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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 6:15am On May 22, 2016
So much tears here these days and painfully, they are not tears of joy. Why do we mourn as if we do not have a God? Be comforted sisters.


One thing i've come to realize in my journey with God is that His time is not only the best but perfect as well. He's the master planner. You think having a positive bfp is the best anniversary/birthday gift but God has a greater gift for you on an ordinary day. When God does His thing, everything is arranged in such a beautiful way that you wonder how come everything just fit together perfectly. Stay strong sisters.

Numbers 23:19 says God is not a man, that he should lie; neither the son of man, that he should repent: hath he said, and shall he not do it? or hath he spoken, and shall he not make it good? My beautiful sisters, it is well. Wipe your tears and smile. God will surprise you all when you least expect it.

My advice to all is to stop symptom spotting. Please. That's what makes us cry when af shows. I'm not saying we shouldn't have faith or keep hope alive but let it not get us worked up. When you are in your 2ww, keep busy. Do whatever you can to remove your mind from it. I for one dont know the date of my next af. I decided on that a long time ago. Even when dh tries to talk about it, i stop him. It has helped me a lot. Whenever it comes, i say, you don come? But i know someday it will not come and i might be a week late before i notice. Anything to keep my sanity and help me not to cry whenever i see it. So far it has helped me. Please try it.

omowunmigan, it is well with you daughter of zion (i know you're a muslim but that's what you are) God bless you woman of patience. Woman of faith. God is changing your name. Dont worry, your testimony will shake both christendom and islam. People will come from far and wide to see your children. It is well with you. Just keep strong. You were specially created by an Awesome God.

To all those who got their bfps, i say congratulations. You're not permitted to come back here but to graduate to the new born babies thread. Happy bumping.

@all, it is well. May God bless us and shine his face on us. Amen. I leave you all with this bible passage, Luke 1: 45, And blessed is she that believed: for there shall be a performance of those things which were told her from the Lord.

Fertility blessings.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 9:03am On Apr 23, 2016
fruitfulwoman:
In other news, mamas please help me o. I no say i no dey answer questions grin Thats because i dont know anything o. My case is more spiritual than physical. Okay. Make i ask. I have searched for omega 369 everywhere online in naija but i no see. Can i buy them seperately, omega 3, omega 6 and omega 9? Na d same thing? Or please suggest where i can get. Na village called state capital i dey o. So no suggest pharmacy.

Secondly, can i take vitamin e throughout my cycle? And what dosage please? I'm going all out this cycle to increase my progesterone because my pms every month no be here o. My n.i.p.p.l.e.s are so painful, its as if they want to fall off, toothache, dizziness. Mild cramping and spotting started yesterday and af na till monday o. I plan on taking from CD 1 vitamin c, vitamin e, vitamin 6, vitamin 12, omega 369, cyclogest if i see am buy. Is it too much? Before i go do from inside hot pot into fire o. Thanks.

Who know the answers to these questions and waka pass, you go dey see my fat face every five minutes o. grin
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 5:12pm On Apr 22, 2016
@praiseworks, my dear, na so. My inlaws bathed me with lies for over three years; till now i'm still trying to wash them off my body. That's the part i don't like at all. It means no matter what you do, they will keep lying. But not to worry my dear. Turn every lie into a prayer point. When my SIL said she was going to buy something and came back three hours later after being with a man, her sisters started covering for her. I got angry and called them liars because i know them. Dh was there with them then. When he came back, he had not entered the house for five minutes before he took me to task on calling his family liars. The first time he has ever confronted me over his family in three years plus. I was surprised. He asked me if he has ever insulted my family. I told them i didnt insult them, i just stated the fact. He got angry. I didnt say anything again but kept silent knowing God would vindicate me someday from their lies. Dh later apologized. Some days before his mother came to take his stepsister away, dh and i were chatting when he said he was never going to believe a word they ever say again becaise THEY ARE ALL LIARS!!! Goose pimples filled my body that instant. I shouted for joy. He has always known they lie every now and then and kinda covered up for them but that was the very first time he truly accepted it and said it out. So i was vindicated from all their lies. Just keep praying and doing good. Someday, they will eat their lies. Peace. It is well with you.
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 2:47pm On Apr 22, 2016
Towerofgrace:
@Fruitfulwoman, ewoo shocked no vex oo, I no know say e reach ur side, like I said I will do what I can if I were to be in the position not because it is easier and it is still no guarantee that they would be nice or friendly but I go do my own, whatever them do afterwards it is their headache.

