compared to others with the question....does he have 2 heads?
We are out now...away from home, trying to build our nests. We can make our own decisions now. But what decisions really? The foundation is flawed already. As it stands, It's already 3-0 and it's looking like injury time already.
Bad foundation 1 - 0 Poor education 2-0 Bad economy 3-0
Funny enough some of us are gifted with the instincts to know that something is wrong with the system. But we don't dare bring it up or we will be stigmatized.
I was 15, when I carried my 2 legs to IT fairs and seminars back in the day when my mates were chasing girls and looking for JAMB score. I was not even sure what I was listening to at these seminars I just knew, I liked the idea of having a laptop and doing something cool with it.
I felt IT was the future. I came and told my Dad I wanted to learn this computer thing, I wasn't entirely sure what it was then, but I just knew this was a good skill. My Dad told me to get inside and read my books and I should never talk to him about that nonsense ever again.
I usually loved to follow my instincts. I still wanted to go for the IT course, but it was expensive then, so I dropped the idea. But I did not give up. One term, I took my school fees and went to pay someone to teach me web design. The guy teach me small, and I no see am again.
So what I started doing was buy cafe time and browse the whole internet without any goal, just browsing here and there, downloading music. But that helped me learn to type and use the computer. That was how I achieved that without attending computer school.
But in the end, despite being one of the brightest students in the school, I ended up not attending the University because my Dad did not eventually take it serious.
I went on work as a factory worker, waiter, security, wasting my years as things turned even worse after my Father passed on.
But then one of those days, in my security job, a friend of mine just asked me to leave and come squat with him and from there I started grabbing skills related to the same IT.
I am a web designer now, but I am also a videographer, video editor, graphic designer, and photographer. But imagine if I had gone through with the skill I initially told my dad about, which I later learned was front-end development, where I for be now.
Some of my classmates who used to look up to me to copy at exam that year are doing way better than me. The girl I had a crush on, went on to marry a better man. Everyone moved on and it felt I was the only one behind.
Now, I am not really begging for food, but I have and still go through rough times and I know some of my mates that are way ahead of me financially, which face I won take say bro how far na, e don tey o.
So I just dey my lane, dey hustle wetin I fit. We all have different times and are on different lanes. That's what I have come to understand, man plans God laughs.
My brother I'm really touched and captivated by your analysis. Honestly that's even the major foundational problems we had and still having in our society today. Many of our parents did not even know better but will always have their way. Nevertheless we'll not give up because one day, the universe will tilt to our favour.
MisterKings: Truth be told, the fact that some look down on others and others feel inferior is not their fault. In school, we have all been wired to compete with each other. You carry 1st they clap for you, you carry 13th they sing olodo rapata. Because of the myopic mindset that it has to be educational success, sidelining every child's God-given talent and gift.
You grow up with knowledge that does not fit into reality 90% of the time and then those who were fortunate to have parents who saw the B.S, quickly swerved their kids in the right direction.
In the end, most of our parents did not know better. Some parents made the right decisions, and some were just plain naive but of course, they are parents, they were always right and it is what they PUSH us to do we will do. If we fail we are compared to others with the question....does he have 2 heads?
We are out now...away from home, trying to build our nests. We can make our own decisions now. But what decisions really? The foundation is flawed already. As it stands, It's already 3-0 and it's looking like injury time already.
Bad foundation 1 - 0 Poor education 2-0 Bad economy 3-0
Funny enough some of us are gifted with the instincts to know that something is wrong with the system. But we don't dare bring it up or we will be stigmatized.
I was 15, when I carried my 2 legs to IT fairs and seminars back in the day when my mates were chasing girls and looking for JAMB score. I was not even sure what I was listening to at these seminars I just knew, I liked the idea of having a laptop and doing something cool with it.
I felt IT was the future. I came and told my Dad I wanted to learn this computer thing, I wasn't entirely sure what it was then, but I just knew this was a good skill. My Dad told me to get inside and read my books and I should never talk to him about that nonsense ever again.
I usually loved to follow my instincts. I still wanted to go for the IT course, but it was expensive then, so I dropped the idea. But I did not give up. One term, I took my school fees and went to pay someone to teach me web design. The guy teach me small, and I no see am again.
So what I started doing was buy cafe time and browse the whole internet without any goal, just browsing here and there, downloading music. But that helped me learn to type and use the computer. That was how I achieved that without attending computer school.
But in the end, despite being one of the brightest students in the school, I ended up not attending the University because my Dad did not eventually take it serious.
I went on work as a factory worker, waiter, security, wasting my years as things turned even worse after my Father passed on.
But then one of those days, in my security job, a friend of mine just asked me to leave and come squat with him and from there I started grabbing skills related to the same IT.
I am a web designer now, but I am also a videographer, video editor, graphic designer, and photographer. But imagine if I had gone through with the skill I initially told my dad about, which I later learned was front-end development, where I for be now.
