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PoliticsRe: Amaechi’s Camp Has Video Of Fraud-free Governors’ Forum Election by Gentleme1: 10:31pm On May 25, 2013
thelastpope10: Bwahahahahahahaha! The Lamentations of APC!

Ibori is cooling off in a London jail because he thought he had biceps! Sylva is cooling off in EFCC cage because he was also pushed by bad advisers! Hmmm. Let's see. Where will Amaechi cool off! ...still thinking...........
Cool off in Obuah's cauldron.... grin grin grin grin grin lol
PoliticsRe: Jang Holds Inaugural Meeting As NGF Chairman - Newsexpress by Gentleme1: 10:22pm On May 25, 2013
where is gbawe and his pro amaechi butt lickers....I said it Amaechi can win a battle for a moment but can never win this war...his stupid.ness has just provoked the malevolence of all PDP stakeholders.

My people say if one man cook for a village, dem go chop am finish but when the entire village ready cook for one man...e go hard o!

Every PDP stakeholder has put their pots ready to serve the st.upid and stubborn governor(Amaechi), its time to treat his f.cuk.up grin grin grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Amaechi Re-elected As Chairman Of Nigeria Governors Forum by Gentleme1: 12:00am On May 25, 2013
userlist: Who cares why they did it, the bottom line is GEJ lost woefully.
His preferred candidate lost
Na wa o...this comment is just too too daft ...gush!... was the election between Amaechi and Jonathan? or between governors of Nigeria? Madam gushy, Jang was not Jonathan's preferred candidate...read and know the facts grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Amaechi Re-elected As Chairman Of Nigeria Governors Forum by Gentleme1: 11:58pm On May 24, 2013
saintvalx: I'm tired/bored, I can't agree with you anymore.

Do I need to seize a moment to tell everyone that "our mumu don do"?
grin grin grin grin grin grin ...Gbawe have you heard? grin grin grin ...this is coming from even your perceived own grin grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Amaechi Re-elected As Chairman Of Nigeria Governors Forum by Gentleme1: 11:43pm On May 24, 2013
Gbawe: Nigeria cannot remain an aberration where mediocrities, promoted far above their station, lord it over talented folks. That model is becoming extinct worldwide.

Prop up GEJ all you want and put down Ameachi as suits you but I can confidently tell you , here and now, that your Nation will not exist in a vacuum.

Ultimately, and in defiance of what obtained previously, Nigerian leadership will become more about meritorious and talented 'gladiators' earning the right to lead rather than what we have now whereby a totally unfit character such as GEJ, courtesy of throwback jesters like OBJ, finds himself far above his station. Amaechi's victory may not last but it is symbolic of what is to come for GEJ and those who support him myopically.
Which aberration of mediocrities? ...the last time I checked it was the supposed promoters of the opposition that are mounting their butts off come 2015 to put in some lame leader...seriously some folks should not be talking at all unless they have something better....

I personally dont even see a damn thing about this NGF blah blah blah and like I said...when the time comes everyone will see that stubbornness aint the same thing as doggedness...winning battle aint the same thing as winning a war...state governor aint the same thing as national president...NGF 2013 aint the same thine as NigeriaDecides 2015...~wink and roars! cool cool cool

And for the noting...wherever Amaechi is now, He'll sure know by now that PDP has logically tagged him as the '5th column'. No PDP govnor would want to have anything to do with him...sincerely I piiiiiiiiiiiiiittttttyyyyyyy him ##In stammering voice#### grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Amaechi Re-elected As Chairman Of Nigeria Governors Forum by Gentleme1: 11:29pm On May 24, 2013
HAH: This is obviously a sign that GEJ will lose the PDP primaries (he earlier he decamps to Apga or LP the better because PDPs candidate is Lamido or kwankwaso.

The handwriting is clear on the wall. Lest I forget kano delegate alone is equal to 50% of south south delegates
Folks who see this mere victory has a sign of Jonathan losing ahead are just just been pathetic to be serious. We know vividly that almost all the opposition state governors voted Amaechi while he enjoyed the 20% from his 2 northern friends governors.

