Kobicove:


My friend go and sit down!

You don't need to be a rocket scientist to deduce what likely led to this tragic turn of events

ignore that boy pls.

Hezbola:
This is terrible, the man should have maintain restrain whatever the situation is.. I know some ladies turn tiger once they move to the UK, knowing fully well the law supports them in whatever they do.. Please Men if you can't cope back out..

he ought to have simply deport him self when he noticed she started doing feminism or quoting UK LAWS TO HIM.He fell for this scam seriously and he's gonna spend d rest of his age behind bars

iamdapsyj:


You know ball .....the wife must have cheating before the husband joined her in the UK but that is not an excuse to take her life though!!

or she started quoting LEGALITY OF UK LAWS TO HIM.and as a weak African man that he is (we can't take disrespect or equality from our women),he acted as most African men would (beat to death )

This is what exactly came to my mind ,this women in onosonoyi o can begin to form lord once they get there and know laws favor them.Virtually all of them are this way.thw man must have noticed "this one wan send me back to early grave or deportation things simply because I brought her here to get a better life "! Those disrespectful attitudes they can't give Thier husbands at Nigeria is what they always manifest outside the nation particularly in the west. ONCE YOU MOTICE YOUR WIFE NO GET CHARACTER HERE ABEG DONT EVEN TRY TAKING HER WITH U TO EUROPE else your half life shell will auto expire ,you will develop HBP over trying to cope with her, she will be omw thean while you become the opposite.I WILL NEVER ADVOCATE FOR VIOLENCE IN HOMES, I CAME FROM A LARGE POLYGAMOUS HOME SO I understand the troubles of violence aided by lacknoftrue love and respect for one another.

ZACHIE:
Hard o.
It is hard to dabble into matters with half information. We all don't know the details. So, I will not be quick to rain hailstones on the husband.

But, if the woman being a nurse is anything to consider, if her being in the UK before her husband joining her is another thing to consider and if the husband being an Ondo man is yet another angle to the story, one thing is sure: the woman must have been flexing power and authority to the man with a few extramarital affairs in the bag.
You see these UK nurses like to put it in your face soon as they assume control.
Maybe, maybe not .
Who knows.
Sha, the man's life is effectively over. The kids are in for a trying time.
It is a winless situation. Anger solves nothing.

Bad governance fighting back. North always want to be put on juicy section of power.theybjabe been milking the cash cow dry from ABUJA TO SOUTH SOUTH where they aren't supposed to be found .Just lmaging Buhari making a Fulani semi illetrate hadiza bala PORT OGA for Lagos !she ended up turning up every contract to her Hausa family members thanks to AMAECHI last year then.Wike may not be the best hand to manage FCT ,but he is way better and sound than the average Hausa Muslim out there who has no sound knowledge of the economy or the society only to thief the economy dry !

This thing is all round d nation. But the question I choose to ask us here is what do we need huge amount withdraw for abg ? Why must Africans must especially Nigerians carryhuge amount of cash all around like logistics individual? Our mentality around money is just too poor ,our culture and traditions around money is what's been bedveiling the development of this nation making the poor remaining as slaves under the wealthy. This online cash transfer is the best option we must come to adopt for security and the future sake , let us abolish this BULLION VAN INDIVIDUAL MENTALITY AND AS SUCH corruption would greatly reduce since most of our Moneys flying around would be traced .MY TWO CENT .

I am so so shocked HOW SHOULD D KILLERS OF DEBORAH BE FREE OT THERE , NO SERIOUS COURT CASE AGAINST THEM,BUT THE REPORTEES GOT DETAIMED FOR MONTHS !!this Muslims are taking the christians for too much ride !just imagine the nonsense under Buharis administration! I am not well about this at all.

sotall:

Those who committed murder are at large while the person condemning their act is in prison.

THANK you sir, I can see ego flying around this two birds! They weren't even mature for marriage before they two jumped into it.would have tot it was because they are wealthy but op said he was struggling when she flied away??may be I am missing something here!

Mindlog:


The boys are not even living with you but with relatives, that counts against you as you are not in a position to be the primary care giver of the boys.

They are triplets, their separation is not good for their overall development as they have to live and grow under the same roof irrespective of the issues between you and their mother, they are not slices of bread that each of you would choose the ones you want.

