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Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Who Vowed To Be Deported From Canada Over His Dead Body Dies by gaby(m): 9:21pm On Aug 15, 2018
In Edo, we call this " talking and do".

It's a sad one to chose to rather die stateless than to be sent back to your home country, a sad reality that says a lot and a straight up indictment on our governments, policy makers and Politicians. It's overdue a time for them to wake and live up to their responsibilities .

The issues presently driving people to these decisions of " I'd rather kill myself by myself, rather than sit, do nothing and die by myself", are exactly part of the reasons most of my set did the irregular migration in '99. The causes and effects are still very much alive with no possible end in sight, but we'll keep keeping hope alive.

Rest in Peace dude, you died trying.
The power of life and death, resides in the tongue ...


Click on my siggy to my irregular migration story...Getting an interview with a Maltese media...yayyyy grin
Politics › Re: Arewa Youths Back Saraki, Caution Oshiomhole On Utterances by gaby(m): 5:39pm On Aug 15, 2018
It's truly beginning to appear like Bubu isn't going to be in the race truly...
Celebrities › Re: Davido Flaunts Shirtless Tattooed Body In New Photos, Says “Na Dem De Rush Us” by gaby(m):
In fact Davido, I gbansky you joor...no be everybody must get ripped body and multiple packs... Flaunt your one pack well my guy...you chop belleful.


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Politics › Re: Osinbajo Inspects Gamji Water Project (Photos) by gaby(m): 4:20pm On Aug 15, 2018
SocialJustice:
It is just silly. This man probably spent N50m or more for logistics to drink from a tap.
I no sure say Somalia or Djibouti still dey do this kind nonsense..
Politics › Re: Osinbajo Presides Over FEC Meeting (Photos) by gaby(m): 4:15pm On Aug 15, 2018
Nice one...Osinbande is beginning to take some good amount of shine and I'm not very sure the cabalistic ancestors will be very happy.
But it's very obvious the Prof doesn't lose a sleep over them and he understand the enormous powers his office (acting or otherwise) wields.

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Politics › Re: Osinbajo Inspects Gamji Water Project (Photos) by gaby(m):
This our style of commissioning and what we are even commissioning in this century is pretty laughable.

Can't stop laughing seeing the ribbons Abi na flag tied around a tap.
Hopefully, we'll get there soon sha.
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Crime › Re: Graphic Photo Of Another Nigerian Man Attacked By Cultists In Malaysia by gaby(m): 2:12pm On Aug 15, 2018
Hustle don get k-leg, Malaysian economy don dey sleep na self immolation now..

Make una continue...

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Family › Re: What Is The Funniest Moment Of Your Childhood? See Mine! by gaby(m):
Mine was sometime in 1987 just a week after daddy and mummy had increased our numbers by giving us a number 7 sibling (a girl).

We lived in Mgbuosimini area of Rumueme, Port Harcourt, Rivers State.

I and my friend (Chijioke) had decided to stroll down to the water side down our street for a swim at the river as was become usual.

On this day, Chijioke and I had overstayed at the river oblivious to how far gone the day had been, and a search party had already been constituted to go find us. This search party literally consisted of the entire Agip village area due to ritual killings here and there, plus occasional drownings at the river.

While still enjoying our swim to and fro the breath of the river in an attempt to see who could go farthest and to the deepest parts, when the search party arrived without my parents except Chijioke's dad (Mr Maduka).

We were both bundled in our birthday suits and made to make the long walk of shame from the water side through the streets down to our house.

While we made the long walk with our tiny pee-pees dangling, we were constantly lashed at with a koboko, even as we were made to dance to songs chanted by our lucky playmates who were lucky not to had been involved in our truancy on that fateful day.

I can't forget Mr Maduka leading and conducting the small choir that had gathered behind us with his rendition " flog them like a Nama, flog them like a thief, they are not rivers men flog them like a Nama.

After the community humiliation and upon arriving at our compound, I'd noticed this unusual quiet in our usual bubbly compound and I instantly knew I and Chijioke's sin was an unpardonable one to have had such negative effect on the community in general and our compound in particular.

I had found a corner of our compound to perch, while working out in my head how I was to take in the strokes from daddy's belt before the usual "pick-a-pin" session as was customary, when one of my younger siblings ran up to me and said "pita pita, baby don die".

I can't remember if I cried because I lost my baby sister or from what I suffered from daddy and mummy that night.

The beating I received even made me start believing I killed the innocent baby. I hear nwiiiiin...unforgettable.
Dem beat me sotey I come dey call my daddy " mummy" come dey call mummy "daddy".

