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Gaily04:
Had a terrible day yesterday, we had a mini naming session and had his circumcision done. Dh was around to hold him, his elder sister is a nurse and does for everyone. Don't know what happened, he had a cut, she finished the process and left. My ds was wrapped up and placed in my arms, little did I knw that he was bleeding seriously. Decided to check d diaper since he was just crying too much, only to find him in the pool of his own blood, the sight was something else. Couldn't control myself, was even crying more than the baby. She came back after to stop the bleeding and tie the spot. My ds has been restless, guess his stomach is also contributing. When I carried him after everything, he was so light weighted, couldn't help but continue crying. All my hard work has just gone down. They were jst consoling me that he will be fine.
Pls how do I make him gain all he has lost?

Pls stop crying n b strong. Take him to d hospital. My elder Sis had same n went bak 2 d hospital, I can't tell wat was done bt baby cambak beta. Dnt wry abt his weight yet because I can still bounce bak. Weldon work Ma.

enkaydewdrop:
I made my own cot... Very very big... For
30k...almost as big as a standard bed...

Bought my angel wipes for 350...im not too sure... I'll check again when I get home...

Baby/diaper bag-3,500...very good one, and brand new too...

Bought tommee tippee closer to nature/anti colick feeding bottle for 1,500..

Pls can u share d pick here. Dat of d cot.

Blessedmum:
Congrats, am still wondering how 3rd trimester is going to be for me coz I suffered serious constipation in 1st trimester u're d one encouraging me then. So far 2nd trimester has been sweet, I poo everyday and it's soft.

Third trimester will also b gud 4 u. Just stay positive. No 2 women r same.

enkaydewdrop:
Thanks a lot mama... Amen! Amen!! Amen!!!
Ginababy, come and see oooooh...
Solution to your sontin... At least, you go prefer this one to my agonyin suggestion...

PHCN hav gone on strike so no electricity to blend. I pray my anuse doesn't go on strike too. Lol.

Ada243:
congrats oooo. oya shakiti bobo

Kai I don dance tire make my bobo n com jump komot.

Besea:
Ginababy see as pesin dey rejoice because of poo Chai.

Na soo, no b every tym person suppose to d share complains here. If beta yin do u com share am. Abi no b d reason y we d pray here?

Towerofgrace:
@Cutienik, Enkaydewdrop and Ginababy epele o, i feel u sis on this constipation stuff, if it is just the constipation but no anal fissure it is understandable but once i get constipated like this i know i am in for it, my an... is in deep sh...t. the longer u hold ur poo in the body, the harder it gets and more difficult to pass out, eat plenty fruits first thing in the morning and last thing at night, make smoothie with fruits e.g, cucumber, watermelon, banana, mango, green and red apples, carrots, english pear, etc blend altogether, makes it easier to take all at once especially when chilled, very yummy and u fit even crush your routine drugs in a little quantity to drink.

What i do as an ATC mama is to apply Bonjela on it like 3 times a day, although always hot and peppery but it reliefs and heals it fast, if not that you are preggies i would have said you should get NEO HEALAR herbal suppository, but it CANNOT be used during pregnancy. Pele ur mission is already at permanent site.

wishing you short, swift and sweet deliveries, #motherbabyhusbandalivewithplentymoney&love

My belle just d totori me afta hearing all dis frm u. Amen! To ur prayers. Abeg chop kiss. Mwuah

Yepeee..... today is going to b a gudday 4 me.

I poo dis mrng heavily n now I'm on it again. Wish more will come leta in d day.

Feeling very light n comfortable. Dancing shoki.

Rukemi291, I share in ur pains my dear. Affliction shall nt rise a second tym. BE STRONG.

Sabi mamas shud help share d cause of dis death of LO afta giving birth naturally. Afread is catching.

enkaydewdrop:
LOL... Na just small u go chop na... U dey fear

I dey fear abeg. Afta seeing wat u r passing tru. I no fit shout beta mak d poo dey der.

cutienik:
enkaydewdrop...u stil dey recommend ewa agonyin for purgin..ginababy..i dey pity yah bumbum oo nd i dey luk u wt my 7D glasses..u wan use style take ova mama zaynie post..ehn..hmmm..contunu

@d recommended, my hand no dey inside oo I can't fit go n eat wat my anuse can not take lailai.

