₦airaland Forum

kowalsky:
As a guy you should never get married.

Marriage is societal construct put in place to guarantee the future of females and children. It doesn't pay you in any way.

You'll get tired of fc*$k#ig one woman.
You'll slave away your life and die earlier than said woman.
You'll loose you freedom and natural sense of male adventure.

The only allure marriage had for men was finding that one pure damsel who would do (and give) anything to keep you happy. So you slave away slowly to your death knowing the mother of your kids is truly 'yours' and yours forever in sickness, health and wealth. That was enough gratification at the time.

Nowadays that pure damsel is a myth. Marriage in the Nigerian society is an economic arrangement to yoke men with responsibilities without the 'joys' of marriage your forefathers had.

Your wife is not pure. She's fvcked a thousand and one dude before you. She probably thinks of her razz bf in Uni with the long schlong while fvcking you.

She's not loyal. She married you solely because you were her best option at the time for a better future. If this status quo changes her loyalty changes.

She's not 'yours' and I know that sounds possessive but in truth it was this 'possession' of women that fueled the male ego and spurred them on to accept the slavery that came with marriage.


21st century woman is not yours in any definition of the word. She probably has a better paying job than you. So you can't control her.
She probably has a literal horde of men chasing after her, so she has options.
You mess up and she fvcks her ex or her boss or your friend. And there's nothing you can do about it.

So you don't have any of that ego driving, testosterone pumping 'control' over your woman. She's your equal and rightly so. I genuinely believe a time will come when women will have more direct power than men. They already have more subliminal power.


Anyways. You're not getting any of the goods men used to enjoy in marriage before now. All you have is a yoke of responsibility.

You're tied down to one pvvssyy. When naturally you should be fvcccking as many as you could.
You have to devote a huge part of your income to raising kids who'll only remember their mother instead of polishing yourself up for more pussy and more worldly success.

You relinquish the two things that make you a man 'absolite desire to conquer the world' and 'absolute desire to fvvck as many young pussies as you can.'
As a man those two traits are ingrained in your mental state, yet marriage comes in and pacifies you turning you into a meek homely man who society tells must provide a good home for his family.

But society doesn't care about you. It only cares about your family. You're a readily disposable asset. You job on this planet is to work work work and raise a good home, then die. Why do you care about society?

When you marry you're dancing to the pied Piper tunes of a fundamentally corrupt world.
You're choosing society over yourself. Society doesn't care about you and it should burn.


Put yourself first. No, love doesn't come because cupid shot an arrow into heart of the girl of your dreams.
It comes when you prove your worth as a man. When you are successful. When you dominate your world however miniscule it might be.

Chase riches. Bang young bvctchess. Have a thousand baby mamas.

Think of Davido and think of your probably dead father.
The former might be a high riding junkie but he definitely smiles more everyday than your dead beat dad whose laughs come only in marriage anniversaries when he's told by a woman past her menopause that he was the best thing that happened to her.

You can be the best thing that's happened to many young girls in their 20s.

Work hard, retain your indominatable spirit and never settle for the 21st century marriage facade.


Edit. Oh, and if you're a girl reading this. Same thing applies. Don't lose your hot banging body bearing kids for a man who's only chasing you cos he needs companionship in his lonely world.

Society needs you to bear kids so society can continue. Hustle (or fvck your way to the top) and maybe when you're 35 you can consider giving up your body for those precious bundles of joy.

Mickykarim:
This is uncivilized, inhuman and demeaning. Jungle justice is not the solution. Makes us lower animals too. Whatever she might have done wrong does not justify DEHUMANISING her.
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Everybody in Nigeria now becoming worthy of the jungle.

Nyascobar1414:
Me I dont help Simps.. Rather I direct them to the B!tches they once helped..

Thats why its adviceable to take TRP the red pill...

All those niggas think with their d!ck...

An adage says...

If you say something that makes men look bad and make women look good, people dont care.. But, if you say something that makes men look Good and make women look bad.. People explode in Rage..

Note: the peopl in this context are both men and women...


Men the society(women) does not care bout you, they dont love you.. They only like your value which is money or fame....

