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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 7:13pm On Dec 09, 2022
CaveAdullam:
DAY 100, REDPILL 2021

Extra mile is needed to achieve that goal.

Extra mile is needed to finish that important work.

Extra mile is needed to get that cash.

Extra mile is needed to get that knowledge.

Extra mile is needed to convert imaginations into reality.

Extra mile is needed to step up the hierarchy.

But an extra mile is not needed to hit that coochie.

Authority: Extra miles are for valuables.
noted

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 5:07pm On Dec 09, 2022
Profoundly and profusely, man should realise it is a luxury to receive love, not an entitlement. Man does not live to be loved.

Love thyself
I'll save this in the deepest part of my mind

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Family / Re: They Live In A Face Me I Face You Compound by freedomchild: 4:47am On Dec 04, 2022
Franzinni:
Let Alfa be giving this sermon in mosque abeg.... Not all people can marry 4 wives, women are not property for some people like me.

But again remember Adam was peacefully sleeping when they made eve and brought to him and from that point on there was no peace in the world again.

So guys if you want to marry please marry with sense ... All women are narcissists by design and that is why they crave attention and are ready to mutilate their body to gain attention. A woman is like a flower it blossoms but not for long and that is partly why they are always hormonally imbalanced.

Marry a woman that was brought up properly with low body count becasue if she has a high BC she will always be comparing and craving the best knack she had and if you don't meet up, she will fly fence and go and collect.

Lastly, women don't understand love like men do, they see men like they see iphone, they always want the latest model if you like fall mugu and think you are in a romance movie ...

Remember these words .... If you marry a bad woman you will turn to a philosopher !!! Gbabe!!
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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 8:43am On Dec 03, 2022
nwaezeemmanuel:
From an anonymous platform
lol

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 7:15am On Dec 03, 2022
dontai:
They will still find a way to blame the man.
reality

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 8:43pm On Dec 02, 2022
mrfizy:
So just how splendid are these women who provoke such humiliations in a man? Well, in fact, all women are by nature perverse. Deeply self-centred , thoroughly avaricious, unreasoning, their hearts can slip in an instant into error. They are clever with words, but will refuse to answer when asked something quite innocuous – yet where you imagine they would be carefully discreet, they will come out with astonishing revelations quite unsolicited. You would think they were even more adept than men at calculating and dissembling, but they’re quite unconcerned by being later shown up.
It is the way of women to be devious and foolish. How pitiful we men are, to submit ourselves to such creatures
and attempt to impress them. Why, after all, should we feel so awkward in their presence? If such a thing as a wise woman did exist, we would no doubt find her quite unapproachable and off-putting. Only a man who is led astray and mastered by a woman’s charms will see her as tender and delightful."

This is an excerpt from Essays In Idleness. It is the meditations of two Japanese monks(Kenko and Chomei) in medieval Japan
chai.. I really feel this

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 8:27pm On Dec 02, 2022
Educated women even with high IQ are not capable of intellectual curiosity, critical thinking,open minded analysis, application of logic, not because they don't have the same cognitive ability as men ( same brain) but due to their innate Solipsisitic nature which allows them to rationalize based on feelings and not facts, if its not validated by their emotions, such data is discarded,women make use of rationalization hamsters to justify their emotive reasonings and arguments so that they can have the false appearance of logic and reasoning

As long as they are innately Solipsisitic, the peak of their rationality is to memorize and cram data and statistics, they are not capable of being logical and analytical like men because their feelings would always cloud their judgement
you're right bro.
I can relate just of recent

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Family / Re: Is It Right For A Man To Marry His Sister In Law? by freedomchild: 5:50am On Nov 28, 2022
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Well, it depends.

If he has been sleeping with his wife's sister when his wife was still alive, then I won't advice him to marry her because there will be no spark or excitement during sex again.

But if he has always fantasized about shagging her and never got to, then marrying her is his only legitimate way to bring his fantasies to reality.

Although it is the dream of every ambitious man to shag either his wife's sister, mother or friend, his best bet is to marry a new woman entirely while still retaining his wife's sister to genuinely cater to his kids as her own while still shagging her on the side in the guise of helping her bear her own kids before menopause arrives.
lol

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 5:32am On Nov 27, 2022
DEMZEE:
Boom!
on point

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 5:29am On Nov 27, 2022
TheVictim01:
Blessed be the day I encountered of the TRP.
6 years exactly aback, my dad would be chanting this line in quote "Women's beauty fades as she hits 25 and for a man at 40" LOL! I never knew and doesn't seem to make sense to me then. Man got in wedlock to mom at 37!!!!! While for her being 19. His first and only woman!
correct

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 4:48am On Nov 27, 2022
yorubarere:
Going through the thread this evening. It is no doubt that this wonderful thread is under attack by alien bodies that are strangers to the tenets of redpill.

