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- Stop following women that don't like you. - Stop following women who invite the entire Nigeria to accompany them when the venue is a public place. - Ensure you inform the woman on time if she orders more than what you can afford. - Preferably, allow women to pursue you. Stop following ravenous women simply because of makeup. As a man of value, have standards, very high standards. |
Subsidy had to go. So I don't know why some respondents criticise its removal. Whether it has been fully removed or not is a different topic. Tinubu's economic policies have been appropriate. My issue with him is brazen and rabid tribalism. |
bestman09:So why can't they maintain their dad's property? Well, if e didn't dey, e didn't dey. |
SMJay:This makes sense to people who have a strong maintenance culture. Nigerians don't have that culture. Anyway, the man in question was rich rich. The annoyance is when folks who just hit money decide to replicate the same buy building a gigantic house in an economically desolate place. |
Heaven knows my Igboness has a limit. I can never build a house, so big, in a location that has no economic viability. My dad and mom did so, but I cautioned them. Today, none resides there, and certainly none of their children will ever live there. Money wey dem for use buy bitcoin. ![]() |
Exactly what I have been preaching. We need rapid economic growth to create tons of jobs for our people. |
Image123:Cocoa Cocoa Cocoa. |
Rictech:It is legal. I have a bad experience with them, but to answer your question, it is legal. However, Binance Japan is different from Binance Global. So, before you depart, thoroughly question the company's helpdesk on how to transfer your crypto to Binance Japan. It is very important. P.S. You will need My Number Card and your residence card to register on the platform. The My Number Card should be applied for as you apply for a sim. It is a Japanese replica of NIN. It is an essential part of adult life here. |
Gerrard59:In less than a week, "protests" erupted in the bold. The media reporting it is linked to the US Army. Kastina should brace itself o ![]() |
descarado:GBAM! GBAM! To add, the mentality of perseverance and determination = success. The child must learn to be persistent and must be determined. Try and fail, but don't fail to try. There would always be a no, but persists and persists. Children from comfortable homes need to experience "harsh" times, too. It is why I am an advocate of parents opting for the scholarship option even if they can afford the fees. The child has to grind too. |
Onegai:This is very true. On a scale of 10, I would say 8, which is a fantastic score anywhere. Gerra.rd59, your post was spot on. But the number of Public School parents who will do what you suggested is less than 1%. The number of Private School parents who will do it is greater than 30%.Agreed. I am not trying to bicker, but based on the woman's post, a good public school would or should provide the same, rather than the parents mentally stress themselves because of school fees and associated costs. All public schools are not the same. That is why when Nigerian students win competitions abroad, they are usually from wealthy homes attending nice private schools.This defeats my above post as it is emphatically true. I teach Math and Science with a foreign curriculum, all my students live in highbrow areas. Middle class parents don't see the value in what I'm teaching. They've heard of it from wealthy parents but their mentality is still old school and traditional: Math and English taught the old Naija method, throw in some poorly coordinated "robotics" training and they're satisfiedExposure issue. Most times, it is dogmatism rather than being pragmatic. It is not like these parents cannot afford the tutorial fees if need be. Meanwhile, I'm prepping my 8 yr old to compete against East Asian kids and attend university at Tsinghua, MIT, Stanford or Loughborough.For Africans, East Asian math pedagogy should be the basis for our teaching methods, especially in science subjects. It reminds me of a tweet where respondents (Nigerians in Canada) agreed that their children should or would befriend Chinese/East Asian students in their schools. It also reminds me of a post or tweet where folks felt bad that McKinsey Nigeria had to extend the duration for its Problem Solving Test for its applicants in Nigeria because, as they stated, many could not answer the questions within the allotted time. Unsurprisingly, many of McK's Nigerian recruits studied at top American universities where its interviews and tests are frequently practised. The Internet defeats this by getting those questions to practice, practice and practice. Thus, an ABU or Unijos grad can work in McKinsey. My oldest won a medal at an international math Olympiad, I have been working on her critical thinking skills.This is a big one o. There aren't many Nigerians or Africans or even Black folks who excel at these heights. But I won't digress. My mentality is a 1% and when I lived in a highbrow area, we parents constantly swapped tips and ideas on how to push our kids forward. Our kids were training academics and sports, just because we all are planning on them writing SATs and IGCSE and we know that the essay must showcase the kids perfectly.Very East Asian and Western-styled. Nonetheless, as I have stated, the way to counter is to use the Internet wisely. The competition to get into elite tertiary institutions is tougher at the undergraduate level, and unsurprisingly, that is where the bonds are stronger and networks are tightened. A sure way of countering is to have high IGCSE/WASSCE scores; very very high. Just as a high GRE or subject GRE overpowers or supplements a weak CGPA or a strong Statement of Proposal. My friend would have qualified for the US Embassy-sponsored program if his score had been at least 300/340 rather than the university he attended. You'll never find that kind of thinking from people who are struggling to survive or just got out of survival mode. You'll only find that from people who know that hunger is not a problem anymore.Poverty no good at all. Our economy has to grow and diversify so people eat more nutritiously and burgeoning cities exist across the country. |
