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Romance › Re: Abuja Is The Sex Capital Of Nigeria by GeneralPula: 9:20am On Jun 09, 2021
OBelz:
Yes, Abuja and some other cities are the capital of prostitute in Nigeria, it can be lucrative, that is why it goes on.

The top performers can earn in the region of $400 a night, depending on Location.

It is a short term career. I know several women who were doing questionable paid activities, strippers, pole dancer, masseuse (untrained and topless) etc. to pay their way through school or meet a debt they owe. They earn in the region of $60 00 to $12000 a year. I don't really ask them what they did: I know it involved sex and payment and certainly not drugs, but it isn't the sort of thing you ask.

They all went on to have respectable careers, though one is more reticent about working in a bank than being a former sex worker.

What I would say is none of them are proud of what they did and wouldn't recommend the life, and are now on the conservative side of dress and sexual matters and happily married.

On the other hand they aren't angst ridden about it: it was "something they did" at a different time.

Earning money through sex isn't viewed as respectable and there are more fulfilling ways to earn a living.

I don't even think the majority of women work the streets in the first world, it is pre- arranged appointments by phone, through an "agency". There is always the risk of assault and disease.

I think in the end it is about how badly they need the money.


Some prostitutes aren't, if they're doing it for drug money or being forced into it. But assuming we're talking about escorts who choose to do the job they're doing, it's a combination of factors, economic and social, and the reasons vary from country to country, but here are some of the reasons:

1: They're self-employed.
Prostitutes don't have a regular job with a salary, which means they don't have a reliable income. They're not guaranteed to have appointments whenever they want them, and the overhead on an appointment can be pretty sizeable - it's the same reason plumbers and mechanics and personal trainers are expensive, because you're not just paying them for one hour of time. They also have other costs - most escort services take a cut of what you bring in, and many escorts have security arrangements in place to reduce the risk of something happening to them.

2: Their work can be dangerous.
Higher class escorts generally take steps to make sure that there's a papertrail linking them to their punter, and more importantly that their punter knows this, but when you meet a stranger for sex there is always some degree of risk - and risky professions cost more.

3: Their work can be illegal.
In many countries, prostitution is illegal, which carries associated risks. It may also be necessary for escorts to "grease the wheels" in order to keep operating. In countries where it isn't illegal, they have to pay taxes on their earnings, which means having an accountant.

4: They often retire early.
Like athletes and dancers, escorts generally retire much earlier than a lot of other professions - and unlike athletes and dancers, they don't have something nice and explainable to put on their CV for the gap. It's important for them to build up savings to provide them some security while they look to reskill.

5: They charge what the market will bear.
Expensive escorts charge a lot of money because people are willing to pay a lot of money. Since in many places it's illegal, the market isn't well regulated, so it's at the whim of the market forces - if people keep paying a lot, escorts will keep charging a lot.
You must be a god mother. I’m familiar with some.

But I must tell you that :

Prostitute don’t retire. They may pause for a while or long time but surely, there will always be old clients they love being with..

Majority of them don’t usually make meaningful profit eventually. They are usually ending up broke again(One among the reasons they don’t retire)..

One thing is to make money, another thing is to use it wisely.

Prostitution is not one rosy job as some aspiring girls do think it is..

If you’re looking for people who make money and still suffer, smile and cry, nah dem prostitute..

Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Celebrates Her 36th Birthday Today (photos) by GeneralPula:
Spiit..

Low self esteem is one dangerous thing..

If you make a mistake of making a woman with low self esteem birth your kids, it will tell on em in the future..

God bless all naija girls that believes in their true self and not some artificial make ups..
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage To Seyi Shay: 'Your Nyash Is The Dirtiest In This Industry' (Video) by GeneralPula: 8:37am On Jun 09, 2021
OnionBandit:
The American English these Yoruba girls are faking is so disgusting
Tiwa started her life from the USA tho..
Politics › Re: Donald Trump Supports Nigeria's Twitter Ban, Says He should Have Done The Same by GeneralPula: 8:24am On Jun 09, 2021
san316:
He didn't do it because he lost.
No, he didn’t do it cuz USA own twitter..

Trump for over ban twitter for say nah China or Europe tech company..
Politics › Re: Donald Trump Supports Nigeria's Twitter Ban, Says He should Have Done The Same by GeneralPula: 8:22am On Jun 09, 2021
Sterope:
Still wondering why Buhari's action is very dangerous?
What buhari did has rendered twitter useless when it comes to countries power holders..

You’ll understand it - just keep observing..
Politics › Re: Don’t Access Twitter Through VPN - APC Warns Nigerians by GeneralPula: 6:09am On Jun 09, 2021
Benitoh:
Are you threatening your citizens. The country is finished.
It’s not a threat..

