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Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by geemailer2019: 4:12pm On Feb 16, 2022 |
Daviduch19: If I could make a few quick observations here: It looks normal in Nigeria for a brother to sponsor a sibling abroad for a graduate study, but it's not normal in the US. It attracts curiosity. You have a full time job and income with a family and responsibilities to take care of. On the interviewer's mind, why go for a graduate program if you haven't saved enough money to sponsor yourself? Why is your brother shouldering your responsibility? In most cases, only parents do that for their children if the children can't afford it for themselves. Remember, it's a graduate program, not a bachelor's degree which is more essential. Let's assume that your brother earns N 2 million naira a month and can afford to gift you half of his salary (N 1 million naira) every month from the graciousness of his heart, it's still only $2,000 which may cover just a little more than your monthly rent for a 2 bedroom apartment in the US. Usually, people work and save for a few years before going for a graduate program, or they take a student loan. In this case, there was no indication that your brother loaned you the money. As a student you're limited to 20 hours of work a week or so, and let's assume your wife has to work full time to augment or provide for the family while you're schooling, who takes care of the baby while you're both out of the house? Can you afford day care with your combined income? Nannies are expensive in the US, it's not like in Nigeria where one can easily afford them. On the interviewer's mind, if you are the major provider for your family and you're in school, how will you provide for your family especially since you're not sponsoring yourself? In reality, this is a big move for someone to be making when they have responsibilities. All these added to the high immigration rate from Nigeria are probable causes for the denial. The travel history doesn't appear to be a major factor of consideration especially for student visa applications. It could be more of a factor used for tracking crimes (e.g. drug related) because criminal organizations recruit people to pose as travelers in various forms. When they asked your wife where she traveled and what she did, they input this data into the system and some artificial intelligence software will analyze the data and that's one way some people can get flagged for further search at the port of entry. I don't think your travel history counted against you for the student visa application. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Travel / Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by geemailer2019: 1:41pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
seyifrenzy: Whether she stays with her maiden name or uses her husband's name, it doesn't matter, her category has changed due to the marriage. She can get in trouble with immigration later on. It can be a reason to revoke her green card or even citizenship. See these links I posted earlier: https://www.usimmigration.org/faq/can-a-green-card-be-revoked https://www.uscis.gov/policy-manual/volume-12-part-l-chapter-2 |
Travel / Re: At The NVC Processing Stage Of The U. S Family Based Preference Category. by geemailer2019: 11:41pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Lee1303: She risks losing her green card, even citizenship, depending: https://www.usimmigration.org/faq/can-a-green-card-be-revoked https://www.uscis.gov/policy-manual/volume-12-part-l-chapter-2 |
Education / Re: Senate Passes Bill Abolishing HND/BSc Dichotomy by geemailer2019: 11:25pm On Jun 02, 2021 |
OlujobaSamuel: This is part of the problem. If you apply to the school without first evaluating your degree, some/many schools do not have internal credential evaluation departments so they will likely reject your degree. That's why there are accredited credential evaluation organizations like WES in the US and Canada. You evaluate your credentials first with them, then apply to the school with the evaluated credential. You'll be surprised the same college will accept it. |
Education / Re: Senate Passes Bill Abolishing HND/BSc Dichotomy by geemailer2019: 2:35pm On Jun 02, 2021 |
sukar886: both HND and BSc graduates are equivalent in the US and accepted for Master's degrees with no discrimination |
Education / Re: Senate Passes Bill Abolishing HND/BSc Dichotomy by geemailer2019: 2:31pm On Jun 02, 2021 |
slyfoxxjoe: US colleges and universities accept HND graduates directly for MSc programs. World Education Services (WES) is one of the organizations who evaluate Nigerian degrees for advanced degrees in the US. If you have completed 120 credit hours at a college in Nigeria, your credential is evaluated as equivalent to a US degree and you're accepted directly into a Master's program. 3 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NCDMB 2020 Oil and Gas EH & GT Jobs by geemailer2019: 2:09pm On Jun 02, 2021 |
NekkyCee: Hey we lost touch. Care to reconnect? |
Romance / Re: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by geemailer2019: 4:18pm On May 30, 2021 |
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Education / Re: Reasons NYSC Should Be Revamped Rather Than Scrapped by geemailer2019: 2:07pm On May 25, 2021 |
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Webmasters / Re: Web Programming Language Vs Content Management Systems by geemailer2019: 1:30pm On May 04, 2021 |
Moonlight111: Content Management systems give you the basics for building websites and sometimes you need components or modules built by other programmers to achieve additional functionality. If you use these additional modules or components, how do you troubleshoot errors and maintain the websites you build when you do not understand programming? All you can do is build, but if those components built by others have issues or get abandoned, depending on the level of complexity of the website, then you're stuck. besides if you're building relatively easy websites, they can also be built using systems like wix and this is a lot of competition for you. |
Education / Re: Am Having Issues With Wes by geemailer2019: 1:39am On Jun 27, 2020 |
smithval: It would usually take a few days to update your profile after they receive the package, but i would suggest reaching out to them to confirm what's causing the delay, bearing in mind we're facing unusual circumstances and there may be layoffs and limited work hours that could possibly delay service delivery from organizations. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Do You Know Where I Can Get This In Lagos? by geemailer2019: 11:56pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Jumia has what you need, search for "TV stand" on jumia, nairaland does not allow links to jumia so i cannot post here |
