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Prince001:
I understand ur point but statistically u are wrong óò. I lives in Europe for 20yrs now and I can tell u most guys that brought their spouse from Naija regretted their decisions.
But the faults goes both ways cos some of us living abroad think we can get any gal we want and d ladies are ready to deceived us aswell.
Bottom line for me is economy and the bad governance in Naija changes a lot of people's characters.
My advice for guys living here that's trying to have his future partner in Naija should be vigilant cos any red flag u come across during ur dating its real RED flag ooo!
Cos according to research Nigeria women are not in 1 to 10 of countries in Africa where one can get good wife but we men are at no 7 in Africa. That research speaks volume oooo.
However, there are still good ladies in Naija but they are not much due to economy and bad governance!!!!!!!

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Abel202:
[b]The scenario painted here looks straight but is a complex situation.
I think you are a good guy for assuming responsibility for your late brother's wife and children, and completing your brothers house (with your other siblings)for his wife and family even after his death. You are indeed a good man.
I think the lady in question is also a good woman, that is why you go to many lengths to see that she does not feel the loss of her husband very much.
As for marrying her, I think you should think this through very carefuly. If you think you can cope with two women, considering the financial implication and the baggages of polygammy, then go ahead and marry her.
I am a christian and I prefer sticking to one wife because am a product of polygami and has seen first-hand the ills of polygammy. However those that say christianity forbids polygammy have not read their Bibles at all because Abraham, Isaac, David, Solomon etc all were polygamous bc it was their culture then. Jesus did not even marry. If we must follow Christ bumper to bumper then we should all remain celibate like Christ and Paul. If we insist on following the Western Culture bumper to bumper on the other hand then we should not shout TUFIAKWA when Men are marrying men and women are marrying women in their stupid same-sex marriage.
We are Africans and our culture accepts polygammy where necessary. I do not subscribe to it. But in this case I think it is the best thing to do for these reasons:
1. Marrying your late brother's wife will make her and her children remain permanently in the family.
2. Marrying her will stop her from looking for another husband that will not even come easily as she already has 5 kids.
3. Marrying her will stop her from bringing shame and embarrasment to your family while sampling for another husband.
4. Marrying her will make you the Father (and not only the father-figure) to your brother's children (and this is very important in the life of growning up kids).
5. Marrying her will give you a large family (I love large families), only make sure you are financialy and emotionally up to the task.
6. Marrying her will ensure that your brother's property remain in the family. Although there shouldn't even be cause for concern here as she already has a fairly grown up son who should get the property with his other siblings should she marry someone else.
7. Marrying her will give you the legitimate access to her Juicy part which you realy crave for (forgive me bros, but it's ok to admire your brothers wife if she is admirable, as long as you had no hand in your bros death, better take over before someone else does and jealousy will make you seize from helping her and her kids, ha ha)
To conclude, There is no guarantee that you will have a succesful marriage with one woman. There is also no guarantee that your marriage will be more successful when the women become two or more. Make your calculations very well and involve your whole family if you decide to marry her.
Very importantly, you must carry your wife along in every decision you want to take at every step of the way.
I wish you good luck.[/b]

you're right

To always trust my instinct.. I had a chance to sell my property when my inner self was telling me that it might be demolished soon coupled with the present scenario at that period. I lost the 5 million worth property through demolition. Starting all over again. But I thank gracious God for life, health and job opportunity i got after the unfortunate incident.

Fapemz:
Uncle good morning, we never see your post on WhatsApp today. Hope you are OK sir.

Me: Hmm... Aburo, na serious matter oo. It was serious last night at my neighbour's residence .

Around 8 p.m., he saw a snake in the living room, so he called everyone to come and help kill the snake. You know how African solidarity works. We each arrived with a big stick in hand, a total of 7 fellows. Once in the living room, we saw the big snake looking at us, we closed the doors and surrounded it.

We said to the snake: "your own don finish". It curled up. As everyone advanced towards it for the kill, Boooom!!! NEPA STRUCK! ...

Pandamonium! It was "save yourself if you can" in the living room. We no longer knew where the snake was and where the exits were. When someone touches you a little, you hit with the stick, thinking it was the snake. Screams, injuries, pains, followed ... I got out of there miraculously but with a broken arm, two broken teeth, torn t-shirt and a swollen head.

I believe this snake works with "NEPA."

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RoyalBoutique:
Instead of training the girl till she's 17 or 18 and fully matured.

Then he bangs the hell outta her virgin punny and get her pregnant.

Then marry her.

That's the only way to get back to a cheating wife that gave birth to a female child that's not yours.

Why people dey complain?

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kkins25:
I read some psychology book some time ago about Abuse. it was mostly on sexual abuse but there are some elements that could be found in toxic relationships such as yours.

Now, you mentioned that you suffered from consistent verbal assault from your Ex, from what i read, there exist some kind of relationship that usually develops between the abuser and the victim. Its almost similar to Stockholm syndrome, the two of you would find it difficult to exist separately, so much so that You-the victim, would find excuses to go back into your abusers care. common excuses include:
1) children
2) finances
3) blind belief that the abusive partner would change
4) fear of leaving "comfort zone".
unfortunately, i cannot remember the name of the condition but what you have developed may probably be some sort of search for blinded dependency on your abuser. Don't let those thoughts win.

