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Tessasset:
Thanks, I'm taking so much from what you said

You are always welcome....you and only you would know if he indeed deserves a second chance going forward...but do well not to forget not to allow love becloud your vigilance and decisions.

Mtcheew...

I thought he won bet9ja...

No be only his excellency...na his Presidency..

Where are you located...we could work together...

I'm surely going into the ministry...

Hmmm....

If you are sure the relationship is still salvageable seeing how much you still love him coupled with his show of remorse, how about to give yourself time to get over this betrayal, have a deep heart to heart with him on how you won't be condoning such stabs from behind in the future and get on with it.

The truth I see is that, your bf like most of us men never expected you'd see his philandering chats or else he'd have erased every traces of them from his phone.

The remorse could be genuine or more of "I Bleep up..why I forget to erase the chats' and could herald the beginning of a new revamped and international cheater who'd be doing so with the mind of making sure he never gets found out this cheap going forward.

A very deadly mix you now have in your hands..just keep smart, vigilant and let not your guards down.

If your hunches are convincing that he isn't changed...drop his arse like a hot potato and soldier on...

Guys yakpa for town...no time for dulling. ..

Wish you well...

Very good...

Most crimes will be hard to pull off without insider-collaborations with some wicked armed-bandits disguised and employed as security agents.

Greedy bastards...

They should be locked up in the same jail they used to Lord over...

The thing be like human meat sef...

Nonsense and ingredient thread...

Wahala dey for wire road....

Subhanallah

If he's a cultist what is he battling life for...this is what he signed up for and surely got it coming deservedly.

Stupid cowardly boys...

Donmedra:
dude you need help

You are a clear case of an irredeemable dimwit. ..


Ashlock

Donmedra:
you must be stupid if you think those people are only from Edo state.

By the way Edo population is over 20 million

Your life is a sorry one...

I pity people who are unfortunate enough to have a dealing with you on a daily..

What a cursed and a lost soul...

Tuehhhhhh.....ozwor

megareal:
Sorry, I have to quote you. Your analysis leaves me perplexed because I am just like the wife of the OP. I have never shown my husband off on social media. No wedding pix, no cute lovey dovey stuff. I don't wish him happy birthday or comment on his post cos we are not friends.
Apart from our circle, folks on social media don't know I'm married to him. I love hubby like crazy, I'm proud of him and would sacrifice anything for him but in my mind, social media is a taboo when it comes to family. I hide my family like kilode. Hubby has never complained nor commented. I don't need to announce to the world that my marriage is good.

I am also very none enthusiastic when given gifts. They don't trip me, reason I couldn't be bought by any man when single. I used to react that way when hubby gave me gifts, even when he bought me a car, now I muster up a little excitement to thank him just so he wouldn't feel bad. I am not demanding neither do I care about his money.

Why I am writing this is because I see myself in that woman, and since I am just like her I'm wondering if your analysis is wrong. I do not have a secret lover or love interest. I've only ever loved my husband in the real sense of the word and the thought of cheating has never crossed my mind, so I'm wondering, could you be wrong about her?.

@OP, your wife MAY just be like me. I don't presume to know what goes on in your marriage, but I'd advise you take most of the advice given here with caution. An innocent woman may just be accused wrongly by folks whose first explanation to everything is cheating.

Do you also show off your pics and crop off your husband from the photograph or go chatty chatty with male colleagues online?

Donmedra:
you must be stupid if you think those people are only from Edo state.

By the way Edo population is over 20 million

I feel sorry every time I see dimwitted asswipes like you on my mention. You are the definition of a life cursed and wasted.

Beautiful response from Bob...

I like Shim a lot for even working on improving himself in written English all thanks to the SM.

A good hustler and a spirit any entrepreneur prepared for greatness should imbibe...

No look anybody face or listen to any side talks...keep focused and be diligent in your (legitimate) hustle, you'd surely come out on the other side stronger and better with some perseverance. ..