Romance / Re: Why Do Old Men Love To Chase After Young Girls? by geemailer2019: 10:35pm On May 13, 2020 |
Romance / Re: Nairalanders, Advice Needed Please....... by geemailer2019: 1:15am On May 09, 2020 |
OP Having a high intelligence quotient (IQ) doesn't mean you'll beat everyone at everything, especially if you don't have the same level of preparation as them. They beat you because they did something you didn't do or think about, get over it and get on to the next challenge. Some years from now, you probably will not remember your UME score (whatever it's called now), but you'll have a degree certificate and that's what you should be focused on from this moment. |
Religion / Re: How You Draw Close To God During This Lockdown by geemailer2019: 9:01am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Romance / Re: Where Can I Get Myself A Guy That Doesn’t Smoke, Drink,...lady Asks by geemailer2019: 7:54pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
LOL well i personally don't smoke, and i only drink socially (though haven't had alcohol in a while due to covid-19, to keep immunity up), and i watch soccer just once in a while... but the truth is, i don't have much personal time either, I spend as much time on my work and career as other people do on their social life. |
Romance / Re: Mention The Lies Your Ex Told You by geemailer2019: 1:50pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Jubilancy: What's AA? You mean AS? Are you AS? |
Romance / Re: Mention The Lies Your Ex Told You by geemailer2019: 1:35pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Education / Re: Am Having Issues With Wes by geemailer2019: 7:21am On Mar 12, 2020 |
rockyruks: Maybe Unilag is waiting for you to pay verification fees? I was in your shoes, though different schools. I was waited for months for my school to verify transcripts, only to realize that they dumped it aside, waiting for me to come pay verification fee. It seems most schools charge verification fees. So if you can't get them on the phone, try go down there yourself or ask someone to go on your behalf. Its frustrating, but that's how a lot of Nigerian institutions are structured. |
Romance / Re: The Nigerian Man And The African American (Well Sort Of) Woman by geemailer2019: 3:45pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
dstseven: you're welcome. |
Romance / Re: ‘if You Want To Make It In Life, Stay Away From Jobless Ladies With High Taste’ by geemailer2019: 2:17am On Mar 05, 2020 |
Just stay away from greedy people. They are called takers, they could ruin your life if you're a selfless giver! |
Romance / Re: The Nigerian Man And The African American (Well Sort Of) Woman by geemailer2019: 5:37am On Mar 04, 2020 |
@dstsevenYou may want to give this time to get to know him better. He probably knows what you want in a partner (i'm guessing since you're great with communication), do you know what he wants in a partner and his expectations for marriage? Can you ask him in a way that doesn't explicitly infer that you're trying to see if you fit in that picture? I am guessing he would want you to have some affinity with his kids as well because this isn't really just about him now. Many Nigerians also do have affinity to their cultures which means things like food, language and interest in things about Nigeria play a large role in developing a bond with a Nigerian man. When we are "in person" he is super chatty and has such amazing energy but he does have an immigrant mentality which means he works A LOT. I am not sure if he communicated this explicitly to you, but, working hard is something many Nigerians do in Nigeria as well I've "heard" Nigerian men find American women too forward I don't see a need for the label here, some Nigerian ladies can be forward as well so this isn't peculiar to anyone, really . I'd just find out what his expectations are for the woman he wants to get married to, understand his values and see if they match with yours. Talk about sensitive topics like divorce, gender roles, societal issues as well, see if you both share similar values. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Nairalanders What Inspired Your Moniker? by geemailer2019: 12:13pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
i use gmail and it was 2019 so... 1 Like |
Education / Re: Please Help Me Solve These Maths Questions by geemailer2019: 12:07pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
BlackSpanner: This isn't a school assignment, right? |
Education / Re: What Can I Do To This United States Guy I Did Maths Assignment For by geemailer2019: 12:01pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
Students are not usually allowed to seek help outside their college professors for doing their homework, and you too are not supposed to do their homework for them. Hope you didn't literally write the assignment for them. Usually when people mention they need help with their homework you're not supposed to provide solutions for them, maybe just a guide or clarification, then refer them back to their professors |
Education / Re: .. by geemailer2019: 11:51am On Feb 23, 2020 |
GP of 1.1? Can you tell more about why this is so? Not being able to understand what you read, or lots of distractions? Can you highlight on some of those distractions (if any)? What is really the problem? You don't like the course? You don't want to be in college? What exactly? You do really need counseling. Talk to your academic adviser as well. In addition to your GPA, you need to understand the course you're studying to be able to make anything meaningful out of it in the future Think about 10 years from now, do you think you can compete without a good working knowledge of your degree program, or one with a poor grade for that matter? 1 Like 1 Share |
Education / Re: H by geemailer2019: 11:48am On Feb 23, 2020 |
GP of 1.1? Can you tell more about why this is so? Not being able to understand what you read, or lots of distractions? Can you highlight on some of those distractions (if any)? What is really the problem? You don't like the course? You don't want to be in college? What exactly? You do really need counseling. Talk to your academic adviser as well. In addition to your GPA, you need to understand the course you're studying to be able to make anything meaningful out of it in the future Think about 10 years from now, do you think you can compete without a good working knowledge of your degree program, or one with a poor grade for that matter? |
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