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She has contracted that demon.
How can she indulge in such if she has a boyfriend. It was would have been disgusting an act to her.

Becos it wasn't quit. I advice you quit. It depends on your kind of person.

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DoTheNeedful:
Black man and black brain Mandating public school teachers to withdraw their kids from private schools is an infringement on their rights and i dont think that is in consonance with any labour laws.
People have the right to send their kids to wherever;thats why i dont join people to clamour for our leaders to stop sending their kids wherever. Our leaders should just be morally guided enough to make our schools globally competitive and we citizens should demand just that.

fellow Nigerian, this is one way to improve the plight of Public schools.
Let those Public sch. Teachers share the Melon amongst the pupils including their chilidren for breaking.
Let them Gossip from morning till the end of the day at the expense of their children-pupil.
The teachers are the major problem in the system. I rest my case!!

#BlackIsBeautiful

Well Done OP,
But you've only succeeded in expressing your dislike or rather strong Hatred for NYSC. This scheme is just what you make it. And If they've made it compulsory, there are reasons for such. Your duty then is to 'find-out'. Why

Nevertheless, I have a different view to yours, it might trigger a rethink.
Oya,

1. ONLY THE YOUNG PAY THE PRICE WHY
Pointless, sorry to say.

2. TOO MANY UNCALCULATED RISK
Young people die everyday. Even outside NYSC. 'Who go die go die', meaning 'What will be will be. No be NYSC kill them.

3. MANDATING NYSC INCONSISTENT WITH LIBERAL RIGHTS
We need the help of the Keyamos here, am not a lawyer.

4. MANDATING NATIONAL SERVICE DRAINS ITS VIRTUE
You dont have any point here OP so i dont have anything to say. Suffice it to say that number four is 'pointless'

5. NATIONAL SERVICE DISTRACTS US FROM OUR CAREER
Rust because you chose to, ask questions, and see discover how alot of youths bettered their lot via NYSC. There are lots of ways you can do same with all the free time. It is a matter of Choice.

6. INCREASE IN IMMORALITY
Haba, cases like this also happens everyday outside NYSC.
Again, you choose what you do with your life OP.
NYSC did not make you silly enough to lay with infants, become a whooore and a woman or girl rapper. Its a Choice. Not a function of NYSC

7. WE ARE BAD TEACHERS, BAD ROLE MODELS
IF for instance you studied Mathematics in school and by virtue of NYSC you are deployed to teach Mathematics at a secondary level. The only reason you cant perform is cause you are a Half-bake Grad... First, you are a 'quack graduate' which naturally translated to a 'quack teacher'

8. IT IS TOO EXPENSIVE
Telling us NYSC should be Voluntary because its expensive. Dont make any sense. Especially to me. Perhaps you meant to say: NYSC should scrapped because its expensive. Or how can Volun reduce the cost.
Tempted to say you dont have any point hia.

9. NYSC SHOULDN’T STOP US FROM LIVING
I see corp members on transit almost on daily basis. Ask corp members how often they travel and get shocked. The only exceptions are those in the north, but hail from south. Relocation is also allowed.
You can't miss your fathers burial, haba!! Be sincere for once.

10. WE ARE TIRED
I wonder the people you referrign to as 'WE'. and how you got to know that they (WE) are tired? Comments or Omotola? Always speak for yourself and you alone.

Hope i have been able to convice and not confuse you

Moreover, If that Post can hit FP, this one wont be an exception. Especially being more...

Neither Do i need to copy anyone?
Good Morning.

world1:
Snails and grasscutter both feed on grasses but there are some kind of concentrate feeds for them, they also feed on maize, vegetables, some specific kitchen waste and industrial waste from breweries and food companies “majorly for grasscutter”.

Thanks Sir, I've been thinking of both.

This thread will be so much helpful.

Emasky4real:
Source:http://taiwoemayosan..com/2015/08/8-reasons-you-should-never-take-private.html

Your comments are welcomed below.

OP how could you advice people to quit managing a private school without proffering alternative Jobs they can make do with till the dream job comes.

For this sole reason, your post is incomplete.

Nelkoko:
APCPERSS......ALL PROGRESSIVE CONGRESS PROPAGANDA -E- RATS SALARY SCALE

i tire for persons like you.

The greatest enemy of man is himself.

menesheh:
Where is jesus

Be careful we're not suppose to joke with everything. No, not someone else's religion.
Be very careful with your life. Just an advice

natas22:
Those two don't know there rights the soldier doesn't have the right to treat them this way. What the two did is totally wrong but they don't deserve such humiliation.