These people may fall into these categories:

1. Bluepilled men (male feminists)

2. Some married men or people in long term relationship that can't accept the facts that they have been fooled all along. (Denial mode).

3. Blackpillers. I think the guy causing the major problems is a pseu-blackpiller. I called him false blackpiller cos his actions are caused by induced pains from his previous relationships. If given the chance, he will still crawl under a woman's legs and simp away.

That aside, I mostly find myself going against the idealists cos they are not in touch with realities. They always find means to rationalize absurdities.

One of them made a post about elevating women and not putting eyes into their finances. And in-turn, these women will appreciate and do the unthinkable for you. (He just rationalized loyalty without analyzing the subject involved).

Lemme make an example as a realist.

A vegetarian or animal right activist who is an idealists assumes that because he doesn't eat meat or support animals brutality, he may survive in the wild with lions cheesy

Since he doesn't eat meat, one should rationalize that the pride of lions would sense that and free him. Well, he will realize his foolishness when been torn apart by beasts. Same beasts he campaigned vigorously to protect.


To the poster that said if you are good to your women, they will be good to you in turn, I must say you are living in ur head. Several stories and researches have proven that women not only are ungrateful to men who treats them right, they go to the extent of ridiculing them to the entertainment of others. She will punish you for bin nice!

Lemme give you example of a recent incident.

https://www.nairaland.com/6397102/woman-seeks-divorce-after-25

The link above, the woman is tired of the man for being too nice to her. Same man gives her approximately $7k per month as personal spending. I am sure if there is a means to kill the man after that court judgment that asked her to stay put with him, she will do that. The man's sins was being too nice.... He is the proverbial vegetarian that expects lions to spare him in the wild.

For those blue and purple pilled men that sees life through justice and fairness. I must tell you as well that there is no justice anywhere. For someone to gain, some have to be lose. For you to get profits on your goods, you will sell it above the actual price u bought it! People are always losing and gaining... Life is not fair and the game is not nice. Those feminists seeking freedom from the manists are not doing it for freedom, they are doing it for power to oppress men (that is why they are busy shouting "women is the future". They don't follow the equality they preached)..... A perfect example of this is the Western worlds.

Life is a jungle. It is survival of the fittest and and only the strongest and smartest survives to pass on their gene in the gene pool to the next generations.



I drop pen.



NOTE: I am not inferring that all vegetarians and animal right activists are idealist.
you said it all

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Romance / Re: Why Are Women Not Capable Of Loving Us Men? by freedomchild: 11:29am On Nov 26, 2022
Go through the redpill to understand the female nature.
That's why the redpill knowledge is sacrosanct in your dealings with women.

Even the Bible said "men love your wives as Christ loves you". For the women he said "submit to your husband".
From that bible passage you can see that men are wired to love while women are only wired to submit. And the Bible is right.
I think is a natural character imbibed in them.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 5:50am On Nov 25, 2022
Skepticus:


I'm archiving this. This quote is deeper than it appears on the surface #AWALT
me too

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 8:52pm On Nov 23, 2022
luminouz:


Now that's how many girls do these days. They stare at you and measure up your confidence. Some look disgusted, sneer at you, roll their eyes or just plain give you the evil look. If you can't hold eye contact or stutter, they will know. Hell,they even know when you are sweating inside. They are that good at sniffing out weakness.

But here is the kicker: They are also JUST like you. They are not the boldest or baddest mudafuckers on the planet. Some of them are more timid than you are but are able to hide their emotions under a veil. Some even adore you physically but their innate nature of pretense would make them behave otherwise. So when you hold their eyes and talk to them, especially not using the tired-ass 1133AD pickup lines, you see their eyes would either shift from you and look less confident or assured. They will laugh more,relax visibly and once a woman does that, the first hurdle is broken.

Lemme share this with you.

I seem to have an attraction for hardlooking women. I meant women with stern looking expressions that other men run from. It doesn't matter to me if they carry granite for face, so long I wanna talk to them, I go ahead and do that

While in the uni, there was this huge babe in my school. Tall and big assed, she is from a rich home and so has it all but when it comes to men, she no dey give them face. Once she sees you coming, she plants a sneer on her face and looks at you like you are an insect or something. Then,when you approach her, she stares at you, eyes moving from head to toe,like inspecting a Xmas goat at King's market. Then,while you are still talking or stuttering, she walks away,leaving your last words hanging in the air. Most times, you end up looking at her back as she leaves,because she is very beautiful. When she is in a mood, she just walks past you like you didn't exist. She was in 100level while I was in my finals.

