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MufasaLion:
You're obviously a foolish person for such comment. I won't indulge you.

MufasaLion:
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You are obviously a piece of shit!

FutureIsFemale:
If I say what is on my mind now, let's just leave it at "every man is a r*pist".

ambr055i:
Please, I need your advice because right now I'm confused about where to go, it's a lifelong decision.

I just turned 34 last month, still living with my uncle, but no pressure on his part is a big house. Currently, I teach in a school where my net salary and my home lesson inclusive are approx. N 100000 a month. I have a master's degree in engineering, so I haven't put that certificate to use. I have a saving of 900k, it will be higher by December. Although it would have been more than that, I lost 400,000 to the detriment of a bad investment. Last two years, I had an illness that struck (ENT related), which doesn't have a cure. One of the symptoms is vertigo (a sensation of feeling off-balance). This made me change my mind about travelling. For a few months now, I haven't had the experience.

I have three thoughts, but I can only do one at a time.

Firstly, leave my uncle's house, get an apartment. Use the rest of the money to start a business as a side hustle while working with the school.

Secondly, leave my uncle's house, get an apartment. Next, I invest my time in a tech skill (web dev, programming or data science).

Thirdly, travel to the US for my PhD program. I have already been preparing for my GRE before now.

Thank you.

AutoChick4U:
Dirty toilets can cause infection. Just get treated and try again, God will definitely give you guys your own kids.

Its possible the ladies he broke their hearts cursed him sha. People play with people's emotions without thinking about consequences

Workch:
Nobody can control what you believe, it's your personal life however It becomes a problem when those who believe the fictional Bible can't keep it to themselves.
It's becomes a problem when they try to use those fictions to dictate how everyone should live their lives.
Everyone is aware of the fact that there's no rationality in the scriptures and those who believe it do that on the basis of faith and not reason, it's okay to believe whatever you want but it's not okay to spread such beliefs like cancer and literally make your fictional narratives the unfalsifiable truth. That's where Christianity has a problem

If your fictional stories have to be true then it's going to do so on the basis of rationality and evidence.

Religion is like a penis, it's okay to have it but when you flash it on the faces of those who don't want to see it, it becomes a problem.

ettaetta:
whenever i attend church and the pastor talks about hell, i find it hard to believe

*Why i am no longer sure if hell exist*

*The bible describes God as a loving father,*
Psalm 30;5 says�
For his anger lasts only a moment,
but his favor lasts a lifetime;

How can a sinner who didn't even live up to 100 years on earth be burning everyday in hell yet God who is love and merciful will not pity them? Well i dont think God is heartless.

I wanna ask a question, you as a human being who is not perfect, can you throw your child inside fire no matter what the did wrong Of course you will say no

So how do u expect God to do that??


This same God who advised us to forgive people who offend us 77 x 7 everyday

The wages of sin is death, sinners will be distroyed and wont resurrect with the Good people

The people who preach hell should bring more prove becos i am not convinced yet,

Ugmama:
You could withdraw with your debit card. If you don't have, go and get one.

Kaycee7:
- Boba back to his bounty hunting roots.

- Lan has to be the coolest drummer in the entire galaxy.

- I wonder if this dude is really sure he wants Jabba as a sponsor.

- Boba just grooving to da beat

Decent entry from Studio Colorado

Patrioticman007:
FG needs to start awarding money to virgins on their wedding days, but Muslims ladies will win 95 of the money.

FutureIsFemale:
Maybe he was swapped at birth.

I'm stating the possible outcome. Remember in my previous thread I stated clearly that I don't support infidelity.

ProfGday:
These terrorists and their loud mouth... Iran would be the first to cry like baby by the time Isreali soldiers bake them like suya....


Iran have the population but Isreal have the weapon

timesup234:
Because you refuse to research properly you will continue to be a sheep slaughtered at the temple of propaganda

Kobojunkie:
So you are willing to throw all your years and investment away like that?

FutureIsFemale:
Nollywood actor, Rotimi Salami has shared his opinion on the issue of paternity testing. In a post on social media, Salmi said, “I honestly think DNA test is not important unless someone is dragging your child with you. If you have a child you are raising you don’t need to go finding out the paternity, every child is your child. A father is someone who raised a child, not necessarily the sperm giver. Save urself the heart attack n protect that child’s emotions too.”


https://.com/unless-someone-drags-your-child-with-you-dna-test-is-not-important-actor-rotimi-salami/

sammirano:
I tell you.stupid people everywhere. Obviously, this one marriage wont last 6months, na the stupid girl wey marry am i sorry for.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

samwash:
@Op, you graduated with a 3rd class & you are there crying foul, some pple nor near school gate.
If you want to aquire more papper, go for a Pgd, before switching to the course you want.
By the time you hit the real world you will kwn that your 3rd class even the 1st class is irrelevant, and you will realize that you have been wasting your time after all these years of graduation.
You are just wasting your time in depression & self pity, dust up your self & keep moving.
The world is looking for entrepreneurs, innovator's, Creators, nobody send what you graduated with, the secret in skills,that is what will market you to the world.
If you are still in doubts go & ask Senator Dino Malaye. SDM.