emmaodet:I have thought out of something based on the above: Nigerians who move to non-English speaking countries and are prepared to assimilate in the language and culture have higher chances at financial success compared to their contemporaries (with the same education/environmental background) in Anglophone countries. The theory is that the competition is low since it is non-Anglophone, but also, the possibilities of becoming that success story are high because such a person is not abundant. This depends on the country's economy and the available opportunities. This means Nigerians in Angola have higher chances of excelling, provided they learn Portuguese and take massive advantage of the opportunities there. Again, because it is non-Anglophone, the competition is low compared to, say, South Africa. Another example is Ivory Coast vs Ghana. In a world of instant clicks and social media, one way to prevent envy is to be quiet while succeeding. Make an insane amount of money and no one knows you are making such because it is non-Anglophone. You can have all their women to yourself, and no one would know. You become a king in another man's land! ![]() The issue i have with some of them is that they dislike seeing other blacks being their boss. They rather prefer a white to control them than maybe we nigerians or south africans. They see us as the same level and wonder why we will get more paid than them doing jobs they feel other angolanas can do.Colonial mentality: in that they are used to seeing Whites as leaders/superiors and thus, they believe that Whites are superior to say their fellow Blacks. However, when faced with a Black person as a superior, especially one who is not of the same ethnic group as they are, they become upset and believe that they (Angolans in this case) can perform the same task, which is untrue because if they could, why didn't they rise to the top? This mainly exists in groups that are at the back of the foot in human development, so when they see someone with the same skin colour but of a different ethnicity or nationality leading them in their land, they are not happy. In a way, it reminds them of their incompetence, so to mask it, they would rather have someone from a different racial group. This happens in Nigeria as well. But I won't digress. There is also the phenomenon where someone from a racial group, say Black, becomes the superior in a country with few Black people. This can happen in Asian countries, and it is a reason one would be hard pressed to find a Black person leading an organisation in an Asian country because the natives believe they are superior to Blacks. This has happened to a prominent Black journalist who was posted to represent the newspaper in Japan. The Japanese boss, according to the Black journalist, was upset that the American media company sent a Black man rather than a White man. This happened during the late '90s. Heck, even African Americans do raise eyebrows when Black Africans, especially Nigerians, are their superiors rather than a White person. This has played out in Hong Kong and Singapore versus Mainland China, where the former were wealthier than the latter and felt like the superior Chinese. However, as Mainland China became affluent and more powerful, HKers and Singaporeans got upset either at the behaviours of Mainland Chinese (nouveau rich vs old money sort of thing) or the perceived pride and dominance of Mainland Chinese. Hong Kongers adjusted quickly, largely due to geography, rather than Chinese Singaporeans, but the latter have had to eventually adjust as their economy is linked to Mainland China. This culminated in Singapore granting visa free access to Mainland China, which is uncommon for such a populous country. To date, Japan has refused to do the same, nor has Singapore done the same for India, even though it has a native Indian population. This has also happened in Barbados and the greater Caribbean, where the natives serve White tourists better than Black tourists, even though the Black person is willing to spend more. The truth is that these Caribbean people have been so used to serving and seeing White people, so they accord greater respect to them compared to Black people. So, they would be antsy when they see a Black person who is not of their kith become their boss or lead them. As for Angolans, what I am curious about is their reaction if they have a Black Brazilian or Black Ecuadorian, or African American as a superior? I am also surprised that they are upset at Black South Africans, who ordinarily should dominate that part of the continent, just as we dominate West Africa and Kenyans do theirs at East Africa. Generally, sub-sahara africa is poor including Nigeria and excluding south africa but what differentiates the average Nigerian from others is the