The statistics have it clearly that almost 90% of PDP governors voted for Jang. So it was a clear sign that Ameachi only won from the opposition and those who understand politics very well will know why the opposition did this

- They did it to keep stirring storms in PDP while tryin to subtly appeal to Ameachi's defecting to their party
- They did it to make Nigerians think Presido look weak but NGF to me is just a forum where common interests that cuts across partisanship is discussed...one for all all for one......we know that come 2015 all man will be for himself...if you doubt me ask Timipre Sylva.
PoliticsRe: Amaechi Re-elected As Chairman Of Nigeria Governors Forum by Gentleme1: 11:19pm On May 24, 2013
malc619: Amaechi has a right to nurse political ambitions, he shouldn't be crucified for that...
Nurse which political ambitions?..lol...Ambitions of swaying to the opposition at the expense of the people who voted him in? or for his selfish reasons?

The dude knows that his political days are over and 2015 wont give him the ticket to Senate, because Chief Nyesom Wike (minister of state for education) is preparing his own butt for that seat.

My brother even if he comes in through APC, PDP will beat him in RState hands down because one- the state is no longer under his control again...two- the new evil stakeholders of PDP in Rstate know the rigging game more than him...three-what he has are just more young boys like tonye princewill (the dude who keep posting pixes of himself and wife having fun in dubai every other day) while the evil geniuses have all decamped to team Obuah.

The major reason I see Presido hunting that guy is because Amaechi has turned out to be a threat to PDP, to South South, to the people of Rivers State, to the Stakeholders and every one who feels happy that at least in this period in history one of our own has mounted the numero uno seat of power. My brother, Amaechi knows it aint goin be eaasy...lets be watching!
PoliticsRe: Amaechi Re-elected As Chairman Of Nigeria Governors Forum by Gentleme1: 11:00pm On May 24, 2013
In my opinion a battle line has just been drawn...sincerely I pity Amaechi..sincerely!

The fact now is that Amaechi has just become an enemy of virtually all south south stakeholders beginning from the SS governors. You know why I said so? because almost every dude within the corridor of powers want a new position or retain their previous and only Jonathan who we know will become the president will deliver mandates to them and not Amaechi whose political relevance is fading with the sunset...the best He'll do is to form ally with the Northerners to fight his own brother. #We are watching!


Jonathan will subtly witch hunt that guy and use every arsenal against the dude. Those praising Amaechi's victory are just lame to say the least.

Where were Amaechi's powers when Chief Obuah emerged PDP Chairman in a State you are perceived the numero uno?
Where were his powers when less that 96hours, 22 law makers in the State were suspended?
Where were his powers when his G.U Ake (the perceived most powerful man in Rivers State) was overthrown?

He sacked the Obo Akpor Chairman and put in caretaker cmttee, minutes later orders came to unseat the caretaker cmmttee.

Lets wait and see how events in Amaechi;s life unfolds. Because as it stands there;s the 1000000% possibility that he can never regain the control of his State again from the hands of the his detractors. wink

The fact is that Amaechi may win this battle, but can never win this war...this is what politics in Nigeria is all about...#peaceout
AdvertsRe: PROJECT LBM (Light Business Marketing) : Beginner's Guide by Gentleme1: 10:08pm On May 24, 2013
HARDDON: @ Gentle me: do answer just this one question:

are you into this business or not?
the right question should be ''were you into this business or not''...because the business is now history!

And to your question...the answer is i was! undecided
AdvertsRe: PROJECT LBM (Light Business Marketing) : Beginner's Guide by Gentleme1: 8:58am On May 24, 2013
@ Hardon,

As much as your words sounds consoling. I must however demand you tell the truth, that's if you know the truth by now.

There are certain things i dont want to unleash here but the harsh reality is that this 3s-project has come and gone.

I speak as one who eat and dine with folks who host the Country director in diner...yeah call my comments betrayal or treason I choose to go that way if it will help some folks who'd lost so much fortune on this stu.pid scheme call 3star project (the name is not LBM) LBM means Light business marketing which is general name for all online survey marketing.

You said you live off online business, while others who apparrently made huge loses in the 3s project did so from there years of hard earned savings...well I feel you sha but a true friend goes the extra mile to help out...which is telling the truth.

