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Toks2008:
Feeeling lonely...

hug pillow na lol

lol this is funny

so the school can't even get her a lecturing job even if she works as a clerk

shame on ajayi crowther university for not covering the shame of its best graduating student for that matter.


she should go and wash her head because this one seems like village people handwork

Anfieldboss:
She is a fresh graduate awaiting NYSC, she is not working at the moment. She is 24.

But why all this questions?

exactly
she is young and unemployed.
she has nothing meaningful taking her time that's why she expects you to be her entertainment

no doubt she loves you. if she didn't she wouldn't even complain so much she'll just find another man to satisfy her need.

she's still young , she still has a fairytale approach to romance
I bet you are her first or second boyfriend. she really doesn't understand men yet.

if she visits you,then I'll say 45minutes is even to long for calls every otherday

what I'll tell you to do is encourage her to concentrate on something. she can start a trade ( hair,makeup,clothes,shoes, bags, events planning etc) and market it online.

you can assist her in learning a new course (cake making, decorations,makeup , tailoring,programming) or something that will take her time.
she can buy honey and sell in small bottles around her area.

you must encourage to get busy or else you'll loose your babe to all these fast guys especially as she's going for youth service.

The stress of being involved with something will take her mind off this Petty talk ish
buy the time she starts working and giving birth ,you'll even be begging for her attention

you too find something to do


don't break up with her if she's wife material,good girls are hard to find.

Anfieldboss:
We were friends for about 3+ years before we started dating June this year. At the time I met her, I had a girlfriend then but I started asking her out after I quit my past relationship that was around late 2015. She was with another guy at that time, but she eventually agreed to date me after she broke up with the other guy.

I'm the quiet and reserved type. I talk sometimes when I'm in the mood and she can attest to the fact that I could be very lively sometimes. Some other time, I just want to enjoy my space and be on my own. I call her at least twice every day and we can talk for up to 45 mins to 1 hour, sometimes I might not really be in the mood to talk but I just wish to check on her and she will complain at such times that why am I being quiet.

I don't even know if she loves me as she doesn't say it. She complains that she is not happy when she is with me, that I'll just be quiet. I have tried my best to make her happy even gone overboard against my type of person just to please her, yet she seems not to be satisfied. My being quiet is just my nature and I don't really think I can change.

I love this girl and I have plans to marry her but I want to marry a girl that loves me and is happy being with me not someone that is just managing me. At least I have seen a girl that loved me despite my being quiet and an introvert just that I wasn't ready for a relationship then.

I have not called her for 2 days as her complains are really getting to me and I'm beginning to think of quitting the relationship but on a second thought this girl has been very good to me, even though she doesn't say it to me she loves me, her actions says it.

I really love this girl but this her complains of not being happy with me and the fact that she thinks I'm boring is affecting my relationship with her. Guys please advise me.

question
is your girlfriend employed? or does she have something she's actively involved in?

how old is she?

Skipuru:
. I left them since 2014 now I'm going crazy. I want to poison her self.

no offense ,but
are you mad?

is she the first teenager to get pregnant out of wedlock ?

let me ask you tell me in what ways have you been a senior brother to that girl


simple calling her and warning her about bad boys you can't do,now you want to be forming James bond on a girl that was probably sweet talked by. more experienced man


what have you been doing in Lagos that you couldnt go back home to see your FAMILY ,even once

this your holier than thou attitude is blinding you

you expected a teenage girl like that to be holy not knowing that na them even spoil pass.

stop forming holy joor,the deed has been done ,I would have expected your mother to say all these things you are saying

tell me you haven't bleeped someone else's sister before
nonsense

Skipuru:
No I should be carrying her on my back.
I dey Lagos dey hustle mean while they are living comfortably at ph.

please do not force her to abort the child ,do not also force her to marry the man

oga this is the 21st century
gone are the days when families drive a child away for becoming pregnant

if your mom is capable and can afford to take care of another mouth then let your sister have the baby stay off school for like a year to nurse it ,then go back to write waec or GCE while your mom takes care of the baby. she can gain admission in a university in your state that will enable her to come back during weekends to see her child.

