Heartbender: The answer you seek is not online. As a lawyer and ad hoc counsellor, my advice would be that you have a sober reflection. Review your fears, check your beliefs - from religious, social and sexual, and maybe you should put up a nonchalant attitude about romance. You are not just a lonely person, you are afraid you may end up lonely and it ends up in bouts of depression. Oh, up your self esteem game. I wish I could have a phone convo but it's aigh. Shalom
Fone convo so u can take advantage of her vulnerability n appear as d perfect one.... Issokay. . try ya luck
LadyBeee: Admin please approve my post. I'm seriously troubled these days because all I'm meeting are broke guys asking for my hand in marriage. I don't really know what gives them the impression that I have money. I met one who told me bluntly that I should take care of him and if I want us to get married today, I should go ahead and do the necessary things that he knows I'm very capable. I met another one who started showing me his account balance on our first date and what he had was just 7k in his account, So I asked him why he was showing me , then he said he just wanted to let me know his financial status. I didn't have a problem with that because I'm not after his money until I caught him going through my account statements on my phone, that was the day I ended the relationship. I met another guy who said he works with FAAN, I was so glad that my misery has come to an end. At least, this one has a good job and would be buoyant, but it wasn't for long as not up to 3 weeks, the guy asked me to borrow him 50k that he wanted to pay his school fees. I was confused and I asked him to explain things to me. He said he isn't a graduate and he's just working as a driver with FAAN and studying part time. I said it's fine but I don't have any money to borrow him. He changed his attitude towards me. What could be wrong? I'm really troubled
My sister oya relocate from where u are. Its obvious u staying in a ghetto n change where u dey waka go. U no dey go cinema n clubs??
Georgexx1: I know that money is everything when it come to chyking a lady but for me, i have never chyked a lady even with my money and handsomeness. A friend of mine told me that money is not everything when chyking a lady but also your use of word is also very important as ladies love to hear sweet words.
So i embarked on a Journey to Akwa Ibom state the other day when i met this local girl selling provision in one of the shops around. I noticed that she is enjoying my presence in her shop probablyy because i was well dressed and i smell well and i spent a lot of money buying from her shop. She was gentle and smart (this i noticed when she talks to the other customer). I also noticed that the other customer though not well dressed or as wealthy as i am was dishing out hot wooing punch lines that was out of this world much to my displeasure i mean, i saw this girl first! but was last with talking to her because the only word i spoke to her was "please my change" but deep down i wished i had at least said more to her.
So nairaland, i discovered that this is a malfunction as a man and i really want to stop it. That is why i humbly seek the advice of some amiable queens and kings in wooing issues on how to start wooing. NOTE: Am 98% virgin. lost the other 2% masturbating.
I no wan abuse u ooo. So go n talk to her.... Virgin or not. .Cos u b man not a sissy
Halo22: Initially I was enjoying the pleasure of everyday sex, but now am getting fade up with the whole thing. My fiancee's sexual libido is becoming too much for me to bear. She wants it every now and then and as a man, it is making me to lose balance. Am sure if it is not well handled, we might have problem along the line. So I need advice from mature men and ladies on how to make her understand. I love her and won't want to lose her.
Deal with ur decision to be with a nymph... Men self.. If woman no sabi Bleep una go complain now u have a fuckaholic n u still complaining.. Oga go marry old mama ooo
Lordbellish: Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..
But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...
I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.
what should I do
I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying
I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.
U dey see signs of olosho.... U still asking for advice...OK Go n marry oooo n still return here to be asking us advice for u to stay in marriage
krattoss: please if she is consistent on her drugs,and probly has contact with a negative person canally or otherwise, will the person in contact be infected with the virus.
kindly help out, i had to create this alternative moniker because I'm widely known here with my other moniker.
I'm a female nairalander, today is really a black Thursday for me. I have lost total Focus and concentration, very depressed at the moment. I'm diagnosed with HIv positive, being crying since morning. the worst part of it is, i'm a virgin, had never sex with any man in my entire life. I was advised to start taking medications immediately...
doctors and well experienced nairalanders in the house, will this medication prolong my life? will it cost me expenses? or the HIV will one day turn to AIDS despite the medication? I'm deeply confused!
kindly help push this to the front page, God bless you all!
