₦airaland Forum

nasha1:
This was ur first post to me, u were making a strong statement here and i responded in which u called me slow and i gave it 2 u.I am not agressive but this NL is like a zoo,these boys come at u when u drop a comment,bully u and expect u to keep quiet because i am a woman.nope, i give back triple what's given to me and tust me,i dont have 2 act like this outside because i dont come across ignorant juvenile boys.I act like a lady with men who act like men.
u kept changing the tone of ur message, u started by saying the bolded and u didnt specify where all u said is women dont have a choice then went on to say they do have a choice but a limited one then u came back with the post above,oga check it now. for the fact that something is an exception doesnt mean they are non existent.I can count how many of my girlfriend who slide into their boyfriend twitter and today are engaged.Visit twitter more and not this place where people only imagine things.If u want 2 talk of fact NL is not the place, i run a salon i have countless stories to tell besides i didnt tell her that she had a pool of choice, i simply told her which i told a friend of mine to stop being choosy.
Nigerian women are choosy when it comes 2 find a husband, not many will go 4 broke guys and starting afresh even the so called old cargo as you people refer 2 them.times have changed, the world is evolving,maybe it's where she meet those men because i have made hair for many babymamas on their wedding day both mature and young.i dont talk what i dont know, i talk from experience and i dont kiss asses.

u dont know my age and having 2 degrees doesnt mean old.My brother is 30 and has 2 degrees and a master.Men should show respect 2 women when addressing them and not dismiss them because u have a dick.shalom.

Alright i get you...we were saying the same things, but in different ways. But you still attacked first. My first post was only saying that women don't do the "chyking" or wooing. The men do that. As such, a woman can only choose from the pool of men that "chyke" her. Your position of her being less choosy actually supported mine. Now that you've made mention of Twitter, maybe i should join the twitter community...maybe, just maybe, my missing rib could be there. And who knows, it might just be you. Shalom to you too...

nasha1:
oh now from saying in ur previous post that women dont have a choice only men do the choosing to the only time they ever get the chance 2 choose? U are a confirm idi0t! an educated illiterate, better do well in italy where u are looking 4 admission because u sound so slow. A man walking to chat u up 4 a relationship is not choosing, it's showing interest, the woman choose if she want 2 go along or not.and yes u f00l.
when i said u are an ignorant teenager u thought i am saying rubbish.women have slide into men dms and initiate a conversation who lead 2 marriage 2 some.for the fact that it has never happen 2 u doesnt mean it does not exist.in a civilised world, women take men to launch and dinner and initiate the relationship,are they from planet mars? for the fact that they are few doesnt make it impossible or non existent.
stay in school, u will do the world a big favour, and this one is fighting 2 go abroad,u will be back with the next deportation plane.ignorant!

I believe we are having a civil discussion here, so you can do away with the insults. You ought to be a lady...so quit the cussing. You come across as one who is extremely aggressive...believe me, you could find it difficult hitching a man with that attitude.

Besides, the case in question happened (or is happening) in Nigeria. Here, our girls aren't used to initiating relationships; they may show a man the green light, but are too fearful to outrightly initiate a relationship...those occurances you mentioned are the exceptions and not the norm.

And again...Learn how to stay on the topic...stop digging out stuffs from peoples posts with malicious intent, either to disparage or demean them. It is very uncool and i am too adroit to do that to you...believe me, you ain't gonna like it if someone does it to you.

I am older than you young lady, with 2 degrees already. Show some respect!

donestk:
No offence intended but you seem to come from a broken home for spewing this thrash.

"the right man will come.... Bla bla bla..... " Are all those who cannot handle her babbage simply the "wrong men"?

Marrying a single mom isn't an issue. The issue is the circumstances that led to her having a baby outta wedlock.

How come the op didn't tell us about circumstances that led to her having a baby out of wedlock?

Bro, that girl is still a kid...she keeps shouting "teenager, teenager" upandown...like as if anybody here is her mate.