They suppose to sue the soldier

I don't think you can tell this to the Soldier if given the opportunity.
Its the way he has chosen to react to the mess. Others could go for a GUN,
Which is better?


My thought

Dannyabu:
My Wife Lied About Her Age

Four years ago at 35, I married my wife, who I thought was 35. We both wanted children, but unfortunately, she had miscarriage in the second year and stillbirth in the third year. We began consulting a fertility specialist.

After she started asking questions, my wife admitted she is actually eight years older than she had led me to believe. She's 47 years old! She's cried and cried, begging for my forgiveness.

She's gone to try fertility treatments to get pregnant, but I don't want her to continue that for health reasons. I have forgiven her but as an African man; I'm NOT willing to consider the adoption option. She says, of course, that she feared I would walk away if I knew the truth, but she must have known it would come out sometime, somehow. I think I still love her, she is really a wife material, respectful, lovable and very industrious lady but I feel so betrayed! Letting a husband believe you're years younger than you are with all the implications for child-bearing, is a grotesque deception. Sometimes, I'm always wondering if some things she says are the truth. Moreover, after all the wahala and years in-between, her beauty has really waned. She now looks old! We have become butts of joke from neighbours and even strangers when they see us walking together. I look way younger than she is.

I think of getting another wife, but that has not been my person. I think of divorce, but where do I start? Have I wasted 4 years of my life just like that? We still have faith that miracles do happen. Our pastor has asked me to forgive her and move on, that my ability to forgive her will make her more loyal and obedient to me. She is a naturally good person, but for this act of deception.

Maybe if my wife had been honest with me from the beginning, knowing her age I would have adjusted my planning and expectations for children. But she lied. Should I prove her right in her assumption that when I found out the truth, I would walk away? Any thoughts on helping us get through this? I have given all my resources to make this marriage work.

I need matured and sincere advice please!

kudos for still loving...
For still loving, the only option might be adoption.
I wonder why a 'wife material' would tell such a dangerous lie.

Keep believing God OP miracles still happen.

ladyF:
Chai dis one worse pass football age scam
Its [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

How much are you paid for all these. Just wanna know.

LordMecuzy:
Eyinnaya Abaribe These APC Senators and their Propaganda against Jonthan's men self..

Is Introvert and LadyF asleep?

Its high time we Nigerians started telling ourselves the hard truth.
What particular software does an office, a company or a parastatal keep acquiring year in, year out at such exhorbitant rate.

Lets call a spade a spade!! Yes! We all know the truth is bitter.

Well said brother.

Of a truth, Christianity is turning into something else.
The worse is that in the eyes of many, the use of holy ghost fire is very much right.
Some even prefer it to the use of the name Jesus.
Who will tell them that there's nothing like Holy ghost fire.

Alot of people has gone astray.

nonnyno:
Last Monday night I was awakened by the unusual screams and shouts of prayers emanating from a nearby compound. I quickly decided to pay attention to the pattern of the prayers which were somehow strange to me, coming from a catholic background. From my apartment I became an uninvited observer since the noise from the prayer had already ruined my precious sleep.

Throughout the prayer session, I noticed that shouts of ‘Holy Ghost Fire’ Fire, Fire and ‘die by fire’ dominated the prayers. This was repulsive and I thought to myself that it is one of the destructive patterns of prayers being propagated by some new generation churches nowadays. Not long ago I shared my thought with a colleague during an argument on this pattern of prayer especially the wrong use of the Holy Ghost Fire which I not only consider destructive but also dangerous. Coincidentally, I am sharing my thought again on this topic a week after the Pentecost was commemorated in our churches.

I was raised in a catholic family although my parents later converted to Assemblies of God which is also a moderate, not too aggressive or radical church. In Catholic Church we have routine pattern of prayer which we follow religiously and are not used to the destructive and offensive pattern of prayer that is somehow becoming in vogue in our churches that even the charismatic in the Catholic Church have copied it. Catholics are usually gentle and humble in prayers. They appeal and plead to God with great reverence and adulation, like a child seeking favour from his father. It is never in their nature to use coercion to obtain favours from God. That is exactly the way I was raised.