Get your state's social care/welfare office involved, to work out an arrangement that would benefit the triplets and that would be in the direction of the 3 children living with their mother while you make provisions for them in terms of feeding, education, healthcare etc and also arrange how often you go visit them, if possible work out time they can come spend some of their school holidays with you and video calling them on WhatsApp must be regular.

In as much as you feel that your mother and sister have been taking good care of the boys, they are just the boys' grandmother and aunt, not their mother who is still alive and not clinically diagnosed to be mentally unstable nor abusing substances.

You both should not allow your egos lead to using your children' lives as a battlefield.

Kobo naira m kobo junkie , how are you today ?you sound amazing ,this is good on you o !where do you reside ?.Honestly I side you on this ,it's better he looses Thier custody than cause those kids to loose out of perfect and full parental care.I knew what I suffered being out of parental custody, till date I shall never wish same for anyone.Why should him a d his wife sef seperate just after four years and with triplets for God sake ? It's weird o!can't people just be tollerant ,?what has Hollywood and Nollywood done to us all ?

Kobojunkie:
You say you have the boys but from your own OP, they don't live with you as instead you left them with relatives in the village. So technically, you don't have the boys. Due to the nature of your job, you can't be with the kids during this time that they need at least a parent to care for them so why not allow your wife havd them all until they are old enough and your job no longer keeps you from being with them?

You both ought to seek shared custody of the kids so she can care for them while you can visit them when you are not working but you holding the boys hostage by dumping them in the village is not something any sane person would want for children of that age.

Call BUHARI..JE WAS YOUR FATNER FOR LIKE 8YEARS BUT COULDNT FIX D SECURITY TROUBLE OF KATSINA.. HE WAS ONLY PUMPING FUNDS ILLEGALLY TO UNA

I do not expect much positive assertions from very depressed people on this forum. Clergies have given the people reasons to doubt the authenticity of God I'm handling complex issues in life, but I just wish to reiterate that the fact that we have many fakes all over means that ORIGINAL EXISTS.JESUS WILL BE LORD TILL FOREVER wether we like it or not

Wanted getting same for a pile patient three weeks ago, when I got to the pharmacy, he called one kind horrible price! ,had to humble my self and leave that territory.That was when I valued sound health the more,I said to my self this patients would seriously be needing God's healing o !

I dont think it's the schools place to watch over the students outside the campus, they should be responsible for themselves outside the campus hostels, you should t even be found outside after 6pm.if you school around those areas ,we grew up with them over there and know what they can do particularly when you are not one of them .They know you and have things well structured out in Thier plans to attach you.zamfara, Bauchi, Kano sokoto, gombe etc.OMLY KADUNA outside hostel safe small for north , I speak from experiences having passed through this place.It is well with his soul. My brother still has iron fixed in his arm for over three years now courtesy of the aboki Fulani who tried snatching his phone while returning home just like this case..he didn't ask him of the phone sef, probably he doesn't understand English ..he just started stabbing bro and axing his arms off ! thank God for rich fellows and church leadership that came to his rescue ,the total arm could have been condemned till date .

Wao !bro has a very long matters on hands.you have proven to be a great son bro, I congratulate you on how far you have been able to go with her on this. Lots of questions here begging to be answered;(1)we're are the other two ladies dem don die ni ?if they can also co-partake with you in this ..you won't be this troubled and challenged (2)do you have momma's history from kids age while with her parents ?is she the lousy type ?(3)you are of age too,while she use to be with your dad was she this way too ?? She is not the first to be in this kind of case sir, most of us here have such testimonies , if it only ended at her been just physco ..but that manipulative, insensitive and untidy part has nothing to do with mental matter abeg o ,!it has to do with foundation or root (any African go code me well)(4)how was your day able to manage her excesses (if she had any then)I heard she lost her hussy 30 yrs or so ? and how old were you wen daddy died and how was she able to raise you three ? If this questions and more can get answered ,then we can profer some kind of solution to part of the trouble on ground sir.But I must SALUTE U ,YOU ARE A WORTYH SON. If I were to give a little counsel here to you and your wife ,pls shift small and give your wife good attention before you cause your wife to run mad too,the you too need ample time for your mental health , I survived entering into total depression last month ...having been under a millitary brought up ally life with a gallant life style , I do not wish any one enter into that phase.

