₦airaland Forum

since 2008
na! wa!!

Iamgrey5:
Are they setting up these women or what?

am depressed already

please stop falling,bring money

juman:
Their generation failed nigeria.

woefully

i didnt know that Kwara State that i thought was a Yoruba Land is "North Central". Cheii

Racoon:
Whao! So these ones too also know this solemn fact?

which solemn fact? thats a tricky one he just pulled out..lands in nigeria are characterized into three
federal
state
community
So if federal government orders your community to allow herders graze your farmland you will allow dem because the government say so?

Nature129:
Did he sack Sadique Abubakar?

That man did an intimating job as the Chief of Air Staff.

He's always in the news for building and renovating staff offices and quarters.

that Sadique Abubakar likes flexing too much Military no fit am..dey form Mr no stain for war.. abi na renovation of buildings wan end the war?

Nomorelove:
I'm depressed

me too

he's so relaxed,not bothered about the security situation in Nigeria

Ladiesdoctor:
This thing is becoming something else oo.
Fear don dey catch me with this naija sef

but it is still the same yoruba people he's trying to protect that where hired as hoodlums to destroy their fellows property...now you see that the problem is still within us not not the north or the south...

Kwashiman:
We own Nigeria

una when never chop,we are preparing for you people

RiyadhGoddess:
May his soul rest in peace.

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There's power in spoken words. Develop an habit of always speaking the words upon your life every morning before stepping out. Rather than sit down there in self pity, prophesy upon your life or the situation. I want you to note that nothing will change or move not until you prophesy.

I prophesy and I declare that the Lord is perfecting all that concerns me this week. I declare that I come out victorious. The Bible declares that goodness and mercy will follow me.
This week, I create possibilities. The Lord is my light and salvation, the Lord is my strength so therefore, I reject confusion in my life this week. The Lord will keep me in His perfect peace.

Oh many are the afflictions of the righteous but the Lord delivers him from them all, I am delivered from all afflictions! The Lord will restore the years that the canker worms has eaten and I recover all! The Lord will give me beauty for ashes.

I am the head and not the tail, I remain above and not beneath always. For my shame I receive double double double. I am blessed in my going out, I am blessed in my coming in and I remain blessed in the work of my hands!

I am a testament of the Grace of God. I am a testament of the Mercy of God. I am a testament of the Favor of God. I am a testament of the hand of God. I am a sign and wonder! Glorrrryyyyyyyyy!!!

Fam these Psalms should not depart out of thy lips.
Psalm 91, Psalm 121, Psalm 138 verse 8, Psalm 3.

Prophesy Fam, Prophesy!!!

God Bless You!

inspiring,thanks so much dear

helinues:
I think Nigerian journalist are sometimes confused.

The bullet missed, not any Ayeta... You might not be lucky next time

yet he wore a bullet proof lolz

AmazonTopaz:
Please keep quiet.
They were legitimately elected stop lying and disgracing yourself.It is because of the madness carried out by Trump supporters on the 6th that is why there was extra security and past presidents were also there too.Stop being a charlatan.Were you not the same liar that said rapture will come before Biden gets sworn in but here we are shame on you for being a shameless liar.

haha!!! gbas gbos

Minjim:
Is he ur President?

doesn't matter

Jman06:
Fighting criminal elements in your country ? How ? Do you pay him tax ?

doesn't matter, afterall he's the world president and nigeria is significant

Discombulator:
See this entitled brat, what the fvck does your country have to do with the USA,no go beg buhari

you are gay,no wonder

dumahi:
I need an honest gay person to explain to me how it feels to be gay. I just can't understand it. If you ask me, I'll say it's a psychiatric issue that needed counseling and medication rather than legal recognition. This is my honest view and not meant to insult anyone.

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now i will just HATE this Biden...
cant he talk about terrorism? Nigerians were behind him he should pay us back by fighting criminal elements in our country rather thank talking irritating stuffs

achierosion:
Why not keep quiet Mr Makinde and allow the flame to cool down.

Modified.
Southern lives is too precious to be wasted by uneducated fulanis.

Aswear

you did well,is this auchi poly?