If by now you believe 3star project will come back then you've just disappointed everyone who look upto you here or probably you're misinformed.

#peaceout
PoliticsRe: Anti-Amaechi Protests In Port Harcourt - Picture by Gentleme1: 10:43pm On May 22, 2013
...choose the best title:

- The beginning of amaechi's ending
- The fall and fall of Amaechi
- Amaechi - reaping the evil he sowed

grin grin grin grin grin

Politics is a game of loyalty...simple!
AdvertsRe: Vow, Project LBM Is Earning People Cool Dollars Here In Nigeria, by Gentleme1: 11:57pm On May 21, 2013
Story story story..wake up to reality.

1. Someone said the site is still under maintenance and was like how long would it take web developers to correct an error from the website as they made us believe it was.

2. If the site was under maintenance they wouldnt have written that bu.llshit on the intro page that said @all markers have been eliminated. The term 'eliminated' is a direct and intentional word and they did it to pass a message

3. I can confirm to you guys 100% surely that the April cash wont be paid, I heard the Country Director said She was told vividly that no one will be paid because they;ve run out of cash

4. The question now is how did they run out of cash? The 3star-project was not into any b.ullshit marketing but rather a financial company that used funds from all over the world to trade with 'Telkoms'(An equivalent of Central Bank fo Nigeria). The returns on the Telkoms will be divided into 2 parts (20% to 'supposed investors') and (80% to build the caravel Hotel' in Russia).

5. The truth is that the caravel hotel building project was designed to last for 12months, facts is they have completed the project (I got my findings from First Group Inc. - an Internationally established property management company)and are doing away with us because to them we are now disease.

6. The reason they said we have now been integrated into the b.ullshit shares is because they know the problem it will build up from everyone like us, so they are subtly telling us we will be paid in due course.

7. Now watch this, ask yourself, why was the site closed down for the so-called b.ullshit maintenance exactly on the 31st April and for 3 weeks (21days) there so called professional couldnt come up with something . They waited for the right time and then struck. we are talking about a site that they made us believe houses our investments...I read software engineering and from experience it wouldnt take 72days to put a site running, even if it were hacked the owners would have paid the hackers to free the site or get an certified hacker to counter the insurgence. 21days and nothing

Someone asked: But why is the website still showing up...and I laughed and answered...the website is still up because If it was shut down everyone would have gone crazy by now. Seeing the site everyday is subtly calming your nerve to believe that all is well or will be well. Their office is still running because if they had locked it up, you'd have cried foul. Its a psychological game.

8. If you know what is good just ensure you give troubles to your upliners to ensure they put the same pressure on the managers in Nigeria to pay your money else you will be here sobbing for ever. Go crazy and put the guys where they belong. Okay, just call your upliner and threaten them, trust me your money will come back in 7days

9. I called the Director of Nigeria (Ifeoma Kazi) asking if she has travelled to meet with the folks in Russia and she was plain and upfront saying in her words ''Gentle I do not know them very well, they only contacted me in Nigeria to help them and that doing so, i could add more fees to people who are interested, besides I dont know how to speak Russia'' and she was laughing all the way. funny thing is that the lady does not even come to the office again while over 40million naira has been missing in thin air. God have mercy

10. Some sharp guys have threatened law suit and police case, and I secretly learnt she's settled them.

Wake up, your moneys are gone since you call yourself men and can do nothing...bye bye
AdvertsRe: Save $5! Join My Team And Get Lbm Markers For $25 by Gentleme1: 11:56pm On May 21, 2013
Story story story..wake up to reality.

1. Someone said the site is still under maintenance and was like how long would it take web developers to correct an error from the website as they made us believe it was.

2. If the site was under maintenance they wouldnt have written that bu.llshit on the intro page that said @all markers have been eliminated. The term 'eliminated' is a direct and intentional word and they did it to pass a message

3. I can confirm to you guys 100% surely that the April cash wont be paid, I heard the Country Director said She was told vividly that no one will be paid because they;ve run out of cash

4. The question now is how did they run out of cash? The 3star-project was not into any b.ullshit marketing but rather a financial company that used funds from all over the world to trade with 'Telkoms'(An equivalent of Central Bank fo Nigeria). The returns on the Telkoms will be divided into 2 parts (20% to 'supposed investors') and (80% to build the caravel Hotel' in Russia).