I think Nairaland needs a kiddies section for people like her.

nasha1:
I dont like this place because of teenagers like u.Imagine the sheer ignorance in ur post.
women don't choose? u are the deluded one.You mean any nincompoop can walk up to a girl and she will gladly accept his proposal? why then men always claim that girls are always after already made men? why are these women choosing the richer men than the poor ones? how then women reject men and they commit suicide? why then men kill women who want 2 leave them? are they not choosing?

women have as much option as men do, men do the chasing that is why it seems they have more options, women do the choosing because she must find something in u that will make her accept u, it can be ur pocket, ur level of education,ur look and many more.a broke guy can not just walk to buhari daughter and say i want 2 marry u and she will accept,according 2 u she will marry him. smh at this kind of reasoning.

it is just unfortunate we live in this side of the world where many men are educated illiterate and think women are poo.those men rejecting her are not even up to the standard of a single girl with no baggage, some girls will reject them too.We have so many fools and lazy bums who call demselves men, many live off women but its always women that are after money.how many married men can categorically say they take care of their home 100% without the wife contribution? some men dont even know what is like paying school fees.

women dont have the option of choice indee.see reasoning!

Take a look at the bolded. Have you ever, in your life, walked up to a man to initiate communication and proceeded to tell him how much you want him in your life??
NO...?
And yet, you have the temerity to argue against a demonstrated proof??

Now lemme tell you the truth that you chose to ignore...the only time you ever get the chance to choose is when several men indicate interest. If that does not happen, you can only go along with whoever chooses you. If that option is unpalatable to you, then there is still the option of staying the fvck alone .

Honestly, I do not want to believe that you're slow in the head but you're forcing me to...

Faithdamsel:
you have no business with pry sch cert. Nobody will ask you for that

Hi...what's it like at "La Sapienza" and Rome in general, as a foreign student?

I just got admitted...

NubiLove:
Women choices are limited to the Men that approach them... they have a limited option of choice. While as for us Men, we just have the illusion of infinite options to choose from.... just because a man approaches a lady doesn't mean she would be interested. At the end of the day both parties have to choose each other.

Yes, you are right...but you also need to understand that the man has the upper hand in this game.

He has time on his side cos there is no menopause knocking on his door and coupled with the fact that men age much slower than women.

nasha1:
You are dating wrong people.U need 2 open up to a range of people even those u think are not ur spec.I bet all these men you are dating are within your age grade and not ready 2 settle down.There are a lot of single dads out there and divorced men too, give everyone a chance and stop being choosy.All these babymamas out there didn't impregnant themselves,the babydaddies are responsible for that.

She does not choose the men. Men do the picking...if non of those people you specified picked her, what will she do?

Absolutely nothing! Women are often deluded in thinking they have the option of "choice" when it comes to men. However, the grimm reality is that, it is the men who choose...

Also, the number of men that are likely to show interest in them decrease the older they get

arcvoice:
I want to know what space of time to re -apply for italian visa I was refused due to financial status this week. My school has started lectures though i av been attending online?

What amount did you tender?

Wasky101:
Depression over wetin. We are all wired differently. Suicide is not an option so many people have battled depression, it is a medical condition, only the cowards end up killing themselves. Go to the hospital and see how many people are battling depression and are responding to treatment. Taking your own life is not the cure rather its a cowardly act that is also very self centered. Crazy self centered people. Anybody that commits suicide does not deserve to rest in peace because you haven't let the living live in peace

bro, you need to go sit yo ass down...shouting "coward, coward" upandown...

Wetin u know sef? I put it to you that those individuals are way stronger than you.

Honestly, I am beginning to think that the brains of a vast majority of black south Africans have been devoured by termites...

So these are the kind of people that led us in the past? Now I know why Nigeria is a shithole...

joeprince23:
ali igbo amaka wunne m... if only SE people will accept us rivers igboid as they did with delta igbo.... igbo mekaa o!

Did anybody reject you guys ?

Your brothers are the ones pushing the greater Igbo nation away...

kogistar:
i know army won't pay her any money, who the lady was,, before she went ahead to challenge soldiers?

na wao...which kind low IQ individual be dis? This is why our law enforcement agencies get away with all kinds of impunities.

13 YEARS...

Whadafuck is wrong with our judiciary?

ChopBellefull:
pls lala we prefer snake news to ds kinda trash... this shld b in lawma truck nt nairaland

kachi08:
I got mine 3months after NYSC. God never disappoint his people.....May His name be praised.