Until late 90s and early 2000, this kind of violent prayer pattern was not very rampant. It rather got sway immediately many prayer houses and new generation churches began to spring up in great numbers. In fact things took a new turn in our primordial prayer pattern once the hunger for spiritual powers and miracles stole the minds of Christians. Since then things have not been the same. Church has become a booming business where both the called and the uncalled compete with one another, each trying to outsmart the other. To reach the pinnacle of the business, some men of God have even gone fetish and brought in strategies that should not be ordinarily acceptable in Christianity religion. That is if churches are being regulated.Call it creativity or deception, but these men of God have a way of manipulating the bible and twisting the interpretations of the verses to bamboozle their followers and also suite their style of worship. They get their members spellbound that they forget themselves and start worshipping their pastors and not God. In some cases the pastors tame and hypnotize their followers that they lose their common sense and become incapable of deciphering the good spirit from the bad spirit. Remember that the bible says that every spirit must be put to test but this is no longer adhered to. Christians are gradually losing their inner spiritual eyes as they are busy running after miracle workers and prophets who now decide their fates.

In their uncanny ways, some of these new generation pastors have come up with an aggressive pattern of prayer whereby members shout, scream, wail and issue threats to the devil and their enemies all in the name of prayer. I would not mention names of churches that operate in this way for security reasons but they are numerous, some very notable with large congregation. In these churches, prayer has now assumed a new dimension where we can issue commands and orders to God with boldness. They often refer to book of Matthew 11:12 where it says that the kingdom of God suffers violence and the violent men take it by force.

Now, to my main concern for writing on this topic which I mentioned earlier – that Holy Ghost fire is being abused and misused. Honestly, I cannot say if it is by mistake, lack of knowledge of the bible or ignorance that has made some Christians tend to misconceive the fire of the Holy Spirit for a destructive fire which can be used to attack and destroy the enemies and evil spirits at will. Holy Ghost fire is also being converted to missiles and other weapons of destructions that we now hear of Holy Ghost missile, Holy Ghost thunder, Holy Ghost arrows, Holy Ghost bullet etc in our churches. This is a very dangerous trend and must be addressed. That there is fire in Holy Ghost does not necessarily signify that it is a consuming fire which burns and hurt like the normal flames we know. The fire of the Holy Ghost is rather holy.

furthermore, in my quest to unearth the basis for which some of my fellow Christians had to adopt this style of prayer, I had to research my bible just to be sure that I am not the one that is ignorant of the teachings of Christ as I am not a wonderful bible student. The first thing that came to my mind during that spiritual exercise was where Jesus promised his disciples that he will send them a comforter, the Holy Spirit in John 16:7. The second was the book of Acts 2:1 – 47 where the Holy Spirit manifested himself to the disciples in a tongues of fire during the Pentecost and they started speaking in tongues. Fortunately, the Pentecost week just ended and the teachings during that period revolved mostly on what Christians should do to receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. I am not wrong therefore to believe that the Holy Ghost is a helper, a comforter, a guide, a counselor, an advocate. I was more convinced after hearing the message of the pentecost that the Holy Spirit is friendly and not a wicked spirit.

How then did we come about this idea of using the Holy Spirit to destroy and attack the enemies of our faith? Could it be from the book of Hebrew 12:29 where it says that our God is a consuming fire? I searched more and deeper into the bible but did not see any verse where neither Jesus Christ nor the early disciples used the fire of the Holy Spirit to destroy things. It was not even used to cast away demons and the evil spirits rather we were instructed by Jesus in the book of Mark 16:17 to cast demons in his name. The much I know of the Holy Ghost fire is that it descends on believers and endow them with gifts which they will use to serve God. In fact, to the best of my understanding I see the Holy Ghost as a very benevolent, replenishing spirit which every Christian needs for renewal and to be equipped for the ultimate mission of propagating the gospel of Jesus Christ.

interestingly, the most striking aspect of this misnomer is the manner at which brethren respond and echo Holy Ghost fire when prayers are being said. I noticed from all the church programmes I have attended recently, that people participate more in prayers at that point where Holy Ghost fire is mentioned. Everybody suddenly gets involved in the prayer even those that had dozed off and where hitherto absent-minded. They would not mind screaming Holy Ghost fire the whole day provided that it is channeled at destroying and burning their enemies. In some ministries, members of the congregation are often asked to stretch their hands toward a certain direction and names will be mentioned while Holy Ghost fire will be echoed. I am guilty of this also but at some point in my Christian life I decided not to swallow every teaching hook, line and sinker without seeking to know if my bible supports it. After all we all have access to the bible.