How I won her? I didn't give a fuq. That was how. I have seen her around and while I noticed the beauty, I wasn't motivated to talk to her. I was dealing with project issues so my morale was on that. One day while I finished with my supervisor and was going home, this geh popped up around and was walking away from a dude who was trying desperately to hold her attention. I had nothing on her...not her name, her level or even course... Yet as the guy turned away in frustration, I walked up to her and just laughed and said ' don't look so sad babe, at least this one is a bit tall and a bit fine, compared to that grandpa that approached you last week'. I didn't see her with any granpa but that was my opening line to test the waters.

Her eyes raked me from head to toe, eyes blazing. I kept my smile, an amused expression on my face. This went on for 7 secs(my heartbeat counted it). Then she looked away and muttered 'no granpa toasted me last week'. I laughed and said, 'at the rate you turn these young niggas down, well, who else will be left, darlinggggggg!!!. I said these while arching my eyebrow and winking, with a mischievous smile. She stared at me for a while, then slowly the corners of her mouth lifted up in a shy smile. That was all. 5 minutes after, she was following me up and down in school, under the hot sun, while other niggas went all colours of the rainbow with envy. She ended up being my gf, till she travelled out of the country.

Know what she told me? She said what made her give me a second look was my eye contact, smile and this devil-may-care attitude I had, like I had nothing to lose while other dudes are quick to behave like she is one rare,exotic animal in the zoo,by stammering, smile fake and giving annoying promises,like she was a dependent or something. She said my confidence that day made her wet( I was also very fit,being a regular gym attendant and I just cut my hair grin).

N.B: it doesn't matter who the girls are, they are also human,not some alien species. Just go out and practice on them. Practice makes perfect.
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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 8:46pm On Nov 23, 2022
CaveAdullam:


DAY 33, REDPILL 2021


Headline: False! He is not lucky but a fool!

A man that knows his worth, his efforts, his resources and how much they worth in golds will never feel lucky knotting ties with a retired h0e. Only a man that doesn't understand "game", the tenets of TRP and who lacks the understanding of the female nature will feel lucky and thank the gods for such a worthy wife. After all "he that finds a wife finds a good thing".

In these days, where virgin women are now demarcated into various categories: Anal virgins, Vagina virgins, Oral virgins, born again virgins, overall virgins, a man must be careful in selecting a woman who he wants to spend the remaining days of his life with---the mother of his kids and his source of peace and comfort as the companion she is. Failure to do this will wreck his life and doing the job half way will also damage his life.

The essence of marrying virgins is not a show of pride neither is it a guarantee that a union will remain fixed like the sky. However, virginity in a woman is important because:

1. Women, who got deflowered by their husbands has a very low rate of divorce propensity.

2. It guarantees a high level of emotional stability, happiness and low depression in marriage. A woman that has been tossed from one player to another like a tennis ball cannot be stable in marriage. If she stayed long in a relationship with a "reckless" alpha/player, she will never see any good in her husband.

3. Virgin women lacks a prior experience of sexual escapades, as her sex life will circumvent around that which was introduced by her husband.

4. Since virgin women lacks sexual experience, they will not be able to compare their husbands with their previous lovers when it comes to bedmantic skills.

5. Womb is not a cemetery---you know what I mean.

6. It can provoke a man to go to any length with the woman he met a virgin when some crisis occurs. It can even goad him to stay longer with her and always place her first before any other woman.

7. Faithfulness and loyalty among virgin women is higher compare to the non virgins in marriage.

8. Low risk of sexually transmitted diseases/infections etc.


Searching for a virgin woman seems difficult these days because of liberalism, feminism, lose of the fatherhood structure in the home, disregard and decline of traditional roles and values, misinformation propagated and spread by the mainstream media, lack of awareness, lack of accountability and the enormous impunities granted unto women. However, a man who knows his worth, and the sweats and blood he leveraged to get to the king's standard he now occupies will never settle for less. Obas/Kings, don't settle for less!

Many men today, because of the bluepilled conditioning they have been gummed to and the gynocentric environment they have been raised will choose any kind of woman for marriage/long term relationship, if not for anything but to quench their sexual thirst.

Again, virgins "seems" scarce among many men today because they seek for virgins in mature, intelligent, well educated, independent, easy going, loving, good 30+ women. They have this mentality that women from age 18-23/25 are not better as the former and can't make a good wife and a good home. Meanwhile, women are inherently "redpilled/machiavellic" from birth and ready for any romantic, relationship or love game once they approach or hit maturity stage.
And if this is the case, is it not good a man should take the lesser risk by going for nubile women, fresh in the game? Besides, since he has a lot of experience he can be able to overwhelm her and make her exist in his frame and make her move around the boundaries he has assigned her. But no, many men don't see this as realistic or wise, and would rather go for the so called "career/independent" women. And these are women who has lose their feminine essence as a result of the many bullshits they've been fed with as mentioned earlier and the easy and numerous leeways that has been provided for them by both the law, government and the simphood.