Na the whole Benin been move to Libya..haba the returnees no dey finish abi some black Libyans and other African Nationals don dey follow directions m come back to Nigeria?

I won't be surprised if NEMA and other agencies are already into some racket with this by showing off some phantom returnees just to enable them exhaust a budget..

Hmmm

Looks like a toy croc though...

If real, then she's certainly a potential meal for her amphibious friend some day...

Beauty and Brains indeed.

I only hope you ain't or won't be "Abnormal" to your hubby like one op here...

Butter fingers indeed...no be lie..

The thing pain Pickford well well sha...

English people and beer plus fight...na 5, 6 and 7..

Pragmaticman:
Bro, my name is also Gaby, u said my mind already. U nailed it

This guy is just a mumu.

With all these signs, he still married her, and still living with her.

To the OP, pls u need to understand that u got married to yourself, that lady wil relocate overseas and abandone you. If u like, relocate with her abroad because u don't want to lose her.
The reality is that, u can't lose what you don't have. In her mind, u are not her husband. U are just a pun

The guy's dream was to have a career/professional wife obviously and when he landed this Doctor, he lost all his manly senses by ignoring crucially important tell tale signs that would have prevented a topic like this.

The guy tries too hard to impress the woman yet she still fails to get impressed, all she feels is more repulsion instead and oga fails to see any of these.

If you know how choking or suffocating it can be when someone you truly have no genuine love for is all over you and trying tooth and nail to impress you, you'd even feel sorry for the woman.

The woman is quiet and reserved my ass...wished there was a way you could see her in a room alone with someone she truly loves only then will you understand that true love knows no inhibitions.

Eyaaa...

Every parent's worst nightmare and pain.

R.I.P Kola

Benwallt:
Osalobua! Is this advice or hypolically bleached rundown. This thing you wrote though true and detailed fit make this man hang himself. He was looking 4 hope but you just told him he was right in the middle of pacific hopelessness.

Obhioba...I might be kinda chatty chatty here but in the real life I'm very laid back, reserved, talk less and I observe more.

I enjoy saying and dealing with issues just as they are an attribute that many find too "blunt" but I no fit come dey learn lefty for this my old age.

If you ask me for opinion I go tell you how e be then tell you say make you no vex o because I no fit lie...

naturefellow:
truth is v bitter!

Very bitter I tell you...when a truth is always "sweet" that's a very huge "lie"...

atikulated2019:
you Sir deserve to empty my account
your a legend

Lol...your account shall keep filling up and running over...

I no sabi carry water for mouth talk...I say it the way it is my brother.

Life school na im I go...that's a very serious school where you no fit dodge class or buy grades by whatever means.

Why won't your wife get angry when you don't touch her for three days straight.

Do you ignore your car for those three days as well?

That's cheating na..you need to keep warming and oiling the engine to avoid friction and a potential knock..

It is okay by West African standards..

I know say baba sabi write o...but if na him write this thing ehn....

I know no wetin to write sef..

The flesh and body is truly so fragile...I can't even begin to imagine the pains the burnt victim must be dealing with.

Speedy recovery to the injured and R.I.P to the deceased...

Every human no matter how dark has an oyibo under his or her skin. ..

We are all albinos skin deep...

waletoke12345:
I know eweje very well the street after oloira my mother sold food amala at Ayinde street the gate close to abeokuta street I even attent ajibulu primary school

Most of my friends live in eweje close to aviation estate AMEED is one of my friend his father was a royal kind somewhere in Osun state










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Wow...nice...grew up in Eweje before Ajibulu and Olowora not far from Makinde...

Lol a small world it is...

UyaiIncomparabl:
Thought you're a seamstress? What has classroom got to do with sewing?

Hahaha....this babe and Victorian ehnnn una case na war...

Were you guys per chance buddies in your former life and decided on the opposite in the present?

Thanks op I really needed this..

Just imagine Wizzy this tiny as a 50 year old...lol

Small man making big things happen..