My understanding is that our manner of praying is a reflection of our kind of persons. We are living in a wicked world full of evil and destructions. These evils are being perpetrated by people and not spirits. The hearts of men are evil and that is why in our prayers and in churches we unwittingly pour out our heart. It is malicious and vicious to wish our enemies dead to the extent of calling on Holy Ghost fire to come down and burn them to ashes. Some churches have even composed songs asking Holy Ghost fire to pursue and burn their enemies, this is wrong. Is it not the bible that says in the book of Matthew 5 verse 44 that we should love and pray for our enemies?I had once imaging what would be our fate should Holy Spirit hearken to these our malicious prayers and respond by fire, probably we will all be dead. God’s way is different from ours, anyway. He is not vindictive, he is not malicious and he is not destructive. He is a merciful God and that was why Jesus Christ forgave those that crucified him. Therefore as Christians, we must learn to forgive.

It is also disappointing that this pattern of prayer is more peculiar to the black Africans especially my Nigerian Christians as the Europeans who brought Christianity to the shores of Africa do not pray in this manner. Why should we Africans always identify with the negativism. The truth is that we often celebrate the travails of others and consciously or unconsciously we reflect it in our religious practices. I suggest we ponder and reflect on some of our actions as Christians to know if they are in consonance with the teachings of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Let us not be hypocrites that pay lip service and parade about with bible. I also doubt if any denomination can have such pattern of prayer entrenched in its doctrines because the bible still remain the basic tool and book of teachings in Christendom.

Whoever brainwashed us in this regard should realize that as Christians, we are expected to emulate the life and teachings of our lord and savior Jesus Christ. Therefore abusing and misusing the Holy Ghost fire makes our Christian faith to appear tenuous. I call on our religious leaders, clergies and religious bodies to help us correct this negative trend of using Holy Ghost fire as a weapon of destruction. I also wish to suggest that the ugly trend be looked into and our Christian folks reoriented on the basic tenets of the bible. Churches should also review their theology curriculum and hastily do away with any subject that encourages the aggressive and violent use of Holy Ghost fire as a weapon of destruction. Only those who love violence, pray in violent manner but Christianity does not support violence, after all Jesus Christ taught us humility and virtue, and not violence.

My advice to my fellow Christians is that we should stop following the bandwagon and the foolish majority,rather we should be watchful for there are many false prophets in town seeing visions and performing miracles. Do not be deceived by their antics.

https://chukwunonsoabugublog./2015/05/27/our-dangerous-prayers-using-holy-ghost-fire-as-a-weapon-of-destruction/

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YEA, am proud to be a Nigerian.

PhockPhockMan:
I'm Speechless.

he's not a pastor with that 'swead'

Source: if you are caught. My hand no dey.

Nnaeb:
I intended to share this on this platform at a later date but, the thread I saw yesterday prompted me to do this now. I feel very deep inside of me that I have a solution to someone’s challenge. It mustn’t be everybody.

The thread was asking if there is any hope for a 2.2, third class and pass graduate in the Nigerian labor market.

The answer is an emphatic YES. There is hope, opportunity and there is grace for them. As a matter of fact I know a handful of persons that have good jobs (not business) without a degree. So what are you saying? The truth is that it does not guarantee to be an easy ride, but I sure guarantee you that you will find it interesting and adventurous. It will be an experience and a discovery of the ability that God embedded in you.

You have to understand that Failure is the best backdrop upon which success is painted. No one should make you fill you have not gotten a job because of your ‘poor’ grade in school. No. there are still quite a number of first class and 2.1 students roaming the streets searching for jobs. So many factors contributes to this unemployment rate. Top most of them all is the fact that the jobs are scarce to an extent, then secondly, a high percentage of our graduates has learnt absolutely nothing.

I conduct interviews on a monthly basis, so I can confidently tell you this. The essence of the 2.1 benchmark recruiters or employers place on job adverts is just to reduce traffic and make their job a bit easier. Nobody is blown away by your grade during the interview, it is not even up for discussion. That is why at the end of the day, the best candidate is taken from amongst them and the rest goes home. So below are 5 difficult steps to land your dream job as a 2.2 and third class grad.

1. Decide on the kind of job you want


I understand there could be numerous justifiable and funny reasons why you couldn’t make first class or 2.2. Probably you lost interest in your course of study and did not give it your best shot. It could also be that you gave it your best shot, but your efforts were frustrated by your ‘wicked lecturers’ or by some ancestral or village deity (lol).