Concerning mama zaynie's post I no talk sooo. Whispers (I want ginger her coming out).

enkaydewdrop:
Aaaaaah... Make she catch you...
Who send u message?

Hw u go knw if she send me? Dis na voluntary service dat will benefit her n d newbies ooo.

enkaydewdrop:
Thanks sis... I've not battled with constipation in this pregnancy, and I thank God... Cos before I got pregnant, I used to suffer from it, to the extent of having tears and bleeding...

Please, take plenty of fruits and water...try beans too... Very soft beans, like ewa agonyin...
You should be able to go to toilet...

Which ewa agonyin? Abeg ooo b4 my anuse will start pushing out + purging LOL.

I will try d fruit expecially water melon.

enkaydewdrop:
Thanks sis... I've not battled with constipation in this pregnancy, and I thank God... Cos before I got pregnant, I used to suffer from it, to the extent of having tears and bleeding...

Please, take plenty of fruits and water...try beans too... Very soft beans, like ewa agonyin...
You should be able to go to toilet...

Which ewa agonyin? Abeg ooo b4 my anuse will start pushing out + purging.

Chinwendym:
I give up! Been reading back since 5:46 pm and I've still got 60 more pages to read mbanu I don taya.

Congrats to those that have put to bed!
Welcome to the newbies may your journey be smooth and easy.
Happy birthday to those that had their birthday.
Happy wedding anniversary to those who had their anniversary.

I didn't travel abroad o! Ginababy and babythug Just been super busy and always too tired to log on at the end of the day.

Make una help me o! My Ekene bobo has some boil like rash on his neck and it seems to be spreading to his back and shoulder some one said its ela and that I should use baby tribotan and also get red hibiscus to bath him with. I am so worried and confused He has been scratching his neck for a while now only for this tiny boils to break out on Monday and as at today it has doubled in number! Its so unsightly abeg o zaynie, nurse kaffy4bill, onegai, soonest, all and any mama that can help me please do o! Can't bare to see my pride and joy like this
Its bleeding due to him always scratching it, my mil says its not a hospital thing that she will get me agbo, should I ignore her and take my baby to the hospital or await her agbo? Ladies what do you think? Afraid is catching me o!

Ekene bobo, my son oooo I'm in tears seeing u lyk dis. I'm just imagining d discomfort n restlessness. Abeg take him to d hospital. Dnt b wasting tym on dat boys health issues ooo n dnt b using ur son 2 do experiment.

@chinwendym, mama Ekene u neva read finish? Come n giv us our goodies from obodo-oyibo.

NOTICE! NOTICE!! NOTICE!!!

Aunty Zaynie have personally ordered me to be collecting dues frm all d newbies n getting dem registered on her behalf till further notice. She also sent her regards to all d lovely mamas here. It's lyk she don chop frog n MS d deal wt her. (no b me talk am ooo)

Enkaydewdrop, abeg share some of d poo my way. Constipation want make me hate d idea of conception. Sry abt ur anuse it wil heal b4 baby arrives. Just find ur way around 2 heal d pains.


Kai my belle no get space again ooo. My navel has completely disappeared n my tommy skin is so painful wen I touch it. As at 33wks baby weighed 2.9kg, I wonder wat he is weighing nw dat makes me feel so heavy n tight in my tommy. June pls do n com ooo I'm running out of patients.

GenyEbere:
Aghaibiam you will be fine ok

Mamas una good morning o woke up depressed again today,irritated by sand and water in the bathroom hmmmm now I ve swept the places I can to remove every trace of sand lol,then water in the bathroom what do I do to it eh oooo pregnancy packages lol

Waddling mamas how is the ministry

Ginababy hope you are ok

@pix some pple/things are feeling cold and need to warm their body lol

My swtypie, Tnx 4 d mention dearie. I spent d whole of yesterday making my hair n being on d road 4 dat purpose. Got home exosted n up until nw strength is nt on my side at all.

Hope u n LO r doing grt?

maureensylvia:
awwww u mamas are wonderful infact I love u all down from the depth of my heart.
after having a soft tone dialogue with him, he credited my account immensely more than I expected, as if that wasn't enough he assured me that after my three months postpartum he will open a business for me to combine with my job, that I should look for business ideas which I don't even know d one to venture in... dis evening kwa he came back with lots of goodies hmmm as in ehhh mamas u will not understand d kind of thing u people did for me, it's only my GOD will reward u people immensely.***kisses*** to u all #no homo

I declare dis permanent IJN. Amen!