I imagine if someone comes to shout or point fingers at me for no reason, infact even with a reason sef, if I don't bite the finger ehn na small e go remain how u even see me self, u go check ursef before u try that with me.
My dear, i no vex o. It just brought back painful memories. After all i did, i still got kicked in the teeth.

cheesy at bite finger. Sometimes e dey good to show craze make dem respect you. That's one thing that is paining me ehn. That i never got to show my Edo madness to them because of the sake of peace which didnt reign at the end of the day. I dey wait sha. We go reconcile one day. grin

I always pity unmarried SILs who matreat their brother's wife. Maybe because they see their mother who has lived her life and been married for years do so. I dont say anything to them because dey too go marry, then we go know wetin tortoise dey hide under e shell. My aunty who made life a living hell for my mother is currently raising 3 kids on her own because her husband rejected her and married another woman and her own MIL hated her with a passion. It also happened to one of my SIL. My dh's blood sister. Along with her family, she joined in causing commotion on our wedding day and abused dh and i and fueled some bitterness and hatred over the years. I kept her mute because i knew she was going to get her just reward. After her introduction with her bobo which the whole world knew about, bobo said e no do again. A broomstick became fatter than her then. I didnt laugh at her nor mock her but i cant lie that i felt a sense of justification. She's still single till now at 33. I'm not mocking her but we should really be careful with our actions and remember the future isnt far away. That was one of the reasons why i took thrash from my inlaws. I considered how i'd love to be treated by my daughter-inlaw. My dad complains my dh doesnt call him and my mum reminds him always that he cannot hope to reap where he did not sow because he too didnt call nor did he care for her father. What goes around comes around.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 2:08pm On Apr 22, 2016
In other news, mamas please help me o. I no say i no dey answer questions grin Thats because i dont know anything o. My case is more spiritual than physical. Okay. Make i ask. I have searched for omega 369 everywhere online in naija but i no see. Can i buy them seperately, omega 3, omega 6 and omega 9? Na d same thing? Or please suggest where i can get. Na village called state capital i dey o. So no suggest pharmacy.

Secondly, can i take vitamin e throughout my cycle? And what dosage please? I'm going all out this cycle to increase my progesterone because my pms every month no be here o. My n.i.p.p.l.e.s are so painful, its as if they want to fall off, toothache, dizziness. Mild cramping and spotting started yesterday and af na till monday o. I plan on taking from CD 1 vitamin c, vitamin e, vitamin 6, vitamin 12, omega 369, cyclogest if i see am buy. Is it too much? Before i go do from inside hot pot into fire o. Thanks.

Who know the answers to these questions and waka pass, you go dey see my fat face every five minutes o. grin

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 1:52pm On Apr 22, 2016
Tuesday - starting from 19th April, 2016.

35. Alwaystrue, 36. FOTMAG, 37. Omankem, 38. Peacefulwealth, 39. FavourMSJ, 40. Beegurl, 41. Hotmomma, 42. Lilyspringamour, 43. Precy22, 44. Waistbead 45. Mumigrace, 46. Legendsmother, 47. Janix2, 48. stina4u, 49. Redeemed 50. Rute 51. Gsawlah 52. NoLuvLost 53. Mumydidi, 54. Omowunminow, 55. Sammiejo, 56. Chyvia, 57. Babyadorable, 58. Peddylov, 59. Ayashow, 60. Ayaakanoh, 61. Perculiar, 62. Wonyi, 63. enatasha, 64. 99billiondollar, 65, cathibok, 66 Doromay, 67. Jennygurl, 68. Immibabe,

Wenesday - starting from 20th April, 2016.