Single women on the other hand are pains in the ass as you have both mother and child/children to battle psychologically with in order for them to at least retrocede some grounds for you to stand and flow easily. A child is the clear difference between a single mother and a h0e as both are one and the same and always come with a truckload of bagages that can quickly ruin a man's entire being in no less time.

To sum it up: a man must raise himself to a king's standard and he will never lack virgins. Kings never lack virgins! Simps can go for retired h0es. The virginity of a woman, and a woman still pure and pristine, who embodies the quintessence of feminity, his children who will further his pedigree raised under the aegis of true masculinity and femininity, are the "only" reasonable benefits I can see for the now when it comes to a man going into marriage or a long term relationship despite the odds against him. If a man marries a retired h0e in this day and age, he is not lucky but a FOOL! It is better not to marry than marry into burdens and problems he can't escape.

Thanks.

Authority: Kings cum virgins; simps cum h0es
.
good to know

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 8:32pm On Nov 23, 2022
[quote author=freedomchild post=118632026][/quote]this post is so revealing.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 8:31pm On Nov 23, 2022
Nelson21:
Good evening everyone.

I want to thank the creator of this thread and those who frequently update it regularly. I wanted to call a few names but decided not to because I noticed some really factual and intelligent comments were also made by certain individuals who rarely post comments.

I really appreciate all the contributions including that of certain trolls, for in their attempt to ridicule believers of the redpill and derail the thread, beautiful and well written replies were delivered.

I don't mean to bring religion (Bible) into this, But I personally feel that if you read the bible and meditate deeply on what you read, you will see that the redpill is truly a gift to men.

The book of matthew 19:8-10 has this discussion;

Jesus: “Because of your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”

Disciples: “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.”

I want to discuss more on why the disciples would make such a statement. If you read the scriptures, you will see that women have always played a role in either the downfall or unwarranted death of men, prophets and nations.

Eve brought the downfall of her husband and mankind because she didn't recognize her husband's authority or even that of God. If she did, she would have consulted either one or both of them first rather than eating the fruit. She was ambitious and the devil saw it and deceived her. Adam having a soft spot for his wife, foolishly or simp-ly ate the fruit.

Portiphar threw hardworking joseph into prison after his LovePeddler of a wife fasely accused him of trying to rape her.

Lots daughters got their father drunk, had sex with him without his knowledge (so they kinda raped their dad, nice) and gave rise to the birth of two pagan child sacrificing nations.

Fast forward to the post-deliverance era of the israelites from egyptian bondage, 24000 Israelites died in a horrible plaque from God. The reason? They were seduced and deceived to sin against God. What tool was used this time around to cause such a tragic death and downfall of 24000 people? Yep, women. Moab and Midianite women seducing simplike men who had a soft spot for women to participate in orgies and in return getting their ass smoked by God. The plaque ceased the moment a probably redpilled dude, who saw a simp bring a foreign woman into the camp, picked up his spear and pierced the simp with the woman Killing both of them.

Let's move to the story of samson, a man who was suppose to be the true definition of an alpha male, a judge, blessed with supernatural vigor and strength. His downfall fall? Do I need to say it?

How about the story of David and bathsheba? This one hurts the most. While BADsheba's husband was in a war zone fighting for the freedom of his wife, the nation of israel and the glory of the king of israel, David sent for BADsheba to be brought to him after seeing her bathing. But what if she had given david this reply : " No my Lord the king, I cannot betray the trust of my husband, your servant, who is out there fighting for the freedom of israel. Besides, why commit such horrible sin in the face of our Lord and God?" David would have probably sent her back to her husband's home with gifts from stopping him in commiting a sin. Remember what he did when abigail stopped him on his revenge mission? But No, BADsheba saw a king, forgot her brave husband who was in the battlefield and spread her legs wide open leading to the tragic assassination of her husband. She didn't succumb out of fear, for David wasn't a tyrannical or wicked king. She wanted more than her husband could offer. She wanted to be queen.

The so called wise king solomon after fully admitting that only one out of a thousand men is virtuous, but not one woman, Still surrounded himself with women and we all know how his story ended. From wise king, to depressed simp facing different forms of rebellion against his rule.

What of king Ahab who went crying like a simp to his wife Jezebel, a wicked, self centered and evil woman who murdered God's prophets. She planned for an innocent vineyard owner to be killed.

This is getting irritating so Let's fast forward and wrap this up with the time of Jesus. When John the Baptist was arrested, who initiated the idea for him to be beheaded? A man right?