5. The truth is that the caravel hotel building project was designed to last for 12months, facts is they have completed the project (I got my findings from First Group Inc. - an Internationally established property management company)and are doing away with us because to them we are now disease.

6. The reason they said we have now been integrated into the b.ullshit shares is because they know the problem it will build up from everyone like us, so they are subtly telling us we will be paid in due course.

7. Now watch this, ask yourself, why was the site closed down for the so-called b.ullshit maintenance exactly on the 31st April and for 3 weeks (21days) there so called professional couldnt come up with something . They waited for the right time and then struck. we are talking about a site that they made us believe houses our investments...I read software engineering and from experience it wouldnt take 72days to put a site running, even if it were hacked the owners would have paid the hackers to free the site or get an certified hacker to counter the insurgence. 21days and nothing

Someone asked: But why is the website still showing up...and I laughed and answered...the website is still up because If it was shut down everyone would have gone crazy by now. Seeing the site everyday is subtly calming your nerve to believe that all is well or will be well. Their office is still running because if they had locked it up, you'd have cried foul. Its a psychological game.

8. If you know what is good just ensure you give troubles to your upliners to ensure they put the same pressure on the managers in Nigeria to pay your money else you will be here sobbing for ever. Go crazy and put the guys where they belong. Okay, just call your upliner and threaten them, trust me your money will come back in 7days

9. I called the Director of Nigeria (Ifeoma Kazi) asking if she has travelled to meet with the folks in Russia and she was plain and upfront saying in her words ''Gentle I do not know them very well, they only contacted me in Nigeria to help them and that doing so, i could add more fees to people who are interested, besides I dont know how to speak Russia'' and she was laughing all the way. funny thing is that the lady does not even come to the office again while over 40million naira has been missing in thin air. God have mercy

10. Some sharp guys have threatened law suit and police case, and I secretly learnt she's settled them.

Wake up, your moneys are gone since you call yourself men and can do nothing...bye bye
AdvertsRe: Project LBM: Work From Home And Get Paid Monthly (internet Access Compulsory) by Gentleme1: 11:55pm On May 21, 2013
Story story story..wake up to reality.

1. Someone said the site is still under maintenance and was like how long would it take web developers to correct an error from the website as they made us believe it was.

2. If the site was under maintenance they wouldnt have written that bu.llshit on the intro page that said @all markers have been eliminated. The term 'eliminated' is a direct and intentional word and they did it to pass a message

3. I can confirm to you guys 100% surely that the April cash wont be paid, I heard the Country Director said She was told vividly that no one will be paid because they;ve run out of cash

4. The question now is how did they run out of cash? The 3star-project was not into any b.ullshit marketing but rather a financial company that used funds from all over the world to trade with 'Telkoms'(An equivalent of Central Bank fo Nigeria). The returns on the Telkoms will be divided into 2 parts (20% to 'supposed investors') and (80% to build the caravel Hotel' in Russia).

5. The truth is that the caravel hotel building project was designed to last for 12months, facts is they have completed the project (I got my findings from First Group Inc. - an Internationally established property management company)and are doing away with us because to them we are now disease.

6. The reason they said we have now been integrated into the b.ullshit shares is because they know the problem it will build up from everyone like us, so they are subtly telling us we will be paid in due course.

7. Now watch this, ask yourself, why was the site closed down for the so-called b.ullshit maintenance exactly on the 31st April and for 3 weeks (21days) there so called professional couldnt come up with something . They waited for the right time and then struck. we are talking about a site that they made us believe houses our investments...I read software engineering and from experience it wouldnt take 72days to put a site running, even if it were hacked the owners would have paid the hackers to free the site or get an certified hacker to counter the insurgence. 21days and nothing

Someone asked: But why is the website still showing up...and I laughed and answered...the website is still up because If it was shut down everyone would have gone crazy by now. Seeing the site everyday is subtly calming your nerve to believe that all is well or will be well. Their office is still running because if they had locked it up, you'd have cried foul. Its a psychological game.

