The very essence of religion has been compromised.

sad occurence indeed. Accident has wasted a lot of important lives in this country though most of accidents are preventable

women and prick.. when a man is fighting with a woman, her main target would be his dick. But the way they form, you'll think they don't like it..

Such a stupid decision... all because of a pussy other people enjoyed before it got to his turn


Well, a part of my mind doubts this story

This is highly educative... Ubunja fire on..

it's possible but with adequate infrastructure, planning and commitment.. I see a major developmental boost in the South East in the future and it has gradually started..

Quality20:
Many times when a woman loses her husband to death, some unknown or little known friends of d late husbands and other neighbours /male colleagues start been good to d woman, trying to start sleeping with them ,rather than purely helping them or getting them remarried. This brings up d question "are women who lose their husbands not entitled to be married again? are they suppose to turn themselves to prostitutes overnight just because that's what men want?

When a woman loses her husband especially when she's young and good looking, men will start making advances to her. Even women whose husbands are still alive are being wooed talk more of young widows. We are in a society where women are considered as sex objects by men. Most young widows detest these men. That's why they resort to having secret affairs with only a young man she fancies around her as she needs to be satisfied until she finds someone who can remarry her. The truth is that genuine and honest help is very rare in our present day society. Ingratitude is the major reason many people don't wanna help without benefits

Wadume has left this shithole since Adam... All I see is eye service.. The purpose for the whole scenario has been achieved.. Wadume got some damaging secrets

pansophist:
My young bro, take heart. The sad truth is, she has found someone better, and you should accept it even if you do not feature in the picture. It's about emotional maturity and letting this just be.

Your next step is to give yourself time, as time has a way of healing things. You'll pass through it, and you'll like yourself better after this. I experienced something you passed through when I was 18, and felt even worse than you, but I was naive, innocent, and didnt understood the timeless truth of female nature, keeping attraction, and stimulating the relationship sustainably. Looking back those times, I could see clearly the mistake I made, and I've refined myself to a point that such could not happen again. And in the unlikely scenario that it does, well, a replacement is around the corner. You should do the same.

It seems to me that your relationship with her is your job, you specialized in loving her and treating her as the best thing, while ignoring your own personal growth. Listen attentively, women DO NOT want to be your goal. They want to be part/beneficiary of it, not the goal. You treated her nice and gave her everything to the best of your ability and probably didn't focus on your growth, and compete with other men in the free world.

You were too available, making you appear as someone with female scarcity, with no option and not a real catch. Also, pursuing her even after her formal declaration for relationship withdrawal is something that men with no options do. You cannot beg a woman into a relationship with you, it's an instant attraction killer. You attract and keep her with the lifestyle you've built for yourself, and the man you've developed yourself to be.

Remember the biblical story of when God told Adam (after eating the forbidden fruit from Eve), that henceforth he would toil the ground for food and survival, and cursed Eve that she will suffer doing child birth? The true meaning of this story is that as a man, you have to be out there hustling, pursuing your goal and fulfilling your dreams, as no woman want to be for a man that is not out there toiling the ground.

She dont want to cry during child birth for man with no purpose, and be amother to his kids. Whether you believe in this story or not, you may comb any other religion, culture, science, and just observe the world around you, you would see that your value as a man is by being resourceful. Women are made, men are born. You see where a woman automatically becomes a first lady or a queen just because her husband is a president or a king? But it doesn't work in the opposite direction, there is no first firstman for the husband of a female president. You should know that women are rewarded for being women, all she has to do is look beautiful, and men and society will reward her. For a man, you must build yourself to be rewarded by women and society.

You're almost depressed (that's if you're not), because you are not pursuing things in the real world that would make her wonder why you do not call her always, that even if she breaks up with you, you're too busy achieving and breaking through to even feel an inch of her jilting you. She is at a stage of her life with male abundance, she wont do anything special and men will find her attracted and seek her commitment. All she has to do is sit back and choose, and if she left you for someone else, it means the other guys playing their game better. Loving her is not playing, buying her gift is not playing, but to play, you must develop yourself to be a good catch. That your presence is enough for her to find you attractive. Any man can save, spend and impress, but not every man is a top dog.

That even if she breaks up with you, in the back of mind, she knows there are younger and far beautiful women out there waiting to take her place, and will question herself if she can get a man in the same calibre as you. Do you think Davido will be worried if Chioma decides to leave him? Davido will laugh at her because he knows that she will be dead lucky to meet a man in his status, and she knows this as well. In every relationship, many young boys are clouded with feelings and love without understanding the power dynamics that is ever present and playing in the background.

I hope you get well, but remember this, you will never loose women chasing money (interpret it as goals, achievements, purpose etc), but you'll always loose money chasing women. Men compete with other men for success, women compete with other women for successful men. If you do not have women competing for your commitment, then you've either not reached there yet, or you're doing it wrong.

Goodluck young blood.

you nailed it bro.. I've learnt from this toi

The gal be like .. Uncle you must continue to hammer me forever oh. You can't leave me now or person go die

NwaAmaikpe:




Ghanaians do not like sex that much...they are only less hypocritical about it.

Unlike religion-centered Nigeria which is made up of undercover perverts, nymphos and depraved souls who eat, breathe and think sex yet are too pious to talk about it.

Well, except me.

true talk.. naija is the headquarters of hypocrisy

I don't know why I find it difficult to believe this story. I don't know why

What is Garba..... A short word for Garbage

NwaAmaikpe:




I've always been sceptical about these activists; from Emeka Ugwuonye to this one.
Just surprised that Harrison despite all his awareness on the rape scourge and the abundance of predators left a vulnerable girl all alone in his house.