I will 4ever hate a gynocentric society that look down on men...

Show me a man that can control his sexual urge and I will show you a powerless woman..

odinson1:
The most Dangerous man to a Woman,is a Man who can Control his Sexual urges. Adding icing on the cake,is a Man who can cook his own meals.

Sex and food are the 2 things women use subtly to control men,take those things away and they are completely powerless.

blueAgent:
They would claim they have holy urge

LollySeaSide:
Your hubby needs to work smart.
That's the surest way he'll make it.
Most professionals are greedy and there's little anyone can do about that.
In situations like this, he should've sensed that the doctor is in the upper echelon of the greed hierarchy and apply wisdom.
He should have spoken to the patient, leave his complimentary card and walk away.
The patient will look for him and other patients will come through referrals if he's good.
Fighting in someone's facility is a bad case.
I hope the other doctor doesn't cook up stories just to nail him.

SportsHD:
I know one that was a crack addict. They sent him back to nigeria so he could have a change of environment and stop using. His family set up a business for him. The wife they arranged for him bankrupted the business and ran away with her loverboi. The man went back to drugs.

SportsHD:
I know one that was a crack addict. They sent him back to nigeria so he could have a change of environment and stop using. His family set up a business for him. The wife they arranged for him bankrupted the business and ran away with her loverboi. The man went back to drugs.

Shedrack777:
any widow that that don't give love a chance after 6 months of her husband's demise, just know that that brother or uncle always checking up on her is servicin her sexually. divorced women, na their own worst

Ladycewhy:
From what I can read here,seems alot of people need therapy,hence they need a fixer,such a burden to carry in a relationship. Because apparently, no matter how interesting a woman is, it is inevitable that these damaged souls will loose interest some day and leave you hanging .


Some are even chronic coward ghosters. .hahaha. Please be calming down.. Do not generalize


It's common sense that if you get interested quickly and loose interest quickly that you slow down the momentum and take it slow.

Jman06:
Op, I can understand your plight.
The reason is that an average Nigerian girl is not interesting to be with and to make matters worse, they don't even make attempts to improve on themselves since they believe that only the guy has the responsibility to bring everything into the relationship---the fun, the funds, etc. Many of them can't even hold conversations.

So, after enduring a few months of boredom, it is only natural for you to lose interest.

Ofadaman:
It's the teller dilemma, it hit me when I picked up my phone to call a radio station about some happenings and I had to add some spice to the gist to make it exciting, the truth with tellers dilemma is if you listen to too many stories and confession overtime you'd feel compelled to want to tell your story ,the major motive is to have a reason to be the victim and get sympathy ,to be the center of attention, even if it looks stupid, you'd marvel how powerful story telling, victim playing and sympathy seeking can be to women. A girl may pick up a quarrel with her bf just to experience sympathy of heart break by just seeing how a fellow girl received sympathy/attention, I've seen women sleep with people outside their husbands/fiance/bf just to experience some things said in those social groups/forums, I've seen women engage in all sort of vices and all just to feel amongst the coalition. The power of social affirmation, victim carding and sympathy seeking is more than you can imagine, it's a facade and often times people trapped in this get more validation from social pages than from real people, the moment you're stuck with a girl/guy who can't really wait to show the world what they are doing for every slightest fun they have in goes to social media, they take pictures before eating, everyone knows the corners of their rooms cause they make TikTok videos every minute. Pls avoid them.

I'd leave you with this word,
"People who are truly living their best lives, have little motivation to want to show the world that they are living their best lives, because best lives do not need social validation".

Decryptor:
Chai! Women!!

I heard of a man who discovered that the girl he thought was his daughter was not his biological daughter. Na him the man kukuma begin knack the girl and when his wife caught him and wanted to raise alarm, guy man showed his wife the test result, the woman just

Chuvin22:
If you are good looking as a Nigerian. And you know it. Just try and have money because more than half of the population don’t like you first of all. They feel you came to this world with a head start (Advantage) and would drag you very well, drag the confidence out of you. Lol.

samuelson06:
You can't downplay your achievements. You've always prayed to be successful and now that success has come, you want to downplay it. How exactly? Because I know you can't light a candle and use a clay pot to cover it.

