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telim:
be deceving your self the mechanic that fix my car as two bungalow, two wives, benz cls 500 and c300. You will see them dress dirty because of the nature of their job but they pay all there bills.

I haven't seen a rich mechanic too. The ones that spoiled my car or the ones that stole from me and keep hiding till today. Most of them are wretched due to their wayward lifestyle.

The reality is no good job in Nigeria without connection.

Here's what you will do: Look for a service and offer it - anything online service, since you're a graduate you will make money.

You only need your brain, your computer or phone and your Internet to conquer poverty and the future.

Age is just a number.

Check my past threads to see what I've done.


Here's another advice I think you can consider

You just quoting astronomically high figures here

Yahayaaminat123:
Well I really appreciate everyone's advice on the issue...
But as you all said being desperate or not able ti take care of the child isn't the issue..
The issue is that my unfortunate ex boyfriend impregnated me and left me three years ago and since then I have vowed not to have anything with guys again...

But along the line my parents sat me down to and asked me some essentially questions... All I could say is that am not interested in guys in generally but they said we don't judge book by its cover ...
My conclusion is that am not desperate nor rushing to settle down...I just need someone that I could confined in and he can do the same

Your unfortunate boyfriend? Lol

During your prime, when they advice you to stay away from irresponsible boys you'll rather abuse the person. I have your type around.

Look for a single Father.

Mugu

Say no to religion extremism

Panda7:
Even a politician don't earn up to a million monthly and that is not even with an employee job. So shove up your lies begger

Lol seek knowledge.

No regrets whatsoever

floss:
I always tell people, don’t allow a woman see you finish to the point telling you

“ Babe don’t worry everything will be fine”

Don’t ever believe that, if you’re married and you know that you no longer have money or power, file for divorce immediately, don’t wait to see if you’ll rise. She’ll never worship you like before, once she perceives your money don finish, rather she’ll see and respect your pride when you tell her

“ I’m filing for divorce because I’m broke at the moment, I value my self respect, ego and mental health. This way you won’t be obligated to me, I will try and take care of my kids”


Tell her that before she finds out your money don finish, she will respect and worship you even in the divorce, but when you wait for her to ask for divorce, that’s the worse kind of “see finish “

Lol you're a kid I guess

Nigerians are online noise makers

Lol

Work hard stop complaining.
Complaining will shutdown the productivity neural cells in your brain which leads to depression and laziness.

Also, avoid people that complain around you.

79733139:
This is so true, and I would add that even some of your friends may either try to discourage you or get envious when they find out that you are in the process of japaing.

Sincerely I had same experience

Very true.
Keep your JAPA plans to yourself, they'll always give you 1000 reasons why Nigeria is so good than abroad.

Yeye people

Which country can accommodate over 200Million people?

When I see post like this I always laugh.

With your desperation just be careful not to japa into frypan.

I understand your dilemma. Let's analyze each option:

Company A
1. *Pros*:
- Stable employment after 6 months of unemployment
- De facto leadership roles (IT, operations, finance)
- Monthly trip abroad
1. *Cons*:
- Low salary ($118)
- No benefits (HMO, pension)
- Demanding job

Company B
1. *Pros*:
- Remote work (flexibility)
- Higher salary potential ($35/hour)
- 13th month and Christmas bonus
- Strong partnership with a US company (growth prospects)
1. *Cons*:
- Limited experience (less than a month)
- Uncertainty about pension benefits

Company C
1. *Pros*:
- Remote work (flexibility)
- Data allowance and workspace reimbursement (if needed)
- Travelling allowance and all-expense-paid trips
1. *Cons*:
- Uncertainty about job stability
- Limited information about the company

Options to Consider
1. *Combine Company A and B*:
- Balance stability and growth prospects
- Diversify income streams
1. *Choose Company B or C*:
- Consider growth potential and benefits
- Weigh flexibility against job stability
1. *Pursue all three jobs*:
- Manage multiple income streams
- Be cautious of burnout and time management

Advice
1. *Assess your priorities*:
- Stability vs. growth
- Income vs. benefits
- Flexibility vs. job stability
1. *Evaluate your skills*:
- Can you handle multiple jobs?
- Are you prepared for the demands of Company A?
1. *Research Company C*:
- Gather more information about the company
- Understand the job requirements and expectations
1. *Negotiate with Company B*:
- Clarify pension benefits
- Discuss salary and bonus structures

Next Steps
1. Take time to reflect on your priorities and goals.
2. Research Company C and gather more information.
3. Negotiate with Company B to clarify benefits and salary.
4. Weigh the pros and cons of each option carefully.

Just imagine

Chatflick:
Verified Nigerian Upwork account available. It's an old account an has received payment.

How much is this?

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

Bad influence, imagine 44+ people liked your comment. Smh


If you dropped out from the University, can you call yourself a graduate?

No, because you're not qualified.

Lol. You can't tell people how to live their lives.

Marriage is not rosy bro, my advice is to plan your life carefully before bringing a woman.

Nsukka

Northerners don't japa remember

ednut1:
Covenant university is now a Canadian school?

The one at Toronto beside iya Tunji shop

Life is not in Black and White.

What works for A, might not work for B.

Take your risk. Follow your intuition. Leave online opinion for kids.

Lol come home stop hiding in the US

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See his face

Fiction

As usual dead of most top people 55-65years