I can see that funny op want to reconcile. Mark my word u will regret it if u do. Leave d girl.. We have been in similar situation. People wey love u don advise u say make u leave.. u still wan follow d girl talk. E go soon clear for ur eye.

If ure yet to understand confidence and money.. u can't understand girls. just understand those 2 things.

Zzor:
Lets see this from a neutral angle, should the lady go into marriage with him just because of what he did for her? what if he's someone your soul doesn't truly accept, forget the spending part from the man, she also reciprocated one way or the other.As for me I can't go into marriage with someone my soul does not accept even if you have spent millions on me,i just can't, ladies should also learn not to be greedy sha,dont receive from someone you can't stick with except he's freely doing it without any ulterior motives because some men can do volunteer work for ladies just to prove a point

And your soul could accept all those money, gift and etc then right? The point is u ought to have trashed this thing out since d beggining of d relationship rather than giving d man hope of marrying u and back out in d future.

tayewomi:
bro i really salute you gan ooo am asl going through the same in my relationship but i just think my peace of mind matters a lot like many times av attempted to beat hell out of her due to her attitude she's a good girl but she has f9 in attitude,am done with relationship for now am only looking for friends with benefits..

Lol chief. Next time pls don't get so moved to beat a girl bcoz of her attitude.. Silence hit them more than anything. Learn to move on irregardless of the pain. Mistakes we men usually make is that.. most time we think happiness lays sorely on being in a relationship...while it starts from self love and peace. Roll with different grls and don't just catch feelings anyhow. You will definitely see dat ure d gold here. Girls wont see u as a gold if you are acting like a raw metal. Cheers

omooba969:


@bolded,

This is valuable knowledge, wisdom and understanding.

Experience taught you this, you have now attained a higher consciousness.

Quite deep!

Sure boss.. most times we need to experience somethings for us to understand things about life. Now we dey laff at those stuffs.

Rockyfancino:

This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.

I would call her for at least 30 mins trying to cheer her up and I will be met with disdain. If small thing should happen, her mood will just change, no joke can take it out.... The next day, she's still like that.

Sometimes, she'll reply me like I'm her worst enemy. To make it worse, she'll say she has nothing to say after I might have talked and talked.

It sounds like nothing, but this has been going on for a very long time, as if someone is forcing her in the relationship. To make it worse, she'll sometimes act like she's madly in love.

I keep telling her mood is like weather and she should please try and just reduce it. I later stopped calling her like before because, I don't know they what mood I'll meet if I called.

So many times, I'll talk to her for like one hour about the things she's doing that's bad. I keep telling her the same thing for a very long time now, thinking communication is key.

Something happened yesternight, she ended the call. I called her back trying to tease her back into the mood. For like 30 seconds, I was doing hello, hello, I almost thought it was the network when I was about hanging up she said she can hear me.... Okay, fine. She later then told me there's nothing to say again... Damn, she keeps saying this many times and it has started to make my head spark.

I was angry all through yesterday for personal reasons, but people can never know because I don't show it and I talk normally. Despite my state yesterday, I kept my cool after she said there's nothing to say and just told her good night but I was angry deep down.

I called her this morning (yesterday morning, it's 1:16AM currently), she didn't pick. But I didn't call a second time, because my head was just ringing 'I have nothing to say.' I don't want to be a fool again to call her and I'll be taking to empty space. So I lefty phone in my room and stayed in the sitting room all day and she already left 2 missed later.

I came back this night, called her severally and it was just doing busy. I messaged her online (luckily she was online) about the matter and immediately I tried again and it went through. Thinking now, it may be that she blocked me.

Anyways in short, she was mute at first again when she picked. Later the matter escalated and she was saying that I didn't call back. I was trying to explain why I didn't call but she was not listening... I later waited till she calmed down.

I was telling her I didn't call because I didn't want embarrassment whereby I'll be talking to her and she'll just be mute as if I'm talking to the wind. I told her I knew not calling her was wrong but she didn't listen, I told her this about 4 times.

As she was later calm, I saw it as an opportunity to explain to her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I was telling her that I don't do 1/3 of what she does and I don't often turn things against her. In the beginning of the relationship, she used to be unhappy and complain a lot when the chance comes of how I don't listen or pay attention to her I'm summary.

Now, she's got attention and she acts so bad sometimes that I wonder if any man will actually stand that. She's done so many terrible things that I cannot even mention it here but I am a forgiving type.

