SportsHD:
I know one that was a crack addict. They sent him back to nigeria so he could have a change of environment and stop using. His family set up a business for him. The wife they arranged for him bankrupted the business and ran away with her loverboi. The man went back to drugs.

Shedrack777:
any widow that that don't give love a chance after 6 months of her husband's demise, just know that that brother or uncle always checking up on her is servicin her sexually. divorced women, na their own worst

Ladycewhy:
From what I can read here,seems alot of people need therapy,hence they need a fixer,such a burden to carry in a relationship. Because apparently, no matter how interesting a woman is, it is inevitable that these damaged souls will loose interest some day and leave you hanging .


Some are even chronic coward ghosters. .hahaha. Please be calming down.. Do not generalize


It's common sense that if you get interested quickly and loose interest quickly that you slow down the momentum and take it slow.

Jman06:
Op, I can understand your plight.
The reason is that an average Nigerian girl is not interesting to be with and to make matters worse, they don't even make attempts to improve on themselves since they believe that only the guy has the responsibility to bring everything into the relationship---the fun, the funds, etc. Many of them can't even hold conversations.

So, after enduring a few months of boredom, it is only natural for you to lose interest.

Ofadaman:
It's the teller dilemma, it hit me when I picked up my phone to call a radio station about some happenings and I had to add some spice to the gist to make it exciting, the truth with tellers dilemma is if you listen to too many stories and confession overtime you'd feel compelled to want to tell your story ,the major motive is to have a reason to be the victim and get sympathy ,to be the center of attention, even if it looks stupid, you'd marvel how powerful story telling, victim playing and sympathy seeking can be to women. A girl may pick up a quarrel with her bf just to experience sympathy of heart break by just seeing how a fellow girl received sympathy/attention, I've seen women sleep with people outside their husbands/fiance/bf just to experience some things said in those social groups/forums, I've seen women engage in all sort of vices and all just to feel amongst the coalition. The power of social affirmation, victim carding and sympathy seeking is more than you can imagine, it's a facade and often times people trapped in this get more validation from social pages than from real people, the moment you're stuck with a girl/guy who can't really wait to show the world what they are doing for every slightest fun they have in goes to social media, they take pictures before eating, everyone knows the corners of their rooms cause they make TikTok videos every minute. Pls avoid them.

I'd leave you with this word,
"People who are truly living their best lives, have little motivation to want to show the world that they are living their best lives, because best lives do not need social validation".

Decryptor:
Chai! Women!!

I heard of a man who discovered that the girl he thought was his daughter was not his biological daughter. Na him the man kukuma begin knack the girl and when his wife caught him and wanted to raise alarm, guy man showed his wife the test result, the woman just

Chuvin22:
If you are good looking as a Nigerian. And you know it. Just try and have money because more than half of the population don’t like you first of all. They feel you came to this world with a head start (Advantage) and would drag you very well, drag the confidence out of you. Lol.

samuelson06:


You can't downplay your achievements. You've always prayed to be successful and now that success has come, you want to downplay it. How exactly? Because I know you can't light a candle and use a clay pot to cover it.

The point is that succeeding with life isn't just about living a good life but having wisdom. Wisdom is the keyword when it comes to dealing with men. You don't have to trust anyone. You don't have to believe in anything. You just have to be careful with all things. Sometimes you may have to reject opportunities. Other times, you may have to be indisposed.

For example, an old school friend got my number from my sister last December and then called me. I wanted meeting with him but before then I had to find out from one or two persons how's his life now because it's been years we meet. These people told me he's now a bad boy and I chose not to meet with him again. I don't know if any good can come out from sitting with such a fellow. Even though we were close friends way back in school, I had to use my head before the story ended with regrets.

In this life, if you can't use your head, whatever your achievement may be can be erased within seconds.

Volksguys1985:
Now they will be fuc. Ing the wife with 1000 naira, because nobody to provide for her needs again.

alizma:
If you check now, that girl didn't die a virgin. Doctrine wey no prevent you from clubbing, drinking and doing the do but prevents you from accepting assistance from your fellow human being just because they are from different denominations.
Stupid people, as if they no get people wey study banking or accounting. They should ask those professionals the origin of the name, money, yet they don't reject money.
The word money is a name of a goddess called moneta. Don't they know this?

greggng:


How can she remarry with 3 kids ...that will worsen the kids condition. After the divorce, the should do co-parenting ..with this arrangement, the kids will ve the presence of their father around them most of the times . They might even start fucking occasionally to see if miracle will happen back in their marriage . I once met a man that divorced the wife...two years later the still Bleep each other and the kids don't even know their parents ve issue .They where still fucking untill another belle enter ..one day the kids asked their mum ...how she got pregnant since their dad doesn't always sleep in the house . I know some of you gullible people would want to know the final story ...but unfortunately I am no longer giving it for free
Una go pay for it .

hammer567:



MANY NIGGAS DONT KNOW HOW TO FCU.K.