Now I know some female creatures will say what of other women who were good in the bible. Have you suddenly forgotten them?

Can any woman today be like Ruth, who loved and respected her mother in-law? Did ruth go on a whoring spree after losing her husband?

Can any woman have a self sacrificing personality like that of esther, who risked her own life for her people by appearing before her husband and king unsummoned?

If the answer to those two questions is No. Then there's no need mentioning other good women and their actions because no woman today can be like them.

Jesus christ disciples read the scriptures. They knew living with one woman till death do you part was impossible because women are dangerous ambitious self centered overly manipulative wicked beings hence their remark:

"IT IS BETTER NOT TO MARRY".chai.... This post is so revealing















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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 2:41pm On Nov 23, 2022
If you're too savage, she gets upset and forgives you

If you're too civilised, you get dumped

Lesson in there
I've been a victim of this. You're damn right. And I promise myself never to repeat the same mistake with another woman

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Politics / Re: Inuwa Yahaya: We Won't Make Mistake Like Niger Delta People by freedomchild: 9:32am On Nov 23, 2022
jimyjames:
I'm just laughing about this , Niger Delta are the biggest losers in this one Nigeria scam , meanwhile south east has alot of natural gas that has not been touched , we will do same with our natural gas when crude oil becomes useless
I tell you bro. They allowed hate, inferiority complex and stupidity becloud there tiny sense. Now there eyes don clear

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 6:20am On Nov 23, 2022
MJBOLT:
wink
noted

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 1:38pm On Nov 22, 2022
Hustle2flex:
They say its women that drives men to TRP and that rings true on my side after my last relationship.
It made me to understand women don't give a damn about us and no matter your sacrifices for her,she won't remember any of it whenever she decides to leave you.
I had to learn it the hard way but am glad I did.
Being nice doesn't get you any favors with these bitches and they are very remorseless once their hypergamous antennas are up.

Imagine waking up one morning to the text message 'babe I need to take a break from this relationship and discover myself and know what I really want'.Thats after professing 'love' for 3yrs.No calls nor further explanations from her.
I knew the game was over with her.i didn't bother asking why cos it's useless.
A month later,she is posting pictures with another guy on a date with her.i guess she has fully studied the discovery channel.

The best thing TRP has taught me is self awareness of your worth as a man,the value of your attention and resources you give out(u have to guard it jealously) and constant self improvement in every facet of your life.You don't ever as a man focus on a woman and neglect your self development cos when she perceives that she is above you in the social ladder after continuously investing in her,you will be dumped.No questions asked.

You guys are really doing a good job here.The Gospel of TRP will continue to spread like widefire.keep it up guys!!
I really understand you bro. That's women for you

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 1:25pm On Nov 22, 2022
i926:

so revealing about the female nature

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 12:33pm On Nov 22, 2022
naenaesosa:
Men i typically don't comment but this thread is priceless. Thanks to everybody that shared their TRP wisdom and experiences (good or bad). I have known about TRP for a while now but i won't lie i have broken frame a few times but that's neither here nor there. I am very angry at what's going on around me and in society.

I am an entrepreneur and most of my friends are as well by design because there's just something about risk takers and people that take their destinies into their own hands. A lot of us are married and what is going on around me is giving me the shivers.

* Friend A's marriage is over because business took a hit, wife works a 9-5, couldn't weather the storm with him and the insults started.
* Friend B's wife was recently caught cheating with a "bigger boy" with Gwagon. My friend is a hustling guy that drives the big yansh camry. Granted he married an instagram slay mama. I think she fell in love with the lifestyle of the gang (rolling together like a unit, child naming parties at each others houses etc and the trappings of having rich friends)
* Friend C's wife works in an oil company. He pays the bills and she keeps all her money. Business is suffered setbacks in 2020, asked wife for help she refuses but still managed to upgrade her car to the 2019 Lexus jeep.
* Before i got married, Friend D used to always borrow from me( and payback of course) . I used to find it strange that he did that because his wife is super rich, until the day i asked my wife (who works and doesn't pay any bills) to borrow me and she flat out said she doesn't have.
* Friend E and wife migrated to USA. Luckily she got a job first while my friend was just hanging doing menial jobs here and there. Over a few months, the disrespect started. She stopped buying groceries, she would just buy her own food to eat and go to bed. She has left him under just 2 years since moving to yankee.

I am pained for men. There's a massive conspiracy to emasculate men. Its like men's only value come from his bank account. Even in my brokest days i see things deeper and farther than my wife, and that made me realize a man's value is not only in money. He is GOD's masterpiece, a reflection of HIMSELF. Yahoo boys and politicians have created a massive bubble in the gender market. Women are overpriced and inflated because of a few participants in the market driving up their price.

