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PaperLace:
YOUR DECISION ISN'T "HARSH".
1.Women are not robots. Cheating hurts them. It isn't enough to use condoms, you have to be psychologically prepared to have sex with him.
2. Forgiveness is gradual, it isn't instant.
3. No one should coerce or threaten you into forgiving.
4. Don't make yourself feel bad, he is the cheat.

OP, my problem with your lack of forgiveness is that, it's coming from a place of revenge;
1. You mentioned dual ownership of the house, you haven't let go _'cos you feel you are seated pretty and he can't do anything. Enviable way to sit for a NIGERIAN WIFE.

2. You mentioned he comes home late. Do you feel he isn't remorseful ENOUGH?

Whichever one it is, forgive your husband, he has apologised. Call your husband and tell him your grievances, if he loves you _he'll do things to make the weight easier on you.

He should go for necessary tests. Your good health is more important than the marriage or his libido (harsh but true). You both can also see a professional counsellor to guide you through this. Don't mention it to any unprofessional third party, it should remain a secret.

Nairaland Resident Marriage Counsellor...

weownthewest:
When I said that yorubas are demon possessed some people did not understand. This thing is a testement to that

That nincompoop you quoted is an Awusa-Fulani alamajiri... You can take that to the bank. Go through all his posts, its always about inciting Igbos and Yorubas against themselves.

rentAcock:
This boko haram descendant is filled with vitriol and he seems so pained with just about everything. The highly opinionated buffoon has been on a social media rampage of bashing whoever he wants. From Daddy freeze, to Davido, to Bobrisky and now to 2face, this torchlight wading mallam is desperately trying to stay relevant. When other musicians were stepping up their game in the late 90's, the torchlight wading cattle rancher didn't innovate or evolve with the times and later went extinct like the dodo. The idiot is just pained because he has no substantial money-yielding investments nor does he have a record label nor did he sign any upcoming artistes during his prime. What a sad lonely man, trying everything to remain in the lime light.

Too much ado about nothing.. You dont even know what you're talking about. Zaki Azzay isnt same as Eedris Abdulkarim.

Alariiwo:
Cry you say?

Wish I was a soldier right now, I'll personally request for posting to the East.

If your chuku alabama comes down, I'll shoot him and if na gidigbo we go fight am till the end.

Nothing stops you from enlisting into the Nigerian Army... Or are you condemned to remain an internet warrior till death?

obailala:
Like I've always said, the only way IPOB can achieve its sit-at-home order is by intimidating potential voters with threats of violence.

Make we hear word... You sound like you're in pains

NwaAmaikpe:



In the words of Sean 'Jay-Z' Carter; "You can pay for school but you can't buy class".

Wealth isn't class,
Class is innate.

The Otedolas may have money; but they lack true class.

I lost all respect for Femi the moment Cuppy ridiculed him by dating a mere footballer.
Then the 'other one' worsened it by dating a scarecrow.

Will you shut your trap!

I wouldn't know much about the scarecrow you're referring to... But Victor Anichebe has successfully made both money and fame for a boy of his age. What makes him classless? Compare that with your miserable self at 36...

ensamy:
Chai!! I remember Algiers '90 nation cup when this guy Emenalo break one Algerian player leg with very baaaaad tackle.

You're wrong. It was Bright Omokaro, an Afonja that ended the Algerian player's career. Emenalo joined the Super Eagles only for the USA 94 World Cup

poseidon12:
You can say that again lady. Buhari is a disaster. The bigot should go back to his village so that a competent administration can start the process of repairing the damage caused by Buhari (and Jonathan).

You must find a way to justify the fatal error you made in March 2015... Won't you?

lofty900:
nice stats but we are no longer in form

On the contrary, our form has improved from what it was a few years ago whereas Argentina has seriously dipped in form in recent times.

lofty900:
Cant wait for the match jare. na to carry argentina over 3.5 for bet9ja stake 5000. lol

We can look at the Head to Head statistics.

1994 World Cup - Argentina 2 - 1 Nigeria
1995 Confederations Cup - Argentina 0 - 0 Nigeria
2002 World Cup - Argentina 1 - 0 Nigeria
2010 World Cup Argentina 1 - 0 Nigeria
2011 International Friendly Nigeria 4 - 1 Argentina
2011 International Friendly Argentina 3 - 1 Nigeria.
2014 World Cup Nigeria 2 - 3 Argentina
1996 Olympics Finals Nigeria 3 - 2 Argentina
2008 Olympics Finals Argentina 1 - 0 Nigeria

It hasn't exactly been an easy ride for Argentina anytime they play Nigeria. Right now the Albiceleste isn't in their best of form and they struggled throughout the qualifiers. Expect a good match up.

omenka:
Can't you see Nairaland is fast sanitising itself and folks are moving away from disgusting attacks like this?