AS SOON AS SHE ENTER HOUSE, COME AND SEE DIVING.


HER TOTO DON TURN SWIMING POOL.

NwaIgboBoy:



Hmmm! 2months is even far self. . . Just as I type this now, her mouth is wide open in full of joy as one yoruba loseguarded d!ck is buffing her hairy pvsy right now.

Jessica57:
Well I thought We had something going on fine…. Oga relocated to Abuja…. All through those times he was away I thought he was really busy like he always tell me due to the fact that he neither call nor text me anymore. I never knew he had someone else he was seeing over there. His sister just sent me the invite of his wedding which is happening on the 28th of this month… I have been crying since . Now my heart aces so badly. NOTE..I did everything a lady could have done to make a relationship work. I guess we weren’t meant to be. I’m really really trying to move on but my heart aces so bad right now and I live alone…. I just pray I don’t hurt myself…. Maybe I loved him more than he loved me.. this breakfast is the worst I have ever gotten. My Xmas is ruined .

newoffer:
Let the dog go his way. He is an abnormal bbeing.

luizpippo:
During my final year, there was this Jambite i met during Delta state student meeting and i was tripping, so i got close to her since she was in my dept and i had a guy in year two in my house that i do ask to assist her do some building drawings.

So after being close friends for 2 months i asked her out in my own way, she told me she doesn't understand, unfortunately i could explain myself better, but she then told me she would think about it, we are always together, i would see her off to her house and return via a bush part at 11pm or 12am.

I reminded her of the initial toasting about 5 months later since strike elongated our session, she basically turned it to mockery, but i persisted , only for the Delta state student association president to accuse me of impregnating her, i was shook, it was glaring she was pregnant but dumb me used it as a joke that she was getting fat until that accusation. Meanwhile, i did not as much as kiss her let alone see her unclothedness, yet her room mate was shocked to learn we didn't date cos she was so sure we did.

It became clear, i had to ask her on the day of my final paper, she somehow told me we would discuss it, suddenly people started chasing me so as to flog me as a graduate, before i composed myself, and i called her, she was on her way fleeing to Ibadan. She only confessed about it two years later.

CryptoClub2018:
While I was in the university, I stayed off campus. In my year 2, there is this girl in my street that I do play with and relate with very well. It's just a casual relationship and I most time see her in front of her house and we chat and gist. I have not entered into her house one day. So apparently, people do see us a lot all the time and I think they feel we were dating of which we are not. We were in this casual relationship since my year two and it has been consistent. So at one time, this girl was sick and it took a while for her to get fine but we thank God she became ok after some time.
As a guy man, me I'm just living my life catching cruise with some of the girls in the hood. But I noticed that most of them are always very reluctant in getting to close to me and I begin to wonder why but I didn't read any serious meaning to it. I just felt they are "hard girls" trying to play hard with me.
There was a time I saw a girl too in my neighborhood that I like and I wanted to date her but she didn't give me that chance. I tried a lot to convince this girl but she didn't accept me but keeps telling me to calm down and that I should give her time. I was also very close to this girls sister and she tried to talk to her sister but she no gree. That happened all through my 400 level and up to second semester 500level.
So one day during my final year last semester,I was having a chat with the girls sister and she said "do you know there is a rumor going round about you in the community since your 200 level?" I said I am not aware and I was curious on what the rumor could be. She told me that there is a rumor that I impregnated that girl I was very close to back then when I was in 200 level and that she had to abort the child which was the cause of her sickness back then. I was shocked
I was wondering how such a rumor could be going on in town without me knowing. And the girl they are talking about, I haven't seen her pants not to talk of having sex with her to the extent of impregnating her. When I got that information, I could now relate it with how girls in my community were avoiding me in a certain way

Prince001:


I understand ur point but statistically u are wrong óò. I lives in Europe for 20yrs now and I can tell u most guys that brought their spouse from Naija regretted their decisions.
But the faults goes both ways cos some of us living abroad think we can get any gal we want and d ladies are ready to deceived us aswell.
Bottom line for me is economy and the bad governance in Naija changes a lot of people's characters.
My advice for guys living here that's trying to have his future partner in Naija should be vigilant cos any red flag u come across during ur dating its real RED flag ooo!
Cos according to research Nigeria women are not in 1 to 10 of countries in Africa where one can get good wife but we men are at no 7 in Africa. That research speaks volume oooo.
However, there are still good ladies in Naija but they are not much due to economy and bad governance!!!!!!!

