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Kingsasian:
Why ask a lady out when you know you are not financially buoyant?
Before you ask a lady out, you no dey assess or check her out first whether you dey her class? Lol

adorablepepple:
You don't have to drag the igbos into your comment and display your hatred towards them.by the way Am Yoruba!

irunoobo:
[size=13pt]I know it must be an igbo church from the east. Talk about the make money by all means spirit they possess The reason why Nnamdi Kanu was scamming them with fake Biafra agitations to recieve donations from the gullible one's worldwide while lying he has a nuclear submarine parked in his papa compound which will be used to fight the zoo Now he is at Kuje prison drinking gaari and coconut and wishing he was still in London scamming gullible biafrans [/size]

Pretty002:
I am a female from Delta State. I and a lot more people were suspended from the State Civil Service in Delta and we were accused of not getting the job on merit; it was a really frustrating situation. Somehow a job offer with a commercial bank in Abuja sprang up and although the pay was pretty meagre I thought it would be a fresh opportunity to start over.

On getting to Abuja, I contacted an old friend who happens to live in the town; he happens to be married but his wife isn't in the country. So I stayed in his place, went for the job test and subsequently the interview and I finally landed the job.

Exactly 3 weeks into my new job, this old friend of mine whom I was temporarily staying with asked me to leave his house. Curious, I insisted to know why I was been thrown out and of course, he had no genuine reason. He had gone round telling people I didn't do his laundry and I didn't cook. Firstly, besides his undies, he takes all his clothes to the drycleaners and I couldn't possibly be washing the delicate clothing of a man who isn't my spouse. Secondly, he never gave me a kobo to prepare a meal. The one time he gave me funds of any sorts, it was only a thousand naira and it wasn't meant for food but I added my money to it and ensured I still prepared a good meal.

After leaving this old friends place, another friend of mine introduced me to someone else I could stay with; even though this person I was introduced to was yet another guy I still moved in with him as I had no other choice.
This new guy unlike the first wasn't married but he had two children. Unlike the first guy who is a Christian, this new guy is a Muslim but that didn't bother me at all - I was just happy to have a place to stay. He offered to let me stay with him until I was settled enough to get a place of my own.

The new guy lives in a 2 bedroom apartment somewhere in Garki and although he owned the house, he had a tenant – he had let one of the rooms out to some other guy. My biggest concern was the fact that my new “landlord” let my sleep in his bedroom while he slept on the couch in the living room. Since I wasn’t comfortable with the idea I walked up to him and tried to let him understand that as the visitor I should be the one sleeping on the couch not him but he insisted that it wasn’t a problem.

Exactly two weeks after moving in, my new landlord travelled for a few days, on his return, I sensed something wasn’t right but I didn’t say anything. The following day the friend who introduced me to him called me and said the man had told him that he was going to ask me to leave. He said the guy wasn’t comfortable sleeping on the couch in his own house. All that talk came as a surprise to me. Eventually the landlord himself confronted me. He said he liked me. He said it was not going to be possible for him to be in the same house as me and not want me. He said I had to either give in or get out.

His intentions were made known to me on the 23rd of March 2016. The following day my head was clogged. I couldn’t think, I had headaches, I was almost in shock. During the usual morning meetings we have at the office, I almost fainted – I was told I was falling to the floor but someone somehow held me back. That night I didn’t sleep at home, a colleague in the office who stays in a family house got me a room in a hotel. While I was in my hotel room sobbing and thinking about my next step, this landlord sent me a text. He stated in the text that I should have told him I wouldn’t be coming home that night and he believes we can talk.

On reaching the house the following day being Good Friday, he began to talk about me providing him a girlfriend, preferably a working class lady who is my colleague. Since that was to be my licence to having a roof over my head, I accepted the offer and promised to provide him a girl. For some reason, the very next day he changed his mind and said it was me or nobody; on declining his proposal he asked me to move out the next day by 10am. By the way, I had found a calabash with a red cloth tied around the tip along with a brazier in his wardrobe. I don’t know what it was and I am not sure I want to.

By 10am on Easter Sunday I moved my things into the security post as I tried to figure out my next move. I went to a garden nearby, practically sat there all day calling people I believed would be able to help but finally I ended up sleeping in one guest inn around.

I have heard a lot of things about the Federal Capital Territory but I never thought I would experience it first-hand.

Memejem:
So I'm now a mind reader? I thought you were trying to point out that a cultured man would not do such.

Anyways I apologize. It was a misunderstanding. No need to get so upset.

Memejem:
Just in case you don't fully understand what cultured means.

Memejem:
Nigerian men and thier wahala. If a woman doesn't build house she must hear him say "under my roof" "in my house" "I built this with my hard earned money" "you didn't contribute to this"

The woman goes and builds house, some will now say she is an enemy of progress against tradition. If she built it why must the house be in his name? Una never happy. If your wife builds a house it's "our house". But if man builds house its "his" house abi?

Marriage includes both parities. I don't see it as a bad thing. But only a cultured and educated Nigerian man will accept it. If a wife builds a house it's "thier" house. If husband builds a house it's "thier" house. Simple.

House building doesn't take away respect, or submission. That character. Nothing to do with structure.

Nixiepie:
Had this argument with my dad,and he said is a taboo for him to live in a house built by his wife,so I really want to find out why this decision of a woman to build a house is a crime against humanity............ Plz I need more opinions thanks

layla129:
What is wrong with it if he plans to marry her? Do u know the styles ur wife has done before you or ur wife to be is doing right now?...Well, only and only if she is a virgin sha

Synzu:
Such things are not to be taken into consideration afterall, we all have our past lives and if we were to be judged by it, we wouldn't be on this planet in the first place.

MabraO:
Op no get sense nd people who believed this ur story nd pix no get sense too

Moreover that pix u posted has been flying around NL since the re run

Nd how did it happen that d time on ur phn reads 8:46pm nd d time u created this thread read 8:36pm? Wetin happen
U can only fool some not all

Stuntkid172:
seen but it has reached its destination so, no need. Thanks tho

Stuntkid172:
thumbs up *j*.

Sammyashol:
She no tall reach Owolabi and Jamiu abeg

omojesu202:
make una forget the hand jor, abi na hand una want fvck but this hand fugly ooo

omohayek:
By forcing the discos to only charge for what they actually deliver. This will provide a much stronger incentive for them to upgrade their distribution infrastructure, whereas they could just sit back and collect flat-rate fees without the meters.

Quakertellicus1:
Well....when PDP left in May 2019....generation was at 5000-6000MW....which means that on the average Nigerians can only get 12 hours of light a day.

And then there is the facts that it takes years to build a new power station, or a hydroelectric power plant. Plus we also need to sort out the transmission system.

They can beat all they want....but the problems in our power system cannot be sorted out in just ten months. Or even five years. There is a good reason why we now have DISCOS and GENCOS.....private investments (Including from our pockets too....yes...[s]we have to start paying for light too!).

EastGold:
N135 per litre.

Thanks to kachikwu

Simplestone:
Na person wen do him own come outside na people sabi,banky w and dbanj wen don flush children tire through countless abortions......anyway ona still try..

nwachinemelu:
Eat enough calories especially Junk!!!!! Happy Easter NL may Christ bless us all Amen

OgidiOlu3:
Most Nigerians are hypocrites sha. When one random guy begged for retweets to go out with Cuppy Otedola, people retweeted for him and even congratulated him. A girl is expressing her love for a celeb and y'all are calling her shameless. If I say I want one night with Yemi Alade or Cuppy, will I be called shameless or a gold digger?