Its not your sympathy talking sir, its actually your abused psyche trying to go back to its source. like an abused wife,like that of folykaze who continuously searches for means to grovel at the feet of her beloved abuser.

you're right

Hmm.. I wonder what many students learn today. She should be aware of the dangers of keeping a phone close to the gas cylinder.
Many of our present day students are not interested in learning and studying there environments, society and wellbeing. They only read just to pass exams.. Social media has taken away the senses of most of our female students.
I only pray for quick recovery of innocent students affected by this avoidable inferno caused by one of there senseless colleagues

I thought as much. An average "big man" in Nigeria is involved in one or more shady underground deals.
Nigeria is a crime country which makes such things to thrive.
That is why they don't like Nigeria to change for better because it's a direct attack and affront on them. The wicked elites in Nigeria are too mean to consider any economic destruction there actions will cause on the populace. From politics to religious organizations in this country is all about the money and power.
Why they easily succeed in Nigeria is that the people are not critical thinkers and analysers.
That's why they're easily deceived.
How can a religious leader with security details tells you God is your protector and you easily believe him.. Something he/she himself doesn't do?
How can you term someone a billionaire without any verifiable source(s) of income and yet people celebrate him/her?
How can a politician whose children, family, healthcare are all in abroad give you a better life and welfare? A politician who doesn't have a good past record in his endeavor, a criminal, a fraudster... Hmmm
As rich as Nigeria is, she can't give her people a good life. Look at U.A.E. and other oil rich nations. Yet some people still have the mind and urge to celebrate her independence? You see why I say these things that we don't think. Because if you can sit and analyse these things, then we can start asking the right questions.
Nevertheless, I'm happy as people are becoming aware of what's going on in this evil country especially from what happened on 1st October where people boycotted the independence day celebration.

News of the day. Gradually these parasites are being tamed..

Make the northern parasites go collect vats from bandit's collected ransoms

You left your former job for Msc only to turn and apply for a new job... I don't think you're honest. Tell us the truth about what transpired between you and your former boss

NMA and JOHESU fight no be today.
Doctors fight with Pharmacists.
Doctors fight with lab scientists.
Doctors fight with nurses.
Doctors fight with the Federal and state governments.
Doctors fight with even themselves.
Doctors fight with DSS at Saudi embassy(especially the ones that wants to Jakpa)..

In fact I really pity our Doctors.. E no really easy at all

The losers are the terrorist security agents extorting and killing us..and there political accomplice.

Sit at home only makes sales increase on market days.. No hard feelings.
We're only agitating for the release of our only true leader Mazi Nnamdi Kanu..

The sit at home is voluntary. Even IPOB called it off but we the people of the east insisted.
A sacrifice for our leader.

Magun at work

uuzba:
Boney M Lyrics
"Rasputin"

There lived a certain man in Russia long ago
He was big and strong, in his eyes a flaming glow
Most people look at him with terror and with fear
But to Moscow chicks he was such a lovely dear
He could preach the Bible like a preacher
Full of ecstasy and fire
But he also was the kind of teacher
Women would desire

RA RA RASPUTIN
Lover of the Russian queen
There was a cat that really was gone
RA RA RASPUTIN
Russia's greatest love machine
It was a shame how he carried on

He ruled the Russian land and never mind the Tsar
But the kazachok he danced really wunderbar
In all affairs of state he was the man to please
But he was real great when he had a girl to squeeze
For the queen he was no wheeler dealer
Though she'd heard the things he'd done
She believed he was a holy healer
Who would heal her son

RA RA RASPUTIN
Lover of the Russian queen
There was a cat that really was gone
RA RA RASPUTIN
Russia's greatest love machine
It was a shame how he carried on

[Spoken:]
But when his drinking and lusting and his hunger
For power became known to more and more people
The demands to do something about this outrageous
Man became louder and louder

"This man's just got to go!" declared his enemies
But the ladies begged "Don't you try to do it, please"
No doubt this Rasputin had lots of hidden charms
Though he was a brute they just fell into his arms
Then one night some men of higher standing
Set a trap, they're not to blame
"Come to visit us" they kept demanding
And he really came

RA RA RASPUTIN
Lover of the Russian queen
They put some poison into his wine
RA RA RASPUTIN
Russia's greatest love machine
He drank it all and said "I feel fine"

RA RA RASPUTIN
Lover of the Russian queen
They didn't quit, they wanted his head
RA RA RASPUTIN
Russia's greatest love machine
And so they shot him till he was dead

[Spoken:] Oh, those Russians...


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I love this

Audio surrendering..

Believe this staged act at your detriment

Nkwobi042:
I wanted to say something to piss off some yoruba on here, but I won't. E suppose Choke, but I won't make a mockery of it.... Yet.

