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I've been dating this girl for about 2 years now. I'm even thinking of marrying her but she has some characters I can't live with anymore. I've given her time to change but she doesn't want to change. Now I want to end the relationship.
How do I end it subtlety without hurting her feelings because she has threatened me if I leave her lol

If you are in a relationship that might eventually lead to marriage and your sexual life is dead and not as you would like.
Is it advisable to stay in such a relationship?

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Stephenmoka4:
If you are doing it this way.


Prediction site => Paid 100k (€ 200) a month => You post the prediction on your platform => You get 50 people who paid €10 ( € 500) for a month and you made N150K (€ 300 ) from it.

Is that what you meant?

Yes that was what I meant. It saves you the stress of cracking your brain every day looking for good games to give to your clients. But the issue is getting a good site. Even if they have a 4/7 win ratio. It would be great

Stephenmoka4:
What you need first is practice, strategy, consistency, and strength.(Luck maybe)

In prediction consistency is a vital requirement.


Here;

1. Prediction platforms: Sites, apps, social media or paperwork .

2. Skills and strength: What do you play? What can you do? What sports are you good at? What is your win rate? etc

3. Audience: Highroller, regular or low stakers, the type of games you play can attract a category.

4. Your works, records and achievements: What have you done, for how long and how is it going now. Biggest amount win, biggest odds win, longest Winnings run, longest rollover period etc

5. Promotion and free stuff


If there is a 1.01 odds that is 100 percent everyday, no bookie will permit it if aware.

What about registering for predictions websites, pay premium and use their games instead?

I'm thinking about starting a football prediction where I'll get paid for my predictions. Any ideas what I can do to make it a really good and steady source of income? And somewhere I can get good games for my audience

It's not possible when even pastors are behaving like politicians these days. Its not possible in Nigeria maybe another country

My girlfriend doesn't like romance or sex. It's making our relationship boring. She's a very good girl. But when it comes to the sex part she's very boring. She doesn't like kissing or romancing and anytime we have sex she just likes us to go straight to the point. No pre-intimacy or anything. I can count how many times we have kissed since we started dating. I'm a guy who loves adventures in the bedroom and who likes to try new things but she's stiffling me. When we manage to have sex in like 5 minutes she'll said she's tired. She doesn't even want to try new positions or anything. I even have to resort to handjob sometimes just to satisfy myself because I don't enjoy sex with her.

If your girlfriend/ wife does something and doesn't show any remorse. What are the ways you can discipline her without physically hitting or beating her

Yusufisraelj:
My brother, first things first if your lady cannot be open with you, that's red flag number 1.

That means she does not trust you with her secrets hence she can't trust you with her life.

Secondly your policing approach is a bit intruding even if na me I go give you small hesitation.

If you think your woman is stubborn for you, it goes both ways, either you are doing something wrong that is making her feel unloved or she is just being plain stupid, bkos every relationship requires some adjustments and if she can't make that happen then she is not deserving of a good guy.

But in whatever case, faults in relationships goes both ways most times, so check yourself if need be to make adjustments for the betterment of both of you, equally request same from her end, then if she doesn't want to, leave her fast, but know this every reaction or response from a lady is triggered by a mindset or believe, if you can't handle it leave.

Thanks for this great piece of advice. This helps a lot

Newoldme:
U neva marry her,u dey monitor,if u marry her u go turn CID,for her case,mtcheew!,as if agreeing to be in bondage with u(marriage with u will b a bondage),is a favour.

So if my girlfriend lie about here Whereabout I should just leave her be and not find out where she is?

I and my girlfriend have been together for close to 3 years now. So on valentines day she was In school. She schools in oghara (I was supposed to go meet her but I couldn't). Dat day something just told me that she wasn't at home. So I called her on WhatsApp call, she told me she was at home sleeping and she just woke up. I said OK. As we were talking it seems nepa took light and I heard a noise of a ceiling fan. (her fan at home has fault and wasn't working. She said she doesn't have money to repair it now). So I asked her wat was making Dat noise. She said the noise is coming from outside. Then I knew she wasn't at home. I told her to switch to video call lemme just see her face. She ended the call and called me back about 5 minutes later on video call but this time she was outside. Then I told her to turn d camera lemme see her compound. She refused. Then I told her she wasn't at home. She said she was that I was just looking for quarrel. After much argument she told me she went out with some of her neighbors. I asked her where she went. She said why would I ask her that she's not a child. Besides her friends go out and nobody questions them. She refused to tell me she was. So I called her friend and asked her. Then to my surprise her friend to me that they left for warri since morning. She was like didn't my babe tell me. I was like no she didn't.
So I called my babe and told her I know she's in warri. She was quiet. So I asked her where she was in warri. She refused to tell me that I should go and ask her friend. She was angry that why should I go and call her friend that I should delete her friend's number. That no matter what she won't tell me where she is and she won't apologize because she didn't wrong me. She said I was the one who wrong her by trying to find out where she was from her friend. I was really hurt. Because she obviously did wrong. Even her friend told me that she was wrong. But she refused to admit to her mistake or apologize for it. So I told her the relationship will end of she doesn't tell me where she went and if she doesn't apologize. After much pressure from her friend. She finally apologized. But deep down I know i can't be with this type of person and looking at my options already