Mentality and Flare for success.An open eye Nigerian can make a kill in such a society, but for safety purposes, the person has to be discreet and play along. Live a simple life while amassing so much money. Nigeria hardens people naturally, so where else in Africa can be tougher? Another thing is that our various ethnic groups are divergent in this hustle mindset, as we have groups with the above characteristics in Nigeria. But because we are together in the country, some have to adapt or kpeme. Those nations do not have such in abundance as we do. Just see Pictures of Luanda their capital taken 10 mins agoIn their defence, Angola had a civil war for almost 30 years, almost a generation. Some states in Nigeria had not tasted oil wealth, but when they did, there were remarkable changes. So, the blame is on Angolan elites for not utilising their wealth for greater purposes. |
Dreamhans1:What's the name of your company and how much do you pay entry level graduates? You want to lampoon the Chinese. Tell us what you have done in equivalent or more than the Chinese. No be to do cho cho cho. |
emmaodet:During Yar'Adua's and Jonathan's administration. I think even to Buhari's tenure, Angola went above us in oil production. Looking at your post about their airport, for an oil-rich country, that was very poor. This means some states (aside Lagos and Abuja) are better off than some African countries' capitals. No wonder some of our people would go there and blow quickly because of the poor exposure those people have. The koko is to go there, do your stuff quietly and make an insane amount of money. Get back home and do Money na Water in Owerri. ![]() |
Honestly, I cannot think of any. So far, there are products to buy from in that country, I don't mind going. |
Googledotcom:This too; there are good public schools. Parents can enrol their children there, employ the services of a good math tutor to enable the children to hone their math skills and most importantly, be readily aware of scholarship information on the Internet. In fact, educated parents from lower-middle-class families should prep their children for scholarship opportunities for tertiary education so they don't have to pay for it. Get other people to pay for the education. It is more of the drive and ambition than just the school. Location plays a role, quite alright, but that drive is important. The Internet is available for any ambitious individual to excel. |
tosyne2much:The solution to this and the woman's post is to have few children. Nothing beats having few children. Nothing, absolutely nothing, defeats having few children. That is the cheat code. |
Acidosis:I agree with everything you have stated. However, the way to overcome the challenge of poor exposure is via the Internet. I am one of those who went to a no-name school because I wasn't allowed to leave my state of residence, but with constant voracious research and reading online articles, I overcame the school aspect. I have participated in EduBridge Financial Class, and honestly, I was the only student who studied at a university in Eastern Nigeria. The majority were ABUAD, UI, UNILAG and of course, CU. Finance plays a huge role, rather than just the name of the school. I could afford trips to Lagos whenever I wanted. I had a place to live. Most importantly, the drive and ambition led me to EduBridge. I have conversed with accounting students from a sister university, and they did not know what KPMG and PwC were all about. Ordinarily, they should have as their school had a bigger name than mine. But I knew about the Big4 more than them all thanks to the Internet. My friend had participated in the US embassy-sponsored Grad Program, and he had taken the GRE, but because of his low score, he was not qualified. He saw the application online and applied. I have applied to a popular investment bank on behalf of a senior schoolmate who is a math guru. I saw the job ad in a WhatsApp group, told him he can be qualified because of his high grade. He gave me the go-ahead; I applied, and he got called up for the test. Interestingly, the ad stated they want First Class in Physics or Mathematics applicants but my schoolmate had a 4.46 CGPA in mathematics. I reasoned that with a stellar and American-style investment bank CV and cover letter, he would be called up, so I applied. Where did I see the CV template? On the Internet. He was the only one with a 2.1 out of 8 persons and the only grad from a uni East of the Niger. Young people should learn to use the Internet for useful purposes. It is the greatest invention after electricity. |
Dreamhans1:When you open a factory in a far-flung area and pay graduates 500K per month, I would take your rants seriously. yen yen yen, they don't want our progress, who has stopped you from progressing on your own?! |
TheGift:Nothing wrong with this. It is a capitalist world. Did the Chinese stop/prevent you from doing the same? Who sold off these properties to the Chinese if not people like you? Has anyone said you should not buy properties just as the Chinese do? The solution is for the Lagos state government to invest in public housing. The Chinese aren't solely responsible for the property and rent increment in Lagos when it's Nigeria's smallest state with the biggest economy and is the most populous. If you want FDI, be ready to have those foreigners buy properties in your community. Otherwise, be like North Korea. You people are no different from the so-called racists who bemoan the presence of Blacks and Indians in the UK and the US. |
