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Frenzy01:
I'm at a crossroad. I feel like I should start taking responsibilities by paying my tithes from the little I have now but the problem is I'm not a church type. It's been over 2 years that I last went to a church cos of some personal reasons and convictions.

Now, how do I take care of my responsibilities as a Christian(I still see myself as a Christian, just that some of the things been done in the church today doesn't sit well with me).
How do I pay my tithe without going to church

Vanessaaaaa and making out

MadamVanessa:
For your brother to always take side with your wife two things are involved.

1. Is either you're a terrible husband to your wife and a terrible brother to your so called brother.

2. Or when you're not around you wife and your brother make out together, they Bleep themselves to stupor, even when she's pregnant they can still be doing it.

Na Una family get the olonkola for that Abraham adesanya side ??

czarr:
Limited pleasure...I have an above average size and the girls I have been with find it hard to wrap their mouth even halfway around it, but average guys get to enjoy the pleasure of deep Drinking.

Average guys can ram into the vagina with reckless abandon, if you do that as a big diick guy,you would hurt the girl, sex becomes boring.

GO LISTEN TO JUST BE BY DJKAHALLED AND JUSTIN

IamBenita:
Trust is a vital part of any relationship and can be easily remedied with open communication.

When an ex is lurking in the background, it is a red flag. I know right! If your boyfriend is mature enough to keep his ex as a friend, then it’s fine. If he’s communicating with her in secret, that’s cause for concern over his lack of honesty in his relationship with you. Chances are, if the ex and your partner seperated amicably, they’re still gonna talk. Communicating is fine, but jumping into bed with her is absolutely wrong. If two exes still flirts together after their relationship has ended, it means something is up ! It is really not possible for your partner to be fully committed to you if he still moves about or always seen with his ex in secret places. It’s the plain truth. You are already in grey area if your partner still calls or moves about with his ex every now and then. Again, if he calls or contacts her occasionally, it’s fine.

I still talk to most of the guys I have dated. We are all in other relationships, and even when we weren’t, talking to each other post-relationship didn’t mean jumping back into bed together. The thing about relationships is that you have things in common, shared experiences, and get to know each other very well. After all, the base of the terms girlfriend and boyfriend is “friend”. Just because they don’t have sex anymore doesn’t mean they have to throw away years of friendship. That’s ridiculous.

Truth is that you would still be messed up or probably mad at your boyfriend when you find out he still has some soft spots for his ex or he still sees her, but you should calmly talk it out with him. This is the first and most matured approach to handling the situation. The most important word for a successful relationship is “Trust”. Trust issue is not a good basis to build a healthy relationship. It really depends how and when he talks to his ex. I reckon he gives you enough reason to doubt him. Take approaches with caution or you make mistakes.

Sometimes, men doesn’t completely break up with their exes. It is what I call “seperation hangover”.

Ex means gone.

Ex means past and past must be left behind. Really?

Now girlfriend, I might sound a little off limit but here is the truth. It takes time for one to completely forget his/her ex, especially when they shared a great bond together. It’s completely normal. I would probably do the same if I were to have an ex I shared a lot with. It would be difficult to let go at first, but with time I’d be able to get over him. It’s nature and sometimes we can’t help it.

You two are in a “Relationship” right? You are still dating and studying each other to see if things will who knows, maybe lead to marriage. Chill and trade with caution. People make lots of efforts for getting into relationships, but little efforts afterwards. If you truly love your boyfriend, you should be able to work for it. Keep that in mind, you will have to make some serious efforts to retain your love interest or make him fall in love with you so much that he forgets his ex. How many more breakups will you go through to get the perfect man anyways? There is no perfect man, Life itself is not even. You have to work on him to make him perfect for you. It’s important for you two to get along well physically and emotionally. If that is not happening, make it happen. Your partner chose to be with you, not his ex. Respect your partner’s choice and grab enough self-esteem to realize that maybe you really are worthy of being his partner, and talking to another girl doesn’t mean he is going to drop her panties and hop into her bed.

Relationships and marriages are like jungle and you need to compete to survive. If he’s talking to his ex, that’s because he feels the need. He feels something is missing from his life and you need to fill that void. You need to do fun and newer things in your relationship. Do things in a different perspective so that he starts valuing you more. A man in love will let no serious outside distraction into his life, so invest your time on him and stop trying to control him or who he talks to.

People gonna say you are insecure and they will ask you to trust him and allow him to talk to her ex. Actually, you should not! As far as insecurity is concerned, its an obvious thing that you will feel insecure and it’s his duty not to do anything which can make his partner insecure.

My point is, don’t be too quick to judge him. Getting angry and possessive over him, and trying to prevent him from talking to his friends, is not going to make things change. If anything, it will make the situation worse. If you are aware or suspect any weird connection between your boyfriend and his ex and you are concerned about it, calmly talk things out with him. Have a conversation with him and explain that him seeing his ex girlfriend is making you insecure and you are concerned for your future together. Yes, he should be aware of the way you feel, it’s your right, but don’t get into a fight with him. Ask him the reasons for his actions and if he complains of any glitches from your side, promise you are gonna work on yourself and you would be much happy if he does same too. Give him little time to adjust and work on those missing aspects to better yourself. In a relationship, there are two different people, two different ways and two different values, characteristics and thinking. Be strong and trust him after you’ve told him your feelings. Both sides have to trust each other and stand firm upon that mutual trust. A RELATIONSHIP is a team of two, compromising every single day to make it work. And believe me it is a great work.