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Abel202:
[b]The scenario painted here looks straight but is a complex situation.
I think you are a good guy for assuming responsibility for your late brother's wife and children, and completing your brothers house (with your other siblings)for his wife and family even after his death. You are indeed a good man.
I think the lady in question is also a good woman, that is why you go to many lengths to see that she does not feel the loss of her husband very much.
As for marrying her, I think you should think this through very carefuly. If you think you can cope with two women, considering the financial implication and the baggages of polygammy, then go ahead and marry her.
I am a christian and I prefer sticking to one wife because am a product of polygami and has seen first-hand the ills of polygammy. However those that say christianity forbids polygammy have not read their Bibles at all because Abraham, Isaac, David, Solomon etc all were polygamous bc it was their culture then. Jesus did not even marry. If we must follow Christ bumper to bumper then we should all remain celibate like Christ and Paul. If we insist on following the Western Culture bumper to bumper on the other hand then we should not shout TUFIAKWA when Men are marrying men and women are marrying women in their stupid same-sex marriage.
We are Africans and our culture accepts polygammy where necessary. I do not subscribe to it. But in this case I think it is the best thing to do for these reasons:
1. Marrying your late brother's wife will make her and her children remain permanently in the family.
2. Marrying her will stop her from looking for another husband that will not even come easily as she already has 5 kids.
3. Marrying her will stop her from bringing shame and embarrasment to your family while sampling for another husband.
4. Marrying her will make you the Father (and not only the father-figure) to your brother's children (and this is very important in the life of growning up kids).
5. Marrying her will give you a large family (I love large families), only make sure you are financialy and emotionally up to the task.
6. Marrying her will ensure that your brother's property remain in the family. Although there shouldn't even be cause for concern here as she already has a fairly grown up son who should get the property with his other siblings should she marry someone else.
7. Marrying her will give you the legitimate access to her Juicy part which you realy crave for (forgive me bros, but it's ok to admire your brothers wife if she is admirable, as long as you had no hand in your bros death, better take over before someone else does and jealousy will make you seize from helping her and her kids, ha ha)
To conclude, There is no guarantee that you will have a succesful marriage with one woman. There is also no guarantee that your marriage will be more successful when the women become two or more. Make your calculations very well and involve your whole family if you decide to marry her.
Very importantly, you must carry your wife along in every decision you want to take at every step of the way.
I wish you good luck.[/b]

Fapemz:
Uncle good morning, we never see your post on WhatsApp today. Hope you are OK sir.

Me: Hmm... Aburo, na serious matter oo. It was serious last night at my neighbour's residence .

Around 8 p.m., he saw a snake in the living room, so he called everyone to come and help kill the snake. You know how African solidarity works. We each arrived with a big stick in hand, a total of 7 fellows. Once in the living room, we saw the big snake looking at us, we closed the doors and surrounded it.

We said to the snake: "your own don finish". It curled up. As everyone advanced towards it for the kill, Boooom!!! NEPA STRUCK! ...

Pandamonium! It was "save yourself if you can" in the living room. We no longer knew where the snake was and where the exits were. When someone touches you a little, you hit with the stick, thinking it was the snake. Screams, injuries, pains, followed ... I got out of there miraculously but with a broken arm, two broken teeth, torn t-shirt and a swollen head.

I believe this snake works with "NEPA."

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RoyalBoutique:
Instead of training the girl till she's 17 or 18 and fully matured.

Then he bangs the hell outta her virgin punny and get her pregnant.

Then marry her.

That's the only way to get back to a cheating wife that gave birth to a female child that's not yours.

Why people dey complain?

kkins25:

I read some psychology book some time ago about Abuse. it was mostly on sexual abuse but there are some elements that could be found in toxic relationships such as yours.

Now, you mentioned that you suffered from consistent verbal assault from your Ex, from what i read, there exist some kind of relationship that usually develops between the abuser and the victim. Its almost similar to Stockholm syndrome, the two of you would find it difficult to exist separately, so much so that You-the victim, would find excuses to go back into your abusers care. common excuses include:
1) children
2) finances
3) blind belief that the abusive partner would change
4) fear of leaving "comfort zone".
unfortunately, i cannot remember the name of the condition but what you have developed may probably be some sort of search for blinded dependency on your abuser. Don't let those thoughts win.

Its not your sympathy talking sir, its actually your abused psyche trying to go back to its source. like an abused wife,like that of folykaze who continuously searches for means to grovel at the feet of her beloved abuser.