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Hello Seun


I really need an explanation as to why I was banned in the travel section. Not only was I banned for months but until 2037 . Isn't this outrageous?

Why ban an active user until that date?

This is cruel and somewhat unreasonable to do as I am an active member of this community.

I'm currently on tour and I have travel pictures and threads to put up. How do I do that now that I'm banned?

I want you to kindly reconsider your actions.

Warm Regards.
Generalkoko





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Good day Nairalanders!

Have you ever squatted someone in your house, hostel or office??
What is your worse experience?


I'll share mine first .

I stayed in hostel in level 100 in University. My initial plan was to stay alone as I knew nothing about squatting. But as God may have it , I didn't squat 1 person . Not 2 but three. Can you imagine
Three persons in one bed space in a hostel?

It was a really terrible experience. Our corner was extremely dirty always. My bed was filthy . Sometimes you'd have to wait for someone to wake up before you sleep . It was really horrible. The room was always smelling and worse of, two out of the three I squatted were thieves!!!

What can be more frustrating than that??

You go class , before you return them don use your milk sip Garri or open your box use your perfume . This tragedy reached the climax and I swore never to squat anyone in my life .

I've left the hostel and I now stay alone in peace. Nothing feels better than staying alone .
That's my story


You have some to share


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toprealman:
As you make the transition, remove this "permanent site" mindset. Always strive to attain a higher and better state....keep moving bro!

Thanks man!

FMAKJ:
I used to be a quiet person too back in the days but all of a sudden I started speaking more and ridding flows. Dont worry time will help you out ok.

First thing to do is to make yourself happy cos happy mind tends to speak out easily.
Secondly, always view people as the same human you are. We all the same human.
Say the president is right infront of me today and speaking with me, I will rather view him or her as human and not president, that way I can gain my self confident too and speak back appropriately. In fact is better I leave him standing and the end of the convo before he leave me right there. Go and gain the confidence bro.

Now,here is a test for you: Quote me and talk to me like a super human.

You're really amazing!

I had to fight with low self esteem too. But for me I had to cut of the people who made me not to believe in myself. I'm still happy till this day.

spartan117:
Learnt how to code during the lockdown last year and got 2 well paying software development jobs this year. I work less than 7 hours a day, sometimes I just defer my work to the night and sleep all day long or go out. Working both jobs didn't turn out to be as stressful as I envisaged, though there are some really stressful days or weeks especially when I have to deliver a difficult task and the deadline is fast approaching.

On the relationship aspect I'm learning to smile more and genuinely care about the well being of those around me. I've also learnt to be friendlier and chit chat more often with the opposite sex, this has always been a challenge for me as I'm a very introverted (not shy though) person I've always seen talking to others and sharing your life with others as a waste of time. But I'm beginning to see the benefits, I guess there is a balance somewhere.

It's been God all the way...

I'm really happy for the change!

FaruqMadridCr7:
Really, were you this shy non confident before??
It's currently happening to me
Low self esteem and FEAR.does that mean you outgrown it?

I have to an extent. I just had to purge out all my bad friends .

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etrange:
And you think the rubbish I was referring to is the observation of girls having pet dogs more than they used to?

Where will guys draw the line in this bid to reduce to female gender to nothingness. Must everything they do be subject to scrutiny and/or ridicule? What's this nonsense of them getting pets to satisfy sexual urge; are they animals? Men keep dogs, it's okay. Women keep chihuahuas, and it's probably to satisfy sexual urge. These guys don't even know when they begin to dumb themselves.

Can you be reasonable please?


Like the thread says " Is it true"

You can debunk without trying to be insultive thanks

Lately , the number of girls who keep pet dog is on the rise . Especially the chiwawa breed . Some say girls use the dogs for sexual satisfaction ( to lick their coochies )


How true is this


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Ninejaywon:
I discovered I don't just look at people but I can also see through them. I am beginning to think whether I have some super power bullshit


I am also on some sperm retention ritual and my energy is on another level.Damn!!

Yeah I've heard about this sperm retention and energy level stuff . Through more light on it.

SeaTrade:
I'm becoming more patient and tolerant,I guess this is one thing that comes with age.
I still don't know how to sit down and ponder over challenges sha,I take hasty decisions which most times end bad.Im working on it.
Have stopped having random sex,can't remember the last time I slept with another woman and I don't miss that life.
More focused on my grind,have left the luxury and fast life alone,hardly hangout again or keep many friends,my circle is now very small.
My only worry?Building my business,finish!

That's nice to read.
We'll keep working on ourselves to be the best.

The topic is self explanatory. If you could change one thing about Nigeria what would you change?