That's how she behaves, she doesn't know how to apologize, she has anger issues, she doesn't admit to her wrong doing. She doesn't even want to listen to my own Decisions. She's too stubborn for me. So right now the relationship is shaky because I have decide I can't marry someone who can't submit to me as a wife.


So was I wrong to call her friend when I found out she lied about where she was. (she said since I knew she was lying I was supposed to just take it like that and ask no questions).

Where and how can I get good betting tips. I'm willing to pay as long as they are sure

I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now. At first the relationship was all rosy and sweet but now it's no longer so. Recently I noticed she doesn't allow me to touch her or be Intimate with her, she denies me sex everytime I ask. This is a girl I do everything for. I try my best to make sure she's OK in everyway. I even assist with her school sometimes because her parents don't have. But I noticed that she finds me irritating. I can't even touch her, kiss her nothing. I have talked to her severally about the issue but she always brushes me off. I even jokingly told her I would cheat on her she said no problem that sex and intimacy aren't that important in a relationship. I asked her if she was scared of getting pregnant but she said she wasn't and besides we usually use condoms so that wasn't a reason. I have started suspecting her that she has someone else. But she always tells me she's loyal to me. This is a girl I'm planning to marry. All of a sudden I find the relationship boring, no excitement. I even asked her what was the problem she said nothing was wrong. I don't want to get married and start cheating on my wife because of lack of sex

So I met another girl some months back, we got to know each other and we started sort of dating,
She's not as beautiful as my girlfriend but she makes me very happy. Anytime I'm with her she always has a way to cheer me up. And the sex part is awesome because she likes those things i like in sex and I'm very comfortable with her. But the issue now is she's pregnant for me. And I want her to keep the baby. The truth is I have fallen in love with her.

What should I do?

I've got up to 10 to 12 million. Should I move to Canada to school or remain in Nigeria and invest my money in business

Rugaria:
Warri don finally carry last...See as them super gentle... Na only women them Sabi do.... Na Edo dey carry first now ahbegi...

Warri boy dey find money now . No time for jaguda again

YoonSung50:
Op what is puna?

It means d down below

Do you tell your girlfriend or play along cus she's ready to give you the puna

nwaezeemmanuel:
Okay, i get that you're sponsoring her. But that doesn't mean she must have sex when she doesn't want to.

If she's still in school like you said, she may be distracted by a lot.

This is why i kick against this sponsorship and relationship exchange

So I should look for sex outside and stop disturbing her abi?

JidennaJason:
You're the one sponsoring her?

Is she an orphan?


Na wa oh....

I be mumu na . I've stopped it Sha

nwaezeemmanuel:
I take it that you don't plan on marrying this lady right?

I'm ready but she's not . Not until she's through with school

nwaezeemmanuel:
I think you should just be patient, sex is not the foundation of a relationship.

This is just my opinion though

I think it is cus lack of sex is one of the things that make men cheat. Men love adventures when you don't give it to them they'll go and get it outside

nwaezeemmanuel:
I think she's tired of being a slave and wants you to put a ring on it.

She cooks and cleans for you, and you are here complaining about sex - and she's not your wife

You want to eat your cake and have it. Chai! Some ladies are suffering.

She say she's not ready for marriage now

She always gives excuse like she's tired , she wants to sleep, she's not in the mood blah blah blah. We haven't had sex in a very long time . Sex creates a tighter bond in a relationship but now I'm no longer feel d vibes anymore. I talked to her about it but she said sex is not food and it's not important in a relationship. I even threatened to cheat on her but she's no budging. She does everything else well . Cooking and cleaning. But the sex part is dead . I don't even feel it for her anymore.
What do I do and she's not ready to get married now before some people say i turn her 2 slave o
She's in school and I'm basically the one sponsorship her . So she's gaining more than me in the relationship