So, this night will I was later telling her everything about herself again that is not good for us, I talked for over 1 hour and I actually thought maybe for the first time I was really getting to her. I was even happy that maybe she'll realize that she herself cannot stand what she does to me if it's done back to her in return. I also told her that I should have called her earlier in the day.

You won't believe this girl made me realize I was wasting my saliva and she just kept quiet on purpose, and that the only thing I was doing was turning the matter on her head, and that she was going to sleep. I couldn't believe my life at first, it really pained me deeply. She was even even telling me how I can keep on blabbing if I want. I told her to get out of my phone and I hung up. I didn't even know I could become so angry and hang up a phone on someone, it just happened spontaneously. Immediately, she blocked me on WhatsApp... She had even been saying it during the course of her ranting that she'll block me.

She used to say, she's stubborn and stuff. The funny thing is she'd say that's the way she is and I should accept her that way.

Like, she can't take what she's doing to me if it's served back to her. And how she doesn't even feel guilty of what she does is what baffles me.

Very selfish human being. Another annoying thing is her Motigbo and Ok when she's chatting. This girl will say anything she likes (not that she uses insultive words tho) and I'll just keep my cool and let it slide, I will even call her the next day.

Damn... I didn't know I can be this patient in my life. Although, I guess the reason I stayed this long in it is because she's a really good person who I believe if she can just eliminate that aspect of her, she'd be very okay.

Man, u just explained d exact thing that happened to me years back. Infact na like say someone just copied my story here. See im going to advise u and i use God beg u take this advise ..im hundred percent sure it will work for u. The bitter truth is ure too much in love with dis girl and that's a turn off. The bitter truth is d girl is not peaceful she may not be a type that shout but we have some gentle unpeaceful girls. She is scanning for alternatives, im damn sure she is just from an average background (not rich background) .This is what i did that solved my problem d grl then.. I told her myself with d way things is going i see no future in d relationship cos it seems d feelings is not mutual and i couldn't get any peace from d relationship. I told her she need her peace and i need mine.that we should just give each other a break. She agreed. Note not dat it was easy for me but i realized there is no point in loving someone when u don't get it back. I knew i deserve peace more than love. So i moved on.. She called like 12times after 6 days.. I didn't pick..i was so gentle and cool like u then so she thought i wd come back. Not until she started trolling me on watsap nd facebook.After 3 months cos i was busy with learning new things that eventually changed my life. I could see peace is more valuable than love. She texted and chat to check on me. But guy don move patapata.. she went ahead to download my pic and upload.. still money and peace keeps me going.. until i later realized she is not as beautiful as i thought.. love dey blind person eye ND i later realized i was too weak for her shortcomings. Plz just zero ur mind about her no matter how painful it is..I swear u wont regret it.. forget about she doesn't cheat, forget about she is a good girl. The only thing u should ask yourself, do u get peace being in a relationship with her,do u feel loved? Move on and see how nature handles d rest.She will value u when u leave than stay . Cheers

alexvic12:

Can you continue the lesson, please?

Good, i will continue it tomorrow. Watch out

Lovalovaphunmz:
The way guys insult nigerian girls is becoming so much irritating. If u know u cant deal with dem den stop involving ursef with them. Plus nt all of us are dat bad....Meanwhile, something must have triggered the babe to break up. A sane girl will nt just wake up and walk out of a good relationship. U sef, wot have u done abi wot did u do. The constant hating on nigerian girls is just too much and it hurts. Sincerely, u should just address the babe that walked out on u and nt all of us in general. We all have stories to tell.

What makes u think a sane girl can't opt out of relationship out of greed. The truth is that most of u hardly know what u really want. Peace.

NeoWanZaeed:
this statistics show 90% of Nigerians with access to internet are dumb..

Nice analysis boss. Most Nigerians use internet for something irrelevant , they hardly see d gold in it

Why are u like this.. Are u okay at all. why will u be using someones intellectual properties.u should be arrested.. Are you boss Iyke.. U went ahead to copy someones materials and ure creating a thread for it. Be guided

KingintheNorth:
This started about 3 years ago, after my Ex girlfriend of 5yrs got married , it took me awhile to move on ,but when I now finally decided to start seeing other women, they all started acting the way .....they will want to hang out, gist ,laugh ,sex but wouldnt want to date me which is exactly what I've been looking for...
I'm good looking ,very tall have a good job .obviously to me, I don't think any girl will have any excuse for not being interested in dating me. I am tired of trying and having the same results Everytime.. Please what should I do??

