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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by harrwix(m): 4:57pm On Jun 06
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by iamyemiakins(m): 4:00pm On Jun 09
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by juman(m): 7:26am On Jun 11
I practically pushed myself to go and vote in local election.
I gladly voted for green party.
Party for better environment.

Never miss opportunity to vote in elections.
Your one vote is always important.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by mezico96(m): 7:49am On Jun 11
JusthowIfeel:
How does it feel being an introvert?

Weird to others

A demigod to yourself

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Liliantalks: 1:16pm On Jun 11
Sometimes I think it’s terribly wrong to be nice , infact those inspirational quote, that says treat people better than they treat you are big lies ,being nice to people is the beginning of see finish , being nice to people is the beginning of people taking you for granted. Using and manipulating that niceness. Treat people worst than they treat you .

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Ftheophilous(m): 1:29pm On Jun 11
Liliantalks:
Sometimes I think it’s terribly wrong to be nice , infact those inspirational quote, that says treat people better than they treat you are big lies ,being nice to people is the beginning of see finish , being nice to people is the beginning of people taking you for granted. Using and manipulating that niceness. Treat people worst than they treat you .
Not necessarily. Just learn to adapt to your environment. But this is somehow tasking of introverts because frequent readjustments and readaptations lead to a sense of loss of ones personality and this can somewhat impose a mental toll on us (my opinion)

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Liliantalks: 1:47pm On Jun 11
Ftheophilous:

Not necessarily. Just learn to adapt to your environment. But this is somehow tasking of introverts because frequent readjustments and readaptations lead to a sense of loss of ones personality and this can somewhat impose a mental toll on us (my opinion)
I agree , the adapting is crazy , you just go to an environment where everyone is mean, especially in a school environment where they see u make mistake and they don’t want to correct you but you on the other hand when they make errors u correct them. Sneaky snakes. U just have to read on your own. Now I have to change my personality. I hate when I have to do that
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Ftheophilous(m): 2:04pm On Jun 11
Liliantalks:
I agree , the adapting is crazy , you just go to an environment where everyone is mean, especially in a school environment where they see u make mistake and they don’t want to correct you but you on the other hand when they make errors u correct them. Sneaky snakes. U just have to read on your own. Now I have to change my personality. I hate when I have to do that
Were you referring to an actual personal experience?

Yeah...for some others, it's like taking a walk in the park (changing personality). But it's tiring. Some lucky ones can blend seemingly well while others are said to be weird and awkward causing them to shy away form the public. The best way around this is to build your forte around your mind.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Liliantalks: 2:36pm On Jun 11
Ftheophilous:

Were you referring to an actual personal experience?

Yeah...for some others, it's like taking a walk in the park (changing personality). But it's tiring. Some lucky ones can blend seemingly well while others are said to be weird and awkward causing them to shy away form the public. The best way around this is to build your forte around your mind.
I’m such an emotional person. I hate offending people. I think the better way to keep that fort is not being too nice , then u don’t feel bad when people act like a jerk

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Ftheophilous(m): 3:14pm On Jun 11
Liliantalks:
I’m such an emotional person. I hate offending people. I think the better way to keep that fort is not being too nice , then u don’t feel bad when people act like a jerk
Quite the contrary dear. Behaving in an adverse way so as to prevent a potential backlash that can lead to emotional turmoil is a good survival instinct. But you aren't solely trying to survive, are you? you are also trying to live your life the best way you can - in a manner that suits and makes you happy. Therefore, rather than trying to change your nice self, try to learn how to better manage being hurt because getting hurt by people is an inevitable element in life.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Albertone(m): 9:09pm On Jun 11
meenah04:
Lol. Black black black cheesy

Hi meenah.

How do you do?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by meenah04(f): 9:23pm On Jun 11
Albertone:


Hi meenah.

How do you do?
Good evening. I am doing fine.. Trust you are good too?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Albertone(m): 10:45am On Jun 12
meenah04:
Good evening. I am doing fine.. Trust you are good too?

Sure I'm good.
Today,people are scared of going out so,what are you up to today?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by meenah04(f): 1:34pm On Jun 12
Albertone:


Sure I'm good.
Today,people are scared of going out so,what are you up to today?
I am not scared of going out, I will go out later in the evening cheesy

Home working and reading
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Albertone(m): 1:52pm On Jun 12
meenah04:
I am not scared of going out, I will go out later in the evening cheesy

Home working and reading

Lol depends on your region and the current situation of things there.Though everything seems peaceful now.

On a weekend? you're a workaholic yeah.
Have fun!
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by meenah04(f): 2:15pm On Jun 12
Albertone:


Lol depends on your region and the current situation of things there.Though everything seems peaceful now.

On a weekend? you're a workaholic yeah.
Have fun!
Is always peaceful over here on things like this, besides our governor won't tolerate any nonsense.