69. Itissettled3, 70. Mamakendra, 71. Mummyelena, 72. Fatme, 73. Iyabejilantinla, 74. Joyfulmama, 75.Ayaayo, 76. Ayauche, 77. Safe06, 78. Prettmum, 79. Blomi, 80. Stephyberry, 81. Divinemandate, 82. Rgee 83. Babyfacenum1, 84. Glo27, 85. Contumely,86. Blessediva, 87. Joyfulmoda, 88. Iretinyeee, 89. Lovina, 90. Conyema12, 91. IyeEjima, 92. Fertilewomb, 93. Jessicafruity, 94. Mumsoon, 95. Oluwashinadara01, 96, Dazzle86, 97. Exegesis, 98. mum2bsoon, 99. Triangullar, 100. Mrsedeh, 101. Janedyke6, 102. Finecheek12,

Thursday - starting from 21st April, 2016.

103. Royal30, 104. Smithsydny., 105. Maymay1, 106. Rozeeb, 107. Lauracares, 108. Boyeen, 109. Laurasmum, 110. Spiritualgal, 111. Peddyloveh, 112. Venuss, 113. Hope43, 114. Curvilicious, 115. Zeezzy, 116. Ononmplanet, 117. Godmercy2015, 118. Kudibaby, 119. Xtiana250, 120. Ommyk , 121. Eridemilade, 122. Ibari, 123. Uwasam, 124. Praisefulmum, 125. Santagelo25, 126. Caringpro,127 Fonnyswt, 128. Odunma, 129. Stellx , 130. Anewdawn, 131. Hypraise, 132. Marjuly, 133. es33, 134. Iyabejilantilan, 135. LadyGuinivere, 136. Mamacajah,

Friday - starting from 22nd April, 2016.

137. Cuddlemoi, 138. Jadelle, 139. Kussy4, 140. Okhionkpai, 141. Ruttybabie, 142. Mydeporch, 143. Futureday, 144. Aghadiaye, 145. Diva90, 146. Hevenly,147. Amarapearl, 148. Greenpea, 149. liliamaka2003, 150. Venizia, 151. Lollyekiat, 152. Chom4shizzle, 153. Olamitie, 154. Mubzay, 155. Ejimikeokwu, 156. Mztenny, 157. Rukkington, 158. Neeky1, 159. Ijay024, 160. Momofthey16, 161. Rossy4doll, 162. Fvine, 163. Mum2SnD, 164. Ahmanim, 165. Lookingud, 166. Mommatriplets, 167.Davidolawale, 168. Somvade, 169.Oluwadamelola, 170. Nikz,


Thank you Lord for the numerous miracles and testimonies coming the way of these mamas and papas in Jesus name. Amen. We are grateful.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 1:37pm On Apr 22, 2016
@Towerofgrace, you don go touch me for where dey pain me. grin This isn't about me and i know you mean well but i did all that and a whole lot more for my in-laws yet i was still treated like thrash at the end of the day simply because of a rich man. My mother did the same thing and was even called a witch. She'd travel all the way from Lagos to the village and still enter the kitchen that evening. Let me not start naming all she and i did for our respective in-laws if not we no go comot for here today. I took rubbish and did my best because of my dh. He wanted me to be blamless. Let me not say it was all for nothing because i know God will repay me.

@praiseworks, it appears you never really had love for your in-laws from the onset. While you cannot come and go and kill yoursef for your in-laws, you sef no dey try. From some of the things you said, you should have tried to salvage the situation without making it detoriorate to that level. Just try your best to mend the gap. If after trying for awhile and no positive results, then start withdrawing slowly. Try to be blameless. Be able to beat your chest at the end of the day to say you tried your best for your inlaws before God and man. Dont worry God will reward you for your kindness in the face of hatred. Its a good thing your dh is by your side. Na dat one dey always pain dem pass. So try to remain blameless in his sight in order for them not to sow poisonous seeds in his mind. Above all, be prayerful. Prayer is the key. Say to yourself everyday, i love my in-laws. One day, you will mean it. That's what i'm trying to do. I say everyday to myself no matter how painful that i forgive my in-laws for everything they did to me because revelations from family and friends show God wants me to forgive them. Please try your best. For the sake of your own daughter in-law in future because i know you will get your bfp very soon to shame all your enemies. It is well with you.

