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tunapawizzy:
I get and see your effort from a good point. But then, You want to bring a damaged boy into your home but your wife dey dodge am and your wife is very correct on this. You cannot blame her. Maybe you guys have a daughter. If not, what if you have a girl child in future. This is the concern of your wife, which is very valid. Even if what you have is a son, your nephew can still influence him(do things to him or teach him how to do things to others).
Discuss other ways to help your nephew with your wife, without putting ur child(born/unborn) in harm's way. Also if the boy comes to live with you and does the same thing to your neighbour's daughter, that will be a disgrace for your family. Your wife is wise, you should learn from her, help the boy without exposing your family

How can you say a 7 year old boy is already damaged. I don't believe that. He's still young and can be straightened. I know the things I did as a little kid

backnbeta:
What did you do about this boy that molested your nephew? If you haven't done anything yet, please take this up...the 20-yr-old idiot needs to be dealt with.

Also, the boy needs to leave that environment because he will only continue molesting the innocent neighbors. You need to handle him well and possibly find a way to keep him with you or back to his parents

I'm still looking for the boy. He stopped living with them since last year

Thebadpolitican:
Your family is messed up likewise you, am just stating the obvious


Your mom trying to defend the youngster

Your wife trying to dictate who you bring to your home

You listening to her opinion makes you look more foolish

And the fact you didn't even find the adult who molested your nephew

Makes me conclude you all are messed up

It's very obvious u don't have sense. We are talking about molestation of a little boy this is wat u can say. It's very obvious u are a fool. I bet even ur parents are fools

Jozilinn:
What about the boys father? Why can't he get involved in the boys growth,I think You're supposed to tell his dad so the both of you will know the right thing to do...if you take that kid into your home your mum might start having issues with your wife, even your sister would have problems with your wife too... don't underestimate your mother at all... that boy needs his parents, either of them should do something for crying out loud why would you drop 3 kids with your mum...haba now!

I just feel for the poor kids going through all this, tell your sister to take responsibility abeg no go do something wey go cause problem for you later... before your mother will start feeding him trash later about your wife or even you. Please do you have kids, female kids at home? If yes you might need to reconsider, like you said the boy is smart, please try his father first at least... thank you.

I told the mother who's my sister, she didn't feel concerned I think this is probably because they have lots of children (they have 8 kids). She wasn't even angry or showed any emotion.

I just feel this is the best thing for me to do

Thebadpolitican:
Your mom is woke


Your wife is woke
You yourself is woke

All of una mumu for una family

U are a very big goat. Idiot

dawnomike:
First look for tht mumu 20yr old and deal with him and let the boy know tht you have dealt wit him legally. Then take the boy, to go and appolodlgize to the girl's parents.
If you can, pls let him stay with you... But uf not. Report to his parents; let them come and pick their son for the proper parental training.

I already told the parents, they don't seem to care

3 of my sisters children live with my mom. I'm the one in charge of their school cus their parents don't live in the same city. So I found out the last one which is about 7 years Fingered my neighbors daughter of about 3 years. The father of the girl who's a good friend of mine told me.
He said it had happened twice, first about 3 months ago and again before Christmas.
He said after his daughter told him the first time he warned the boy but the boy did it again. I asked my mom and she mom said it's a lie that the boy can't do anything like that, I even later find out that my mom told the little boy to stop greeting the man.

So I took the 3 of them to my house for holiday and after I heard the issue I promised the girls father that I would find out the truth, he told me that the boy is very smart but we need to be careful with him. And the reason he didn't take the issue very far Is because of me and I apologized to him and told him I would deal with the issue.

When we got to my house, I bought cane and I flogged the boy, at first he denied it but later confessed that he did it, that it was another boy (of about 20 years that showed him how to do it) that the boy even fingered his anus twice. I severely punished him and he promised not to do it again

Now the issue is that I don't feel like letting the boy going back to stay with my mom cus the other ones are saying it's my mom is one of the people spoiling the boy cus he's her favorite grandchild. I'm thinking of taking the boy from my mom and have in stay with Me and my wife but my wife thinks he's too small (he's just 7) she said we should wait till a bit older and we should take one of the other ones who are older.

But I feel a little boy having gone through something like this needs to be straightened out now before it's too late and I also don't want to make it an issue with my wife.
I'm scared that if the boy grows up and becomes something else knowing that I could do something when he was little, I will feel very bad because that's how them bobrisky take start

Yungmil:
As we all know 2023 has just began today being the first day in the month of January 2023.

For me I have decided to stop being a Gamble addict. I think I have lost a lot of money by chasing money through this means.

I keep on betting and losing money, which is one of the reason I drank garri this Christmas because I used the money I was supposed to spend on myself for Christmas to play Betting. Chaiiii

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Zeal0000007:
For a serious relationship leading to marriage , do you encourage going through your partner's phone for trust to be built ?.

I discovered my partner has been flirting with other guys online, thanks to the fact that I always go through her phone when she's asleep. I have done alot for this gal, just disappointed while gals wouldn't be faithful in their relationships.

This is someone I wanted to wife next year, and I love her so much despite her flaws .

