₦airaland Forum

Karleb:
I feel bad for you guys.

Even aboki sef dey enjoy pass una.

For cultural reasons, I understand why many would want to marry Igbo women. But for me, Igbo women aren't the only group of Christian women in Nigeria.

P.S. Fulani men are in my opinion the alpha males in Nigeria.

Illusioneffect:
Looks like you're the vulva expert who can't differentiate between a man and a woman

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

It is funny how Nigerians who learnt basic biology during their secondary school days in Nigeria move to the US and then suddenly believe there are over 1000 genders while trying to bamboozle a sane person to believe in their so-called differences between gEnDeR and sEx.

Well, good a thing such nonsense gets to stop. Those who don't like it can move to Gaza where their 1000 genders friends reside.

saddler:
From the name you can see she is igbo.

The other woman that wanted to poison Yoruba and Benin is igbo too.

ALL are Igbos. I just saw a compilation of a much bigger thread: https://x.com/societyhatesjay/status/1854555700933927082

Good luck to those men who marry modern Igbo women.

pansophist:
Even though most of the ladies in this group will not do anything evil to men, men will just see the group as more reasons to believe modern women ain't worth it.

The lack of motivation for men to chase women like before, for men to commit, for men to not trust women etc are caused by the existence of women like this.

You would be accused of roadside analyses.

Magnoliaa:
Please go and rest with your roadside analyses abeg.

That was what South Koreans said a decade ago. Continue. Na for Nairaland we go read scorelines.

Thunderfayamods:
I don't bother when I read senseless comments especially coming from people who possibly are not living in the US but know America more than Americans!
You don't even know me or what I believe but you are jumping into different conclusions. Kids!

The same Americans who built the US and voted overwhelmingly for Trump?

You people never learn, and I am thrilled you lots lost and woefully at that!

Cry me an ocean!

Mikelarteta:
If it was a white guy amd a man, he would have defeated Donald Trump. A lot of this white people are Racist and they would rather a man be their president rather than a lady honestly. I live with them I know how they think md behave. Not that they like Trump, but they would still rather him than Kamala.

Humans are tribal. The difference between the tribalism of white people vs that of blacks is that the former used it to develop his dominant lands. yen yen yen they are racists, no be una flog Igbo people wey go vote for Lagos? Was it white people who burnt Deborah Yakubu Samuel to ashes?

It is always funny how black people accuse whites of racism. When African Americans were sent to Liberia after slavery, they implemented crude tribalism which erupted in a civil war. When whites were to Australia, they developed the country! What a group of people!

yen yen yen racism and miss ogini made Trump win. Is that why he won the popular votes even though he lost them previously? Where are he mysterious over 10 million votes from 2020? What happened to those voters?

At least, we go rest with dem lovey-dovey and unrealistic set of human beings. Cry all you want!

Thunderfayamods:
working for him during his tenure are for face saving so that people will think he loves black.
Whoever told you that Trump is anti LGBTQ? That is not true! What he is against is gay community forcing their gay shit on people! If you are gay be your gay don't force it on others.
Meanwhile stop saying Nigerians supported Trump talk for yourself.

It is arrogance that makes you lots don't grasp issues well. It is well known by many foreign news media including your lovey-dovey CNN that MANY Africans, not just Nigerians, desire a Trump presidency for various reasons. Mr Abbey listed eligibility confusionists as one reason, the other is because Obama supported the removal of Gadaffi which affected and still does affect many African countries in the Sahel. In 2015, church rallies were held for Trump in Onitsha. Most importantly, an overwhelming number of Africans are culturally and socially conservative. They constitute the majority, not those in Lekki and Ikoyi who carry American cultural wars on their heads like gala.

saddler:
From the name you can see she is igbo.

The other woman that wanted to poison Yoruba and Benin is igbo too.

No clear studies have been conducted yet, but I am willing to bet with everything I have in my life that more than 50% of the active feminists Nigeria has online and offline are Igbo women. The same should apply to the lesbian population.

So much gratitude from women whose husbands dress shabbily while their wives live lavishly. I see them and wonder "wetin these men dey spend their money on?", "Can't they spend to look good?" Mind you, these men have money and thriving businesses, but comparing their dresses to how the native and Chinese men dress, I feel sad. So much money, but look like refugees.