I hope you all know the rules about CONTRACTS HERE ?IF HE HAS A BINDING CONTRACT ,it will only take the decision of the management to choose to loose him off ,else bros will be under serious FIFAs court trouble .He will likely loose every dime be has gotten while in ITALY ,that's why they are always asked to read and understand the terms of agreement that would be binnding on them during play, well ably interpreted by a sound legal practitioner too.

Don't Mnd children of hate , the man is a technocrat and experienced than BAT, he is also very sound with perfect consultancy skills when it comes to making things work,not a tribalistic bigot like most of our past and present leaders .. I expected the current admin to call Him up and really interview and get counsel from him,but BAT and his ass lickers group chosed d path of pride and arrogance as usual ,shame on wicked and selfish leadership in Nigeria and Africa as a whole ! !

Tayomi37:
Where are the trolls insulting OBJ when he said those refineries are darm dead.

Instead of many of these miscreants to do there research they will be calling everyone IPOB.
Now come and defend your boss

You are right ma'am , our boys these days are just something else , we want to all sleep with girls
around but fly away immediately responsibilities arises! I understand marriage or settling down can so so be expensive this times but we must be cautious and play the right games .There was no girl I dated whoes parents do not know me .. I made sure I made my intentions known and your parents must always see me around including when I was dating the daughter of a king up north years ago.If that kind girl got pregnant, the parents would understand and cooperate with you but is that the case with all our chewing gum boys now my dear ? HELL NO ! THEY ALWAYS WANNA SAMPLE AND OPT OUT leaving you high and dry and hopeless too. I made sure most of my ladies went to school..hmm let me shock you to the wits, the last girl I dated after uni..had to go write NECCO EXAMS FOR HER JUST SHE PASSES MATHEMATICS AND ENGLISH!! (because I wanted her to go furthering) ! tha sounds bizarre right ?yes o, that's what real men should be able to do for ladies they love not just clothes and shoes bla bla bla .. our bro here didn't have good intentions from the beginning that we can see, though the mother messed up, she doesn't know the child's future but terminated it on the platform of religion and ignorance .. God go help us all .If the guy was well to do and sound as perceived by the mum do you think she would have gone that satanic way pls ?

sw24:
I know a man that got a lady pregnant, asked the lady to tell her parents he was coming to marry. Called the parents to tell them of his intentions,
to fix a date for introduction and collect dowry list. Gave all necessary information about his family and background for investigation. While this was ongoing they registered for antenatal. When the family confirmed that they were satisfied with his background. He negotiated dowry list and paid way before the traditional marriage.
I just hope the girl comes out of the this safe .

Anybody can want to marry a lady, Wanting is pure desire. Actions speak louder than words.

I love the mature responses I am getting over this matter. I have a daughter in her teens now, I can relate well with what momma did.Dony marry for preg sake , do the right things welland on time.you werent ready to Mary untill small girl got preg.She is still a small girl, has she gone to high inst what's her level of education?u do t want her to further her education but wishes to tie her down in pregnancy right ? I didn't have good plans for her from inception bro, wake up and stop sleeping around sir. After her leaving you now , in three months time you will catch another cruise girl ,would you also be willing to marry that one too ??let's be honest with our selves ,you will soon have female kids

It pains me when i come across Africans who feign ignorance to the impact of the spiritual realm, or debate it !!Kai, even white man Sef gives kudos to the dark world when the thing reach brick wall !!do you know that even the Panadol we take were not just some "mathematics" or "chemistry "as we all are made to think ? By the time you go further in to inner caucus of science world ,then you will meet with the reality behind the wisdom of the success of laboratory experiments !! This world na mystery bro abeg

valentineuwakwe:
Who ever says spiritual things does not exist must be sick n guess he is she is from another planet....
I was struck by a moving lightening at the village when I was just 8yrs old and woke up to see myself in our village shrine. After some cleansing n incarnations said by the chief priest in he presence of my parents and family members I started seeing spirits from then till when I got to 12 years old....
I was not scared all those times but it made me see alot about this world!