Men out there, i feel your pain, i feel your struggle. I know that there's no unconditional love for you anywhere. I know you are shamed on the daily for circumstances outside your control. Please SELF DEVELOPMENT and ALPHA FRAME is the meat and potatoes of TRP, the rest is just veggies. A man should build an empire(no matter how small) and be the king there.

Happy sunday folks
I really feel for your friends

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 8:54pm On Nov 21, 2022
waywardpikin:


I dunno why you bother. Sèx and food from an ex? I am disgusted.

Even if it's for worthy connections, who she epp?

You don't go about accepting help from anyone and even if you do you have to gauge and measure if it's worth accepting, it is usually not worth the hassle in the end.

How have you been living your life that it is only your ex that has the key to your destiny in your hands? This level of thinking is absurd.

Sometimes even, it may come to a choice between choosing your ego or accepting her useless help, bearing in mind that any so-called help from a female species come with strings attached. Deny it if you will. For someone like me, I'll choose my ego if necessary. I don't live my life hoping to be at the mercy of anyone for anything.

I had a married ex who came out of the blues trying to rekindle past memories and whatnot. She has always been a boss lady doing well for herself. Back in school, I nearly got married to her due to pressure from her and her family to settle down. Bear in mind that I was a broke aśs final year student. Nevertheless, they assured me that they would sponsor the wedding and set me up for life. However, they refused to get me anything to do while mounting pressure on me to get married to their daughter. Who does that?

I analysed the situation and saw it wasn't good for me and so I jakpaed for my life. This is despite the fact that they rented a two bedroom apartment for I and their daughter, and were even offering me a job in her (single) mother's company. It struck me as a tale similar to the story of Esau who sold his birthright for a pot of porridge.

I broke up, collected all the curses and swears they had to throw at me and kept it moving. Babe resurfaced in 2019 with tales of love and repentance. She's even bigger than she was before financially, running a branch of her mother's outfit in Lagos with two personal cars for her to do as she pleased. At that time I'd bought and sold my first car. Bought from the proceeds of pure hustle and sold in order to meet up with demands from family. If u be first son u go know say e no easy.

I asked about her husband, she told me they were divorced. My birthday came around and I threw a small party at the beach, she saw proceedings on WhatsApp, complained she was bored and I didn't invite her. I told her to come if she wanted to. She came around in record time... from Ikorodu o!

We got wasted, ended up having sèx in the back of her car, she took me home, we had sex the morning after, a leg of my sneakers got missing and I had to go back home with a pair of bathroom slippers. My missing sneaker turned up "miraculously" weeks later which she offered to bring back to my place. She brought it along with my birthday gift. All the while, she was down for whatever, friends with benefits, relationship, friendship. All she wanted was to have me in her life. But ultimately it must have been for a purpose, one which I may not be favorable towards.

We had sèx that final time, and afterwards I ghosted her. She's richer than me and better off. I don't feel like I missed anything ghosting her, because eventually when it becomes clear that I'm not able to give her what she desperately wants, I might not be able to predict what she would do in retaliation. The easiest way to harm a man is either through food and sex. If you go about accepting favours, that would be the quickest way to receiving some disrespect.

I guess I'm in the minority on this, but I don't live my life believing that any one person holds the key to my ultimate breakthrough. Not family, not friends, talk less of an ex. And statistically speaking, the people in the first two categories are more likely to offer life-changing help to you before a useless ex. Let's just be real for a second. Unless your family and friends are nothing to write home about.


Food and sex from an ex? I laugh!


That's how I 'rented' a relationship for a little over a month. It featured intense penising and all the works. When she started showing red and indigo lights, I cut my losses and ran. No stress, no quarrel, nothing. I no get time.

That's how she messaged me out of nowhere that she was around my area and she wanted to see me. See me? Me wey chop you run? What if she wanted to come and pour me battery acid? What if she was on a revenge mission?

You see, where most men would think about sex and food and other fringe benefits, I think about SAFETY FIRST! Women are not so nice and if you give them the chance they will fùck you up totally.

In fact, sometimes it is better to toast a new girl afresh and turn her into what you want her to be (even if it's for a short time), than going back to an EX. An ex ain't no fuçking unicorn. You fùcking left her for a reason!

Most times, you will find that the juice is not worth the squeeze. No one man/woman has the key to your destiny. Copy that!


XOXO.
you're right. Women are not that nice

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Crime / Re: 21-Year-Old Man Stabbed To Death By His Girlfriend In Lekki (Photo) by freedomchild: 5:45am On Nov 21, 2022
jeromestarks:
Many girls in Nigeria are mentally distorted due to heartbreaks and relationship wahala.

Please always let your girlfriends down gently when you're done using them. Don't just breakup anyhow. Take at least two weeks to gradually dish out the breakup so that she won't become a psycho to her next boyfriend.