There are emotions, which should not be played with. If after trying your best and talking out things with him, yet you see no improvement, take a break (not break-up). This will give you the room to realize if the situation can be handled by you or you are done convincing him. This break will make him understand that you are not taking the matter likely and his actions affect you. Let him know that you need some time to analyze the situation and want him to also ponder over the matter.

My Boyfriend still talks with his ex

If after this much efforts he still cheats and sneak around with his ex and your gut feeling tells you he won’t change, it’s probably a red flag too big to ignore. There is a big room for an exit. “It’s a Relationship” not marriage.
www.relationshipwithnita.com

I don apply . I’ll feed you guys back

SEGLABSY OMO WERE . HIV LAHUNJE

Buruku

Candidlady:
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buruku or brukutu?

Omo buruku

Candidlady:
Iwas once taggd irresponsible cuz iwas smoking.. Til date istil hate that girl

funny thing was that, this so called girl was taking alcohol. And me icant drink witowt smoking it wont flow.

the e'd'yot girl went bout teln ppl am a chimney that shes sure am irresponsible

smoking has never in anyway defined my life. Things only got owta palms when istartd doing drugs


>>curently dragin my captain black in peace<<

¤whatever you do in life moderation must/should be your daily donut/nugget¤

Hmm money talks bullshits ……..

drizslim:
A Nigerian lady has asserted that true love does not exist for the mere fact that money can easily be used to snatch someone’s partner.

She took to Twitter to state that a man would realise that his girlfriend doesn’t really love him.

The lady with username @HunchoSamG wrote
Make person transfer 500k give your babe first, na that time you go know say true love no exist
She’s not your babe na just your turn. Unless you fit double the money send give m lol.”

Read some comments below..

@mira_dew; Why you shouldn’t date a broke babe in the first place

@luthershakurr; Some will reject and start acting up you know. All your shortcomings they used to overlook will then become very glaring and too much to cope with.

@marshallzugo007; True love exists. Just because you haven’t seen it yet doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Try and adjust this mentality “everybody has a price but sometimes it not about money”

If she got tight cunt and standing nipples we ain’t finna call her PROSTITUTE . A prostitute will always have the sign of been called prostitute , we don’t get lag . We keep the road running

siofra:
If it's a Nigerian girl now, you'll call her prostitute and cheap

Iyaebe was serious for the very first time on Nairaland

Iyaebe:
You mates are in the lab trying to find cure to several diseases and here you are giving reports of your misdoings. May God help you

WERE bonire yooooo ki ireleteeelowo….

Beebah2000:
Mtchewww
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Na she put am there

Egbon YOU DON LOSE BODY COUNTS

YoungRay007:
I remember when I visited Thailand last year, I noticed that Asian ladies were very beautiful and sexy. I slept with Indian, Chinese and Thai ladies. But it was the Japanese ladies that burst my head. Those ladies have a very tight pussy and standing brest, they cry out loud when I am banging them and this intensify the pleasure. Share your experience

You are BOOGYMAN557 .

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram I have been waiting 4 ur riply man. thanks man. Jah bless man. WTF MAN

You are nobody . In Ibadan. In UI

Met her early this year. Flew in from the states because of her. The relationship has been a dream come true but.....
I'm a single father and ladies tend to turn me to an ATM once they know who I really am. The money is not a problem but this relationship is just too sweet to allow it crash. I've been so deceptive to the extent that she virtually feeds me and pays my bills. All of them.Not knowing that I've bought a house for her close to her area. Amongst so many other things I've done for her in secret without her knowledge. I did this because I'm a master at eating breakfast. Can someone advice me on how to break the news to her and if you were her how will you feel for what I've done. I'm not new to this forum so I'll be expecting your insults and positive contribution.
PS. I want to marry her thus this inquiry.

Lies

NovesaTillie:
I am still very young (late twenties) and vibrant and beautiful and juicy downstream but I find myself recently considering marriage into a polygamous home maybe as the 3rd or second wife and I want to know what you think of this.
I find myself to be independent and really like having my space to myself, I also want to keep enjoying my life even in marriage but with less attention from the husband which I won't enjoy should I settle for the regular one man and one woman kind of marriage. In polygamy the man has too much honeypot to go round and lots of children to play with and that takes away much fixation on only one wife.
No everyday by fire and water fvncking, my buubs will not slack, I will travel round the world and still keep my job and my space..

Northernkistans

fergie0o1:
@ Bashir Ahmad

This design is scarce as ****. I got mine in UAE

Khazakhistan ya lol

Hmm

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder

Sighted

Solatium:
Can't tell him how he should spend his Money,but paying hospital bills of distressed people or Building about 6 mega health care center/ maternity home would have had more impact.
All these orphanages and foundations na scam jàre

Never wish your fellow man bad

Andyvilly:
Sawlormi dey efcc custody, nairalanders plz help a brother out.

JEALOUSY IS A DISEASE . Try to change your mindset about things . If someone pass you , you self pass other people .

Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

FORM SICK . If they ask for the money tell them you have issue with kuda bank to escape tonight . 2moro In oworitpkwo voice get their money ready because sickness go form you and you won’t be able to form sick

googlepikins:
I need advice please.

I used our area vigilante group money to arrange 2 draws 2 weeks ago, but it didn't go well.

My neighbour just called me that they're currently at my gate with sticks angrily waiting for me.

I don't know if they just want to discuss or they have something bad in their mind.

I don't know why people can't control their anger issues.

What should I do

OZUMBA MBADWE

Ode

Iyaebe:
Go to redpill thread, that's where deportees are gathered

MULE

Winters23:
I made $2m legit from home in 2 months. Who needs abroad when you can work abroad from home.

This bro need need support . Send me the link to your song on audio Mack

Give her belle now and thank me later