Eprincess:
It is because of men like you that the world is still the way it is. This is the 21st century and a man is still bragging, " I can't marry a woman who is more ambitious".

It is men like you that will end up getting married to women with no ambition and when irritated, you get a divorce and start looking for an ambitious woman to marry.

What's wrong in getting married to a woman who is more ambitious, as long as you she respects you and fulfills her responsibilities as your wife.

Your mindset is weak... sorry

julie90:
I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.

Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.

Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.

I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.

I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.

This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.

Is it now a crime for a woman to be ambitious?

Johnny234:
Sure op u better don't kill ur self hell is hotter than naija even me as a student has taken garri to school for one weeks so abeg no try kill ur self ooo. God makes everything beautiful in his own time.

ritzyvic1:


Catfish pepper soup with red wine

ritzyvic1:
OP, I know exactly the drug you are looking for. It's used in countries where euthanasia is legal to help terminal ill patients go over to the other side.

But what you need right now is Jesus
Hell is hotter than naija, you better stay here and struggle with us. Most of us are not finding life that easy too

Howtoday:


Only if you know what others are passing through including myself.

wis3:
On the other hand you could choose to look at life don't differently. Everybody is going through a tough time and the hope that things will get better is the only thing that carries us through. Please don't attempt to take your life for if it fails, it can do irreparable damage the you.

BabaIbo:

Go and sit down.

Who is the original owner of that site before they were scattered around the world?

Livingwords:
These people can't give up their hate for jews

Chipink:


Dont tell me u do it too

Halopy:
80% of Russia supporters here on Nairaland are muslims and they are supporting Russia without any reasonable reason than for their hate against the west. Why not think about your own country, can Nigeria stand even 2days of invasion of such magnitude? Una go dey here dey show unnecessary hatred for America, and Uk. yet una country will still go cap in hand to the same west to collect aid. Shame!

EtteP:
Here in Delta State things are very expensive. One bag of pure water #300, a plate of food #500, changing of phone #100, POS #150 for 5k, barbing #500 etc. I thank God it's only few days that is remaining

Rubyjade:
My cousin sister who went to study her masters just came back home with her husband to be, she introduced him to my parents and the are making arrangements already for introduction. But, I have had a one night stand with him while he was in Nigeria in the club, in the rest room for that matter and he paid me.

Should I tell my sister the kind of man she is about to marry ? The guy did not even recognize me, I guess he has done it to a lot . BL should I save my sister or mind my business?

saphiere:
This rapist is still breathing oxygen?

zenensky:
We no buy again bread no sweet before sef

Wiseandtrue:
The worst aspect is that she said the guy mistakenly posted it and deleted it later

I mean, who does that SMH

Myer:
One of popular christian axioms is that God never makes mistakes. In fact there are worship songs about this.
Even though we can see that obviously God made several mistakes.
Interestingly at no point in the bible did God say he never makes mistakes. But some motivational pastors have always preached this.

Let us list the undeniable mistakes God made as accounted in the bible.
Note that this is in no way to diminish God's omnipotence, omnipresence and omniscience.
Just to let us come to the truth as written in the bible after all Christ declared himself as the Way, the Life and the Truth.

1. Mistake in the Garden of Eden:
When God created the Garden of Eden and placed the tree of knowledge of good and evil and tree of life in the same garden.
According to God, if Adam and Eve had eaten of the tree of life after eating of the tree of knowledge of good and evil man would have remained eternally in the sinful state.
If you ask me, even evicting Adam and Eve from the Garden did not solve the problem as man has remained eternally in a sinful state. Which is why Jesus was sent to redeem man into eternal life.

2. Creating and Elevating Lucifer
Lucifer according to the bible is who is today known as Satan. Before he became known as Satan, he was one of the primary arch angel meaning he was one of the Angels closest to God and he led God's army, worship, etc.
After elevating Lucifer, at some point the bible says iniquity was found in him and he wanted to be God.
God obviously did not see that coming.

3. Mistake of Creating man in the first place.
Though details of this cannot really be found in the bible but God supposedly created man because his earlier creation which are Angels (especially Lucifer and his supporting angels) had failed him.
God supposedly created man to prove to Angels that he could have people worship him out of freewill.
Why did God eventually destroy the earth and preserve Noah and his family?
It was because God regretted creating man in the first place.

4. Mistake of the Promised Child
After the Adam and Eve fell from glory by eating of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, God cursed the serpent and promised to send a child that would crush the serpent though the devil would bruise his heels.
God sent so many to fulfill this promise, from Seth to Isaac, Samson, etc but it never worked.
This failure continued until God sends Himself in human form who we call the only begotten son Jesus Christ.

5. Mistake of Freewill
Apparently the story of man's continued disobedience to God can be attributed to one simple factor, Freewill.
God supposedly gave man freewill because he did not want to force man to love him. He wanted to have a relationship with man as Father and Son unlike with the Angels. Yet it is this that has made God lose the power to redeem man because man's will is inclined to continue in sin and hedonism than piety and holiness.

6. Mistake of Religion
God created man to have a relationship with him.
Yet to achieve this God had to select certain fathers of faith as they are called to establish a religion. First with Noah (the Noic laws) then with Abraham (Abrahamic laws) and then Moses (Mosaic laws) before finally sending Jesus to uphold the laws but then establish a new law of love.
Religion is very dogmatic. Even though Christian's have been taught that Chris established a new law of love which his disciples and apostles preached, man has already gotten hooked to the religious laws that those who make money of the laws will never let it go.
Hence why there are various factions of Christianity and other religions.

7. Mistake of Approach to Salvation
Christianity is the acceptance of that God sent his only begotten son who had never committed any sin to be illed and sacrificed for the sins of mankind.
Yet after the sacrifice of Christ, sin still abounds and even multiplying exponentially.
Would it not have been easier for God to simply killthe source of sin which is Satan and his demons/angels? Just saying.


Do you disagree that God made mistakes, let's discuss.

Abfinest007:
Rubbish let see how she will get pregnant.you can't beat God in creation

Righteousness2:
Wow! Reminds me of the Scripture where JESUS said, if Humans will not Praise HIM, the stones will cry out.

In a World filled with Evil, Wickedness, Hate ,tribalism and all kinds of evil inventions and intentions , the water creatures are Passing a Message that we need Love.

The Greatest Love is that JESUS gave HIS Life that we might be Saved from Destruction and Hell.
Do not let this Love be in vain.
Come to JESUS Now that you can. The next Moment is not Guaranteed

drealcivilceno:
He has just shot himself and this religion in the foot. You never want to innovate, IT HAS SHOWN THAT. MUSLIMS BE WARNED

I mean flog them like thieves because they celebrated a birthday party even with Alchohol that all of you shack like pure water inside your houses.

Religion is not what you want, rather, it is what is beneficial to the populace.

I attended a boarding school in delta and flogging like this was on a daily basis. It's not religion Nigerians just love child abuse
There is something called community service for God sake, stop scarring children for life

Hezmatosky:
This man must be yoruba

MufasaLion:


You seem deluded and I won't indulge you no more.

MufasaLion:


And who told you I'm religious or have a religion?