So all those who were unable to secure a job after several years of schooling are not his PEOPLE...?

Tell me something i don't know...

cummando:
Chibueze Dadubule

You meet person wey no get skon skon
Me go beat you join your money.

If I no fit beat you na to aim for ya blokus!! Two gentle squeezes and you are squealing like a mouse. Three squeezes and you are offering m another $500.

Emi omo

Mehn this is really funny, 25k wey i don plan wetin i go use am do, yet Barcelona messed up...i did not even ask them to win, just draw the fuckin match.

I just hate Barca right now...!

Osyabj:
Absent Obiano's defection to APC before the election, No force can stop APC from winning the Anambra Governorship race in November 2017.

The corrupt, discredited pdp, does not and will never speak for Ndi-Igbo.

Anambra kwenu! Igbo kwenu ! Kwezue nu!!!!

Bro, your weed is of a very strong variety...besides, PDP isn't your problem; APGA is!

Cutehector:
dats just it.. Come to uniport here , u see girls who claim to be girlfriends going out at nights to clubs...

as in eh...no be small thing. Most guys start out being faithful. It takes just one disloyal girl who feels she can mess around just because they aren't married yet to change him.

Cutehector:
Some girls go fuvk every tom dick and harry and will say I will never settle for less in marriage...

No mind dem...Girls actually don't see it as cheating when they respond to incoming attention from a random guy despite having a boyfriend.

Ladies cheat more than guys in boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, the guys on the other hand try to balance the scales after marriage.

Anybody here studying at Sapienza? i need to know what's like over there...

Besides, I know that Rome is expensive, I am also considering University of Trento and University of Padova.

Please I need your candid suggestions...

Mehn, what happened to this thread...?

So, if i am to withdraw 100 million of my hard earned money, i would be forced to part with 10 million?

Thunder where are you? there are some people you need to fire...

honourableseyi:
That is the surest and fastest way now. Shalom

Thanks bro...

Hello house, please i would like to know if the DB account can be funded by someone resident in Germany?

No wonder BuBu ran away to London...He doesn't want to be mis-diagnosed

him never wan die

Mehn, Schalke 04 is a very useless side i swear...after winning 3-0 away, ordinary to win in front of their fans ,they couldn't

spits..!!!

freeborn76:
My position is this; some Nigerians make it difficult to be Nigerian abroad. Believe me, many countries in Africa silently wish they could flush out Nigerians from their midst. What most Nigerians do in South Africa is shameful and despicable; Point Road in Durban, Hillbrow in Johannesburg, Wynberg and Parklands in Cape Town etc. Nigerians brazenly sell drugs and run brothels without any fear. It's time we started a national rebirth in this country...do you know that the most hated word in India today is Nigeria? Why? Drug peddlers...where did we even derail?

Y'all need to stop this rubbish...it's getting stale

what are the law enforcement agencies there for? whatever it is Nigerians are doing over there, i know they can't do it without the collaboration of the indigenes.

MrMcJay:
All men should remember this;

Once a woman is a hoe in the beginning, she's gonna be a hoe for life. If you think she changed, it's cos she doesn't have the opportunity to hoe around.

There is a difference between bleepable and wifeable. Once you mix them up, you're ruined for life.

It took this man 25 years and several misfortunes to learn the experience I freely posted above.

Truer words have never been spoken...

klax:
She is even lucky no one sit beside her they should have removed that sit from her bum and ask to stand or go home or call her God forsaken father to bring her chair.

Mad man with mad family. Heaven even reject Trump, even little child rejected him , Eagle bird rejected him go and show the video how everything God created gas be rejecting him. Who even invited his daughter in the first place

And yet he keeps succeeding, and folks like you consumed with hate never pause to think for a second...

Babzilla:
https://img.pandawhale.com/post-59851-idi-amin-laughing-gif-imgur-3xRZ.gif

Mehn this GIF got me rolling on the floor...

Its hard to convince this ''mavrodial'' people about the ''mavrodik'' situation they've found themselves in.

Its like ''stockholm syndrome'' after a while, they start loving and defending what's causing them pain.

As for me, i don forget my 50k wey i put dia since november...I just hate ponzi schemes, dunno how my friend finally convinced me to part with my cash.