let me ask you something if she dies now while aborting it ,wouldn't it be much more shameful for the family plus the blood of your sister and the baby will be on your head yes you!! because you encouraged her to abort.

she is not the first girl neither will she be the last


at least now she knows better than to open her legs anyhow

what you all must to is encourage her to face her studies well so she can do well for herself

don't depend on what the guy says he will do. if he brings money collect ,let him have a say in his child's life as the father,but he might disapoint so be ready .

omoskenso:
Jiji....dis NL na waste most times,they Ova price and wont buy. Just try jiji n olx

ok

omoskenso:
Viewers I grit una ooo....dem don buy am from anoda site.

which site?

nairavsdollars:
God bless your hustle bro. People think everything in Nigeria is by certificate. I have Masters, I have PHD. Paper certificate in Nigeria is as worthless as used sanitary pad or used diaper. The earlier our youths develop relevant skills, the better

but you used them in gettinf your current job

sukkot:
who are the they ? lol.

lol sukkie

the internet ,I read googled it before I just want to know your view

sukkot:
4 means ' cross-roads '. meaning you are at a junction between good and evil. so you are at a cross-roads. you can go either way either to good or evil. its like the bridge that can either take you to heaven or hell.

but I thought they said four means completeness eg square.

sukkot:
i already explained it in the post you quoted. ascension and dimension shift. ancient wisdom is coming back. the wise are getting wiser. thats what it means

what of number four ?

what does four mean ?
and if you were born on the 4th day of the 4th month ?

sukkot:
well its important to know all wisdom knowledge and understanding belongs to GOD and we just tap into GODS wisdom at times. however it is important to note that the wisdom is disjointed and it is your duty to fit it together like a puzzle. as such no one will be accurate all the time. so dont expect any human with flesh to be accurate at all times. having said that the number 11 means ' ascension and rapture ' it means a shield of covering is unifying the chosen people together under the same dimensional shift. people are being unified in higher wisdom. people are being uplifted. these group of people are unified under the number 11. so it is a number of ascension and unification

so if someone sees the number 11 nearly all the time,what does it mean?

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NoFavors:
Car that will be lowkey collected back

really ?

I don't think they do that for mbgn na

rev2214:
What is your budget like? If you've a budget in the neighborhood of 15 - 20k for a laptop, we can workout something for u. Let me know what's on your mind.

rev please what's the spec for this one

cruchenutii:
Thanks for this, i really appreciate.

you are welcome

cruchenutii:
She is the only child

There in lies the problem

As an only child she is used to always having her way. She is also used to having dotting and overprotective parents and people always trying to please her to get favors from her parents as they know she is the apple of their eyes.

I don't believe you guys don't have anything in common as you yourself stated that she's very engaging.

I also suspect you are the kinda guy who doesn't like confronting people but will bottle things up

You need to leave nairaland and talk to you girl

If she loves you you'll know in her willingness to change. When you talk to her she might do small gragra initially, but you'll know she's willing to change with subtle signs of improvement.

We all have different backgrounds. You might have younger ones bellow you whom your word is authority to them. The essence of relationship isn't flowers sex and outings but both of you trying to understand each other. Work with your strengths and find a way through your weaknesses.

Clean

Realfitbody:
She might have done squats with dumbells or the kettlebell, so how are you so sure that it was weights she lifted to get that body?

Because I didn't just start reading about the effects of squats on the gluteus maximus and thighs.

The idea is for women who lack enough fat accumulation in the butt, to go about doing squats especially with weight which helps build their tighs.

They also combine squares with lunges, bridges etc to achieve an overall perky butt

You can never really "grow" your butt grow your butt especially if your have a rectangular or Apple shaped body

However you can get perky butt which makes it look bigger through cloths.