No I am not cheesy
Are you one of the WhatsApp group member? ?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Liliantalks: 5:04pm On Jun 12
Ftheophilous:

Quite the contrary dear. Behaving in an adverse way so as to prevent a potential backlash that can lead to emotional turmoil is a good survival instinct. But you aren't solely trying to survive, are you? you are also trying to live your life the best way you can - in a manner that suits and makes you happy. Therefore, rather than trying to change your nice self, try to learn how to better manage being hurt because getting hurt by people is an inevitable element in life.
it’s very hard.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Albertone(m): 10:24pm On Jun 12
meenah04:
Is always peaceful over here on things like this, besides our governor won't tolerate any nonsense.

No I am not cheesy
Are you one of the WhatsApp group member? ?

Really?
Which state is that?

Yes I am on the group.Are you?

Somehow,your signature kind of baffles me.
Don't try suicide please.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by meenah04(f): 7:59am On Jun 13
Albertone:


Really?
Which state is that?

Yes I am on the group.Are you?

Somehow,your signature kind of baffles me.
Don't try suicide please.
Yes, kogi state.
I am, pls just mention meenah04 on there to indicate you are the one. Don't worry I won't quote you there cheesy pls na beg I dey beg you fa.
Forget the signature, I am over it now, will change it soon
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Albertone(m): 10:26am On Jun 13
meenah04:
Yes, kogi state.
I am, pls just mention meenah04 on there to indicate you are the one. Don't worry I won't quote you there cheesy pls na beg I dey beg you fa.
Forget the signature, I am over it now, will change it soon

Abi are you gentledove?
I'm not really active on the group so you might not have seen me around.You can quote me for me to know you too.
And why you dey beg me fa grin



Please,I pray nothing as such happens again.But if it reoccurs,I am willing to devote my all to help out.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by meenah04(f): 10:38am On Jun 13
Albertone:


Abi are you gentledove?
I'm not really active on the group so you might not have seen me around.You can quote me for me to know you too.
And why you dey beg me fa grin



Please,I pray nothing as such happens again.But if it reoccurs,I am willing to devote my all to help out.
I will quote you, if you will give me a mention there, cos you are not active, so how do I know who is who? Allow me to beg in peace grin

I pray it shouldn't
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Albertone(m): 11:34am On Jun 13
meenah04:
I will quote you, if you will give me a mention there, cos you are not active, so how do I know who is who? Allow me to beg in peace grin

I pray it shouldn't

Alright... I'll message right away.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by UBGGA(f): 8:01am On Jun 14
Introversion is just perfect until you are married and your in-laws are extroverts.

Imagine having to be called at least three times weekly for small talks, "I just called to say hello and check on you", oh how I despise
phone calls. My in-laws are the nicest people I ever met, but, arrrrrggggggh, those constant phone calls, bonding, coming over to my space, and the expectations of me in theirs for every family event or just to visit.

I wish I was as social as they wanted, Lord knows my mother-in-law in all of her kindness and open-mindedness deserves an extroverted daughter-in-law.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Couchpotato: 8:42am On Jun 14
Hey!!! Intj female here. Please if you are also an intj female, let's talk.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Drella(m): 11:46am On Jun 14
UBGGA:
Introversion is just perfect until you are married and your in-laws are extroverts.

Imagine having to be called at least three times weekly for small talks, "I just called to say hello and check on you", oh how I despise
phone calls. My in-laws are the nicest people I ever met, but, arrrrrggggggh, those constant phone calls, bonding, coming over to my space, and the expectations of me in theirs for every family event or just to visit.

I wish I was as social as they wanted, Lord knows my mother-in-law in all of her kindness and open-mindedness deserves an extroverted daughter-in-law.

Your hubby can do the trick of stylishly letting them know you are an introvert.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Emocruize: 12:04pm On Jun 14
Couchpotato:
Hey!!! Intj female here. Please if you are also an intj female, let's talk.
can't you talk with an intj guy grin
Couchpotato:
Hey!!! Intj female here. Please if you are also an intj female, let's talk.
can't you talk with an intj guy
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Ftheophilous(m): 12:53pm On Jun 14
Liliantalks:
it’s very hard.
Yeah, sure. Anything worthwhile is usually hard at first. Things get interesting and fun when you are finally able to manage them properly.
... trust you are good today.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Couchpotato: 8:13pm On Jun 14
Emocruize:

can't you talk with an intj guy grin
can't you talk with an intj guy
okay. Hey!! How are you doing
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Liliantalks: 7:33pm On Jun 16
Ftheophilous:

Yeah, sure. Anything worthwhile is usually hard at first. Things get interesting and fun when you are finally able to manage them properly.
... trust you are good today.
smile* I sure am .

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