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Literature / Re: Letting Go By Audrey Timms by fruitfulwoman: 5:17pm On Apr 18, 2016
AudreyTimms, there's a reason i love you. No homo. I love your stories so much. You write romance stories filled with a lot of lessons for everybody. You don't just write soppy love stories like some big names romance writers we have here. You write stories that make someone sit down, think and learn from it. Very few writers on nairaland do that. I don't want to mention names but i'd love that at the end of a story i'd be able to pick just one thing from the story instead of the usual boy meet girl, they fall in love, blah blah blah and the story is interesting but empty. Weldone! Please continue giving us inspiring stories.

'When we have nothing, God is our everything but when God gives us everything, He becomes nothing to us'

These words spoken by Nkiru's mother has stayed with me and made me rethink my life.

Thank you and may God continue to give you inspiration to write more in Jesus name. Amen. You're healed.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 8:30am On Apr 18, 2016
1.Tsquaure, 2.Sanrima, 3. Mumihaja, 4. Mummyejire, 5. chigirl45, 6. Pweetymii, 7. Fumbaby, 8. Lynsunny, 9. 4realwoman, 10. Melsmum, 11. CravingChic, 12. MummyEsther, 13. Tenderchic, 14. Pweetiebabe, 15. Amfertile, 16. Mumjk, 17. Happymummy, 18. Mandydaisy, 19. Rainyday, 20. Zenoj, 21. RipVanWink, 22. Mrsfrank, 23. uche13, 24. Fruitfulwoman, 25. Ejaisky, 26. Ladiva, 27. Sammiejo, 28. Dammol, 29. Ademide02, 30. Drdreluv, 31. lily19, 32. Miraclebaby, 33, Anikeayun, 34. Cionon,


Thank you Lord for the numerous miracles and testimonies coming the way of these mamas and papas in Jesus name. Amen. We are grateful.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 8:29am On Apr 17, 2016
mumigrace:
Hello all. Greetings from my end. cheesy
There's this thing that happens to me sometimes and it happened again yesterday evening while I was lying down. I occasionally have dizzy spells when it feels like the roof is turning,i'll start sweating profusely and i'll feel like vomiting. I still feel a little dizzy as I type and also stagger a little when I walk. I just can't comprehend what's going on in my body. It's not a BFP o grin because i'm on d 4th day of AF 2day. When it happened sometime last year I went to d hospital and tests were carried out but only malaria was seen. My BP was on point too. I really don't know what's going on . Pls my pple, pray for me. God bless everyone and answer our innermost heart desires.
I experience these symptoms when i'm having migraine. Very nasty feeling. As if you're about to die. It's also caused by stress. Didn't know it was migraine until my elder brother told me. We all experience it in my family thanks to my dad, the gene giver. I haven't experienced it in years though. Wasnt even married when i last experienced it. I cant say what cured it because it was when i saw your post that i remembered i havent experienced it in years.(when we dont know God answered our prayers and healed us years ago. May God save me from ingratitude)

I think you should see a doctor and explain stuff to him or follow cherrymum's footsteps. Try not to overstress yourself as well. It is well with you.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 8:19am On Apr 17, 2016
Fvine:

You starved yourself and didn't follow the full Egg Fast rule and that's why. Come over to the weight loss, weight gain thread and you'll get all the answers that you seek and more. The Egg Fast is not the only way to lose weight. It's a diet stall breaker and a quick way to crash your weight down before switching to other ways. Just click on this link www.nairaland.com/920221/weight-loss-gain-ladies-trying/71#44755961
See you there! Lots of Love Sis.
Thanks Fvine. See me expecting your bfp announcement more than my own sef. grin God will do it.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 4:21pm On Apr 16, 2016
@Fvine, please forgive me for derialing this thread. Laziness no lemme go look for the weight loss thread. I have two questions concerning the egg diet. What kind of olive oil can i use? Is Goya okay? The one called anointing oil. Secondly, do i eat fruits and vegetables during the fast make hunger no go kee me? Decided to test run the diet this morning by taking two boiled eggs for breakfast around 8am. By 10am it was as if i've never eaten before in my life. embarassed Had to go and eat moimoi. Been eating only moimoi and garri, beans and garri and sweet potato since on monday. Thank God i'm home alone. grin Want to try the egg diet next week before i start incorporating other food groups in my meals. This weightloss thing no easy o. Too lazy to exercise. Will weigh before i start next week. Thanks
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 8:44pm On Apr 15, 2016
iomoge2:

@fruitfulwoman For progesterone issue, I think it's a continuous thing, except all your hormones are balanced else u need to keep helping your body till conception and even in conception till 12 weeks.

Learnt b6 also helps with PMS and severe symptoms during early weeks.
Thanks dear. Will go for hormonal tests during my next cycle.

@sanrima, thanks.
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 10:57am On Apr 15, 2016
sanrima:

@ mama Fvine and Diamond, you both are on point with low progesterone causing spotting before af, I have been experiencing it too. But after my last AF I started taking b6, and although af is due today am yet to see any spotting or sharp pain like I have been experiencing for the past 4 months.

Thanks a lot for this. Been experiencing such since like forever. Doctor told me its just old blood coming out before the real deal but i experience the sharp pain as well. Biko, how much did you buy the b6? And the brand and dosage please. I thought i'd handled this low progesterone thing o
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 1:10pm On Apr 13, 2016
Hismercy3, congratulations. His mercy has truly spoken for you. May it speak for us all in Jesus name. Amen. May God perfects all that concerns you and this baby(ies) Happy bumping all the way.
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 11:09am On Apr 12, 2016
Sixx:

Thanks mama, pls how did u feel urs was it after ovulation like mine? Sorry 4 my marathon questions I js want a solution.
I usually dont feel it. I've only felt it once. During January af.
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 5:34am On Apr 12, 2016
Sixx:


Wow pls mama Praiseworks av bin looking 2 ask about ds worms bt don't knw how, no much info online. I usually experience some pinching, movements n rumbling tummy frm a day after ovulation to af. Infact dts now like an indicator 2 me dat no bfp. Culd ds be dt worms are eating my embryo evn b4 it has a chance 2 implant? Cud ds be d ori nwa thing? Scary...

Pls oda knowledgeable mamas, Iomoge, Olamite, I really need your contributions too. Dnt jump n pass pls
I heard about this for the very first time when i went home for xmas and herbal treatment. Someone told my mother she had the same problem when she was TTC then. She said the worm cant be completely killed only weakened. Weakened to the point it cant harm the embryo again. She said the thing moved from her womb to her leg after her herbal treatment and is just there. She has seven children.

I didnt believe it at first until i started taking the herbal concotion at home. When af came the following month, it was God damn painful. The pain kept moving from my lower stomach to where i did appendix to my back. As if the worm was restless because of the herbs. Everyone my mother told said its because of the worm. Orthodox medicine cannot cure it. No matter how you deworm, its still there. I used to deworm almost every three months in the past. I was given one bitter herbal mixture strictly for the worm to be licked every three days. That thing bitter die! My body shakes anytime i take it and the after taste remains in my mouth till the following morning. So far menstrual pain has reduced considerably and God help to be consistent in taking the herbs because they are so bitter. No bfp yet but my hope is not on the herbs but in Jesus, the author and finisher of my faith.

If you feel you have it, look for these herbal people and explain to them how it is. Dont worry. It can be handled. I really dont know how such a wicked worm entered the body and i refused the explanation of it was sent from my people because in my place, a 100 year old man cannot die naturally. Na person kill am. You can ask the herbal people how the worm came about.

This is the little i know. I hope it helps. Stay away from sugary things though.

Fertility blessings.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 1:45am On Apr 11, 2016
Where @LadyGuinivere go?
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 1:16am On Apr 11, 2016
I rebuke the spirit of depression on this thread in Jesus name. Amen. We are happy mamas.