Firstpage:
Are you calling igbos slaves? Because the guy you quoted is Igbo.

who cares

Fahdiga:
We the Yorubas prefers to live with peaceful Fulani herdsmen than terrorists IPOB

slaves

how did these people cross our borders

Yujin:
Last month I wrote down here on nairaland that the government will give vehicles to fulani terrorists publicly and I know that many glossed over that post. Today I've been vindicated. They're now arming their terrorist militia while foolish southerners are still undecided on how to protect themselves. I asked once again; are you all under a spell that you can't connect the dots?
This Commander most likely was killed by a fellow Nigerian soldier (sniper). The position the bullet impacted on him shows it's possible was done by a pro.
We are watching.

yes exactly...this commander was assassinated, he's a southerner..the jihad has begun

kill him and tell the press the bandicts killed him,am not a fool like the shit southerners who have no balls...spits!!

Vevejoy:
Plesse forget the errors and focus on the content.

So here's my issue.

I've been married for 6yrs and it's been a blissful journey- of course with minor issues here and there but nothing to worry about until May 5th 2020 when I'd say things turned upside down.

We live abroad and struggled to have kids but God finally blessed us with a beautiful daughter in Sept 2019. Child care being super expensive here, we wanted one of our moms to come help us with the baby when I return to work after my maternity leave. So on the eve of our wedding anniversary which was the 4th of May last year, I asked my husband for the say 10th time about beginning the procedure of bringing a mom over to help since I'll be returning to work. He asked which mom and I said in my exact words; "of course my mom" because I know that when a woman gives birth, her mom usually go to help her. Did that change our story? My God, marriage has been one hell of a thing since that day.

My husband said I am selfish, disrespectful, and want to dominate him. He said things will never be the same again and since then, my marriage has been a stress zone.

My husband is numb to my feelings. He's been ignoring me, I've been a nag I'll admit since tue incident last year. I now talk alot and mostly complain about everything whenever we are together. It's sad and I've actually had conversations with myself to ignore him and stop nagging but I continue to do it, I need help on how to shut up and observe.

I can cry from now to die kingdom come and this man wouldn't be moved. He cannot shift his stance because of me at all. He does whatever he likes and disregard everything I say. E.g before this crisis, we had an appointment to see our Dr to start trying for baby number two because the Dr's advised that since we just had a baby, it's best to try for another soonest given that we had challenges conceiving the first one. This man cancelled the appointment with our Dr and has blatantly refused to start trying for a baby right now. He says when the time comes he'll let me know. Up till now the time has not come despite the fact that delaying may impact our chance of conceiving again. What a life!� � �.

Also, he has decided that no parent will come and I'm back to work already. My poor baby who use to sleep till 9am now suffer in this winter getting up at 6am to be dropped off at daycare all because her father is angry and want to make sure he doesn't do anything that will make his wife smile. He'll rather spend thorns of money paying for daycare even after I've told him that I don't mind his mom coming. Mind u, I have a very good relationship with my inlaws, especially my mom inlaw so it's not an inlaw fight.

The worst of them all is that despite living abroad for 17yrs, this man believes so much in native doctors to the extend that I can't even explain. Infact it's something that I've always fought him about and talked against. I've even complained about it to his family. And guess what, when I talk against, he tells his native drs who of course has ignited the fire in our home. Can you believe that in this chaos this man took me on a vacation in August last year that he wanted to clear his mind so we can start a new chapter and be happy again only to tell me that I have been trying to use a charm on him in the past months thats why things got rough. He said the 3 women I am using appeared to him but he is stronger ����. I am laughing because I felt pity and ashamed for him. How can a grown man be this vulnerable to suitsayers? I have never in my entire life visited a native doctor for myself not to talk of going to take a charmI didn'tvisit the native drs when I was strugglingto have a baby and this man thinks I'llvisit one now to charm him. Wondering y he will even believe such a thing. Infact I don't even know any native doctor. So when he said that, I told him that if I had known that his change of attitude is because of this stupid reason, I would not have fought for my marriage like I did. Of course I got so mad and told him a piece of my mind. I am even ashamed of telling people that despite this man's exposure he consults native Dr's in Africa more than even the people in Africa. Infact if they say yes that's what he listens to. He has even paid a flight from here to Africa because a native Dr told him that his dad who raised him to be the man he is today is trying to kill him and he should come for protection.