But you c this one Nigeria, e suppose Don dey bitter Una for mouth. Sophistication will never bring lasting peace to Nigeria. Nigeria is not a country where you achieve something wearing suits and ties, Nigeria is a jungle and you must be a vicious animal to get what you want in this country, that's why northerners don't play it cool. Even in NASS they fight with their babanriga and threaten slur swears wrapped with superiority over other tribes.

Make Una 4get yoruba and igbo presidency, there's serious problem in this country even a yoruba president cannot solve. As an igbo guy, I don't like Nigeria at all... There's absolutely nothing about this country that interests me. You know, even in ASO Rock, these people don't value southerners, I know these because it's normal gists here in Abuja in elite gatherings. A small hausa guy will run you local on NASS like a pauper.
I have a Tiv friend in one of the highest govt parastatals filled with northerners and he was telling us one day that whenever there's an ethnic issues between the north and south, they gather in clusters to threaten uprisings against the south and they do it in Whispers. Try passing in between such gathering and they give each other signals to hush for a moment till you disappear.

Sunday igboho who be messed up big time,as I don't see any huge prominent yorubas coming out en masse to radically seek for his release. What happened in that guy's house was a massacre especially in a country over ridden by fulani blood letting herdsmen. I just imagined what if his grown up kids where in the house? These people for just shoot them die, Chai! Nigeria! Nigeria!! Cursed be on her! SMH

When your neighbour's house is on fire, don't mock him because fire spreads and may soon engulf your own house. I may not like Nnamdi Kanu style, but that's the style Nigeria government understands. Na that style make northerners dey panicky so te they rejoiced in their mosques and Arabian tea gatherings in Abuja after he was captured. It was a massive breakthrough for them... But we are watching...

The way yorubas react NOW will determine the amount of respect this janja-weed government will respect them. They want to test your resolves, don't act like cowards.

E no go dey funny if this government decides to castrate Sunday, it will be a big slap on your race

you're damn right

AbaganaMiracle:
Precaution before opening the video. You may choke on Igbo hatorade.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mrbSAXXDvUw

Biafrexit: An Ikwerre King Destroys 50 Years Of Propaganda (MUST WATCH!)

good one.. I watched this revelation by the chief

Dukeolumidemans:
I prefer a Landlord. Land ladies are usually sentimentally attached to their house and will treat u like bull shit if ur in their black book.
Most landlords don have wahala like my formal landlord before God blessed me.
The guy can smoke weed from morning till night without saying a single word. Next thing na to go fuccck the landlady till she run comot for house go her friend place. Then the man will go and faint in the kitchen, in the name of eating from the pot..

I like this kind landlord

Seems Sandra is not over with Ubi Franklin..

when women are being outsmarted in there perceived game, they will wail and wail and wail

She should move on

Though Ubi really played her sha

But women have been duping men since time immemorial but we just count our loses and move on like nothing happened

so sad..

Austineva:
Are they their 7 virgins? Just asking for a brother pls. They for say na women d hungry them. Very stupid set of people. Na them

your comment pics funny... lmao

These politicians always think they can use religious shenanigans to deceive us or get pity from us

pray for you as in what??
When you share money, frustrate laws that will benefit the common man, pad budget, do you ask us for our prayers?

Anyway the current agitations down south show that we don wise up..

Make una keep deceiving una selves

prayers ko, fasting ni

Thunder fire una two dirty hairy balls

I just downloaded the song... He try..

NYSC gave me chances to bleep pussies but I declined because that was when as a first child, all the family's responsibilities felled on me. Many of my Corper friends especially in medical fields bleep pussy tire. The way those girls were eyeing guys especially us in medical fields and guys from rich homes, you go think say they are not in any relationship. One find me come to my business premises. Hmm. My dear if you're not a well to do guy and your babe go service, no too reason her especially if she fine.. She just go hustle for a better man/guy using NYSC as cover..
NYSC was fun but I used the opportunity to set up what is sustaining my family of seven including my ageing parents. Banging pussies wasn't on my mind despite its availability as at the time.
What our so called babes do behind us.... hmm.. mouth no fit talk.. If she find someone better than you, voooommm.. she don bail.. she don leave you asap

Nigerian medical team would've done better but because we've practically destroyed our health institutions, overseas healthcare became an alternative for the rich. This is really a life-altering situation I tell you.

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E be like say this business of kidnapping is really flourishing for these northern bandits.. As for us in the east, ESN full ground.. North should enjoy there brother's government.

We know already so tell us something else.. No wonder they're hell bent in destroying Amotekun, Igboho, ESN, IPOB and MNK.. But they always fail.

All I observed was that both of them are hiding the actual truth behind there marriage saga. Many people are just managing there partners especially when kids are involved.

Alliance between KANU and Igboho of a guy go make sense.

Nnamdi KANU remains substantial and viable leader ndigbo has.. The average Igbo man knows this.. Whether you outlaw ipob or not, KANU remains the eye the average Igbo man uses to visualise the Nigerian state and the state of the nation gives him the benefit of doubt that he might be right..
Ohanaeze are group of Nigerian state benefactors who give us false hope to believe things will be better in this country while they go behind and collude with our enemies and aggressors to mock us. Bunch of men with questionable characters