The point is that succeeding with life isn't just about living a good life but having wisdom. Wisdom is the keyword when it comes to dealing with men. You don't have to trust anyone. You don't have to believe in anything. You just have to be careful with all things. Sometimes you may have to reject opportunities. Other times, you may have to be indisposed.

For example, an old school friend got my number from my sister last December and then called me. I wanted meeting with him but before then I had to find out from one or two persons how's his life now because it's been years we meet. These people told me he's now a bad boy and I chose not to meet with him again. I don't know if any good can come out from sitting with such a fellow. Even though we were close friends way back in school, I had to use my head before the story ended with regrets.

In this life, if you can't use your head, whatever your achievement may be can be erased within seconds.

Volksguys1985:
Now they will be fuc. Ing the wife with 1000 naira, because nobody to provide for her needs again.

alizma:
If you check now, that girl didn't die a virgin. Doctrine wey no prevent you from clubbing, drinking and doing the do but prevents you from accepting assistance from your fellow human being just because they are from different denominations.
Stupid people, as if they no get people wey study banking or accounting. They should ask those professionals the origin of the name, money, yet they don't reject money.
The word money is a name of a goddess called moneta. Don't they know this?

greggng:
How can she remarry with 3 kids ...that will worsen the kids condition. After the divorce, the should do co-parenting ..with this arrangement, the kids will ve the presence of their father around them most of the times . They might even start fucking occasionally to see if miracle will happen back in their marriage . I once met a man that divorced the wife...two years later the still Bleep each other and the kids don't even know their parents ve issue .They where still fucking untill another belle enter ..one day the kids asked their mum ...how she got pregnant since their dad doesn't always sleep in the house . I know some of you gullible people would want to know the final story ...but unfortunately I am no longer giving it for free
Una go pay for it .

hammer567:
MANY NIGGAS DONT KNOW HOW TO FCU.K.


AS SOON AS SHE ENTER HOUSE, COME AND SEE DIVING.


HER TOTO DON TURN SWIMING POOL.

NwaIgboBoy:
Hmmm! 2months is even far self. . . Just as I type this now, her mouth is wide open in full of joy as one yoruba loseguarded d!ck is buffing her hairy pvsy right now.

Jessica57:
Well I thought We had something going on fine…. Oga relocated to Abuja…. All through those times he was away I thought he was really busy like he always tell me due to the fact that he neither call nor text me anymore. I never knew he had someone else he was seeing over there. His sister just sent me the invite of his wedding which is happening on the 28th of this month… I have been crying since . Now my heart aces so badly. NOTE..I did everything a lady could have done to make a relationship work. I guess we weren’t meant to be. I’m really really trying to move on but my heart aces so bad right now and I live alone…. I just pray I don’t hurt myself…. Maybe I loved him more than he loved me.. this breakfast is the worst I have ever gotten. My Xmas is ruined .

newoffer:
Let the dog go his way. He is an abnormal bbeing.

luizpippo:
During my final year, there was this Jambite i met during Delta state student meeting and i was tripping, so i got close to her since she was in my dept and i had a guy in year two in my house that i do ask to assist her do some building drawings.

So after being close friends for 2 months i asked her out in my own way, she told me she doesn't understand, unfortunately i could explain myself better, but she then told me she would think about it, we are always together, i would see her off to her house and return via a bush part at 11pm or 12am.

I reminded her of the initial toasting about 5 months later since strike elongated our session, she basically turned it to mockery, but i persisted , only for the Delta state student association president to accuse me of impregnating her, i was shook, it was glaring she was pregnant but dumb me used it as a joke that she was getting fat until that accusation. Meanwhile, i did not as much as kiss her let alone see her unclothedness, yet her room mate was shocked to learn we didn't date cos she was so sure we did.

It became clear, i had to ask her on the day of my final paper, she somehow told me we would discuss it, suddenly people started chasing me so as to flog me as a graduate, before i composed myself, and i called her, she was on her way fleeing to Ibadan. She only confessed about it two years later.