TosinDru:
Does this justify a 19 year old who as a result of excessive promiscuity, her bo obs are have become South seeking compass?

Lol
What if I told you that I know a 20 year old virgin who already has sagged boobs

Be reoriented
Two major factors that lead to sagging breast are
genetics
And excessive weight fluctuations

Dasherz:
I do squats 20 squats by 2 parts i do sit ups too but I'm not just getting any result

Trust me the woman in that picture didn't just achieve that with only squats She did squats with weight lifting on her shoulders Google is your friend you'll see the techniques on YouTube and blogs
Also using a waist trainer will reduce your waist making your ass look bigger

LUGBE:
He knows he will loose his job thus he proposed, be careful with him.

maybe he already lost the job sef before he proposed..

majekdom2:
you think he is doing good because he posts fine pictures. This is a bad compliment! Let him post his papers and figures over the next year, then you commend him.

I believe he can learn more about papers and figures as the business goes on.

This is Nigeria, the system isn't very favorable for the "start big " mentality especially for a young graduate like him.

Please let's separate reality from what holds sway only on paper


I think his story is still very inspiring considering there are still many undergraduates here in Nigeria who are still waiting for government to give them jobs after leaving school for years, instead just starting something and building from there



Depending on his tenacity to succeed and CREATIVITY with time, he can then decide to stop following crowd of just selling any footware and create his own brand which I believe that's what YMODULUS was talking about

with time the innovative and creative spirit will separate the men from the boys.

cruchenutii:
She's really beautiful & also very engaging. Those are her good sides. But very controlling & emotional. She always wants to have her way on the slightest thing.

Have you tried to talk to her about it..

Is she the only child or the last born of her family?

cruchenutii:
So this is a real life issue & not some cooked up stories. I've been dating this Girl for 1 Year Plus , she's a sweet girl But Issue is.

We don't have a lot in common. She doesn't like what I like & I don't like what she likes. She's like the total opposite. I just tried to manage this far, but In order not to waste her time, I need to set her free on time. So she can find her other half & settle down on time. As I actually love her & wish her well in a reality.

I need to set her free, But I don't know how to, because she's the very Emotional type that can/may do something drastic because of Heart break.

SO i Just need ideas on how to set her free without being heart broken , And Explain to her nicely why we can't be together & Leave her in peace.

Biko help your guy Abeg. CC Emusmithy mrphysics kimbra tosyne2much ilegendd and pocohantas

So what attracted you to her in the first place?

Fresh

Male ego

The male species were created, and have learnt overtime to show off their masculinity through their ability to guard, Protect and provide for their families, herds, or packs

Now in ancient times, most men were able to show off their masculinity by going off to war ( to Protect their families and country) where they would spend a number of years and return as the Knight in shining Armour for their beloved.


It's quite different today, not all men are enlisted into the army as there exist a wide range of professions to choose from many of which require more of mental rather physical strength. These tasks seem quite repetitive making quite a bland and boring lifestyle.

So, how do men get to show off that in built ego that which makes them feel less emasculated and sets them apart-
By being good at what they are doing and making enough money in other to Protect and provide for their loved ones.


It Is just a characteristic which society has cemented in our hearts and minds over time. So just as ladies are expected to be homemakers men are expected to providers buy societal standards.


That's why even if you have a toyboy or a boyfriend whom you provide for as a lady, just know that he will surely find a lady who he can be "a man" over. Even if he lazy, he would steal or use the cash you are providing him with to chase other ladies he can feel like a man with.

That's why as much as the motherly instinct in a lady makes her want to do it all for a guy she's in love with, she has to be careful and watch out for signs that she isn't Making him feel less than a man by her actions.

hillsway:
By work, do you mean booting to desktop or turning on?If the former it's a no no unless if you choose to boot through a temporary drive(S.D card,U.S.B,C.D) which has an O.S on it, but if the latter sure it does.

Do you sell hdd

hillsway:
Yes it can.

I meant can a laptop work without HDD

You mean 100 naira