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Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

Your husband is not your competitor even you have more money than him. I think you rejecting his idea of buying a land together as husband and wife shows that you don't see him as part of you.
Even if you leave him today and marry someone else you'll still have the same issue because you think you can do everything alone. It doesn't work that way.

By the way he was wrong to abandon you for 2 months but I'm sure this isn't the only instance where you are making him feel inferior to you but you won't talk about those.

Even if you assist him from time to time shouldn't make you look down on him. Men help their wives everytime but they aren't looked down on because it's normal.

Sit yourself down and advise yourself. Ur dad that says you shouldn't go back to him doesn't want the best for u cus he's probably angry u are helping ur husband (I'm talking from experience). You and ur husband are wrong but never try to make a man feel inferior

Enny2013:
It's bad...
But yr wife must hv really done something wrong.

For ur mom and sister to do something like that means they are troublesome people. No matter what ur wife did, they should at least wait for u to come back and report 2 u

floss:
I will hear from both parties on what transpired before I know the next step.

That's why I will arrest them first. Before I find out what happened

You came back from travel and you found out your wife had an issue with ur mom. So she and ur sister came to ur house to beat ur wife. They even drag her out in the street and naked her. What would you do?

For me I'll arrest the both of them first honestly.

MasterJayJay:
Dating can survive without sex. It depends on the individuals involve.
Can two work together unless they agree?

Two people who are willing to abstain from premarital sex can date without sex.





Go for your type. It's a stupid decision for a virgin who wants to remain a virgin till marriage to choose to date one that has more than 20 body counts and got no plans of abstaining.

Two of them will be getting it from somewhere Else

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JackDaAlienz:
Adoption is like suicide.
You don't know what you are putting your hand in
Because 90% of kids in orphanage homes
Have no history or records of their father and mother
Do you know if the mother was a Mad woman?
Now you adopt a child who has genetics of a Mad woman.
When the boy grows up and start acting like his mother what are you gonna do??

Basically, you dont know anything about the history of the child you are adopting .
While there are some who turn out great.
Majority of adopted kids turn out to be a huge mistake

I think it boils down to how you train the child. Even the child of a holy person can turn out to be a miscreant if not brought up well

There are so many discrepancies in the Bible but when you try and question them, they tell you you can't question God. It would be a sin to do that.

Kobojunkie:
1. Access to what exactly? It is not OK to not know exactly what it is you are signing up for here with Jesus Christ.

2. LOL... even a majority of those who claim to be Christians will not qualify to enter into God's Heaven at the end of the day. Worse, ALL those who will end up in Hell(Eternal Damnation) are all of them born-agains, So?

Well that's what they say. Seems only people who know christ will have eternal life, the rest will burn in hell. That's the whole summary of the whole thing

Kobojunkie:

You have to read the book for your own self so you can learn the truth from all the myths that surround this belief.

Jesus Christ came to offer to individual men the same Truth(Knowledge of good and evil) and Eternal Life(Tree of Life) that was lost to men from the time of Adam. It wasn't sin(disobedience) but the curse on Adam that kept men out of God's presence but God's curse on man from the beginning - Genesis 3 vs 19 - 22 - since that which is unholy/cursed cannot enter the presence of God. Jesus Christ came to lift that curse that was placed on us by God, and give us a way back to God again.

I am African and I am not brainwashed about what it is that is contained in that book. Ignorance is an individual choice, only that some seem more accepting of it than others may be.

We are saying the same thing here. "Sin" is the narrative here, so christ came to remove it because we can't get access to God as sinners.

Kobojunkie:
1. I didn't write the book... if it is what is written, then you ought to be willing to accept it as God's Truth. Unless of course, you continue to believe you are more intelligent than He may be in this.

2. Your first problem here, is the statement "I think". Second, you speak from a point of ignorance of what is written. Jesus Christ didn't die to remove sin from the world. It's been 2000 years and the world is still full of sin so go figure. So?

Christ Said he's the way, the truth and the life and no one goes to the father except through him. That means that billions of people who are of other religion won't get access to the because they don't recognize christ. Out of over 7 billion people in the world only Christians which is about 31.2 % of the world population will make heaven. The rest won't make it because they don't recognize christ as lord and saviour

Kobojunkie:
1. I didn't write the book... if it is what is written, then you ought to be willing to accept it as God's Truth. Unless of course, you continue to believe you are more intelligent than He may be in this.