Gbadugbakun:
I'm shocked that some men are still talking about marriage in this GenZ generation.

Just have like 2-3 kids and hussle to give them a better life. Women have absolutely nothing to offer you.

If you want to practice such an ideology, it is better to have fewer children, preferably one and aim/pray the child is a boy. Anything above one becomes difficult and expensive to cater for as a single man who never had a "wife".

PissInside:
All my friends that got married are regretting it now.....They envy me and I kid you not.

I am curious, on average, how many children do they have?

Tomorrow, Nairaland feminists would not see the reasons why there has been a backlash from male folks. We would be told how we should fear for how future husbands would be, but here we are with future wives. These ones would STARVE their would-be husbands of sex and accuse them of marital rape should he try to just put the head inside.

The gender relations of the future would be interesting to see. Na religion and poverty dey hold Nigerians, especially southerners. Otherwise, ours would have gone haywire and probably worse than South Koreans.

I wish to see who wins at the end of the day. The next decade would be lovely to watch the end results.

Natbrowny:
Normally. Its not just women

If not for African values (for Africans), Religion (fear) - Both men and women for don commit atrocities beyond Gods imagination.

But most of those chats are clout. Some can't even do it. So because u be feminist (in their own foolish definition) one of dem wanna use her brother as a test lab.
People really neeed to learn, unlearn and relearn some things.

lol

Some of you people don't know how the world has changed significantly within the past decade. A 22 year old girl in 2024 is not the same as the one in 2010. But hey, it is for clout yet they formed a group and are seriously discussing these things to do.

ednut1:
the most wicked ones are not in any groups . I remember years ago on this same nairaland a female medical student ( she is now a doctor today) saying she will be feeding her husband/ man drugs that will kill his libido 😂

Thus, the man loses his masculinity and becomes a proper swegbe.

Good luck to such naive and ignorant men.

jara:
Aunty Kemi has a deep problem.

I supported her rant against Nigerians who Japa and want to Japa thinking their Salvation is Abroad; because you cannot win in Europe and America if you do not stand against immigration, migrants and legal residents. But claiming you cannot find a single Black into your shadow cabinet is a symton of a greater problem. Can you imagine the backlash if Kemi were white

How many blacks are Conservative MPs? Why MUST there be a black shadow minister in a country with fewer people than South Asians? The fact that Nigerians emigrated a lot to the UK and you consume a lot of black media content does not mean there are many blacks in the UK.

PressMyButton:
How many blacks are in the conservative MP?

This is the same issue with affirmative action into selective universities in the US. There are few blacks who apply or are qualified to apply, thus, those who get selected would have fewer blacks amongst them. Rather than look into increasing the pool of qualified blacks to apply, Ndi lovey-dovey try to game it by ensuring those who apply, whether qualified or not, get selected. In the end, most cannot survive the stiff competition in these institutions.

To your question, there are very few blacks in the Conservative Party. There are more South Asians - Pakistanis and Indians - in the UK than blacks. Black people don't constitute up to 3% of the entire UK population. Thus, there will be very few blacks in her cabinet. Most importantly, the demographics of the UK have whites as the majority. The cabinet has to reflect the demographics. The belief that she must cater to Nigeria as a British politician is uncalled for. Many black people have this attachee mentality. The same thing Africans do with North Africans - "you are an African whether you like it or not". Focus on Tinubu and leave Kemi alone.

justwise:
Pls moderate your language

lol

I can understand what it feels like.

One mentioned health care, YET we have a Nigerian woman who lamented on Twitter that the doctor she met for consultation did not allow her to lay her second complaint. After all, so-called free health care leads to rationing of health complaints. I read a long time ago that it was so hard to see dentists. Dentist kwa? Another Nigerian in Canada in her Nairaland diary lamented how the health care system there sucks and she sees the enjoyable lifestyles her friends in the US have. Yet capitalism is derided?

The UK must be a sufferable place!

jedisco:
Capitalism is a beast and enjoyable if one owns capital or the right mix of grit and fair exposure to opportunities.
The amount of wealth US companies have generated over the past decade is surreal.
Look at AI which is truly revolutionary with trillion dollar investments. Virtually every major AI company is American. Or is it how they went from largest crude imported to producer in a short period.