Ignore naira and kobo, he is so so naive and ignorant, never wanting to learn with open mind,I guess his Jehova witness are the reason for this Thier satanic myopic indoctrination.I studied Advance Engr, father was an Hydro mechanical Engr,younger bro works with high tech engr firms outside and withing the nation including high Sec military engineering installations.No white man . Would wanna make you believe in the under world unless he knows both of you have access to the codes !.when it comes to engineering, NA who jazz pass go sail ,wether marine or Plant engineering. Let me close my case before plenty kids here get night mare tonight over some postings I would have love to make. To construct bridges across NIGER AND BENUE RIVERS required lots of sacrifices from the whites..my elder uncle was privileged to be one of the top Dogs there then and very still alive today.Not less than 3major white men (senior engrs) paid with Thier own soul not to talk less of our plenty plenty engrs and staff along the way?! I can see plenty children here on this nairaland who seem wiser than them selves buy are actually very not it in d open light.for you to live till date hear dreams come to pass see dangers averted, see men fall into traps from wicked people and yet doubt the existence of d spirit realm makes you the most blinded in your circle.Even Christ and the Scripture we read till date never deny the existence of the wicked world .John :the whole world lieth in wickedness !..what is darkness and wickedness? Genesis 1"and the world was null and void "scattered..darkness covered the surface of the earth "! what does this statements say concerning the spirit world ? Has this descriptions CHange till date ?? (quote author=sylve11 post=127280902]

Kobo, If any oyibo company wants to do dam work in most river, they usually offer sacrifices.

They hire a spiritualist who understands the gods present in that river.

I have seen this before, not once or twice.



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You got time for kobo ?? She is always like that o! Very ignorant when it comes to the spirit world ,Jehovah wickedness advocate na her path

finallybusy:
“Life Is Short. Make Sure You Spend As Much Time As Possible on the Internet Arguing with Strangers.”

MJ created his own world and lived therein and only few ,I mean very few on earth have been able to match his feats in that sector. I am a lover hold sounds and a producer too,but now on a different mode.
I am still very young my dear but I can tell you going by the work load on my shoulders,only grand pas would be qualified to carry such burden,
lots of dependents if you got that.
You must still be young to have some one 14yrs+ on your score card of relationship, if you add that 14 on mine hmmmm..I reserve my comment over that.I don't do secular again sef, destiny call is what we are on to now and i hope you also my dear,are on that path to Destiny recovery and fufilment.(

Klass99:


Good morning to you too, I enjoyed reading this. I didn't know about the whole drama between Luther, MJ and Diana so it was interesting to read. I wasn't really a fan of MJ's he tried too hard to be a white man. Was he a great artiste? Hell yes, but the whole body and skin alterations to be more white never sat well with me.

Babyface and Luther trip me to pieces with their love songs. They make you believe in love and actually want to fall in love with someone . Just yesterday I had Luther's track (can I take you out) on repeat, I watched the video too and enjoyed every minute of it,

How old are you exactly to be referring to yourself as a grandpa?🤣 I am crushing on a man 14 years older than me right now and enjoying every moment spent with him. We share similar tastes in music and from the first day I listened to his playlist I could tell what kind of person he is (a sweet gentleman) and I knew from that playlist we would get along well.

Was an ardent follower of Luther Vandross and Baby face way back. Lots of guys here might not really relate with Baby face too well because he's a calm and reserved personality except for his class and kind of music that gave him way off.I still remember the song "dirty Diana"do you ?? That was the song by MJ to smite Dianna Ross and Luther for snatching away his love throb Diana then.Diana was way too into fine boy Luther though she likes Michael Jackson who was really dying for her..lots of us do not really know about the love life of MJ untill recently. I use to have plat collections of Luther ((call it love ,secret love . Buy me a Rose etc.)untll I gave them all out since( boys are now grand pas now )you almost wanna awoken..my Old school stints my dear,Good morning sis.

Klass99:
Legendary artistes and good music like;

1. Tina Turner - Simply the best. What's love got to do with it.

2. Luther Vandross - Secret Love, Can I take you out tonight.

3. Babyface - Whip Appeal. For the cool in you.......and more

shariff84:
unpeeled 20k,peeled is now 70k.

this maize or dawa sir, how many nudus do we have in each of the bags and what size are the bags ?what are Thier current prices too ?

shariff84:
.sorry,I will consider ur advice and bring u back so that we can continue our business.

maigida, what's the cost of moving per bag to LAFIYA NOW ?