2. Your first problem here, is the statement "I think". Second, you speak from a point of ignorance of what is written. Jesus Christ didn't die to remove sin from the world. It's been 2000 years and the world is still full of sin so go figure. So?

He died so we can be closer to God because sin was restricting us access to God. There his death supposedly removed that restriction. Or Is there any other reason?

Well I guess we as Africans have been brainwashed to the point that anything that concerns God we don't want to question it.

Kobojunkie:
The problem is you are under the impression that God's plan and sense has to appeal to your level of reasoning. God said that His thoughts are higher than your thoughts and His ways are higher than your ways. So if you truly desire to understand God and why God did what He did, you have to be willing to submit to His process so He can open your mind and eyes to see the meaning in His plan.

I already told you in my first post, you cannot understand Him unless you invest time and effort into knowing Him, and reading the book for your own self, to learn at least what is written is a good way to start.

And by the way, it is OK for you to disagree with the Bible, or even eject God from your life completely. You have the freedom of choice from Him anyways, so use it as you please.

So now you you are saying that God allowed Adam and Eve to eat the fruit despite knowing that they are not capable of obeying him because He has a plan I couldn't comprehend?

I think the plan was for his son to die and remove sin from the world, when all this could have been prevented by restricting Adam and Eve From getting access to the fruit.

funkmrflexx:
Me and my wife had an argument this morning.
God is all knowing and before creating Adam and even, He know what they would do. He knew they would be Tempted and they would eat the fruit and bring Sin to the world and He also knows that His son would have to die in order to save us from the sin caused by the fruit
Why didn't He just make the fruit inaccessible to them so they don't eat it.
But instead He Allowed them to get access to the fruit, eat and bring sin to the world.

Mind you, He's all knowing and He knows all this would happen before they did. He knew Satan would tempt them and they will fall, He also knew that He would have to curse them when they eat the fruit.

Why not just prevent this by making the fruit inaccessible to them. That's the logical thing to do

I've read a lot of comments on different opinions on this topic, but none has been able to convince me.

God knows the end from the beginning, He knew that before creating adam and Eve they would disobey even if he instructed them.
He knew that despite his efforts, they would still disobey but he still went ahead and told them not to eat the fruit when he knew before they were created the they won't be capable of obeying him in that subject.
Why did he still give them access to the fruit(Mind you he knows all these would happen even before they did)
If they said they story was an allegory, I wouldn't argue. But everyday, I find more reason to disagree with the Bible

tctrills:
Have you ever heard of God's plan?God had a plan for man. If Adam had not eaten the fruit there would have been no need for Christ.

Why not just prevent it instead of allowing His son to come and die

Wilgrea7:
Logic and theistic gods aren't exactly things that mix. That being said, if we are to take the Adam and Eve story literally, the problems run much deeper.

The idea of an omnipotent God who knows the future, is one that cannot exist alongside freewill.

If the future is known (not speculated) by a God.... It means said future is fixed. This is not a case of probability where things might turn out a certain way.

It is a case of certainty where things WILL turn out a certain way. In such a case, freewill cannot exist, as everything would play out according to the deity's knowledge of the future.

In such a situation, Adam and Eve could not have chosen to not eat the fruit.. they were already predestined to do it from the very beginning. They only had the illusion of freewill..

In such a case, the eating of the fruit was not their fault, but rather the fault of the person who set things in motion... A.K.A God.

For him to blame and then punish them for a crime they were already destined to commit, makes no sense.

It's like building a car with a 100% possibilty of blowing up, and then accusing the car for blowing up when it does

It just doesn't make sense

Exactly

Hidewell:
There are things that really hurts more than breaking up with a spouse.

Mine is seeing someone in need and yet I can't help.

What of yours? Nlfpmod

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My Dog howls anything she hears Kweku the traveller by black Sherrif.
She would howl until the song finishes. I find this weird

funkmrflexx:
Me and my wife had an argument this morning.
God is all knowing and before creating Adam and even, He know what they would do. He knew they would be Tempted and they would eat the fruit and bring Sin to the world and He also knows that His son would have to die in order to save us from the sin caused by the fruit
Why didn't He just make the fruit inaccessible to them so they don't eat it.
But instead He Allowed them to get access to the fruit, eat and bring sin to the world.

