Remag666:

Don't forget to add a prenuptial agreement so if she instigates a divorce she leaves with nothing and if you get tired of the marriage you're free to fvck any available woman of your choice
With a prenup it's a win win for you

PrimadonnaO:
1. They don't have money to marry.

2. Most women have raised their standards, so some men are not finding it easy getting the kind of women they want.

3. Too many women have taken the "highway" so wife material aren't in abundance anymore.

4. Some people have become "woke" and uninterested in marriage since they can simply cohabit, or have baby mamas.

5. Finally, some men are genuinely scared. With all the bad marriage stories louder than the good ones.

tctrills:
In the old days, the goal was marriage but these days, men are driven by other goals and sometimes marriage could be a distraction. Again we have seen enough broken marriages. These days, everyone is careful about entering into a marriage.

Highlyrespected:
Marriage is blissful when you are with right person.

Marriage is fruitless when you are wrong person.

To settle down is not the issue but to find the right person is the main issue.

porthouse7:
well said. but all ur points are youthful points, wait till u are in ur 40s u will need a companion regardless of ur obvious facts

porthouse7:
redpiller are firstly bitter, note u won't find a serious redpiller of 40yrs

tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.

aforosco:


You can have companion even if you are not married. You can even marry at 30 and your 25 yrs old wife passed on at 35 leaving 2 - 3kids. There is no cast in stone. Anyone can choose to marry or not

SyndyB:




Please believe in concept of marriage because it is ordained by God. In Genesis 2:18 He said it's not good for man to be alone", in read up Gen 2:24. Jesus uphold marriage in Mathew 19:4,5.

In HEB 13:4, it said Marriage is honourable unto all....that God will judge those who desecrate the institution of marriage.

The problem of marriage today is that men/women are going after the wrong persons as spouse. When Adam met Eve he was satisfied with her. Please find out who fits you and enjoy marriage.

Fuckaniza:


Ezaily bros .. what those married assholes get, local man can also get being single... ov 1.5.

DoctorOlasDesk:



You and wahala na 5 & 6. Na everywhere table dey scatter, dem dey see you

porthouse7:
I know my game, I was a redpiller/alpha male...

achimendy:



Buhari is in the right position to answer that
question

Remag666:

Once a redpiller always a redpiller

AfroKnight:
For those naija men outside naija, it’s because they think too much and are afraid to love a woman who would use the system to defraud them legally.

For those in naija, it’s for a number of reasons. Naija babes are not loyal. They always lookout for themselves first. Once your usefulness in their lives end, they end the relationship/marriage. Men are trying to avoid that, so they remain single and opt for babymama arrangement if they need kids.

It may also be because the men intend to relocate abroad and they would rather not take their nemesis along. So they resign to a single life.

Thirdly, it could be that some men want to solve certain economic/financial issues before adding the responsibilities of a wife to the load they carry.

Everything here points to the prevalent fact that young Nigerian women do not carry their own weight. Once you ask them out, it’s like they open a ledger for you as a debtor. They use you for your resources then demand to be treated like an equal. Lol. Men are tired of slaving for women.

You see single and even married women online openly asking for trips, perks, gifts and money. It’s almost like every man owes them. You never know who is going to use his money to trigger your wife’s release clause. Even the faithful ones think they must be rewarded with marriage for standing by you while you were struggling. Why would any sane man want to marry such a woman who thinks she’s entitled to his possessions just because she was present while he was struggling without even contributing tangibly to his progress?

So unbalanced.

If marriage was such a sweet deal, more men would embrace it. Many of those who are married were pressured by their parents to get married or were young and blinded by initial infatuation which later faded away and revealed the true nature of their wives.

Women have turned this marriage thing into a punishment for men. It shouldn’t be so.

Men are the ones truly settling down. They settle and put up with broke, unworthy women who offer nothing but drama and the possibility of paternity fraud and strife in a family that was fine until the man brought in a wife.

Marriage should be sweet but naija women fail to realise that both partners MUST contribute to a happy marriage, not just the man.

BigBashiru:


A man cannot get married anytime he wants. Max age limit is 40....

But he can add to his concubnie up to any age... be God fearing tho

Leo10000:

What standard exactly?,a standard they are not contributing to,I understand your points though, they are validly related to the topic.

pansophist:


To such ladies, high taste is high standards. It doesn't matter if she can't afford her taste. For example she may not want to go on a date with a man because he proposed a local eatery, that's low class for her, but the so called high class location, she can't afford.

So her privilege is technically your responsibility. Welcome to 21st century

DoctorOlasDesk:



Sexual oligarchy aiite?

pansophist:


And survival of the richest

Yamiriflathead:


Women have evolved from what they were when God created them to Jezebels. It took them few days to cause man to disobey God.
I'm sure God regretted creating eve after he deceived adam into disobeying God. God cursed women as a result and we are seeing the effect of those curses in their lives today.
Is it not surprising that the last thing God created destabilized his whole plans for MAN? Why does God not have a wife
He clearly doesn't want any distraction

Savedday:
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them..

SandraIkuboR:
They are probably scared of the expenses that comes with it

PrimadonnaO:
1. They don't have money to marry.

2. Most women have raised their standards, so some men are not finding it easy getting the kind of women they want.

3. Too many women have taken the "highway" so wife material aren't in abundance anymore


4. Some people have become "woke" and uninterested in marriage since they can simply cohabit, or have baby mamas.

5. Finally, some men are genuinely scared. With all the bad marriage stories louder than the good ones.

DoctorOlasDesk:


Panso

Last year I had a project that made me relocate to a new city. Rented a three bed in a very quirt area like that. There was this married woman neighbor of mine o. Even if I pass by her door, cause there's no alternatives to my own apartment. Even if she's putting on just bra and pant, she would almost jump up in uncontrolled excitement just rush grab wrapper and run to me.

It was constant, it was intense. Even when she fled like taking, she would virtually hold hands tightly with me in public.


Brother. This thing called emotions and passion you elders talk about continues to marvel me


As a man of honour not to break the brotherhood code, I surprisingly backed my bags one day and relocated. She wanted to faint that day. I couldn't stand the torture I saw in the husband's eyes feeling intimated each time he sees me. To make matters worse, the kids loved me like fvkc. I realised I needed to move o. Cause I no fit commit sacrilege. There can't be a billion single females and I'm doing a mans wife. Never !

To let their marriage have peace, I realise I should move. The platonic love was too much


Shey na money dey excite these women no. Even married woman with two kids?

pansophist:


I don't know, but her behaviour seems like attraction to me. People tend to get this weird idea that being married will suddenly turned off any attraction with other people, but it's not true. Being sexually monogamous Is a combination of self-control, commitment, faithfulness, respect for one's partners, and the bigger damage that will happen, that's why people people do not to cheat.

What you did is the right thing. The highest form of emasculation you can give a man is to sleep with his wife, and it's even unforgivable if you know him, and still chooses to bang his wife, its even worse than betrayal. Na crime against mankind, its unforgivable, lai lai. And if you have any conscience, you'll be tormented when you remembered you did that. And his kids are growing, just pray the pikin get conscience