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Am into this situation too. I need advice toooooooooooooooooooooooooooohhhhhooooooooooooo. yes i need advice too.

hello to u all nbairaland vewer!

pls i urgently need you suport on this my issue, which is;

I had a girl which i really care for and she also care for me too. when i was in secondary school in sss 3 and she his in secondary sch. too. so our love continue's after i finish my secondary school and it last for 4yrs, before she changed her mind not to go with me again.
though i tried my best to make her understand that i still love her but she never answer me for once, she kept insisting to leave me.
In three mounth later i found a real new lover and we started our relationship,and now it almost 6 mounth we've spent meaning that this is just the beginning.

sudenly that my ex-lover came to me that she want us to continue. and she his very sorry 4 the mistake she made that nothing of such will happon again.But i never answer her for once and she keep on sending her friends and my friends to beg me. to cut my story shot.

am confuse of which step to take because i realy love this my new lover and my ex-lover has done alort and spent for me while i was in secondaryt sch,which any of lover has never done before.
So now her friends and mine are beging me to continue with there two.

So pls i realy need your reply because am getting ninny.
thanks to u all.

[b] It baffle so much that most of the girls don,t understand guys.girls sorry to say this(though not all), not that i want to craet an insult but to tell the reality.

I had a lover girl which i care for so much that i do all she want for her and make sure she fill fine and happy when ever she is with me. I never hut her for a minute so i keep on caring for her as our love got to 3yrs old, her parent his aware that she has a guy who have been coming to check her and she has been going to the guy also but her parent has not seen me for once, but she introduce almost her friends to me at school and at home. Soddenly she just choose to have another guy out side without me been aware of it, Although she still have the love for me but she just feel like claiming wise.So when got to know i called her and sit her down that that is not the best way to live with this our love and make a big point to her that we have been having sex for long time and is up to 10 or 12 times, that i should be the one to get tired of her but i don't mind, i still show her the love, that why she cheating on me?not to go too far.

she kept on having guys but i have cut her off, though she was crying i choose to let her go.
But to be sincere i have some girls out their but i choose to make her my real lover of all. But now am with another lover girl, which i love than her.

So my fellow nairaland viewers what do you think can cause this kind of situation.(all guys have more girls but they make one the best of all, sure )

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Hello to my fellow NAIRALAND USER.
I have a lover gel who claim to be my forever and she made me understand what actually is love.although i have been having relationship whit gels for the past 8yrs but the moment i found her in 4months back i never think of being a player again. she never made me lonely for a day, she keep on calling, though i never buy her a recharge card before and do call her too.
This my lover am telling u about his a kind that if i loose her anything can happen to me and am sure she will not want to loose me too.

So here is a month of calibration's(xmas and new year) so am confuse of to what to buy for this kind of lover who claim to have me without been wedded.
pls this same thing to your self that kind of gift can u give to this serious lover gel/guy.

thanks to you all as i stay cam to receive your reply.
HAPPY XMAS AND NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL. I LOVE YOU.

In fact am confuse of wat to buy,Girl are very objective, when you don't buy hem gift that will be a problem. And if you do, they may say they don't want this.
So am looking forward to you guys to give me example of you feel is the best for that day(Xmas and new year) and you gels too to let us know what kind of thing you will appreciate? (no pad) and (not more than N1,000) because i know some gels will be using this point as opportunity to buy all their January to December want, yes

so thanks as i look to see your reply urgently (pls no abuse or insult should come in pls)

HAPPY XMAN AND NEW YEAR TO NAIRALAND VIEWER

Well i can sey gels get sense but dey nofitt tink, infact many girls are fool(apart from my gel ). they love who dont care for them but dump those that love.
ask fela well and fashola

@musty405
You don't need to be telling her this word,all i think the advice should be by taking him back, even if you are christain or islamic religion is writen that we should learn how forgive. me while, this so called guy his acting immediately because he doesn't want to loose her.

@poster

my advice to you once more that you should not leave him.reason:

1. He beat you?
Although is not proper to race hand to slap someone girl but angry cause it.and you should understand something that if he doesn't need you any more he would have left.
2. He don't like seeing you with guys?
He has reason with that, i belief you know the way girl are doing now,( but i understand you been together for the past 4 years)may be such a thing as happen at where he his that why he's afraid of loosing you.