I AM NOT SUPPRISSED over the horrible and malligning statements I found here from souls filled with mental defeat, jealousy ,Ill mannersims, and bitterness ! I am asahmed for some of you who bear Christian names but choose to thread this satanic path of antichrist,may the lord show you all mercy. This family is not the reason for your depravity and low lifeness, this young man has found a path for him self that even his father envied (been from a great home).Lots of you spewing trash here won't dare that. Path if your parents were this great, but sorry for poor man because of his ugly mentality ,he thinks the wealthy and great ae the reasons for his negative low life and back sliding into abject darkness !!.All I see here from most youths are songs coming out of depressed minds and degenerated souls filed with hate and jealousy for the bettered.This won't go well for us in this nation if we remain on this lane. God go help us .

That pains nobe here ..can keep you glued to a spot for days !! Mine is joint trouble .Pls give a clearer clue on how to do this and if you have pics ,that would do better.i reside in a place where some of those you listed up would be needing pics .Thank you .Thier local names and pics I mean.

Votukpa:


I can feel your pain. I go through it at least twice a year. Horribly painful.

Tart cherry
Tumeric + plack pepper + ginger + coconut oil + hot water blended together

It's gone.

hakym619:
Visit a rheumatologist.

you think so ?Arthritis almost does not have permanent solution o! May be surgery done outside the country

I notice I prosce plenty uric acid within my bowels too. Could it be for he beans and my love for protein ?my best food is protein and noting more.Also observed legs arthritis on me too.Most tines I use analgesic like DICLO.Thougb I a seriously reducing it now and try forcing my self to cope with d pains most times as against going DICLO.WHATS your take sir, any local cure or manager ?

Kayceo2010:
You be big man.. Gouty arthritis is mostly cause by excess protein intake as your body generates uric acid from protein metabolism... Nicknamed disease of the kings back then

THE ROBBERY WAS QUITE BRUTAL ON THE INDEGENES WALLAHI, THIS HAUSA MUSLIM ARE JUST TOO SATANIC BEEN WITH. THE STATE IS A SERIOUS MIXTURE OF BOTH RELIGION with christians more (rescords have that and I have lived here close to 10yrs or even more)but the political power resides with the Hausa fulani Muslims and have gone far.. we trust the supreme to act in true justice . I do not expect this to go easy with DAVID UMBUGADO OF PDP THOUGH

Most times it's not love that keep a union going on...one need the major oil of RESPECT, UNDERSTANDING AMD TOTAL FAITH IN ONE ANOTHTER.Only those with advance heses I'm marriage would be able to relate with this..I use to think "just love your partner "untill age started telling on us then I realize this keys and would love to tell every up coming ones ... Very soon love won't be enough ! stop fantasies from all those HOLLYWOOD AND NOLLY WOOD MOVIES you've been doing ..they ain't real.Commitmemt to one another and ability to be responsible towards one another is key .You have gotten a lady with child for you so what else are you waiting for bro , you decided to sleep with some one else daughter only to start taking this nonsense ?? Go get sense and start doing the needful ...the other woman u loved for over eight years couldn't give you love and peace of mind and you are here crying this way ?? Bro wake up and start getting committed .get her hands in marriage and be a man,After all you are way older than her so you should be able to cope . Age is no longer on your side uncle

I use to ignore and deny this untill I went to see my Doctor friend and a member in one the GENRAL HOSPITAL HERE, HE IS THE ONLY DOCTOR IN THE GENERAL HOSPITAL!!"LIKE what the nonsense is this "'? bros na only you be doc here ? He replied in the affirmative,I wish I could help him in caring for the patients littered all over the wards with Fulani and Hausa sick people ,but for where I do not have a license for practicing ... He works round the clock till late night most days ... He recently started leaving by 2pm when we got wind of it that Fulanis were trailing him for kidnap, we counsel him to start closing early and in broad daylight.Thats how this nation has gone ,just pray your love once never get sick or stucked at this sham called hospital particularly in the north...we will keep having this way when religion and tribalsim is d platform upon which we elect leader over us... See how horrible the judiciary had been ever since this our new sheerif took over ! Can we all see that we are in a mess and ONE CHANCE ??