Mine: The mindset of the people. Nigeria is a disaster today because of the backward mindset of its people ( leaders included).

What would you change

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I really want to know because I have a lot to share .

Just last year here, I didn't have an esteem . I didn't believe in myself.i didn't love myself one bit. But now I'm confident. I'm not yet at the permanent site but I'm getting there.
A lot has changed really . I've learnt to love myself, I've learnt to keep things to myself and I also realized I need myself more than friends.

I'm no longer depressed and I'm now so focused on chasing my dreams .
Ohhhh I also realized "School is not a scam" but hoping on your certificate as a source of livelihood after school is stupid.

I've learnt a lot.
Share yours.

I still remember one exam I wrote in secondary school.
I thought no it was WAEC . I sat close to a fat smelly girl that was polluting with reckless abandon , coupler with the fact that I didn't know what to write in that exam . It was just pissing me off . It was like adding salt to injury .


I've had other once in the university here but I'd like to hear yours .

sylve11:
True!


@op, mine was a guy who would come close to me pretending that he's good. If he tries to gossip about others, I used other means to end such conversations. I observed he's a 2 sided person and he tried disrespecting me. He lied against me and since then, I just put an end to the relationship. The sweet peace of mind I come get ehn N50,000,000 nor fit buy am.

He would asked for advice and when I gave one, he'd go behind and say something different.

@all, whenever you travel to a foreign land and anybody is trying to come close to you, know he or she is looking for a weakness and secrets you have.
Tell them the opposite of everything they want to know about you. Only your family deserves better.

I swear bro
I tire for friendship now seff . Like my whole clique of friends were looking down on me . Only one of my guy wey be my real nigga . Then I was naive and I chose the toxic friends over the real nigga and did the real nigga wrong different times . Still in dae for me but these my other friends were like in a competition with me . I even adopted the stupid mentality.
I've distanced from the guys and cut of the girl.




Ohhhh I also ended the two relationships I was in . Although I am now lonely but I feel better.

Romanoff:
Yes o.

Been friends with this girl for 12 years since secondary school. This girl was Ill mannered and selfish, my mum and siblings tried to warn me, I no gree hear. It took her being rude to my mum for me to send her and her yeye friendship packing.

I thought I'd even miss her, guess what, I done nearly forget her name sef.

Good riddance.

Feels good this is refreshing to read.

As for me I felt relieved when I lost my bestie during the lockdown.I had a very low self esteem ( I've still not recovered fully) and she was one of the cause . She constantly abused me verbally about my looks and all and it made me shy and weak . The friendship was on life support. We knew there were issues to iron out but we were too proud to address it. Then the deal day came when I called her a proud person and we had back and forth until she finally said , " FYI I'm a narcissist" and blocked me . I felt very relieved afterwards.


Bad aide is that now she's begging for my attention. I kn ow she misses me but I'm not going back to that fake friendship.


Share yours

Hello Nairalanders!

The attitudes of people towards you tends to change when you become rich , famous or do something incredible. People who don't talk to you become very friendly, everyone suddenly acts like they know you.

Have you ever experienced this??

Good morning Nairaland elders and grandfathers .
I sincerely greet all of you .
Your son is currently at Night class somewhere in the south trying to simulate and read in preparation for his exam this month.
Anyway I need some tips from the elders on how they aced their exams in their days in school.
All advice is welcome. Thanks!

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Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

Coldie:
A particular lecturer in social sciences IN ONE OF THE POPULAR schools in the southsouth thats also a politician from Rivers state, there was a time he wanted to sleep with a particular girl, but he couldnt, he had tried everything possible. What he did was during exam he put the girl in a seat where he knew she couldnt do anything, but the girl ready come. when he knew that wasnt working, he planned a new strategy.

from the roll the girl is staying someone it seems whispered or made some kind of noise, he barked who was that who was that; ''from this role like this minus 50 marks, which happens to be the roll the girl is in''. They cried out he shut them up and said you better make sure you score up to 50, cause if you dont i would put it on your sheet, next year i will minus the remaining.

All because he wants to sleep with one girl.

Rivers State University

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Stone03:
I knew one of them that passed through that way. She was in unizik but always in Lagos only for her to submit pussy to pass.
She got graduated and began to look for job. This lady kept failing interviews to the point that even local factories couldn't employ her lol.

Sad

Kingsuave:
Wuna never know wetin the sup for higher institutions nowadays abi?

I get female course mate(Name withheld) wey the talk with our department HOD for phone,like say na mate them be.

Wuna never still get?

Na based on say them dae gbansh na

Bluntguy:
@op you did not share any experience, or don't you have one?

I know say some lecturers dae Bleep some of my coursemates them for grades .