Thanks for your cooperation.
I love this comment bro. There's this girl I liked and approached. She snubbed me completely so I have to dey my dey make person no stab me

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Romance / Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by freedomchild: 1:00pm On Nov 08, 2022
Young girls of nowadays set standards for men that they themselves can't fit in with such men.
They only view men from there own mind not considering whether they're spec of such men.

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Romance / Re: Reason For The High Rate Of Single Ladies. by freedomchild: 12:50pm On Nov 08, 2022
pansophist:
Time to yab the ladies abi? Make I sharply add my own grin

From observations, lots of women do not know the difference between signals of sexual attention and marriage desirability. I will explain. Generally, for most men, we have very low standards for the women we fork. A man can be governor and smash a girl working at Mr biggs, she just has to be fine.

This is why every woman can be a prostitute, it has no qualification other than being a woman. And because women are hypergamous in nature, she confuses male sexual attention with her marriage desirability. If she sleeps with Davido for example, then she will think that is her level and will ignore the men that are actually her level or even better than her.

If you notice, the word ''settle for'' is not in a man's vocabulary. For men, it is ''settle down'', which has a different meaning to ''settled for''. Women always use the word ''I settled for him'', meanwhile in reality, that is your level, or he even settled for you. Men are more realistic in this regard meanwhile for women, it is not the same.

I was watching a video (the link below) of this American porn actress Mia Khalifa who was bragging that men are too cheap and that she can get any man she wants. But her female brain can not comprehend that sex and marriage for men are two different things. Yes, all these men will fork you, but will they wife you up? probably never.

https://youtube.com/shorts/c6imxCbVKdk?feature=share

And this is exactly what men mean when they say women have unrealistic standards. Many ignore men that even settled for them because she thinks he is not on their level. And because women are externally validated, they pin their standards on the kind of men they have slept with, not based on the strength of their character, virtue, chastity, and being moral.

This is why premarital sex is very bad for women, it messes up their psyche, and they just get more entitled, unrealistic, proud, bitter, and angry with the world.
very very correct

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by freedomchild: 7:04pm On Nov 06, 2022
KingZaddy:
There is a lot guys dont understand about females


i told a beautiful girl "i dont like you and i dont trust you" she couldnt sleep, she was used to men worshipping her beauty. it was the beginning of her falling for me.



brothers, i only have one prayer for you now that you know the truth, may the truth set you free.


happy sunday
you're right

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Travel / Re: Married Guys That Relocated To The UK, Whats Your Experience by freedomchild: 9:35pm On Oct 29, 2022
beelon1020:
Bro’s sorry about this, but I tell you, that mr mike don dey bang your wife,..
1. How did he know she got big backside?... because he has seen it.. but your wife will deny this ofcorse...
2. You see what happened in the video call? That was a planned move by her, they were together before your call came in...
3. Both of them have been dating behind you, she is just trying to balance her actions...
you see a friend of mine bleeping a married naija lady here,.. the bleeping na brutal one... but anytime the husband called from naija, she no go pick, when she pick, the guy go hide him other room for them to talk, after she finished video and phone calls with hubby... omo bleeping continued o!
Honestly I was surprised to find out how women are generally lose in here and most Western world...
Heard many cases among my homies here, banging many married women... mostly during winter... that cold hennnn! It’s well o
At this point.. reset your mind set OGA... be prayerful, watchful and be very observant... all the best..
seriously
Nairaland / General / Re: What Thing Makes You Feel Ashamed Any Time You Remember It? by freedomchild: 9:03pm On Oct 18, 2022
winner37:
I was overwhelmed with shame that day...
Just coming out of bathroom I didn't adjust my towel very well I just stepped out and the towel went off from me , my landlord daughter was about to enter the same bathroom so she saw my everything .


But last last I saw her own in a different style too ...
abi

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Family / Re: Throwback Photos Of IVD And His Late Wife Bimbo When They Were Young Lovers by freedomchild: 7:39pm On Oct 16, 2022
Zoharariel:


Actually, she brought it on herself. Let’s call a spade a spade.

Of all the tribes in Nigeria, she chose to go marry a Y-eebo man that won’t hesitate to behead his father, his mother & his King because of money.

Check his pictures again, from obscurity to limelight within how many years?

His brothers & tribesmen will tell you he was importing containers from China & Brazil just like that Cocaine-Trafficking bastard they call E-Money.

But we know, that they are actually into importing & exporting of Cocaine, Stolen Cars, Fake Pharmaceutical Goods & Fake Currencies.

I have said it times without number that if any of my female blood relation who brings a flat-headed Y-eebo to my house for marriage blessings - Walai, na AUTOMATIC SHAKABULA I go take blast their skulls into golgotha.