That is what people should focus on - which society provides the most economic opportunities. It is a major reason people migrate, not the "I want to live in a place where things work". The United States is that undisputed country where there are more economic opportunities than almost everywhere else. There are many Nigerians in this thread who are planning their way to the US because of the wealth of economic opportunities. Unsurprisingly, the majority are men. After all, they are HU[b]MAN[/b].

EU/UK OTOH is much more socialist which can dampen growth. Robust protections are important but only so much growth can be had when over 1 in 5 adults are economically inactive with a reasonable chunk on longterm sick or councils using >80% of their budget on care.

These are the people who want to compete with the Chinese and the new kids on the block (Vietnamese, Malaysia and Indonesia)?

missjekyll:
You are in even hotter soup than I thought.
Loooooool,dude. At least there is a bit of money to cushion the deleterious effects of Trump on people in the West. Enjoy your freedom.

The belief that every Nigerian who supports Trump lives in Nigeria or is poor

Una arrogance is nauseating! I am fvcking glad you lots lost woefully!

davidif:
The law is too confusing. Its like you are trying to mesh two systems together at once and it doesn't seem well thought out. For example, does it say what should happen if a candidate fails to win 2/3 of the country and what the backup plan should be?

That is where a re-run comes in.

Jayhome24:
You these unfaithful semi- ashawo babes in the name of fame can never get anyman to stay with you so stop blaming men..

Pls angel Smith or whatever you called yourself then go and join cucumber and lickers gang then and stop telling us nonsense story.

I remember one actress idiot always fly to Abuja to sleep with her politician lover and she is married with kids doing selfie all the time with her yeye husband if las las the spell covering the man eyes finally drop and he realise he has be "maritally duped" and descend on her then she will run to social media to run pity party blaming the man.

What if the man depends on the woman for financial purposes? There are men like that, and to be fair to them, I understand. It is not every man who wants a family that would be financially stable. So if he sees a woman who can provide while he offers fatherly care, fair deal. Whether the woman's work is moral or not isn't really too important.

cr7lomo:
Unfortunately...just like most women that were not taught what men really want and need in women.... u exposed urselfbin BBN and men will never want a hoe ,let alone an exposed hoe as a wife ... its terribly shameful for a man ....men have standards like women... women will never love a hungry poverty stricken guy .... Women should start telling younger women the truth about what men really want .... this one also will start to tell young women that men are scum and evil...that they shouldn't give their hearts to men , they should just Bleep and collect money from men... that's the advice she will give and the circle goes on ....

She already does that on TwitterNG. She is a notorious feminist warleader. I am surprised she has not relocated to the West.

A sane Nigerian male is expected to love a clown to displayed her vagina in public glare?

lol

missjekyll:
And you are welcome to "your" world. Congratulations and may you get the full effect of it.

Lol, don't hide in the UK o. Move to the US, Mr Man. You need to enjoy your world fully!

I don't reside anywhere in the West. However, if I am to move to any country aside from China, I am heading to the US. I LOVE Capitalism and economic freedom. The United States is BLESSED. There is a reason Nigerians there out-earn other diasporans. I am obsessed with economic freedom and how I spend the MY MONEY. I don't believe the government or any entity has the right to dictate how to spend my money.

Freedom at last! In Capitalism I Trust! Facts not fats; Figures, not Figos matter in life.

Gerrard59:
Kamala Harris cannot defeat Donald Trump. In fact, if she's chosen as the candidate, that's going to be a landslide victory for Trump.

I am fvcking effing brilliant!

ijebosb:
There it is. This illogical support of a demagogue like Trump always boils down to some immature view of Christianity.
The rest of your post made little sense. I'm not arguing this with you. Y[b]our arguments have been no difference than the ones, Basilico and Bemeruca constantly make.[/b] Check out my past replies to them.

I studied Math in University. Please take out that "Learn Mathematics" from your signature. You're logic is terrible. You don't deserve to represent Math.

Pax.

Disgusting arrogance! Use it to win a Field's Medal!

Gerrard59:
Typical of Nigerians who have mentally checked out of Nigeria, but are surprised that Trump has supporters in Nigeria. Go and tell the victims of continuous Islamist attacks in Northern Nigeria that they have an "immature view of Christianity".