I swallow alot of her flaws, like whenever we have issues she will abuse me from head to toe, on occasions like that I will ask her out of my life and my house but she'll be so bent in staying that nothing can separate us after how many years according to her "over her dead body" she wants to eat her cake and have it back.

I'm really stalk, after abusing me up and down at night I find it very difficult resist her body, I will still try to have sex with her especially when I see her nudes, I be flesh and blood.

I can't continue like this 2023, Guys please don't cohabit with a gal you haven't married.
Now I have issues of driving her way or I relocate to somewhere far just to have peace of mind. I can't continue like this next year, God forbid.

If she was coming and going ending this toxic relationship would have been effective. This is someone I have paid two sessions school fees for, care for her like she was my wife in my own little way, as we speak I have written her final year project for her chapter one to five, its just left for her to type it and present it.

I don tire for this relationship I really need a way out, I want to leave her cos its no longer healthy for me, though I really love her. She lacks respect for me , she still flirts online, she's very abusive . I have told her if you feel you have seen someone better than me, kindly move on or you feel we have stayed long enough and you can't wait anymore kindly move on, I won't hold anything against u. But you can't be staying in my house and be seeing someone else, frustrating me all round.

Sometimes when we want to have sex , neighbours must hear us because of fight over sex, but she has her good side, she wasn't like this when we started. I'm really tire, God help me next year, cos I can't continue like this.

I was in a relationship exactly like this, we dated for 3 years and she lived with me, I also paid her fees too but the toxicity was too much to the extent she quarrelled with my mom. She was the one I wanted to marry but I couldn't take. Anytime we had issues she would abuse me, she would even lock me in the house from going out. And she was flirting with guys in school even her lecturers. As for the sex, we only had sex when she wanted, we can be in the same house for a month and not have sex cus she wasn't in the mood. I loved her but I had to end it because if I end up marrying her I'm sure I won't survive it. I ended the relationship and I'm married to someone else now and I thank God I was able to make that tough decision.

You just have to end it and move on You'll be glad you did I'm talking from experience, forget about how you feel about her and the money you have spent on her.
Just let her go, I can bet she has another guy in place incase your relationship doesn't work

zedegit:
What tribe is she?

Ijaw

3verblazing:
You are also stalking her in my opinion, how did you know she got an iPhone, how did you know it was the guy that bought it for her, how did you know the guy rented an apartment for her, you seem to know too much about her new relationship how come?. I understand you made an investment and it hurts that it didn't yield. Just let her be.

Calling her will only mk matter worse. Focus on ur fam n be happy

I still had her Facebook logged in my phone even after we broke up that's how I saw all those info. I eventually deleted it from my fone

Wainey:
Oga calm down.
You broke up with her when she was still in love, then u immediately got married.
Its obvious it will take her time to get over the shock.

Well the truth was that I didn't want to end the relationship. I had endured for a very long time hoping to see a change but I didn't it was painful for me but I had to end it for my own good. I actually had plans of getting married to her last year when she graduated. I already met her family but she had other plans

Wainey:
The man immediately got married after dumping his ex girl, isnt it obvious he was seeing his present wife while dating and decieving his ex?

The ex was the bigger loser here and its taking time to get over it

I actually met my wife after I broke up with her. The honest truth was I never cheated on her. I might have played a couple of away matches but I didn't have a side chick. I met my wife after we broke up and 3 months later we got married

ednut1:
It might have been Facebook that suggested her as a friend. And she mistakenly clicked friend request. Its not that deep

This isn't the first time, immediately after my marriage she started searching me and my wife out on fb I know because I had her account logged in on my fone at the time. He search history showed my name and my wife's name. I just it go and it's over a year now and she's still searching. She should just move on already

SPAMBOX7:
Women are generally selfish in nature. Give her the whole world she won't be contented. Cos they always think there is a better option out there. That's exactly what played out in op's relationship. For people like that you just have to let them go experience life outside and see for themselves. 9 out of 10 times they always come back when dem don go jam fake. Never take them back no matter what.
For those that talks about second chances. What makes you think she won't pull same stunts again. Cos these hoes they never learn.

That's true. She actually told me she will find someone who's better than I am and I said no problem. Wonder why she hasn't found the person

BigYash:
Did I hear four months and you married her? You get mind o

It's not by the amount of years you date. Just pray you meet the right person

kkash:
Did u date, engage and marry ur wife within dat one Yr after breaking up or u were dating both of them and finally decided to let go of one and settle down with d other??

I met my wife and within 4 months we got married. And she's the best thing ever

LedRock:
This almost answers your question OP but I advise you don’t Bleep her, let her sweat to be with you and still don’t Bleep her, they feel so stupid if that happens.

I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex

I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on

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A man told me one day that as a young man who is just starting out in life and what's to make something out of life, that I should avoid lightskinned women.

I've noticed something about them, they are yes but that beauty comes with a lot of problems for some men. I too have had bad experience with my ex who was a light skinned lady.
I also personally know guys who got married to light skinned ladies and at first everything was going well but they later started to see shege.

A guy married a lightskinned lady against the wish of his family, the lady later made him run into debts taking care of her own family, the guy bought a car for her, her brother and her whole family was living in their house while his own family wasn't allowed.

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