So twas yesterday I asked her what's the problem, then she sent a long novel saying she love me but don't have feelings for me anyone she lost the feelings months ago,I begged her to stop talking like that and her reply was she thinks she's joking but she can't continue doing this all the time telling me what to do,then I asked what have I done this time she said nothing but she's tired I can't make her happy she can't enter a new year like this.
If I should name two things that's gonna bring back the relationship what's that I told her I don't know let her tell me because have tried then she didn't say anything was saying she's only having pity for me that's why she's still around that I'm a good person and she appreciates that but lm not the person for her.

But now everything started because we couldn't spend our Christmas in lagos or go for any concert or beach which I told her we will there's always time but the attitude the insult the comparing me with other guys was too much I couldn't handle it and now she said because I have heart problem which she caused that's y she's still with me and now she ended everything making me feel hopeless saying I'm not good enough maybe that's y I get cheated on

For days now I have been sick because of this my girlfriend attitude, after much talk on begging her about this whole trip to Lagos that we'll do it next year just to receive the insult of my life. She called me all kind of names just because we couldn't travel to Lagos this December apart from that we never had any fight but its just like she has been keeping everything down up till yesterday.i begged and begged her so she will calm down but nothing at all and I will call her to check up on her I have to give her like 4 miss call before she'll pick up and it's one reply I will receive then if I talk much she'll say I have nothing to say and end the call.
This whole thing has giving bp, and heart pain because of too much thinking and thinking, I have done everything to make her happy I have sacrifice my time for her but its like I havent done enough, she call me self centered ignorant boring just one person and this is the same girl I'll meet and she'll be laughing but once I do any small thing I'll get all the insult of my life I really can't handle it anymore I have tried forgetting about her but its so difficult for me, I even called her today that I wanna see her tomorrow she said she will go out with her friends I said okay but later we will she said if I have nothing to say she will end the call I have actually cried begging her but its not helping me its already Making me feel sick I just don't want to have any heart issues that start affecting me before I even get old, I can't do anything I can't even socialize with anyone I can't do anything I'm just useless I can't even work because I'm always think it's really really hard for me so hard

My girl just finished writing her exam and suddenly she said she wants to travel to Lagos or any other state just to breathe fresh air even if its two days and I told her this thing is so sudden she got angry telling me this thing really mean alot to her and I'm like I know but its something we could have plan before December then we'll know how to go about it but she's saying nothing is so sudden there's time to make money and we can still go and I told her okay 200k won't be enough to even go to Lagos come back and everything but I told her let's stay and we'll use the money this December for ourselves then next year we can plan on traveling it will be much better.
Now she's saying her elder is and her husband are traveling to Ghana for wizkid show her best friend is going to warri to meet her elder brother she can't stay in benin with me she want us to travel too or she will tell her sister husband to buy her ticket so she can go with them and there's a guy that always ask her out even if she said she refused that same guy is in Ghana and even ask her to come, okay now even after i told her not to go we'll plan it together we can find time and just travel she said it won't be like the way she want it now that she really want to travel this December. Even after begging she's not talking to me well she's giving me one one reply saying if I love her i should do it for her. The bone straight I bought for her she wanted to sell It so she can even buy ticket for herself like I don't know she's too desperate for this and she's like if I can't do it she won't be happy i have tried my best giving her reasons why but her mind is fixed to it.

I really don't know how to even go about this whole thing
Please what should I do

My girlfriend and I we've been dating for years now, but what I just want to talk about is this.
My girl said she's want to buy hair and the amount is 55k I said okay but later on she said its bone straight I said I don't have money for that I'll send her the 55k if she wants to add to it to get her bone straight no wahala which was 65k.