Some of my classmates who used to look up to me to copy at exam that year are doing way better than me. The girl I had a crush on, went on to marry a better man. Everyone moved on and it felt I was the only one behind.
Now, I am not really begging for food, but I have and still go through rough times and I know some of my mates that are way ahead of me financially, which face I won take say bro how far na, e don tey o.
So I just dey my lane, dey hustle wetin I fit. We all have different times and are on different lanes. That's what I have come to understand, man plans God laughs. My brother I'm really touched and captivated by your analysis. Honestly that's even the major foundational problems we had and still having in our society today. Many of our parents did not even know better but will always have their way. Nevertheless we'll not give up because one day, the universe will tilt to our favour.
The new governor want to win forthcoming elections 😉 Here in Akure , construction companies are busy on roads. All na politics. Until he sustains this after election, that's when I'll take him seriously
Exactly. They won't dare come in. Not now ESN are blood thirsty 🤣🤣🤣 Meanwhile in South West, we urge all Yorubas to go about their normal business because fulani herdsman and Yorubas are like husband and wife. Where are the cows? Where are the villages 😂😂😂
12. Houdegbe North American University campuses in Nigeria.
This school was a breeding ground for drug addicts, both in males and females, prostitution, and cultism. Students don't go to school and sort till they graduate. Some collect Money for fees but have already dropped out without their parent's knowledge because of yahoo, pregnancy and drug addiction. Many wasted their parent's money up to 300level or final year, only to go back to nigeria and start afresh. This school back then made codeine and rohypnol so much in high demand, not talk of crack and heroine... girls' addiction was most baffling. Infact this school negatively impacted on the indigenous Béninois with their lifestyle. Most lecturers were compromised, you go bleep tire as a lecturer. Boys go sort you tire for grades. That school was a mini Sodom... Me self follow enjoy some babes who just wanted to flex and they will be loyal to you. Just keep the drugs coming.
mu2sa2: Good buy. Your wife is lucky her man is a veteran naija market perambulator. She should allow your goodself to be doing the market round while she takes charge in the kitchen, that will be excellent division of labour.
This is the same thing I am trying to tell you on the other thread, Your security agencies arrested them and took them to court and used a constitution that IPOB did not write, yet the constitution did not find them guilty and even declared that the security agencies had no case, doesn't that tell you that in simple terms that it is oppression and injustice on the people arrested for doing nothing wrong.
Yet you are here praying for them to be arrested again, why do you Tinubu supporters love oppression and injustice on innocent people, why do you guys love to hate victims of oppression and injustice..
If they did anything wrong the court would have found them guilty....
tunjilana: She is free to remarry at anytime...the reason why family members are always concerned is because the man's sweat and hardwork would have bn transfered to her and she is in turn taking this into a stranger's ause out of their control and they are not even sure if the wealth will b used to take care of the deceased kids and the excessea transfered to the kids at her death...As a wise man plan your life and plan for death...do a will that ensures your children's interest is well protected...dont assume their mum will always b in dat position to give them her best...good dick does wonders to women...u can have an educational trust or insurance policy and state clearly that the proceeds should go directly to the kids sch at your death...Also share what u own reasonably....give some to ur family members and wife after ur kids interest have bn protected atleast up to 18 or 21...that everything I own should go to my wife or should go to family is just pure ignorance...u can plan it all and engage reputable trustee and insurance companies to manage your here after...once u do this...no one will care if ur ex wife is marrying someone else...cos they knw she is only entitles to what u willed to her...which should reasonabky be proportionate to what you feel she is entitled to and her contribution to your life...Plan ur hereafter man!
Yeah! There is no absolute rule that guide life. One can follow an unknown, unconventional way and still end up at the desired destination. It why humans bet big on shortcuts, miracles etc
Lastly, I will like to point this out; women are highly materialistic and at the same time highly illogical (they are incapable of collecting real time data, information) and making decision based on this.
The implications of this is that women can easily be used and used against, deceived in such a senseless, unbelievable way. A person who has a real big business, fleet of cars, influential friends can easily lose his woman to a man who is living on Garrí but only if the man who is living on Garrí is capable of painting a bigger picture, promises of a bigger business, greater mansions and many many fleets of cars and thousands of influential friends will one day be hers, she will take this as real, something that has happened and sooner or later losing interest in the one with real business and cars.
This is what the story of Adam and Eve tries to depict. Women can easily be deceived. They can easily give away the great life they have for one that is not even true talk less of certain. This is Hard to believe. Sadly, it is how they are wired. Great or small. One who understood this, could easily hack them.
It is just ego. How can my nanny now become the madam of the house, that's what keep going in her mind. She has to suck it up, that's life for you.
I remember a story here on nairaland how a guy got upset because the driver or so his mum recommended for his aunt who lost her husband is now sleeping with the aunt. Thereby turning oga in the house.
Family / Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by freedomchild: 2:45pm On Sep 09