BUT i belief you should understand that he loves you by taking some of his time to come down to your school.
And are those people who are telling you leave him going to replace him?or will they find one for you?and what about if you dump him and found the warsed one?
I think this is the right time for you to come back to your senses and take him back before it his too late and am sure abandon him for this long is a lesson enough to make him change to good.

good luck. hi to all Naira land

Well i kno get much to se than to tell you not to be worry because God created both of u to assist each other let just belief that laeving your guy for her is one of the assist you gave to her
She may have to leave the wedding day for u as an assistance also. so no lontin. (twins twins)

#5 on: Yesterday at 11:51:56 PM »

Noooo
don't take him back, Any man that raises up his hand to hit a woman is a monster
the way u guys re goin, if end up marryin him, then we'll have to set up a boxing ring in your house. You had better left this guy because he's not he social type. He sees evry guy around you as threat. And u sef, must all ur frends be guys only The bottom line is, "he's not the man for you"

Alba?
Hello@poster,
I must tell you the truth which is to still stick with the guy.and you are lucky 4 having a guy that cares about your doing in school and your life activities.
although me i don't really like beating but there something you must know which is that, if not that he still have the love for u, he would have gone without doing any thing so i belief the reason he beat you is just 4 the love.

To let him understand that you really love him, on a good day tell him you are coming over to his house,look 4 what he like's so much and buy them 4 him. play with him 4 almost 1hr then go on your kneel and look directly to his eyes (love site) and put a question to him,'Do you love me?'(surely he will reply yes) then tell him that u really care and love him too. Go ahead and tell him that the way his beating you is not the way to make you love him that you love him with every thing his doing but you don't like the way his beating you and make him to understand that most of you curse mate are guys and you don't have anything with them than to play and study together.
And lastly make sure you call him if he does not call and always ask him how is work and how he does not have have much stress. put some kinds of lovely statement to him to make him really experience the love you have 4 him. SO DON'T LEAVE HIM.
(but what about if you lave him and found the wasted one)

no, no, NO, and, NO(impossible).
If his me oooooooooo.NO big deal than to forget the wedding.then i will go to and stay on a mountain 4 good 1 week and come back to look for good and reliable lover .

e)red cells and cone cells,

don't forget to mark me right!

am waiting @poster. i suggest u are professor woleshoyinka's son or brother. any question again?

I have been praying that Africa will be a good continent.

well i belief one day things will work fine Africa. as fela anikulapokuti has been singing
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well no probs but think well and know wat u want to put your into

This question should not be the beginning of query, b'cos no body has been query. so it not composary that all have to reply but it is necessary we know what is going on in this government issue of liking than others @kobojunkie, Don't be angry


thanks for your respond.

There is a controversy going on in Nigeria by Nigerians that governor babatunde fashola is the best governor Nigeria we ever have.
Although to me i high appreciate is effort in make Nigeria the best shop-line for the would were people will come from deferent country to enjoy and we Nigeria we stop going out of the country.
But i never for a minute accept this because i know many governors has don appropriate too, like formal governor.

So i wont u guys to convince me that fashola is the governor in Nigeria.

@poster, i suggest you go to a high mountain and start shouting that you want a lover.
nonsense boy, go and read your book. Grin Grin

if u can give me your sister then i will fine one for u (not that your fat sister) the slim one i know.let change for your satisfaction.
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@poster, i suggest you go to a high mountain and start shouting that you want a lover.
nonsense boy, go and read your book.

if u can give me your sister then i will fine one for u (not that your fat sister) the slim one i know.let change for your satisfaction.
oooookkk, the best triad by bartar

There is a controversy going on in Nigeria by Nigerians that governor babatunde fashola is the best governor Nigeria we ever have.
Although to me i high appreciate is effort in make Nigeria the best shop-line for the would were people will come from deferent country to enjoy and we Nigeria we stop going out of the country.
But i never for a minute accept this because i know many governors has don appropriate too, like formal governor.

So i wont u guys to convince me that fashola is the governor in Nigeria.

Am among those that sat 4 offa poly screening exam, and they said result is out and some have been checking there's, but till am writing now i can get mine. Anybody in offa to check if the admission list is placed there to comfirm mine 4 me please. my full name is OLADIMEJI GABRIEL SEGUN(civil engineering). and how do you think of there admission in offa (good or bad).

So i look with forward with thanks to hear from u all, thax

love u all.

This as been the comment we have been earing from how government that police is our friend. me while, we can not point their support to the country.
So my there friends it is high time to know if actually police is our friend or not.
so am looking forward know what u have.

POLICE IS OUR FRIEND!. NO our ?

Am among those that sat 4 offa poly screening exam, and they said result is out and some have been checking there's, but till am writing now i can get mine. Anybody in offa to check if the admission list is placed there to comfirm mine 4 me pls. my full name is OLADIMEJI GABRIEL SEGUN(civil engineering). and how do you think of there admission in offa (good or bad).

So i look with forward with thanks to hear from u all, thax

love u all.