It is better to go marry Hausa/Fulani Herdsmen or Tapa or a Niger Delta Militant than to cohabit with these unruly, vacuous, incestuous, cannibalistic & criminally-minded fvcktards.

Any Yoruba woman that is covetous enough to settle down with any of these despicable people because of their blood-money should deal with whatever odious & calamitous omen that befalls their union afterwards.
hahaha.

Guy wetin Igbo man do you
Romance / Re: So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them by freedomchild: 10:29pm On Jul 05, 2022
CaveAdullam:
1. Every woman got a man she loves. Yes, love. Love not in the entire meaning of sacrificial - threshold exclusively to men. However, a woman who loves you will be sacrificial to an extent, that is, based on the romantic feelings she has for a man, she can go the extra mile to please him.

2. This love( not sacrificial but romantic) is what is termed genuine desire. Genuine desire doesn't care about age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man A, the poor man. This is the man that can titillate her emotional spring, the player, the bad boy who doesn't give an fvck about her reality, the smoker with six packs. These men satisfies the first half of a woman's sexual nature - search for protection and dominance.

This doesn't mean that women are not attracted to age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man B, the rich man. He is the ultimate provider, the easy nice intelligent dude with good glasses. He satisfies the other half of a woman's nature - search for provision, care and support.

> Said woman has a genuine desire for man A. But she can frolic with man B and in the end, still falls back to man A.

> To man A, she is a hostage. While to man B, she is a diamond in the rough.

> Funnily, she will not marry man A, but man B, except man A, has the same level of wealth and status as man B. Here lies the genesis of paternity fraud.

>However, she will ever be more loyal to man A than her husband, man B because she has a genuine desire for man A.

3. Problem many men of today are having is that they don't know about this. They chase the woman helter-skelter in an attempt to change her mind from loving man A.

Smart women have discovered and capitalized on this and are manipulating men of different classes just to sponsor themselves while remaining loyal to man A. Everything happens behind the scene of her heart, man A may not even be aware, however, still got the woman at his beck and call. (Men date. While women multi-date).

a. Men date because with one woman he is satisfied and can channel his limited resources to her. Women multi-date because she wants to accrue many resources as a result of interaction with many men. Then, you may ask: "aren't men more polygamous and promiscuous than women?"

b. Monogamy and polygamy rest based on RESOURCES AND COMMITMENT - it is men that provide them not women. Now, men by their testosterone in high volume want to fvck different women, without committing and squandering their resources because it is limited. No wonder monogamy is the human primary mating strategy, however, men are still promiscuous but will never commit to other women.

c. Men fvck different women and will not commit; only the woman that wins his heart will he commit to.

d. While women fvck different men looking for the one that will commit. She will not be loyal to the man that eventually commits; women are highly loyal to the men that deflowered them, they may no longer be close to each other, but it was that man that opened her eyes to the gateway of sex that she will ever be loyal to both consciously and instinctually, and this is the man that always owns her heart and has a genuine desire for.

Women are slightly less promiscuous than men, in their dating or sex spree they are still cautious and selective about the men they fvck.

e. So, a man fvcks and commits to a woman that wins his heart. While women fvck but not looking for a man to win her heart, she already has one, what she needs now is commitment.

4. You may ask: "but men spend heavily on side chicks and sugar babies".

> Yes, that is true. For a man to effectively pull polygamy he must be wealthy and resourceful. However, only a few men in the world are wealthy and can successfully commit to different women at the same time - this is a solid claim for polygamy.

> (Rich) men may squander their money on side chicks but what they spend is minuscule compared to their net worth. The baseline is that they are not going to commit to these side chicks. Why?

a. They know that side chick's love is fake and fickle.

b. Side chicks are damaged goods and can't sustain a family. These men only commit their entire resources to their families, wives, and children.

On the other hand, these men may be spending to win a woman's love which is a futile journey from the beginning. A man can't win a woman by spending exorbitantly. She will only fake submissiveness.

5. Back to the beginning: every woman has a man she loves genuinely, the man may not notice it and both may not care about it, however, there is a spark once they unify.

6. Guys should therefore upgrade and better themselves, and it will be easy for them to get hold of these women that has a genuine desire for them. However, they must be cautious as some women may fake genuine desire just to siphon them.

7. Guys should look around them, there are some girls/women that have a genuine desire for them instead of chasing women that don't have any iota of interest for them.

8. Women always date high. True, a woman may be loyal to man A, but her nature still gravitates towards man B. Upgrading and bettering yourself as a guy is not only to fvck women in their hordes, but that when you are sitting on a high pedestal, men, women, children, and society either fear you or respect you. You become a force majeure.


Thanks.
I'll screenshot this

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