Story and more is in my book on my profile and part of what inspired my irregular migration, just to find a way to make my family proud and out of the throes of poverty.

Peace out.

N.B
Daddy and mummy went on to replace number seven the next year with yet another girl. They went about adding on numbers eight to ten (all girls) raising our numbers exponentially to ten and rightly earning us and them the nickname " mama/papa batallion or mama/papa dozen" depending on who was calling in our little street of Eweje in Mafoluku-Oshodi.

There you have the prologue to my irregular migration story.
Crime › Re: Residents Rescue Girl Who Was Maltreated By Her Guardian In Okigwe, Imo. Photos by gaby(m): 10:37am On Aug 15, 2018
Evil people. Every Sunday you'd see them in a hurry to go get the front seat at the church. Hypocrites!!

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Business › Re: Sade Okoya Praises 78 Year Old Billionaire Husband, Advises Ladies by gaby(m): 7:28am On Aug 15, 2018
Hmmm...life is funny. This woman right here it was, who paid me my first ever salary in life sometime around 1995/96 while working for Eleganza at Ajao Estate.

I still recall vividly how she handed me those crispy 20# notes totalling #1,200, to which I respectfully gave a bow even though she couldn't really be older than I was.

I always marvelled at her beauty, simplicity and good life. Lucky kind woman.

I still remember my 1,200# which I handed to daddy for safe keeping.

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Business To Business › Re: Air, Land & Sea Freight, Cargo, Luggage & Parcel Delivery Services by gaby(m): 6:16pm On Aug 14, 2018
your rates to the US please
Celebrities › Re: Lagos PPRO, Dolapo Badmos And Her Squad In Adorable Photo by gaby(m): 12:24pm On Aug 14, 2018
They were supposed to be uniform, but there is obviously no uniformity present-looking at the different colours.
Politics › Re: Names Of The 57 Apc Senators &their Respective States That Will Impeach Saraki by gaby(m): 10:09am On Aug 14, 2018
I thought Joshua Dariye was supposed to be serving a jail term already.
Sports › Re: Jay-jay Okocha Celebrates His 45th Birthday Today by gaby(m): 9:41am On Aug 14, 2018
maskid:
So he went to Us. 94 at 21 years abi. Please subtract his daughters age (27) from his own and tell me how he had her when he was 16 or 17 years old. Smh pple can lie ooo. So how old was his wife when he married her
Common, his daughter ain't no fckking 27 haba...Danielle should be about 20-21.
Celebrities › Re: Princess Shyngle Shows Her Love Machine: '99.9% Men I Dated Couldn't Satisfy Me" by gaby(m): 9:21am On Aug 14, 2018
99.9% of what you are and adorn, from your hair down to your nails are artificial. Why won't you prefer an artificial dick....

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Politics › Re: 2019: EU, US, UK & Saudi Arabia Ask Buhari Not To Contest; APC Considers Kingibe by gaby(m): 9:17am On Aug 14, 2018
This is certainly a Kingibe sponsored news just to check his popularity and reception.


Nonsense...
Literature › Re: My Book "The Irregular Migrant" Reviewed And Featured In A Major News Daily. by gaby(op): 10:43pm On Aug 13, 2018
clems93:
Good one Sir. I remember when it all started as a thread here on nairaland. All the best...
Yeah bro...this was where it all started...God has taken over the wheels to steer...
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Literature › Re: My Book "The Irregular Migrant" Reviewed And Featured In A Major News Daily. by gaby(op): 5:58pm On Aug 13, 2018
emmyreelz:
more speed bro.. I saw the interviews on premium times.. congrats and big ups.
You are appreciated bro, bless you much.
Politics › Re: Ademola Adeleke Storms Anglican Church, Says "I Will Stop Half Salary" by gaby(m): 4:59pm On Aug 13, 2018
How come they didn't allow our "Africa Michael Jackson" dance?

A manifesto bereft of any meaningful socio-economic developmental plans...

Very empty...

Check out my siggy to the Irregular Migrants story of perils, triumphs and karma. A beautiful story you'd enjoy. Reviewed and featured on Premium times 13/08/2018.
Literature › My Book "The Irregular Migrant" Reviewed And Featured In A Major News Daily. by gaby(op):
Nigerian who crossed Mediterranean narrates own tale in new book ‘Irregular Migrant’
August 13, 2018Jayne Augoye

In debut novel, Nigerian writer tackles illegal migration, get-rich quick syndrome

Peterson Ojieson’s debut novel, Iregular Migrant: A story of Perils, Triumphs and Karma, has a very compelling storyline. Not only does it relieve the author’s perilous sojourn to Europe through the Sahara desert and the Mediterranean Seas, it also sheds light on the get-rich quick syndrome. He tells PREMIUM TIMES more about the work in this interview

PT: Is your book a fictional account or your true-life experience?