Apc can be evil but what they’re saying is true..

Do not access your banks with vpn..
Romance › Re: So, What's Your Plan If Nobody Marries You? by GeneralPula:
I have no plans to get married..

Baby mama all the way..
Romance › Re: Abuja Is The Sex Capital Of Nigeria by GeneralPula:
It’s every nook and cranny of Nigeria..

I’ve stayed in hotel well well..

If you know wetin I know, you no go ever reason marriage oo..
Foreign Affairs › Re: French President Macron Slapped During Crowd Walkabout (Video) by GeneralPula: 2:52pm On Jun 08, 2021
He’s a Devil !
Celebrities › Re: Fight: Tiwa Savage And Seyi Shey Exchange Words As They Meet (Video) by GeneralPula: 2:33pm On Jun 08, 2021
Doctore212

Enter codedruns.com
Science/Technology › Re: Rare Shiny Clouds Spotted On Mars (Pictures) by GeneralPula: 2:20pm On Jun 08, 2021
NewBea:
If you still have hope in Nigeria then you're delusional
Only you and your family..
Health › Re: British Woman Punches Crocodile Until It Releases Her Twin Sister (Pix) by GeneralPula: 2:11pm On Jun 08, 2021
Wetin I smell for here pass lies..
Politics › Re: Legalise Cultivation Of Cannabis, Akeredolu Urges FG by GeneralPula: 1:14pm On Jun 08, 2021
Akeredolu said , “The planet earth has a constant period of darkness and light every 24 hours which we call night and day, in like manner, just like every other crop or plant, Cannabis Sativa has both CBD and THC content which we can put it to good and bad use.

Intelligence !
Politics › Re: Legalise Cultivation Of Cannabis, Akeredolu Urges FG by GeneralPula: 12:58pm On Jun 08, 2021
That’s the way to go..

A lot of youths are ready to invest in it..

People will smoke responsibly now since they don’t have to hide it..

There will always be less quarrel as everyone will always be on a jogor level..

Watch as the economy will speed up !
Car Talk › Re: Flying Cars Are Now Imminent As Researchers Finally Hit A Major Breakthrough by GeneralPula: 12:43pm On Jun 08, 2021
Oil and gas industry will kill it if it’s gonna become a threat..
Foreign Affairs › Re: Multiple Websites Go Offline Across The World by GeneralPula: 12:35pm On Jun 08, 2021
Observing..

I said one a certain thread that what Buhari did will cause 1 or 2 things across..

Seems the social media regulation all around the world will start now..

It is what some countries government have been wanting..
Christianity Etc › Re: TB Joshua: The Nigerian Outsider Who Became A Global Televangelist Star - BBC by GeneralPula: 12:15pm On Jun 08, 2021
Hypocrisy amidst Christianity sha..

They conspired against him to tag him fake..

I’m damnn sure one of the reasons why they’re a giant this man was the fact that he does charity that the rest don’t usually do..

You won’t see him claiming fake miracle over health matters..

He had helped a lot of sick people regain their good health, not fake via miracles but thru medicals..

See as they’re all silent including CAN..

I’m not surprised tho. Jesus was killed before Christianity was formed. There was nothing like Christianity during Jesus Christ Era..
Politics › Re: FG, Twitter In Talks After Suspension by GeneralPula: 10:02am On Jun 08, 2021
[quote author=chrysolite1 post=102498780][/quote]Ode..

Mtchew..
Politics › Re: FG, Twitter In Talks After Suspension by GeneralPula: 9:53am On Jun 08, 2021
Nuelito:
Jack no dey even stress himself...the guy just dey mute since
Lol..So the envoy wey come, who are they reppin?

Jack wey be say the suspension never reach 1 hour before hin raise concern..

Besides that, the matter don pass wetin jack fit solve oo. You think jack can come to Aso rock to sit Buhari down for talks?

Those envoys are the best they could use..
Entertainment › Re: MC Freedom Beaten In Ibadan As Prank Goes Wrong (Video) by GeneralPula: 10:59pm On Jun 07, 2021
Fahdiga1:
He should thank his stars. Not everything should be used as a prank. This is a joke taken too far. If I was there I would have landed him my deadly left handed blow and I'm not sure he would have survived it
It’s called 1 blow 7 die..

Nnamdi Kanu should make you Esn general..