My sis have no fear.... If truly u r a Virgin U must have contacted this tru sharing or usage of sharp objects like pin or safety....... Please start using retrovirus and join HIV support group... U will even find a marriage partner... Marrying someone with HIV isn't a bad thing... As long as ur viral load is low to a point where U=U undetectable=untransmittable. Well if u move over here in south Africa you will get free treatment
Kingosytex: am just trying to figure out the best way of telling her to stay away from me i don't wanna hurt her despite the fact that she made me pass through a series of emotional torture
Teach her a lesson.... Take her back.. Bleep her all d time.. But with a condom.. Anywhere anyplace anytime.. Make her the slut she is... Then all of a sudden tell her u done That's payback
MariaLavina: So you place a bet on your girlfriend? You are very very wise! Very wise!
But come to think of it, why do you guys do this shitt? I remember a guy did the same thing to me, he placed a bet with his friend , Later he came applauding me that I passed a test. I was irritated and my hype for him just went down.! That was the beginning of the end of the relationship. If you can bet on me, it means you aren't scared to lose me!
Bro, that shiit isn't cool, forget that your babe failed. It isn't cool at all. Testing your partner /betting on them simply means you don't value them. You ain't perfect either!
Bet or no bet.. It means definitely if an anonymous guy is onto her.. He will definitely sleep with her n yet she will still b claiming to love the guy... Girls are just nothing but piece of tool for satisfaction.. And u r here defending d girl
Welcome to our world.. Biochemistry will get u no job in Nigeria so its better u either go do ur masters n PhD but note u will end up in d educational system so I would ultimately advice u go for medicine outside of naija... I repeat outside Naija.. As long as u got d funds.... For u it shd be three years or four in most foreign countries
didfy: Nigeria will learn something (blogging) and abuse it. Tell the whole story of the hair not to make Man of God stupid
Below is the clip. I ve watched it meanwhile she knew the type of ministry she was going.she needed help. If u dont ve MB to watch reserve your comments
KingKingKing: . LMAO,FELA BIG PASS EVERY OF YOUR KINS MEN! USELESS PSQUARE WEY NO FIT UNITE! NONE OF YOUR PPL REACH WIZKID OR DAVIDO!FOR NOLLYWOOD NONE OF YOUR PPL REACH FUNKE AKINDELE AND REAL OMOSEXY!
Psquare combined.. Do they have wizzys money.. Omo ologo
lekkxydinho: ghettochild brought up the idea. Tha we shud con3bute money to buy Theblessdman an android phone on or b4 the 25th of dix month as a mark of both appreciation n commendation. An I think people lyk u cn join us so the phone go make sense.. Thaz wot we get in mind. Ur say on thiz
Yes I did suggest it because I enjoyed his story like every one else... I suggested that fone thing because as human we need to encourage others eap when they do sth we can't do.... Am not forcing anyone ooo. Even me its 5k I want to contribute but if I can do better I will.... I do hope to turn his story into a movie somebody n these same critics will be part of the subscribers on any internet TV platform; the likes of ibaka n iroko.. Am also using this username, I reg it when one time I couldn't log in to nairaland last year n felt I had been banned.... Well I ain't forcing anyone oooo. Darous abeg ehn... Forward ya acct to my WhatsApp kia kia +27737839889. For others who want to follow suit.. We should pay into his acct... Then since d particular fone has been decided. Once the money is complete.... Some members who r free n available will meet up with darous at comp village n buy the fone.... To the critics, its not a crime to encourage a good story writer..... If he had put this Into a book. Ya sorry asses will go buy d book.... Jangbajantis critics!!!
menwongo: I will adhere to any suggestions you bring. Even to transfer any amount (individually) to his account on a set date e.g 31 December, 2018...he'll then buy any phone that suits his taste. If the money no reach him go complete am and buy phone where him like. Just my thought oooo Less we buy touch light Nokia for him and he later not make use of it.
I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are. I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.
We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok”
She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.
Romance › Re: ....... by ghettochild(op): 11:58am On Jan 13, 2019*. Modified: 9:03pm On Mar 30, 2022
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