Mamas who are down for the moment, please hang in there. It is well. My advice to you all is to take up a challenge. Please find something challenging to do to take your mind off ATC. Things like sewing, catering, hair dressing. Anything that will keep you so busy and take almost your entire time in a day. I have noticed its the siddon look thing that brings depression.


If you're underweight, try to put on some weight. If you're overweight, try to lose some weight. I tell you it will make you feel good. Traveled to see dh over the weekend and realized i lost 3kg. Dont know whether its due to the trauma i faced in the hands of MIL and SIL or the high protein diet i did last week but i felt good. See me forming agbani darego and even flirting with a guy who flirted with me (harmless flirtation o. Before una go say na person wife be dis?) Now i have a challenge to lose more weight before i see dh again and to stop his best man from calling me orobo. ATC is the least thing on my mind now because i'm now thinking of something else. Even when i was told my family friend is pregnant with her fourth child and is praying for a baby girl because she already has three boys, i didnt feel bad. Just prayed with her.


My point is find simething that will make you forget ATC for now. It's not going to be easy but try. We can do all things through Christ that strengthens us. Dh was the one who asked me about my ovulation this cycle. Dont care about it anymore. Sarah wasnt ovulating before she conceived Isaac abeg. We cannot come and go and die because of ATC when God is still on the throne.

Exodus 14:14 says, The Lord shall fight for you and ye shall hold your peace. When you have done it all, then it's time to hold your peace.


I pray for miracles for us all that will make people forget to close their mouths in Jesus name. Amen.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 8:32pm On Apr 05, 2016
mompurity2:
this was exactly what made me change my approach towards TTC and not less than 2 month I let go and let God (whilst doing my own part) I fell preggy. May God reward you with a BFP sooner than u expect in Jesus name.
AMEN!!!
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 9:09am On Apr 05, 2016
@Fvine, it is well with you. You shall hear only good news from now on.

@Twogreatnations, congratulations. I tap into your victory and testimony. God knows if i get my desire of a twin boy and girl, i go hang boots. Not going down this ATC road again abeg!

@enatasha, i feelz you. You just ginger my swagger. I started my weight loss journey on friday. After that, God being the provider, na to change wardrobe. Which kain life? Na my world bad pass? Two days ago my 32 year old cousin call me dey beg me make i find husband for am na. Is there not more to life than having babies? If i die tomorrow, the kain flogging wey God go give me ehn. Because he go ask me the mission wey e give me weda i complete am? Instead i don tear e glorious robes finish because of twins. May God have mercy on us and grant us joy. Amen.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 10:41pm On Apr 03, 2016
mamakendra:
Ok. So I spoke to nazablossom with the number that was provided on this thread. In a bid to protect her privacy, she does not want her account details posted on NL, but if you want to assist her in any way, call or text her, she will send it to you. My sisters pls dont post it here unless she says otherwise.
A song just came to my mind. #What so ever you do to least of my brothers, that will be done unto you, when I was hungry.........
God bless you. Even if its 1k lets help a sister in need.
Fertility blessings y'all
Lets keep hope alive
Thanks for the info. Was wondering how to go about it. Not that we have much but dh and i believe in sacrificial giving. Will tell him to contact her directly since he's the one with the cash at present. God i know will change her story soon.
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 7:20am On Apr 02, 2016
Happy birthday 4realwoman. May God continue to bless you and keep you in Jesus name. Amen. May He open the flood gates of heaven and shower you with inumerable blessings. Amen. I wish you all you wish yourself today and more, mama.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 8:56pm On Apr 01, 2016
Good evening mamas. Happy new month. Please i'm so sorry for my long post yesterday. Just saw it and i was like, did i type all that? Hmm...what i'd been swallowing for three years which excalated in one month is the cause. Thank you all for your prayers, words and picture of encouragement. I took all that thrash because of dh. He wanted us to be blameless when we stood before God in His court of justice and in the eyes of men as well because he knew his mother would be filled with accussations in the end. I'm someone who naturally takes crap from someone for a long time but the day i say i no do again, nothing changes my mind. No amount of begging because i usually give people a long rope and unfortunately, they tie themselves with it. Dh was scared i was getting to the point where i would personally throw the girl and her stuff out one day in his absence and spoil my period of silence and rights to call for vindication and also i was no longer his jovial and funny wifey, that was why he inisted on her leaving then not after her waec. And we have already paid for the waec registration and all that but we have let it go. God will replenish us on the money we spent on her. Even her school fees is wasted because a teacher just brought her result. My God! She barely passed two subjects out of twelve subjects. My God is already vindicating me. To Him be all the glory. I'm officially moving to #teamfebruary2017forsupernaturaldeliveryofmytwins since dh won't be around when O comes this month because he can't take permission to come again next week.