Don't be too peaceful for women. They won't date you..u must fall in between being discipline and a little nice. Believe me u will attract them

TheManofTomorrow:


Here in this comment lies your dilemma

The problem is that you have too much peace and calmness in your life if I can call it that. Most ladies, especially the fun type, likes a little bit of drama in every man that they meet or will probably wanna date. They are not exactly bad girls, but that's just how ladies are wired. And I won't call you a Simp too.

All these overt acts you are doing to make them find solace in you being a nice guy and all is unnecessary and the cause of your problem.

Roll with multiple girls, have a bit of things to hide, be unpredictable sometimes, prank her, snub her, and things like that, and watch how the tides will sweep in your favor. Just find a way to balance your love for her while creating room for a little bit of drama.

Of course if all those things don't sit well with you, you can find a core mumu church girl to date, and that way, you still maintain your nature.

The only reason they are hanging around you is your cash and looks.

Perfect.. Don't be too peaceful for women. They won't date you..u must fall in between being discipline and a little nice. Believe me u will attract them

spyglaxx:



I sold my phone to learn solar installation then, and the rest is now history.

God bless u boss, excuses shouldn't hold one back when ure determined. This is just a good example for d guy to grab.

Adeboyeobj:


Motivational speaker, where do you want me to get the capital from sir?

Loll, it still mindset. You don't need to believe me, i started online business with just data and my phone. I use to be a victim of how do i get capital like u just said. But those books i read then changed my mindset .I didn't even earn up to 18k a month then. But now it's not all about the money u have to invest it's about knowing how to use that money to invest. Ire o

Adeboyeobj:
I studied criminology and security studies but still using my degree to work as a bank cleaner, earning 18k monthly
Just imagine, Nigeria do shatter dreams

All what it takes is mindset bro. Read books that will open your mind.. That salary of 500k you are dreaming of is something you can actually create yourself.. Wealth is about the kind of problem you are solving and time.

Greenbuoy:
Permission to message you, boss

No problem.

Zealoy:
Hello guys pls I will like some advice from mature minds here, there's this girl am dating she's very pretty, sexy and hard working, she loves me so much that each day that she didn't hear my voice it will seems to her as if the world is coming to an end

The problem is I didn't love her equally the same way she loves me, initially I only wanted her for sex but she's getting too attached to me, and there's one certain man of God that warmed me to dump the girl am dating, which is her, my problem is how am I going to let her go without actually hurting her feelings cuz I know quite alright that she might hurt herself if I end the relationship between us. She's dangerously in love with me and I fear it will end in tears for her.

You have d best situation at hand. As a man u need to marry a girl that actually love u more than u love her. Cheers

OBku4:
Lolz Omo na why I no dey download mt4 4 phone... make wonders no happen

Hahahaha

Dliquidmetal:
I can so relate bruh, when I don smoke or drink I usually do away with my phone in order not to place stupid trades lol, I have zero fear and risk management when I'm high as kite �

Lol u understand boss. i be type wey no dey drink.

Entrying a buy trade on my phone without closing the trades.. like say i dey swing trade, come see how account dey bleed in the morning. D funniest thing is that i didn't know when i open my phone talk less of pressing buy. Alcohol is a bad thing

EMEKUSBOY9:


That is a sign of a greedy man.....


Dnt marry any man who only think about his own happiness.

God bless u. That's exactly my thought. But she can still make one more push to see if d man worths it

Localchampion:

Thanks, I just do pity him because hes the one that cares about his friends, what they will say if he breaks up with me, as he has actually overhyped me with his friends and families. As for me, I don't even have friends or discuss him with anyone.
Hes the one that would not allow his friends to hear word again that he has a wife to be already, all those things are even exhausting to me because I don't like him portraying me as perfect, its emotionally stressful for me, as I would have to live up to that where his family and friends are.

It is well sis, just try and try hold on a bit. Give it a push once more

You are a rare gem dear, u know what, try and sit him down ,talk to him with love and try as much as possible to know his plan regarding your relationship nd his career. If he is still not giving u d chance... Stop the relationship or else u will regret it

I have not had sex with him yet but I want to. I can see you are not cheap. Anu e shemi

Don't give up, just keep pushing d biz. Try and look out for a good marketing plan and strategy. u will be fine

Like say make i slap d guy sha.

Adex2442:

Is it a woman?

loll na sissy o

In the first place, why will u call this one a man.

Nice step.. Good news

Your inner peace is d koko.. I will go for the girl if im in ur shoes.

My real nigga

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