8. If you know what is good just ensure you give troubles to your upliners to ensure they put the same pressure on the managers in Nigeria to pay your money else you will be here sobbing for ever. Go crazy and put the guys where they belong. Okay, just call your upliner and threaten them, trust me your money will come back in 7days

9. I called the Director of Nigeria (Ifeoma Kazi) asking if she has travelled to meet with the folks in Russia and she was plain and upfront saying in her words ''Gentle I do not know them very well, they only contacted me in Nigeria to help them and that doing so, i could add more fees to people who are interested, besides I dont know how to speak Russia'' and she was laughing all the way. funny thing is that the lady does not even come to the office again while over 40million naira has been missing in thin air. God have mercy

10. Some sharp guys have threatened law suit and police case, and I secretly learnt she's settled them.

Wake up, your moneys are gone since you call yourself men and can do nothing...bye bye
AdvertsRe: PROJECT LBM (Light Business Marketing) : Beginner's Guide by Gentleme1: 11:35pm On May 21, 2013
beloved of GOD: I am certain something good will happen this week in LBM, so let's all be expectant. And stay positive.
Cheers!!!
Story story story..wake up to reality.

1. Someone said the site is still under maintenance and was like how long would it take web developers to correct an error from the website as they made us believe it was.

2. If the site was under maintenance they wouldnt have written that bu.llshit on the intro page that said @all markers have been eliminated. The term 'eliminated' is a direct and intentional word and they did it to pass a message

3. I can confirm to you guys 100% surely that the April cash wont be paid, I heard the Country Director said She was told vividly that no one will be paid because they;ve run out of cash

4. The question now is how did they run out of cash? The 3star-project was not into any b.ullshit marketing but rather a financial company that used funds from all over the world to trade with 'Telkoms'(An equivalent of Central Bank fo Nigeria). The returns on the Telkoms will be divided into 2 parts (20% to 'supposed investors') and (80% to build the caravel Hotel' in Russia).

5. The truth is that the caravel hotel building project was designed to last for 12months, facts is they have completed the project (I got my findings from First Group Inc. - an Internationally established property management company)and are doing away with us because to them we are now disease.

6. The reason they said we have now been integrated into the b.ullshit shares is because they know the problem it will build up from everyone like us, so they are subtly telling us we will be paid in due course.

7. Now watch this, ask yourself, why was the site closed down for the so-called b.ullshit maintenance exactly on the 31st April and for 3 weeks (21days) there so called professional couldnt come up with something grin grin grin grin . They waited for the right time and then struck. we are talking about a site that they made us believe houses our investments...I read software engineering and from experience it wouldnt take 72days to put a site running, even if it were hacked the owners would have paid the hackers to free the site or get an certified hacker to counter the insurgence. 21days and nothing

Someone asked: But why is the website still showing up...and I laughed and answered...the website is still up because If it was shut down everyone would have gone crazy by now. Seeing the site everyday is subtly calming your nerve to believe that all is well or will be well. grin grin grin Their office is still running because if they had locked it up, you'd have cried foul. Its a psychological game. grin grin grin grin grin

8. If you know what is good just ensure you give troubles to your upliners to ensure they put the same pressure on the managers in Nigeria to pay your money else you will be here sobbing for ever. Go crazy and put the guys where they belong. Okay, just call your upliner and threaten them, trust me your money will come back in 7days angry angry angry angry

9. I called the Director of Nigeria (Ifeoma Kazi) asking if she has travelled to meet with the folks in Russia and she was plain and upfront saying in her words ''Gentle I do not know them very well, they only contacted me in Nigeria to help them and that doing so, i could add more fees to people who are interested, besides I dont know how to speak Russia'' and she was laughing all the way. funny thing is that the lady does not even come to the office again while over 40million naira has been missing in thin air. God have mercy grin grin grin grin

10. Some sharp guys have threatened law suit and police case, and I secretly learnt she's settled them.

Wake up, your moneys are gone since you call yourself men and can do nothing...bye bye grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