I decided to tell his mom about the accusation. His mom told me she scolded at him and warned him never to say such nonsense. Well I just pity him and I'm praying for him. But truth is I regret my marriage to him because of these his believes. I just don't believe in divorce and don't even have the heart to move out I would have done so. Mind u, I am 100% independent so it's not an issue of being scared of surviving alone.

Well one Sunday night as usual I talked to him like crazy and he said "all he wants is for our relationship to work and he will put in his best effort with support from me. I said I want same and will put in my best effort with support from him too*. This happened around september and things have been like normal on and off since then.

I have a few worries which I'd like you to advise me on the way forward.
- My husband is heartless. No matter how I lament, cry, beg, approach him nicely. Infact no matter the manner in which I bring up an issue to him, he doesn't get moved at all. He stays on his stance and doesn't care. How am I suppose to live with a man like this. He goes mute when I try having a conversation with him.

- I have a weakness of talking alot which I acknowledge and I'm doing my best to work on it though I'm yet to change completely. But I can say there's a huge improvement. Infact I'm able to walk away now.

Can a marriage really work out out without a compromise from both parties? I feel like I am compromising alot but this man is doing whatever he likes. In all of these he doesn't cheat but has abused me physically 4times in our 6yrs of marriage which I'm still pained about. The worst abuse right now is emotional abuse and I've told him so several times.

We use to be an exemplary and happy couple up till this may 2020. What will you do in a situation like mine With? With a man like my husband who I'd say lacks empathy and a concience how do I deal with him? His mom said she talked to him but I don't see any difference.

I feel miserable right now in my marriage. Since I got married this is our hardest hit and unfortunately it got prolonged probably bc of his native Dr's who told him I am using a charm on him which he believed.


Help me out please

such a woman..
i admire the fact that you said the truth about yourself and your weaknesses ...then your husband has been brainwashed totally that he feeds a Man and his entire household in Africa because he is gullible,again i want to ask if you guys go to church or you are pagans cos you didnt mention that.. cos seeing a pastor will help a great deal

then ..
concentrate on your child and career, make sure you have plenty of fun to keep your mental state in balance,and when you have a chance to sleep with him,shoooot your shot and get pregnant again ASAP..that's all that matters right now..
nor worry,him eyes go soon open,and when it does dont forget to thank me

ogashman:
the presidency is always against any concerted effort made towards nipping the excesses of these herdsmen in the bud.


every Nigerian has the right to live anywhere in any part of the country but that's not ticket for you to torment your host or carry out illegal activities.

your right to settle in any part of the country could be revoke if you are fomenting trouble in that part of the country and sent back to ur region.

now you can see how the presidency is quick to defend the Fulanis,but did little or nothing with kaduna jos and and and

Dong2:
Preferably, call him garbage shame!

right bro.. garbage shame sounds much like his name haha

u dey find husband?

Fahdiga:
Done for Allah's sake

hahahahahaha

MASTAkiLLAh:
Presidency ran 440 like Ben Johnson just to release statement defending fulani terrorists yet keep demonic silence when the terrorists are on rampage

hahaha!!! the government are so quick to counter Ondo government,a sign of the kind of government we have today...
i haven't heard garba shehu talk about the killings in kaduna...

wait a minute..did i hear him say constitution?
Nigeria is already divided, constitution holds no law,if it does then the Sharia law will not stand in some part of the north..
fvck you garba shehu or whatever you call yourself..
you are fool(lolz) of shit no wonder i didn't bother to write your name in CapLetters

seunny4lif:
With all our midfielders, Liverpool dey play us like baby We need matic, Greenwood and Cavani
Fred is off in this match

fred is shaky and scared

seunny4lif:
Ron Keane said it too
He like lindelof

he's scared of bailey commiting a blunder in the eighteen yard box that will cos a Penalty