Peter: Yes, my book The Irregular Migrant: A story of perils, triumphs and karma is a true life account of my experience as a 21 year old who had dropped out of from school and decided to migrate to Europe through the deserts and seas, in a bid to help get my family out from the throes of poverty.

PT: Is it your first novel and what is the story or inspiration behind the book?

Peter: It is my first novel. The inspiration behind the book comes from the need to contribute my quota at stemming the tide of irregular migration, the unnecessary sufferings and incessant lost of lives as a result of this dare devil mode of migration. I decided on telling my story, as it is, to pass on a message to the youth on the importance of staying in school, the risks involved in travelling through the desert and how it doesn’t pay in the long run, to take to a life of get-rich-quick.

PT: Tell us a bit about you?

Peter:My name is Peterson Ehimare Ojieson, I am a father, husband, and a budding writer, from Esan Central Local Government Area, of Edo State, Nigeria. My book explains the many perils I came upon along the way in the course of my journey, the triumph after almost two years on the road, of finally making it across the Mediterranean, and into Europe, the karma that came visiting, after I had gotten entangled in the criminal underworld of online scam in a bid to get rich quick.

My story highlights how, as it is with anything illegally acquired, they’d get frittered away because the only shortcut to success remains hard work, honesty and dignity.

PT: What plans do you have for this book?

Peter: My plans for this book is to be able to get it to reach every nook and cranny of Nigeria because of its relevance to our parents, children, the government and our society at large.


Iregular Migrant: A story of Perils, Triumphs and Karma, By Peterson Ojieson

PT: Have you considered speaking with some filmmakers about the possibility of turning it into a movie or series?

Peter: Yes, that is certainly one of my dreams. But presently I haven’t spoken to anyone yet, and besides I have no contacts to any producers, hope someone might reach out to me.

PT: What are some of the challenges you faced writing the book?

Peter: It was huge struggle writing the book, because it made me relieve all of the sad experiences I had battled and bottled up in the last 19-20 years. I’d thought of discontinuing on the writing so many times because of the pains and sobs in between. However, the need to tell the story, to teach, direct, motivate someone out there helped me through with the writing. I did it for myself too, to let out all the bottled up emotions and trauma, and start the process of healing. By the way, my siblings have just read about this part of my life through this book and everyone is rightly both shocked and surprised.

PT: There appears to be no end in sight for irregular migration and trafficking in persons. Do you think this menace can be stemmed?

Peter: Migration in itself is as old as civilisation. While the menace cannot be completely eradicated, it sure can be stemmed or made unattractive. This is what prompted my book and story.

PT: Are you a self-published author?

Peter: I am a self-published author still battling with the right channel to publish traditionally; still trying to get the funds to print paperbacks of my book for distribution. Wished the government, corporate organisations and well meaning individuals would see the relevance of this book and sponsor the publication and distribution, as a way of contributing their quota to stemming this ugly tide of irregular migration. I hope to get sponsors who’d help me in mass-producing my book.

Source:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/entertainment/artsbooks/279911-nigerian-who-crossed-mediterranean-narrates-own-tale-in-new-book-irregular-migrant.html
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Health › Re: Mental Disorders You Don't Know by gaby(m): 8:49pm On Aug 11, 2018
ikorodureporta:
Source: https://www.tribuneonlineng.com/131325
You should have included narcissistic personality disorder too. I am particular about this because I witness it on a daily.

Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.

A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs. People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships unfulfilling, and others may not enjoy being around them.

Treatment for narcissistic personality disorder centers around talk therapy (psychotherapy).
Symptoms

Signs and symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder and the severity of symptoms vary. People with the disorder can:

Have an exaggerated sense of self-importance
Have a sense of entitlement and require constant, excessive admiration
Expect to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it
Exaggerate achievements and talents
Be preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate
Believe they are superior and can only associate with equally special people
Monopolize conversations and belittle or look down on people they perceive as inferior
Expect special favors and unquestioning compliance with their expectations
Take advantage of others to get what they want
Have an inability or unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others
Be envious of others and believe others envy them
Behave in an arrogant or haughty manner, coming across as conceited, boastful and pretentious
Insist on having the best of everything — for instance, the best car or office