Mind you, He's all knowing and He knows all this would happen before they did. He knew Satan would tempt them and they will fall, He also knew that He would have to curse them when they eat the fruit.

Why not just prevent this by making the fruit inaccessible to them. That's the logical thing to do

Moses Maimonides (1135-1204) has set out the problem in the traditional manner:

…”Does God know or does He not know that a certain individual will be good or bad? If thou sayest ‘He knows’, then it necessarily follows that [that] man is compelled to act as God knew beforehand he would act, otherwise God’s knowledge would be imperfect.…” (1966, pp. 99-100)

The argument can be extended. The thrust of the argument does not apply only to doing good or ill, but indeed to every human act, from the most mundane to the most significant. The argument could just as well read:

“Does God know or does He not know that a certain individual (let’s say the Prime Minister of Canada), on Feb. 3, 2081, will put on brown shoes when dressing in the morning? If thou sayest ‘He knows’, then it necessarily follows that the Prime Minister is compelled to act (that is, to put on brown shoes) as God knew beforehand he/she would, otherwise God’s knowledge would be imperfect. …”

funkmrflexx:
Me and my wife had an argument this morning.
God is all knowing and before creating Adam and even, He know what they would do. He knew they would be Tempted and they would eat the fruit and bring Sin to the world and He also knows that His son would have to die in order to save us from the sin caused by the fruit
Why didn't He just make the fruit inaccessible to them so they don't eat it.
But instead He Allowed them to get access to the fruit, eat and bring sin to the world.

Mind you, He's all knowing and He knows all this would happen before they did. He knew Satan would tempt them and they will fall, He also knew that He would have to curse them when they eat the fruit.

Why not just prevent this by making the fruit inaccessible to them. That's the logical thing to do

The Bible teaches that God is all-knowing or omniscient. The word "omniscient" comes from two Latin words omnis signifying all, and scientia signifying knowledge. When we say that God is omniscient it means that He has perfect knowledge of all things. He does not have to learn anything and He has not forgotten anything. God does not have to reason things out, find out things, or learn them gradually. He knows everything that has happened and everything that will happen. God also knows every potential thing that might happen. God even knows those things that humankind has yet to discover. This knowledge is absolute and unacquired. The omniscience of God means that He has perfect knowledge, perfect understanding, and perfect wisdom as to how to apply the knowledge.

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My all point is based on the fact that God knows everything. That's why I'm using His omniscience as a the main point

cornelboy:
No. He never said he is.

O LORD, you have searched me and known me. You know when I sit down and when I rise up; you discern my thoughts from far away. You search out my path and my lying down, and are acquainted with all my ways. Even before a word is on my tongue, O LORD, you know it completely. You hem me in, behind and before, and lay your hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is so high that I cannot attain it (Psalm 139:1-6).

cornelboy:
No. He never said he is.

The New Testament reemphasizes this truth: “God is greater than our heart, and knows all things” (1 John 3:20,

cornelboy:
No. He never said he is.

The Bible says God knows the end from the beginning. Isn't That omniscience?

So when He created adam and Eve, He knew their end from the moment he created them. If you say otherwise that means the Bible isn't correct

cornelboy:
Is God all knowing?
No!
He never claimed that.

I thought He's omniscient

O LORD, you have searched me and known me. You know when I sit down and when I rise up; you discern my thoughts from far away. You search out my path and my lying down, and are acquainted with all my ways. Even before a word is on my tongue, O LORD, you know it completely. You hem me in, behind and before, and lay your hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is so high that I cannot attain it (Psalm 139:1-6).

Kobojunkie:
You are still reasoning this the wrong way.

Do you not go ahead with a business plan that promises an eventual return on your investment, in the multitudes, simply because you are aware that you might incur significant amount of losses In the first couple of years of investing?

Well you can't compare a business plan with the creation of Adam and Eve because God is all knowing.

And the only return in the creation story was Jesus coming to die for us to reconcile us back to God. All these could have been prevented