Thank you all again. May God visit each and everyone of us soon. Amen.

Oh my God. Another epistle. Make una pardon me abeg. grin

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 2:08pm On Mar 31, 2016
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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 2:06pm On Mar 31, 2016
Good afternoon mamas, how are we all doing? Congratulations to all those who got their bfps. It is well with each and everyone of you in Jesus name. Amen.
Literature / Re: Letting Go By Audrey Timms by fruitfulwoman: 6:47am On Mar 04, 2016
Essyprity:

Well, let me continue reading. I didn't know I was supposed to sing ur praises at all times. Forgive. I hardly do read other people's comments so I do not know what dear Jonathan has written, I just put down mine.
Essyprity, don't take this wrongly but i dare say you didn't use your words judiciously or should i say diplomatically. Yes, i've noticed her struggling with description but because she got better in other areas, i believed inwardly that she'd get there some day. Indeed, she's gotten better after unfulfilled promises. Her dialogues no longer end with full stop before the closed quotation marks when she's saying what someone said. Her narration is better. She still has some issues with the use of will/would but she's getting there. And she doesn't make many grammatical errors anymore unlike in unfulfilled promises. Yes, maybe she should tone down on the riches of the senator's family but i can totally relate with the story because i went to a private university where the girls were always like, 'who are you wearing? My mum got it for me when she was in paris. Will you come to my pool party? Blah blah blah' My opinion though.

Really put yourself in her shoes. Even i cringed when i saw that 'you didn't get better after unfulfilled promises' comment. Imagine someone who doesn't really understand mathematics but during the holidays, he tried his best to study but after a test the following term, the teacher brings out the student in front of the whole assembly and tells him he didn't get better in mathematics simply because the boy failed algebra, totally forgetting he passed equations, geometry, simple and compound interest etc. Are you getting the picture i'm trying to paint?


Lastly, that your statement up there about her wanting praises all the time is just so wrong. I know for a fact that she's one of the humble writers we have here alongside Larrysun, sammyhoe and divepen. Please, we're going to be mothers tomorrow, let's learn not to make our children cringe or drive them into their shells while trying to correct them. You can throw sarcasm my way as well, no problem. After what i've been through in this life, my skin is thicker than a crocodile's.

Peace.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 6:57pm On Feb 29, 2016
Thank you mamas for the prayers. God has answered them in Jesus name. Amen.


While i was going through my post just now, the revelation came to me. That scary woman is infertility. Now i no why she cannot be killed. She can only be chased away. No wonder experienced mamas knew how to handle her. I'm not trying to scare anyone please. I'm led to say these things otherwise i would have kept it to myself and prayed alone. I want to say more but until the Holy Spirit gives me utterance.


Ajuwarhodes, how far? Longest time.


Fvine, ojoro mama. tongue

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulwoman: 4:44pm On Feb 28, 2016
Mamas, i hail o. Abeg make una carry strong strong cane come take flog me o. I no no why i no dey hear word. Dh don tell me before say once i see story dey read or writer to stalk, i no dey no weda pesin dey exist again. Na Audrey Timms facebook page i go tanda since o. That lady is good. Got to know her and discovered she's ATC too. Let's remember her in our prayers please.