For some others you were just clueless and careless in your first year in school, but by the time you sat up in subsequent years, the damage has been done already and you really wished you can turn the hands of time. For some folks even, you deserve not to even succeed in life considering the way you conducted yourself on campus that landed you here. But whatever is your own story, just put that behind you and take a decision. Life has never been fair. Life does not give people what they deserve but what they demand for. Decide on the kind of job you want and attract it. This life you see is more spiritual than it is physical.

2. Enlarge your capacity

What can you do? You must be able to answer this million dollar question. Your answer to this question in the face of opportunity could be the game changer for you. You know your grade is poor already. So you just don’t have something to prove but everything. Right now you don’t have a choice but to be the best at something. Acquire a skill that is relevant in your job choice. Get a professional certification (forget about masters for now), work on your communication skill and professional poise, work on your personal branding. Image and perception is everything. Exude the confidence and aura of a Harvard MBA grad.

3. Don’t apply for advertised jobs


Don’t wait for a vacancy to be advertised before you apply for a job. It limits your chances. As a matter of fact some of the adverts has already place a 2.1 benchmark on the qualification. So what do you do? Even when there is not bench mark, the recruiting firm or HR has a lot of 1.1 and 2.1 CVs to contend with. So yours won’t get anybody’s attention. So you don’t have to be applying for advertised jobs. God gave us the ability to create. Where there is no vacancy, you can create one. How? See no. 4

4. Proposals not CVs

Improve your business writing skills. Learn how to write proposals because that is what you will be needing, not CV. Start selling yourself and the value you can bring to the system. The private sector is result and productivity driven. Do a convincing proposal to the company, stating how you can contribute in improving either their bottom line, accountability, security, maintenance and operations, image, communication and market expansion. This is what consultants do and most of them don’t do anything special. Do a good proposal and attach your CV to it.

5. Networking

Start building a strong network. No matter the grade you graduated with, a strong network can help you land your job. Like I said in my last article, one good contact is worth more than a hundred CVs submitted at random. Seek to meet with Business owners, by pass Recruitment agencies and HR. build relationships with people that have decision making ability. They are in your churches. You can meet them in clubs. Just focus on building strategic relationship with industry executives. Do things for people without being paid. Volunteer to serve on different platforms where your ingenuity will be felt. Don’t be in a hurry to brandish your CV or inundate people with calls because you are looking for a job. Employers are interested in what you can do and what you have the potential of achieving. By pass the long queue and seek for employer’s attention.

Like I said, you don’t just have hope. You have grace.



http://jobtrends.com.ng/job-hunting-tips-for-2-2-and-third-class-job-seekers/

Op this is a matured piece. You said it all.
You said it all.
I appreciate.

Temysteve:
en en, so dat dey can Bleep d gal d second time shey?

we are too desperate. Thats ma point.

Toks2008:
But come to think of it,raping a lady is not that easy except the man dey high.

My kini is too gentle and kind because once i hear pleasee dont na to stop be that. How man go enjoy wettin the other person no gbadun cos i taught the beauty of sex is to hear lovely tunes from the other person like oooh yes yes do it yes give it to me i loveeee yooouuu ohhhh....

manliness helps them.

Na you sabi the other tunes bros.

johnstar:
what does 'win to nil' means??

say, Home win to nil, YES means home team would beat away team without the away team scoring.
NO means the otherwise.

So long as the away team scores, you win, any other outcome of the match doesn't matter to you.

Keep up the good work.

And thanks u made me discover win to nil

Toks2008:
Rape is the last thing that will ever cross my mind even if im super sex starved.

Simply because you have a matured mind bro

Palmwinetapper:
Where here photo

Is like finding a Diamond

Pangea:
“I had to start making calls to other universities where she could secure admission and someone told me she they could be helped to gain admission into the Olabisi Onabanjo University with that score.

The kind of result we get when we're DESPERATE and i blame the papa Shola for all.

Nonetheless
Papa Shola i know another lecturer in AAU, i think he can be of help.
Shola must be an undergraduate.


Nonsense!!

Small-Stout Kind Of Pikin

Those so called well-wishers sef.
They think placing adverts will make Mr kachukwu bless them.

Low mentality...

Proof that an earphone can cause a danage as severe as this within 6hours.
Proof it.