What was a 15 year old girl even doing in his house in the first place? Who would have even thought he'd be neighbors with a rapist.

Like they say,
"Show me your acquaintances and I'd tell you who you are".

Till then, good evening Nairaland.

welcome back man.... Nairaland savage master

pumping out healthcare professionals without corresponding house jobs talk more of permanent jobs.. Many of them might stay long before getting house job or bribe there way in.. No wonder our healthcare system are filled with money mongers without professionalism.. I stayed almost one year without getting house job not because I didn't do well in the interviews but because I didn't bribe my way in..

I pity men residing abroad who still pick up home-based girls as wives to abroad.. They only see you as a stepping ladder to her wealth, not as spouses. If peradventure I travel abroad and want to marry, I'll simply married a girl from a family residing there. There are Nigerian Americans living there who raised and trained there children there. This is to avoid stories that touch.. " live and marry within your class and status. People's mentalities varies with classes

Ordinary 3 street lights?... hmmmmm.. naija sha

Through talk.. but our own corruption in naija is institutionalized.. It's foundational

did he commit suicide? was he under the influence of substances? was he thrown down? I don't believe an adult will just fall from a high storey just like that

May God protect the corpers posted to this volatile north.. as for I won't be going there, never gone to North before neither do I have intentions of going to northern Nigerian.. East is bae

Lisaflex:
Judging from a lot of comments by the guys here, I can see that women are seeing a lot of terrible things all in the name of marriage...Make una dey look face sha, cos no be everybody you fit carry do anyhow... If you do anyhow with me,i go show you anyhow...Marriage is not a do or die affair biko! Women are also human beings with emotions, and blood flowing through their veins.

As for the Life coach, that one has lost all her self-worth.

you can't do anything. men are polygamous in nature. the reason some of us won't cheat is because of financial and moral standing. highest thing you'll do is to leave the marriage and another lady will gladly jump in. most of you women are the cause of your husbands' cheating nature. And also selfish.

men are really polygamous in nature.. women shouldn't be bothered about such character but they should be worried about the protection of there men from stds and unwanted side pregnancies. Women can't stop men from cheating, after all the foundation of most recent marriages are based on selfish interests from both genders... No one can have it all. You can't get a rich, handsome, respectful and faithful man all to yourself. Life gifts us in one way and cheats us in some other ways

Mayydayy:
There is something I try so hard to understand about the issue of Igbo and the Nigerian presidency.
Has any tribe in Nigeria ever felt better than the others because their own tribeman is the president or head of state.
The Fulani ethnic group has had the highest number of heads of state/presidents ruling this nation,are they better off socially and economically than the Igbos.
The Yoruba too has had their own share of leadership at the apex in this country, are they better off than the igbos too?

I think it doesn't matter who becomes what in this godforsaken country.what matters is who is better off in this hell called Nigeria.people like the emperor,Rochas only work for what benefits them and not what will benefit the larger populace.
He thinks himself the best and most qualified Igbo man for the post of Nigerian presidency.
He failed in IMO and will keep failing.He had an opportunity to prove his own difference in IMO but failed.let him cry over spilled milk for the test of his life. Who cares.
And my advice to the Igbos:
1.know yourself
2.no tribe is exempted from the hell we are going through in this country including the people in the presidents backyard,Daura.
3.Individualism is the king in this country.make money,build house/s,marry a fine wife,have beautiful children and above all,be happy.
4.sit back and watch. This current system will eventually swallow itself and you will have nothing to lose.

this is one of the best post I have seen this year

Stealing ontop fire incident.. who do Nigerians this thing?

NFIU directive is really touching them hard.. now you know they should be available to their people. Or is he trying to bargain with them on LG sharing formula...

@op you brought your issue to a public forum and wants public opinions on your choice of older ladies. Don't get angry when bashed, considering your age in Nigeria and the way our economy is, you shouldn't expect everyone to follow your line of thought and don't be insultive and arrogant. Those older guys you're insulting may be better than you no matter what you think you've achieved. You're still very young no matter what think you've got and perhaps women issues are complicated so you're advised to choose wisely. l personally prefer a younger girl or your age mate. Leave those older women. I'm 6 years older than and I'm talking from experience. I even run away from my agemates talk more of older ones. Naija women are dangerous and complicated. Relationships nowadays are done with absolute carefulness especially when you are a successful and prospective young man. Lies, pretense and deceit are the flavour of our present day relationships in Naija. There's no love out there. Avoidable regrets are painful to bear. Find a girl your age or younger around you. Shalom.

and when you give a mad man too much attention, he'll think he is a celebrity

mtcheeeww.. no be Abia? nothing good and public oriented will come out of it

shiki:
This woman is looking for political appointment

if them give you, you no go collect?

Yoruba women are lousy.. very lousy especially the ones that manages to go school.. I don't know why our brother married that lady bimbo or bingo whatever..

Lack of continuity and maintenance culture is the bane of our development in this our current system.. Many resources have been wasted or lost due to political differences and other unreasonable factors. Akpabio (hate or love him for his political choice) really did a great job to bring akwaibom to the limelight. I don't know much about udom's government since I left Uyo but he should not allow his predecessors infrastructures to rot away because the poor are those to suffer for it.

PDP all the way.. restructuring all the way.. Congrats sir