Back to the matter at hand. Been having a series of dreams o. Was supposed to have shared one last week but story carry me go. It's good to know that we have started praying again. Mamas we need to put on our praying knees, hands and mouths. I'm not trying to glorify the devil but we all know he tried stopping Jesus's mission even though he didn't know what it was by tempting Him. We are almost at the end of our race so he's trying to stop us from getting to the finish line of our bfps which is a big lie!



Last week i dreamt i was in a small car with a lot of women. We didn't even notice we were cramped in the car. We were all gisting happily. It was dark but we were passing through streets with streetlights. I can't remember what happened (make una forgive me) but suddenly we were no longer in the car but standing at one open and deserted bar. We had to wait for the driver (another mama) to go and drive the car around before coming to pick us and she had a long way to drive around the car. We need to rebuke the spirit of delay in getting our bfps. It's obvious God has answered us because according to my dh's gift of interpretation of dreams, being in a car means we're heading to our destination. We are on course. From my own revelation, the small car means we have a short period to get there. Not every delay is bad but we need to pray against this one.


Two nights ago, i dreamt of a group of women preparing to fight a woman who was killing women and children. I was there and i even saw a woman ATC in my church. We fought the scary looking woman and she fled but she killed some women before she came to fight our group. Experienced mamas stood with us and fought the woman. They even gave us pointers on how to defeat the woman. We didn't kill her but she fled. I haven't been able to deduce the meaning of this dream yet. At a point as the experienced women spoke to us to prepare for another battle, i got scared. I felt fear but the more they spoke to us and encouraged us, fear went and i loosened up. They were even asking us about our marriages, if there's love. I said mine had it but my church member said no and was about telling the experienced mama what was wrong when i woke up. I still pray to the Holy Spirit for revealation. But i think we need women who have been in our shoes to stand with us and encourage us. I don't know anyone. If you do, please invite them.


The bottom line is that we need to start praying fervently again. I havent't prayed fervently since November, last year. You know when you overfeed on a particular food and the thought and sight of the food makes you feel like throwing up? Well, that was how prayer was for me until recently. I'd saturated my spirit with so much prayers, i couldnt open my mouth and spirit again. Of course Baba God understood amd gave me rest. Wasnt feeling bad i wasnt praying but its time again hence these dreams. These are just the group ones i've had. I've had personal victories too through dreams. One was where i killed a snake in a dream which was amongst baby toys. Let's be encouraged. Our prayers are not in vain. God is moving indeed. It is well.


@ those mamas taking ginger and garlic, please go easy on the garlic. Had stuffy nose for about a week. Still have it sha. I googled home rememdies for it and the only one that worked was the garlic. I turned it to my water. But two days later, i started cramping. Over a week to af o. Googled garlic intake and discovered in large doses, it could cause bleeding and miscarrige. So take it easy during your 2ww.


The mama who has high bfp, it is well with you. You can take garlic for it. Read it helps a lot.


Congratulations to the mamas who got their bfp. No shaking. Go and buy the clothes for your child/children dedication and speak to it every day that you must wear it and state the time you will wear it when your baby comes. It is well with all of you.

Fvine, i love you. No homo o. 14 years is real. I just love your grammar. I love people who have a good grasp of the English language. Taking oranges as if it's going out of fashion. Lol. Thanks for the help you've been. Go write book on ttc. E go sell die. I will be your agent. grin 50/50


My God, legendsmother, i dey come dognap that puppy. It's so cute. I so love me some cute puppies. Thinking of adding another breed to ours. It's very good distraction therapy. The only problem is when you start seeing the dog as a human being. Had to forcefully stop doing that?.Your dh try. Next thing we know, na to join thread cuties to show us Legend we go see.


Ayaayo, safe06, babyadorable, Alwaystrue, etc i hail o.


Beautiful mamas, thanks for the prayers o. I truly felt them. It is well with each and everyone of us.


Una suppose don sabi me.as 'Long post mama' by now. grin

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Literature / Re: Letting Go By Audrey Timms by fruitfulwoman: 6:24am On Feb 28, 2016
Izyyblaze:

Ooo dear,thanks alot and sorry for putting you through the stress of checking it out. Your pen name huh? likey
Thanks for making her do it. I wondered too.

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