[size=4pt]*for your info i have been refunded my cash*[/size]
PoliticsRe: Boko-Haram Leader, Shekau, Opens Facebook Profile! by Gentleme1: 5:26pm On May 21, 2013
His profile says he likes President Jonathan...very funny!
AdvertsRe: PROJECT LBM (Light Business Marketing) : Beginner's Guide by Gentleme1: 9:52pm On May 19, 2013
tstonch: thanks for your efforts man, my fingers are crossed and my hope is alive. God shall settle this for us, Amen.
I understand the phase you're going thru now. The problem is that you approached the scheme from a much greedy side probably to earn free money the easy way. *no ill-feelings*

My advise is for you to move on, the cash will never come back again, if they pay this month for laast month,the upliners will scoop it all off to recoup their losses and still give you excuses. afterall you wont kill them.

One more advise...move on! shit happens! grin grin grin
AdvertsRe: PROJECT LBM (Light Business Marketing) : Beginner's Guide by Gentleme1: 6:23pm On May 17, 2013
I heard some folks have gotten a heart attack grin
AdvertsRe: PROJECT LBM (Light Business Marketing) : Beginner's Guide by Gentleme1: 1:28pm On May 08, 2013
^^^I wouldnt advice you to!

Russians are notorious for high tech scam. beware!
RomanceJust Laugh Dont Comment by Gentleme1(op): 4:54pm On May 04, 2013
FamilyRe: Dangers Of Constantly Insulting Your Kids by Gentleme1: 2:36pm On Mar 27, 2013
What kind of parent will insult a child?...sounds hard but true then...
PoliticsRe: Other Governors Visit Chime In London (with Picture) by Gentleme1: 9:33pm On Jan 22, 2013
Something tells me this picture and visit was staged to put up a false appeal that Gov.S. Chime is fine when he isnt.

A closer look at the pix shows a man with the color complexion of his nose very very different from his body, i keenly suspect the syndrome called Rosacea in addition with heart disorder.

The party PDP can go any length with their notoriety and these calibre of governors that visited are apparently their top dogs who do the dirty jobs visits

#IloveNigeria
RomanceMarriage Needs Mutual Respect. A Must Read! by Gentleme1(op): 3:16pm On Aug 27, 2012
Mrs Rokiatu could not just imagine what attracted her husband to the poor house help. But the more she thought about it, the more she got confused. And the fact that her husband would not say anything beyond his apology troubled her the more.

The fact, however, was that her husband was more worried and scandalised by onyi’s four-month old pregnancy than she was. He, however, had nothing to say except his continual prayer for the forgiveness of sins, his remorseful apologies to his wife and his determination to soak in all the insults and abuse she subjected him to without any reply.

Her Husband was the general manager of one of the country’s leading banks, and his wife was the human resource manager of the nation’s topmost insurance company. They had been married for 15 years. He was a respected elder of their church, and the youth looked up to him as a role model. His humility and modest disposition, despite his position, were simply matchless. And his moral uprightness was unquestionable.

In a world where all men are often tarred with the same brush with regard to fidelity, Rokiatu often boasted about her husband’s commitment: “Even if I catch him naked in the same room with another woman, I will still doubt if anything really happened between them.”

So she could not just understand what came over him to have stooped so low to have an affair with this stark illiterate who possessed nothing to attract even the wildest and indiscriminate womaniser. It was the fear of hiring a house help could entice her husband that she decided against engaging Tgirl, the senior high school dropout who looked a bit more presentable than Onyi. her husband could also not understand why he could not tame himself against his own house help after he had endured some of the most tempting women of his life.

He had caused the transfers of two of his personal secretaries and requested that he would no longer work with any female secretary because of their seductive tendencies. The most tempting of all was his nightly encounter with, Hbabe, the sexy national service lady from the communications unit of his bank, who once travelled with him for a businessmeetings.

Despite his ability to ward of these kinds of mounting pressures from women, He fell for Onyi, his house help, when there was practically no temptation. It was a Saturday afternoon and his wife was attending the speech and prize-giving day of her alma mater. Onyi had just prepared an early lunch of plantain and stew and he really relished it so much. After the meal, he called her to pour him a glass of fruit drink from the refrigerator, after which he complimented her cooking.

