₦airaland Forum

AfroKnight:
For those naija men outside naija, it’s because they think too much and are afraid to love a woman who would use the system to defraud them legally.

For those in naija, it’s for a number of reasons. Naija babes are not loyal. They always lookout for themselves first. Once your usefulness in their lives end, they end the relationship/marriage. Men are trying to avoid that, so they remain single and opt for babymama arrangement if they need kids.

It may also be because the men intend to relocate abroad and they would rather not take their nemesis along. So they resign to a single life.

Thirdly, it could be that some men want to solve certain economic/financial issues before adding the responsibilities of a wife to the load they carry.

Everything here points to the prevalent fact that young Nigerian women do not carry their own weight. Once you ask them out, it’s like they open a ledger for you as a debtor. They use you for your resources then demand to be treated like an equal. Lol. Men are tired of slaving for women.

You see single and even married women online openly asking for trips, perks, gifts and money. It’s almost like every man owes them. You never know who is going to use his money to trigger your wife’s release clause. Even the faithful ones think they must be rewarded with marriage for standing by you while you were struggling. Why would any sane man want to marry such a woman who thinks she’s entitled to his possessions just because she was present while he was struggling without even contributing tangibly to his progress?

So unbalanced.

If marriage was such a sweet deal, more men would embrace it. Many of those who are married were pressured by their parents to get married or were young and blinded by initial infatuation which later faded away and revealed the true nature of their wives.

Women have turned this marriage thing into a punishment for men. It shouldn’t be so.

Men are the ones truly settling down. They settle and put up with broke, unworthy women who offer nothing but drama and the possibility of paternity fraud and strife in a family that was fine until the man brought in a wife.

Marriage should be sweet but naija women fail to realise that both partners MUST contribute to a happy marriage, not just the man.

jneutron4000:
as he don apology, if Edo do anyhow, then go see anyhow. Bob is an #idiot and he is not representing us, but he is still part of us.

MrCGPA:
Idoma guys are smarter than this! A woman told you she was pregnant for another man and you are still doing Stupid love. You are a Funny Idoma Guy. Real Idoma guys don't play Stupid like that.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright ...



Now I can easily say you are a real niggarrr

If you are a niggar and you are yet to get one of these infection from a baby girl then you are not a real niggar

gasparpisciotta:
Snake bite in the yansh can be tricky, how do one suck out the venom?

Unibener:
Here to listen to Slawommir

christistruth01:
you better keep that your gutter mouth shut there , if of truth nobody die let the blessings of today follow , but if you are still debunking that people die let death visit you children one after the other .

The final Report will reveal there was no Massacre at Lekki

Jostoman:
They will do their evil to the citizen and they will now send a southern person to go and defend them. Let's use FEMI Adesina, Lying Muhammed, Joe Igbokwe, Lauretta as a case study.

hushshinani:
i be your mate abi