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@aisha2, if u know how my in laws love me ehn! U self go fear. My only problem is that the love is fake. Like I said before, they all know where they should be now so chill, no be that kain problem wey u think. Yeye dey smell! Mtschew

And I just had a good laugh. Honestly, I don't know who and what you think you are that I should be scared of. I tell you this, one day, you would look for fight and when you see it, you would run and never look back. People like you are the reason some people don't share their stories on NL. I now know that you are actually one of such women that's why the thing de pain u so much. Like I said before, fight yourself or fight your husband. Nansense!

aisha2: Ain't you just the perfect little Hypocrite? You came with your local sob story and started calling me names in hiding I am bold enough to call you out and ask you to do it openly instead the coward you are you turn yourself to miss victim.
You will continue tonnage problems with your in laws Hypocrite

People are different and the fact that I go through certain things in my marriage doesn't make my marriage bad. The truth is, my husband cannot be like another person's own and I don't ever make the mistake of comparing him with another man because there are certain things he could do for me that another man may not. For instance, I married a man who sees nothing wrong in washing the toilet and bathroom, takes his plates to the kitchen after eating, doesn't let me wash his clothes cos he says I'm not a slave and some other things but cooking, washing dishes and other kitchen related matters are no go areas for this same man. Would I for this reason say he's not a good man? And should I make a woman who says her own cannot wash toilet feel like she married the wrong person? This is what I was trying to say. My post was not in any way targeted @ anyone, pls.

@Hispinkolo, adashi means contribution.

@Hispinkolo, WWE ke! I'm too big for that. I actually typed an epistle meant 4 aisha2 after she quoted me but posted it on a wrong thread. I changed my mind after seeing her response 2 Godmystrength. Not everyone is worth having a decent discussion with. I really love this thread and don't want it turned into a war zone. Aisha2, I have nothing to say to you. You just showed your true self and you know what, I don't go around jumping @ people's posts in order to start a fight. Go ahead, fight yourself! Thanks.

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@ Hispinkolo, truth is I have interacted with so many married women and unfortunately, most of them don't say things as they are. I had one in my office that presented the hubby as the best. This woman would do adashi(don't know if u know what that is), get herself a phone and other things and tell us her hubby bought them for her even without u asking her o! There are some women u listen to and u just feel like u made the worst mistake of a husband. They just can't be real! I don't associate with such women for long because I no want wahala @ all. What I meant by pretence is presenting your marriage as perfect always when we all know it is not always perfect. That u have in laws who are not nice doesn't make your marriage bad na! For instance, when people see the way I relate with my in laws, they say I'm lucky to be married into a very nice family where there's so much love not knowing its eye service. About my in laws, I have a husband who's exactly like yours-not standing up 4 me except in a few cases that he was there himself. I had 2fight d battle myself not minding how hubby felt after reporting 2him severally without him taking any action than telling me that its a phase that would pass.

Hispinkolo, Snazzylove, Godmystrength and all those who are keeping it real on this thread, well done! I can relate 2 so many issues here especially those of Hispinkolo. I just hate it when some people come on-line 2 write what they can never do just to portray themselves as super women/wives. #Fakepeopleeverywhere# I mean, some people claim to have the best of everything @ all times. Hispinkolo, I had a good laugh @ most of your stories. I have my own stories too jare. Most of my in laws are pretenders and sooooooooo fake. They can kneel down(even the ones wey senior me self) just to greet me when hubby is there, call me aunty, madam, all sorts of pet names but for my back na different tory. Somehow, I always get 2find out what they say about me when I'm not there. I hate pretence a lot so I have learnt 2 put them all where they belong after one katakata wey open most of their nyansh. They are so ashamed of themselves now that they I know who they trully are. Long story jare! I will be back.