The good thing is that as long as Trump is alive and kicking, he is gonna win the election as I don't see a good replacement from the Democrats and certainly not Harris or Michelle as one FT commentator opined.

I am so PROUD of myself!

It is not to blow big big grammar christening yourself as an "intellectual". Commonsense prevailed! I am so happy!

Solcampbell:
But divorced women with no one watching them are more likely to do thier own thing. They've to move around freely to see if they can get another partner for remarriage or at least get a man to fulfill their financial needs while they offer sex.

Northern men are more far more prone to proscuity than their women. Whenever hisbah raid an hotel in sabongari, na them they come look for. (that's if na poor man ba )
As for southerners and non Muslims who live in Kano, their women are free to live thier lives anyhow they want. Nothing concern hausa people so long as it's been done in sabongari and other places where they have settled.

Infact, when you step into sabongari in the evening, the nightlife just be like the one for owerri

Thanks for the information. The bold sounds very interesting.

Topman7:
It has NOTHING to do with their fear of ''America losing its glory''.

It's because majority of the whites are RACISTS who are determined to prevent the ''browning of America'', as it is called. It's all about maintaining white majority dominance etc

Don't come in here trying to sugarcoat white racism.

But the 'browning' is a process they can't stop due to falling white birthrates.

In about 20 years the whites will be a racial minority there, and all this MAGA racist nonsense will end.

A Nigerian accuses White people who built the US of racism

Why haven't you utilised your tribalism to develop Nigeria as well? It's this arrogance from ungrateful migrants, especially from Africa rather than African Americans that angers the white man.

Cry all you want! You as a Nigerian lacks the moral rights to accuse others of ethnic or racial discrimination.

yen yen yen whites are racist YET African Americans live far more comfortably than their cousins in Africa and elsewhere. So much for racism 🙄

emkz:
Let me contribute here.

What are the issues?

1. A white candidate was "forced" to drop off the race and a mixed-race woman was brought up to challenge a white man for the seat.

2. The candidate spent time attacking the white dude who is known for what he was and did not spend as much time promoting herself and her programmes.

3. The candidate of the Democratic Party lacks the charisma to convince people. Hence, Barack Obama was brought in to appeal to the Black voters. This obviously did not work.

4. The main issue was the economy. Kamala spent too much time talking about abortion and meaningless things. Whenever she attacked Trump, people wondered what else she had to convince them.

5. Trump had been tried and the economy was not as bad; and Kamala was trying to gaslight the American people instead of finding ways to connect with them.

6. Kamala’s decision not to grant interviews where needed presented her as a snobbish character.

7. Trump lost many supporters, and gained even more like Elon Musk, who used his platform to counter mainstream media.

8. Celebrities endorsement like Beyonce, J Lo, Eminem, Usher and Oprah WInfrey are worthless.

9. Biden/Harris did not properly manage the Russian-Ukraine crisis and the Israel matter.

10. I don’t buy the idea that the US is not prepared for a female president. From Clinton to Harris, their message is clear: do not ask us to vote for you because you are a woman or because you look like us. WHat have you done and what will you do for us?

Ikoyi and Lekki Democrats will accuse you of being a coon

They never learn! Their arrogance is disgusting! I'm glad they lost woefully as I wished - electoral and popular votes!

NinjaMetahuman:
well Nigeria and USA are both shit-hole countries filled with religious fanatics and misogynistic slumlords that would never give women a chance.

At least I can make an excuse for our democracy that it is only 20 years old, and we are yet to find out footing. What excuse does American democracy that is over 300 years old have?

When did it mandatory for a country to have a female president?

P.S. Surprisingly it's female this time, not the usual nonsensical him, she, they, her etc.

Even at that, the part of the country I'm from, we have had female vice governors and we could have had governor one in 2023.

Women were not even allowed to vote until 1920 in USA. That's 200 years after their democracy.

The same USA has had elected female officials including those with non-white backgrounds. So your accusation is untenable. Humans don't just want woke nonsense and funding utter nonsensical projects while berating them like kids every now and then.

You Ikoyi Democrats nerd to learn a thing and two about humans.