Okay now she was not feeling fine she used about 18k at the hospital to buy drugs and other stuff,but I didn't get paid on Friday so I used my own fees money because I'm rounding up my project, I wanted to pay 200k into my school account then sent her 40k to get the hair but that night she sent the money back saying she don't need it anymore and I was like why are you behaving like this,she said she does not know what to do with the money,then after much talking telling me that she does not have money in her account and she tool from her mom account this that, I said okay fine I'll send you 55k but this one one don't have money why not use the 55k for yourself at least na hair not that your ugly I'll still try getting you hair don't worry but your health comes first, she said no she don't need my money it's not by force that she have survived without my money.

I told her it's not about my money but just use it to take care of yourself I know its little she said no almost turn fight, guys please m I at fault here or is there something I didn't say right ,please girls too I need your response on this please.

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After fighting with my girl just now she said she'll always put herself so I told her okay no problem if that's what she want, like few minutes she said she want to buy something that's like after talking to me anyhow, I told her my bank is having issues but I'll ask my friend to send it.
I told her to wait for few minutes but my friend delayed then I used my other bank to transfer the money to her, then she told me don't worry and I was like why what happened she said someone helped her already, I said okay, who's the person then her response was what's my business.
I won't lie it really pain me so much like so so much I'll call myself a fool for loving this much but I don't want more fight but to tell her okay no problem.
This girl is someone I'll do anything even borrow money just to give her but i don't know why it's always like this. She can do something big but this one she did just now this minute was really bad and harsh, my problem is I don't know how to get over her and m this kind of person I talk to her more often like a day I call her many times so have been like this for years.even when she'll insult me I always say sorry just to avoid more troubles and her word is I talk too much just because I love talking to her all the time. I really don't know what to do because it's making me depressed the more like if I could get over her and just breakup it would be easy,finding a therapy is what i really need because it's affecting my mental health, I forget things easily I can't even remember things properly I don't know if too much love will make girl behave like this or less love will make them leave because m really tired of been treated like a nobody.
After sending the money she said I shouldn't worry she'll transfer it back to me that someone helped her.

I tried calling my girl yesterday but she still didn't pick up and I can't stop thinking about her. I called her about 6 times or more she didn't even sent her text messages no reply.
But what real happened is I told her I don't like what she is doing let her have boundaries between her male friends let her reduce the friendship m not stopping her but its a relationship between us not making your male friends look special, she's angry now because I talked to her about her male friend, no sorry but she said okay no problem and I got angry and still talk but now it's now like am at fault.
Now she's telling me she need space, I asked her for how long she said weeks or months,I really can't remove my mind from her at all, even when i sleep and wake up I feel headaches all my body hot, always depressed about everything.
I can't tell her something that she will just listen, she want to always be on top in everything.now m still calling her she's not picking up, she can go out with guys I don't even like, if I tell her you still rest is people I don't like you go out with she will get angry that I complain alot.
If I tell her so I should keep the pain and not complain will she stop its either she ignore me and don't pick my call and turn everything to her favour and Making me start begging, now this one now I told her having male friend is not bad but not every irrelevant things you guys talk about she will repost now its me trying to beg her now for complaining because m missing her and want to talk to her I don't know if its charm or something its really hurting me bad I can't think nor read nor work at all

Please, I don't know if its normal but I can't get my mind off my girlfriend even after she insults me block me on social media and on call too so I won't see her post or reach her, I still go about using other accounts to check up on her. Even trying to work is really hard I can't concentrate nor read and I don't even know, she's really beautiful and different guys always want to date her and she's always making me feel like nothing and m not important.
She can be on ig or whatsapp I'll call her she won't pick up just because she wants to upload pictures, if I talk too much about it she'll shout and end the call, this is not the first time it happens for years. Once I sleep and wake up I'll start feeling headache because of over thinking about her it's really painful because everytime I explain to her she always have back up words to use against me, she can turn situation around to her own side and it will make me feel bad and the next thing is I get insulted and she'll end the call or even while m saying something for her to talk about it she'll keep quiet and if I ask her why she's quiet,she'll say I I have anything to say and when m about getting angry asking her why is she acting like this next thing she will end the call but in everything I still think about her every time, miss her every time I find it hard to forget, over thinking Making my body hot all the time, please its really something I can't control and I don't know she can stay without even talking to me because everytime people do call her, her male friends she do tell me not to worry about call her all the time. I really don't know what to do please any advice abeg please