At the same time, people with narcissistic personality disorder have trouble handling anything they perceive as criticism, and they can:

Become impatient or angry when they don't receive special treatment
Have significant interpersonal problems and easily feel slighted
React with rage or contempt and try to belittle the other person to make themselves appear superior
Have difficulty regulating emotions and behavior
Experience major problems dealing with stress and adapting to change
Feel depressed and moody because they fall short of perfection
Have secret feelings of insecurity, shame, vulnerability and humiliation
Programming › Re: Meet Tanmay Bakshi, Boy Who Works For Google And Earns Over N450m Annually by gaby(m): 1:59pm On Aug 11, 2018
HungerBAD:
Is the phone number there yours?your location says Amsterdam. I have followed the link and the book is N1200, would love to send you the money directly for a couple of the book.
Yes its mine, presently in the motherland.
Programming › Re: Meet Tanmay Bakshi, Boy Who Works For Google And Earns Over N450m Annually by gaby(m): 1:54pm On Aug 11, 2018
HungerBAD:
N450 Million?at 13?wow.

At 13, I was still selling cold water with cups( before satchet water started) at Oshodi.

We need to change this culture in Nigeria, of forcing children to be part of breadwinners in families,so that their potentials can fully be utilized.

At 13 my only dream was to have a bicycle,and some pocket money for Asaro(Porridge) in school. This N450 Million would have helped me a lot.
You are very spot on bro.
Exactly what I talked about in my book "The irregular migrant : A story of perils, triumphs and karma"... link on my siggy.
Celebrities › Re: Meet Damilola Aina, Model & Actress Who Wants A Rich, Handsome Man For Marriage by gaby(m): 10:41am On Aug 11, 2018
With that cheap-bleached, scar and lakpa lakpa infested skin of yours. I hear you sister...

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Politics › Re: Apc Members Reject Akpabio As Political Leader by gaby(m): 9:48am On Aug 11, 2018
phase1:
If PDP were a smart party, they'd simply use these anti-akpabio elements in APC to destroy him from within and wreck his political base. They don't even need to defect, they'll remain there and emasculate him politically there in APC. By the time he rushes back to PDP Udom has taken over the full party structure 100%.

The South-South and SE are the most literate regions, they don't follow polticians like zombies from party to party. Ask Rochas.
Way to go in the game my brother. This APC's rush and hunger to equal PDP in the defection charts will be one of their major undoing. Their desperation smirks of political naivety and immaturity.
Business › Re: Lady Buys Umbrella That Has No Stopper, When She Returned It, This Happened by gaby(m): 9:16am On Aug 11, 2018
wow..I have "reading" it, nice story.
Politics › Re: Apc Members Reject Akpabio As Political Leader by gaby(m):
Nigerian politics is so nothing to write home about. If I were in their shoes too, I would reject someone who had fought tooth and nail to destroy me and my fledgeling party, who even had choice derogatory names for us to come lord over me, I would rather pull the rug from under his feet.


This is the true definition of "reward for disloyalty and truancy". It sure won't augur well for APC, implosion is imminent. Until they accord the deserved respect to those who built the structure from the ground in the state and stood by it through thick and thin.

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Crime › Re: See What Was Done To Female Student By Her Roommate For Eating Her Food. by gaby(m): 8:10am On Aug 11, 2018
Women are their own worst enemies truly. She certainly didn't do this because of some eaten food, there's more to it.

Very mean and heartless beings, on Sundays you'd see them all rushing to go get a front row seat at the church.

Hyps.

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Politics › Re: Governor Ugwuanyi At Ex-governor Chime's Daughter Traditional Marriage by gaby(m): 6:45am On Aug 10, 2018
Akabuking:
May God help us to complete our mission on earth. the day we die is better than the day we were born.
iseeee..
Politics › Re: IG Report Confirms that Politicians ordered Senate Seige by gaby(m): 10:27pm On Aug 09, 2018
See font, see english, grammar and typos...it is well
Politics › Re: Governor Ugwuanyi At Ex-governor Chime's Daughter Traditional Marriage by gaby(m): 9:04pm On Aug 09, 2018
Akabuking:
my bloda, you fit die before the guy ooo.
Funny enough, that's the honest truth about life..but my work on earth had just begun...when I'm done with it, no worries or fears about death.
Crime › Re: 2 Phone Thieves Caught, Stripped, Beaten At Obanikoro Bus Stop by gaby(m): 7:57pm On Aug 09, 2018
Make dem use broken bottle shave their pubic hair..

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