You’ve been wasting your talent on Nairaland..
Family › Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by GeneralPula: 10:38pm On Jun 07, 2021
bizhop01:
Very simple question but 99.9% of people here are busy cooking essay cool
Which makes it all lies my bruh..
Family › Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by GeneralPula: 10:16pm On Jun 07, 2021
See as hoes don spoil thread
Politics › Re: US, UK, EU Envoys Reject FG Position On Twitter Ban After Meeting by GeneralPula: 9:25pm On Jun 07, 2021
They’re all mad..

Same set of people that supported when trump account was pulled down are the ones foaming now..

We’re not in 1929 anymore. Africa won’t remain slaves to the whites forever..

America would have done more than buhari if nah vice-versa..
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Skill Can I Learn In A Short Time To Start Making Money ? by GeneralPula: 9:21pm On Jun 07, 2021
toby345:
Bro learn about the blockchain,crypto and learn about copywriting(you can see people who will teach you for like 3k or 5k ) and apply for blockchain copywriting jobs those jobs are hot and pay well
Is it really that easy?
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Skill Can I Learn In A Short Time To Start Making Money ? by GeneralPula: 9:14pm On Jun 07, 2021
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Politics › Re: Twitter Ban: Don’t Harass Foreign Envoys, PDP Tells FG, APC by GeneralPula: 8:59pm On Jun 07, 2021
slivertongue:
this dull administration with soon be banned from travelling and borrowing from Europe and America
Which is actually a blessing if it happens, tho I know it can’t..
Christianity Etc › Re: How My Husband Died — Evelyn, TB Joshua’s Wife by GeneralPula:
saajus:
I am surprised too. Even if they think he's a false prophet, they should still send their condolences. They don't need to write about his exploit since they believe it's false, ordinary RIP will do.
All of them conspired together to call him a false prophet..

Believe me time will reveal the truth - nothing can bury the truth !
Christianity Etc › Re: How My Husband Died — Evelyn, TB Joshua’s Wife by GeneralPula: 8:30pm On Jun 07, 2021
mistijude:
It's still a surprise to me why CAN,PFN and other big men of God have not sent their condolence message regarding his death till now!
CAN is filled with Hypocritess..

It was like they wanted him down..

His death seems like what they’ve been wanting..
Christianity Etc › Re: How My Husband Died — Evelyn, TB Joshua’s Wife by GeneralPula: 8:30pm On Jun 07, 2021
Triangles1:
This man contributed to Nigeria revenue, 20 percent of foreigner coming to Nigeria because of the Church.

Rest in the right hand of Eledumare.
Very true..

Part of why they conspired against him to label him evil..
Politics › Re: Senator Ahmad Babba Kaita Booed, Chased Away From Wedding In Katsina by GeneralPula: 8:18pm On Jun 07, 2021
Sahara reporters and fake news..
Politics › Re: Twitter Ban: Photos From Fg’s Meeting With US, Canada, UK Envoys In Abuja by GeneralPula: 6:34pm On Jun 07, 2021
There is no amount of hatred from indigenous piggz of Biafra can change reality..

Buhari really shocked them with the twitter suspension..

Him no even warm Jack at all - to buhari, warning nah long thing..

A Dog may bark at cows and piggz, but certainly not a lion!

I’m sure other countries are observing..

Except more scenarios ahead..

Twitter may be bigger than Biafra, but not certainly Nigeria !
Politics › Re: Obi Abel Umahi Resigns As South-East Security Committee Chairman by GeneralPula: 4:40pm On Jun 07, 2021
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Kandeed:
in 2015 the major security problem we had was Boko
Haram and guess what? BH problem made Jonathan shift the election. this time we Got Boko Haram, Bandits, herdsmen crisis, UGM crisis and this is happening all over the Nation. APC in 2023 would tell you if Jonathan can shift the election date why can't we seeing the security issues in the country. while Jonathan on the other hand was doing all he can to reduce Boko Haram, this government will do nothing and keep shifting the election date till y'all are tired. so if you're thinking of waiting till 2023 to make a change thr ur Votes, Think again and think clearly. if ur citing fear of Army now to hit the street #June 12th I wonder what you'll cite in 2023

#June 12 protest is for Nigerians with foresight
#This is a protest to rescue ourselves and our country from
the hands of those bent on destroying it
#Last week alone over 300Nigerians were killed due to
insecurity. how many would it be this week??
#Can you beat ur chest and say I'm sure to survive it this
week??
#Are you living ur desired life?? why must Nigerians result to
alternatives when you can hold those responsible and
demand for what should be urs
#Nigerians this is the time to resist Tyranny, Oppression,
hardship and insecurity
#June 12 should not meet you at home
#Pay the price now so you would not be forced to pay it later
with or without ur wish
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I won’t be surprised if you’re in somewhere in Europe or America typing this..

I hope your kids are joining the protest too?

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