It was when she turned to go that he could not hold back what he had developed for her of late. He asked her where she was going and she said she was going to take her bath. He then instructed her to hurry up and see him for a discussion, to which she respectfully obliged and took her bath in a matter of five minutes. When she finished he was in his bedroom and invited her in. It was too unusual of him but she could not object to it. “Do you have a boyfriend?” he asked Onyi, after asking her to sit on the bed. She shook her head shyly and he went ahead to ask whether she sometimes felt like having a man.

She was too confused to answer. He asked again and she nodded. “I like you,” he said and held her close to himself. She was too frightened to protest until he began to UnCloth her. “There’s nothing to fear. It will be over soon,” he assured her and went ahead to peel off her clothes.

“Are you in your dangerous days,” he asked.

“No, Sir,” Onyi said without taking time to understand what it meant. She lay like a piece of log and endured it, for she was too frightened to enjoy anything. It happened once and he could not bring himself to continue, for guilt had already dispossessed him of his manly prowess. He ordered her to get up and dress.

He then handed her 6000 Naira notes, which shocked her even more than the affair. She was reluctant to take it until he said, “Take it. Buy yourself a new pant.” He had seen that not only had her otherwise white pant become brown, but it had also been overused and he nearly tore it into pieces in his hurry. Mr BrownJay became traumatised and fasted for the forgiveness of his sins and was almost recovering when the seed he had sown two months earlier began to manifest.

His insistence that the pregnancy should not be aborted infuriated his wife, and was the cause of her never-ending abuse for days. To his dismay, however, she woke him up in the middle of one night to apologise to him. “Darling, I’m sorry for the abuse. I have been praying over this for some time now and the Spirit tells me you were bewitched,” she said. “I should have known better that nothing about that girl could ever attract you when you have a wife like me.”

“I don’t think it has anything to do with witchcraft,” He spoke for the first time. “That girl has something that you don’t have.”

“What does this dirty thing have that I don’t have?” she screamed. “She has respect. I cannot justify what has happened, but if Onyi has any witchcraft that drew me close to her, then it is her respect. She makes me feel welcome in my home. In this house she makes me feel important. It is something you have starved me for the fifteen years we’ve been married. It is a luxury and I easily get swayed by it.”

She could not utter any word but she replied him with tears. They were tears of grief. Tears of guilt. And of regret. Mrs Rokiatu was a kind of woman every man would dream of having but she lacked respect for her husband and she did not argue when her husband told her what made him fall. She knew it was true.

Readers, you may be wondering why I have decided to bore you with yet another tale. I’m not in any way laying the foundation for infidelity. I just want to illustrate the value we men place on respect. We have an big ego and so feel deflated when we are treated with contempt, especially from our women.

I’m not calling for worship. I’ve realised that respect is the missing element in many womens character.

If our relationship, and for that matter our marriage, will succeed, then it will depend on respect. We have to respect each other in order to live together. Make me feel appreciated. Let me know you value me. And treat me the way I treat you.

On mutual respect shall we build our marriage and the gates of divorce shall not prevail against it. We are the Nigerian Dream! cool
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye Speaks Out On Mother's Death by Gentleme1: 4:47pm On Jul 19, 2012
berem: and what happened to kanye west's mother,jenifer hudson's family and dr.dre's son? Get a life bro and stop ranting!
Seems you've been feeding your innocent brains with dead meals. Just because some low life paparazzi wants to make cheap money they come up with stu.pid movies calling it names such as 666, illuminati and all what not...and you gullibly buy them. Shame on you for believing such trashies...really shame on you!
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye Speaks Out On Mother's Death by Gentleme1: 11:51am On Jul 19, 2012
berem: Am really suspecting these guys! Buh make I sharrap first. RIP iya beji! U will be surely missed!
Pls shutup your trash stinking boot mouth...must we africans always be stupid? How many mother and father did lil wayne, tuface, dbanj, rick ross sacrificed b4 getting to where they are? nonsense!
PoliticsRe: Buhari With IBB, Sambo And El Rufai - Picture by Gentleme1: 8:51pm On Jul 18, 2012
my late dad used to hold meetings like this with his well known foes. He called it friendly fight. Now i know what it means.

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