FaithfuII18:
another third class spotted

silentvoice:
This appearance has been on my private part for as long as I can remember. It doesn't itch except when I shave on some occasions. I'm a 23 years female and not sexually active, is there a way for me to clear this? Does anyone have experience on what this is? I also keep having reoccurring boils close to my vagina

noblebaba:
Fellow people it's very real,Americans use it for hardened criminals even there was a musician in Nigeria with it in his body,Abike Dabiri is aware she has tried to let the American Government removed it but they refused the guy even came to a popular radio station in Lagos to appeal to Nigeria government to come to his aid.it's real o.

ivolt:
The man has mental problem and the trashy Sahara reporters is encouraging him.
People have been hearing voices even before human started settling in societies.

BTW, what voice was he hearing from the "chip" Mandarin Chinese or local Yoruba?

Shellsploit:
TOR!

Romanoff:
This is failed parenting.

If you ask people how many kids they'd like to have, some will still tell you four kids.

With these four kids, they have full time jobs, in order to support the home, the wife too will have a full time job or business.

Parents won't have time to raise kids properly or monitor what's going on in the lives of their kids.

It's not just enough to pay school fees, buy good clothes and phones and give them the best food. With all of these, they can still end up w disaster to the society, only a good upbringing can make us have a sane society.

May God epp us.

shogsman:
My little sister is 26 years old,this is a very articulate, beautiful,eloquent masters degree holder who was born and raised up in naija at least for the most part.for the sake of privacy I aiint going to get into too much details, just enough to show why I am suspecting her.
I watched this girl grow up in a normal typical yoruba household with 3 Male siblings and to my best of knowledge she's always got boys at her heels yearning for her attention as early as 17years of age which was about the time she was preparing to go to college.
What I've always known about her relationship is that she was never really committed to them,it was always a matter of convenience for her,but I just thought she was just different and biding her time.
This is a girl that has never seen any man as attractive no matter how much we or I pry,but like I said we never thought anything of it.
She went to Shreveport,USA for her bsc and ultimately her msc for almost 8years.
Like a responsible big brother I look her up time to time to check up on her and try to see what is going on with her life,because we happen to be the closest in the family, what I notice is that there is always a particular caucasian girl in the background whenever I Skype her which was once in a month at least .
At first I thought it was just a friend crashing at her place because I know she doesn't have a roommate she doesn't live in a frat house or even in school ,but this two seems particularly close cos they post pictures and pretty much everything together.
To burst the bubble, a couple of weeks ago she came back here for a wellness check or an holiday so we really connected, I haven't seen her in like 2 years so we had a lot to talk about which most definitely include relationship talks.but of course she just got back and I have to let her breathe first because my sister loves her space, she's not really the talkative kind.
A couple of days went by she came to my house to spend the night,she wanted to pay for a delivery online, poor girl thought her accounts will work here seamlessly but unfortunately the payment didn't go through so I took her phone to find a way around it.
Curiosity had me so I strolled into her gallery to find pictures of a sexy tall blonde replicating all over the phone, this pictures were personal pictures if I might add,I felt guilty for denying them their privacy but I was curious still so i checked messages, emails etc and yeah my suspicions were true.
This particular girl calls her like 3 times a day,they pretty much talk all the time really, it was during one of this calls I asked my sister who she was, she answered that it's just someone close to her back in the states, I slipped up and told her about the pictures so she got angry and left which was understandable.
What I deduced from their chats and all is that they've been dating for 5 years now and their relationship is pretty much open because my sister is in contact with both of the girl's parent.
Eventually I reached out to my sister again and apologized for going through her emails and I pretty much pressed her until she confirmed everything.
I was taken back a bit so I said to her,it is just a fling right,to which she replied ''big bro i don't do flings I am going to marry her''.
The problem now is that our parents are traditional especially our mother there is no way they will accept she is gay,and I know for a fact that this will definitely not stop my sister because she is a very resolute girl and she and the girl appears to be madly in love with each other ,the girl even had her name tattooed visibly on her neck.
I don't know what my next course of action should be now because I want to try and avoid creating any rift between her and our parents.

Coronabirus:
Please go and read the history of how Fulani herders had their cattles rustled, how they were extorted by judges, and police to the extent that they lost almost all the cattles they have to the atrocities of traditional rulers, police and judges, they were deprived all social amenities, their grazing lands were converted to farms just because they've no one to cry for them. Police arrest a herder and ask for millions of naira in exchange of it, judges ask millions untill they've no cattles anymore.
Finally, they take this option and it isn't easy to reach resolution of any kind with illiterate people because they don't know rules of engagement nor have the knowledge of dialogue or diplomacy. All Nigerian problems are product of poor governance, extremely poor. We don't have leaders but group of cruel people brainwashing and dividing their citizens along ethno-religious line to perpetuate their cruelty. I bet u if military wipe BH and bandits there will be another serious crises which will emanate from another part of the country due to injustice. People don't know when they start wars but only find themselves fighting it and that will be the end of peace and stability in those places!