Everytime me and this my girl fight she will insult me first not once not twice if m even talking she will end the call on me saying I complain alot I keep warning her about one particular thing let's leave respect because there's no respect there again I don't even know if she value me again, she takes her male friends so serious that if I even talk she will talk to me anyhow, my birthday on whatsapp it was on pink background she wished me happy birthday without posting anything I kept quiet but if so called bestest(a guy) the quote that came out from her mouth was unbelievable I talk to her about it she said it just came out from her head its nothing, there's no day she and a particular guy will chat she will repost nonsense conversation, if the guy post her picture she will repost I kept quiet but she still continue I talked to her about it for her to say okay m sorry have heard you she ignored me I was still like m I not talking to you she replied me with OK no problem, I called her she said if I call and that's what I'll talk about she won't pick up I told her I'll say it, I called her she didn't pick she said she was busy doing something with her mom I said okay. I called her later again she didn't pick about 6 times she didn't pick up the next morning I called her the same thing until I messaged her on whatsapp she said she don't have anything to tell me that's why she didn't pick up, I got angry I called her and qsk her can she do like this to her friends she shouted at me and told me getout she cut call I called her then she was saying its because she's dating a baby everytime I talk I complain then I ask her okay till I die before she will stop I asked her if she can stop all this nonsense will I just sit down and talk or complain she said that's my business m a baby then she ended the call and blocked me I called with another line she did d same thing again. She's a benin girl but I don't understand why she's always like this and if she's telling me or complaining about something I apologize so it will die but she its like she want to be right even when she's wrong, to just forget her its difficult. If I don't talk to her for a day its like m not complete please how can all this thing stop its disturbing because like now m nobody, if I talk she'll say m complaining, if I ask her something she'll say it's useless its meaningless,please what's my wrong or if person over soft is it bad or loving please

mmadu4:
i refuse to believe this crap . sorry i know a fake story when i see one . like no man in his right sense of mind will do this unless you were bewitched .

But that's the truth I can't be lying just to get what?

candygist:


You be senior mumu. Can't your live your life without her ?

Have tried but its not working I really need help

gaius01:



Not only a paragraph, he should re-read the write ups to see weather he is making any sense there.

Las Las all na lies !

Bro m only here for d advice, watin I de lie for again just ask yourself

Nezzjnr:
Do you guys make up this story??

This writeup can't be True na.....

So I'll wake up just to cook up lies to gain what?

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mad oh

he might be in SS3B sef

You that is saying ss3 pray you don't enter the trap

Nairaland I just advice on this, have been dating my girl for 4years now and that 4 years I don't know if we've ever be at peace, every single time she's always insulting me I can't do this and that, m still a student and I try my best as a student to get her what she wants, she said she can count how many times I bought her wig not up to 5 times, I started working 2019 online buying gadgets online and sell them because of Corona everything went slow, I bought her phone twice iphone, I sold my laptop to get her another phone, she have not one day posted my pictures wishing me happy birthday or anytime but she post other guys pictures on thier birthday even her best frd a guy she have his pictures on her phone plenty,
The last time she was asking for money I told her sorry I don't really have now but I have not talk finish she insulted me, there's no insults this girl have not giving me any type of insults, she have even slap me, like if I talk to her about her friend she gets angry, she end the call on me she tells me she didn't put a gun on my head for me to call her,please its much I can't even continue to type all this because it's much sometimes she act nice for few days then go back been wicked and this I don't care attitude she gives me I really don't know what to do

I need a advice on my relationship but I don't know how to ask questions on nairaland someone should direct me please