Very soon, you'd be a lone voice talking to itself on the forum.

Yoruba Muslim this and that. It is getting too stale and boring.

Get over yourself.

I'll take you serious when you stop shouting IPOD YOOT upandan... Or are you tired already?

9japrof:
Nigerians have truly be scammed by ajala...

....and because he has high libido, he would always take madam so that she can be doing za other room functions

Whatever that Sudanese man Jubrin does with Aishatu is adultery. I'm sure adultery isn't part of the agreement with Jubrin.

Amarabae:
Why protesting in Lagos?
why looking for trouble and creating enemity here and there?
I just don't understand Ipob most of the time.

Sometimes I am forced to start doubting if actually you're what you claim to be. The rally is all about bringing the campaign to Biafrans in Lagos and they number in their millions. So what's your grouse? So long as the event remains peaceful and within the ambits of the law, why should anybody complain?

amanda2013:
Which Igbo are you defending?you are defending your pocket.paid per post

That idiot is not Igbo... Don't be deceived by his moniker.

omenka:
I pray God his dreams and those of the people who share common ideals with him come true.

Mods this statement in no way violates rule 9, so don't bring the hammer on me. Seems the only thing that gets me banned these days is violation of rule 9.

Thanks.

Hoemenka you mean they actually wield the big hammer on your matter?

raphafire:
U r so myopic...u think everyone that post a comment on Biafra topic is from Southwest?? SMH

What's the relationship between what I posted and the South-Waste? I guess Ratak is a popular beverage in that region.

PointZerom:
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You're not far from the truth...

raphafire:
What did he go there to do abeg? I didn't read the write up.... Abi na familiarization tour the Nigga dey now
Pls what does he do for a living ?

He does Biafra for a living... Now go and get a bottle of Ratak.

Yyeske:
You know within your conscience that I got that Igbo you wrote even those you got a bit wrong, continue calling me afonja or whatever, you just can't take away my Igboness. I speak my Igbo better than you in the first place just that anyone against IPOB these days is afonja.
Soon Eze Nri and Obi of Onitsha will become afonjas too

You sound very desperate and troubled.... Why?

Dollyak:
You are not Yoruba or you are ignorant about the negative effects of Nigerian government on our people.
The fact south west has been declining since the end of regional systems is pretty conclusive. There are too many major tribes with waring interest for Nigeria to succeed.
If you're indeed a Yoruba, open your eyes to the strategic effort to divert all Nigeria resources to the north while frustrating southwest and other regions.

The northerners don't care or love yoruba and they have made no secret about that. So spare us the unionist bull.

Are you for Oduduwa Republic or Biafra? I guess both.

Dual nationality loading...

SLIDEwaxie:
Who cares?

Bad leadership is what that area is kways known for...

Your own area hasn't seen better leadership either. Filthy Afonja muslims always talking nonsense all the time.

Oyindidi:
the second pix though. Snake in the short

If you weren't a hornyy, sex-starved misery of a woman, you would've noticed that the 'snake' you saw is an outline made by the mobile phone in his pocket. Maybe you should take another look and this time much more closely without the usual dirty thoughts that plague your subconscious.

DaniDani:
Nawao, this life sha. The man de use leg de tell people waka.

Or rather he's always on bicycle kick mode

GabdelandAgro:
I see its moving truely. big risk, but how is this possible?

The car will remain suspended while still in motion and it has to be at top speed. The moment he slows down or stops, that vehicle must go down!

vizkiz:
My point exactly.

The whole biafra shìt will only lead to massacre

Who will massacre who?

Warship:
You wan kill me with laugh


The guy don turn omnipresent


Nigerians no go kill person with laugh

I seriously tire for Afonjas. They're showing very disturbing signs of desperation. The last one week has been a complete nightmare for them.

uyplus:
I just de wait for d day that idiot go step him foot for Uyo, Calabar, Warri, Yenagoa since dem all be biafran territory as e claim. Deluded human being..

Only you dey for Uyo, Calabar, Warri and Yenagoa Are you omnipresent? You be God?

Beremx:
I am beginning to like Nnamdi Kanu because of the attention he's getting....
Those unknown insignificant Yoruba youths should shut up abeg!

Ndi ara!

Na waa...

Compared to Berem of a few years ago, this is unbelievable. Your transformation will remain a testimony even for generations yet unborn. God is really wonderful!

Dividends of Chanji...

NtoAkwaIbom please report here!