RodgersAkpafu:The West has PLUNDERED Africa more than anywhere else. The claim that China is plundering Africa is mendacious, considering it is being forced to share technical know-how and invest in the country. Chinese investors have invested in factories across the continent, especially when compelled by law. Up there, another Nairalander posted how Zims learnt from the Chinese, where there is a factory to process their mines. Something the British nor Americans never did. I have read about Galamsey and Ghanaian traditional chiefs and politicians were fingered (using our journalist's lingo). The same happens in Nigeria. So, the Chinese are not working independently. However, where there is no corrupt mentality among the host's politicians, Chinese investors open factories; this has happened in Ogun, Ebonyi and Nasarawa states. Don't our people deserve good jobs again? 500K is very good to an entry-level graduate in Lafia. |
isyourboy:I don analyse am tire and have come to the realisation that it is a woman's world. I am supposed to write on this sef. An educated woman in today's world has more power and opportunity than ever recorded in history. The only way out for a man is to have few children so the bulk of his savings and investments stay within himself till he kpeme. This is because even the children at a young age cling more to their mother than their father. Our men should be more selfish and better planners. The era of paying for the education of a woman one is not married to has to end. Complusory taking care of her siblings (that is her father's responsibility) too has to cease. Conduct DNA test in at least two reputable centres. The sex is not even frequent as the man has to beg for it. Jesus! Wetin I don read about sex between husband and wife from today's women scare me to the bones! The favourite question is: "Is sex food?" Thank God for Ndi red pill even though I have been harsh towards them in the past. They have been a force for good. ![]() |
Dreamhans1:The Chinese have INVESTED in Africa more than the West have done. China is Africa's biggest trade partner. Chinese are building factories in Nasarawa, where graduates earn 500K per month. Chinese have built trains to transport containers from the north central to Lagos ports (first of its kind). Chinese are building factories in Kastina state. Chinese are building factories in Ogun state. Chinese are in Abia and Ebonyi building factories. As it is, it is easier to get a visa to visit China than to visit the US. This is just Nigeria alone. You people are ungrateful! |
emmaodet:Na true you talk though. The koko is to make the money. I am not a fan of continuous complaining as they do on TwitterNG. Jesus! Those people are embittered! |
ZaddyJ:How on earth did China become the cause of Americans' relationship with E-smoke? American youth, especially those who have non-East Asian ancestry have a cultural problem. |
RodgersAkpafu:Why not? When did adf become an authoritatitive media on African affairs? CaseSensitive:I am not doing any "China is my friend, the West is my enemy" sort of thing. All I want is a prosperous Africa. The big power that invests towards such is who I align with. |
sulaak:To be fair though, Zimbabwe has a superior education system compared to Angola. But then, kudos to the Zims. This is what I have been preaching about: negotiate man to man with the Chinese and they would adjust, just without bombing the country. Angola appears to be another oil-rich African country, similar to Nigeria, that squanders resources on white elephant projects, such as the $8 billion Chinese-built Luanda General Hospital, which was completed with cracks. Why spend $8 billion on one hospital when you can build 100 general hospitals across the country?So, an Angolan fault, not the Chinese. Got it. But $8BN on a hospital? First time reading that a hospital costs so much. |
Nice thread. I honestly thought FESTAC aka was close to Apapa and Tin Can ports as my people are in preponderance. This one someone stated that it's not close to anywhere. Ikeja GRA, Surulere and Magodo seem to be very good places to reside. P.S. I imagine how much the rents are these days. |
grandstar:Angolans aren't skilled enough to earn higher wages. The birth rate is too high to entice employers to pay higher. Angola suffered a civil war which has resulted in absent infrastructure. Angola is no Vietnam or Thailand. I do agree that Chinese should either partner with the locals before they participate in retail economy. |
CaseSensitive:Just like it knew it! Anytime I see an uprising against a government or a certain group of people, I ask myself: How much has China invested into this country? What does Jakumo have to say about the US disrupting Chinese investments in poor Angola? |
Afrobasic:You know the drill. Many Nigerians are just so igno rant, else they will see who are their true enemies. |
Gracious3105:Congratulations to Ethiopia for its feat, but all African countries aren't Ethiopia. Some need technical support and that's where China comes in. Before you sign a loan, you have to read the terms and conditions of the loan na. When did a loan become a gift? If you don't like Chinese, go to the IMF as Ghana has done 17 times. China won't invade your country because you decline its loans. Which African country has China Libyaed? Most importantly, there's no prosperous country in recorded history that developed and became prosperous without foreign investments and involvement. You cannot do it alone. |
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