GenyEbere:
Maureen mamas touchlight your matter well the Lord will help you

Ginababy and enkaydewdrop I have CS apptmt on tues but NO I dont need the knife again lol else una go see me for threadcuties,as my lo is in cephalic and 2.6kg weight am praying for a VBAC and it will be done unto me Amen


Cheerychy will give the house feedback on the carrot experiment


Gaily04 how is our prince charming this morning

#teammay lo's pls coperate with mummy and show face this week you hear #teammay walk walk walk do matchpast it will help

#teamjune #teamnopant #teamnolibido #teamnodeliveryhair I troway breast for una,how is the ministry vjay pain nko #itwillendinpraise #oneleginmayonejune kikikikikikiki

Una good morning

Let d will of God prevails. Keep telling urself u dnt need d knife my dear.

Iyabetajos:
@maureensylvia it's well dear.my lil advice is dialogue n prayers.
dnt make mistake of taking ova some responsibilities.truth is dt wen some men know u r working dey xpect u to b on ur own financially no matter hw much u earn.
lyk moi i cannot ask for hair money n clothes ohh na dt tym i go hear story of my lyf.as soon as i started working,allowances stopped.i talk tire i no kukuma ask.again.
i've been on bedrest for abt 4months nw n dts d only reason dis man is taking up my bills.i dnt get y dey do dis at tyms bt God will c us tru.


oya Ginababy cm n take plenty plenty libido i haff bt am nt using.my libido has always been on d highside ohh dunno y.bt since cerclage no kpekus for me...its well dear i admire u for wanting to work on it u will surely get a solution lol....

Amen! Tnx a lot 4 sharing I knw I'm in ur prayers too.

Maureensylvia, I can't really say much abt dis. Bt 2 tinz can n may help u out.

Firstly, na baba God get d final say on dis so tak it up to him n rest. Wen I say rest I mean 4get abt his wrongs n shortcomings completely.

Secondly, u must learn to work on urself n start courting him all ova again. U hav 2 bring out dat small boy in him n let d boss in him disappear so u can hav a space in his lyf to help him take decision. 4get abt all d complains n complement him on little tinz he does right. Applause him wen he takes right decision, stop expecting him 2 change immediately, speak positive words to him always n make him knw dat does little tinz makes u happy. Dnt 4get to show appreciation even ova tinz u tink d r his responsibilities still find a way around to show him dat u appreciate him. Wt dat he will want to do more n will gradually open up 4 u 2 b a part of his decision making. Stop seeing him in his past n start seeing a new him. Wat u see is wat u get.

Ur baby n dh r nw d 2 children u hav in ur lyf to grow so grow both of dem together wt love.

LOVE SUPERSEDES ALL THINGS
LOVE CAN MAKE A MAN DO ANYTHING
LOVE NEVER FAILS
LOVE COVERS ALL WRONGS

iomoge2:
It increases libido.
In men and women.

Men especially. Very good o.

I knw it increases sperm count. I prepared it 4 dh during my ttc days bt wtout d coconut sha.

I'll try it afta birthing my LO.

zimunachimdi:
ginababy,tx dear.

Hahahaha u r welcome dear. D tin show 4 ur face oooo. God is pulling us out in no tym dear.

cutie999:
34weeks tmao repping team june. Baba God over to you for a swift and painless delivery #i wish

U can say it again. I'll b 35wks n d joy is out of dis world.

Eminya:
I think she meant to type 'kunun aya' it's made from tigernuts, dates and coconut.
You wash the tigernuts very well and soak for some hours, cut your dates open to remove seed, add to the coconut and tigernut and blend together. Grind it smooth and sieve, once you are done seiving you serve cold and drink. From my observation all the ingredients are not harmful in pregnancy

Den what will happen?

zimunachimdi:
pls dear,if you find solution pls hala me ooo. The tin tire me no be small. Dh and I will seriously look for solution after delivery. I just dont feel it at all.
Dh said it might be psychological. It is stress doing something you dont enjoy.Others mamas,abeg una fit help too.

I will hala u kia kia my dear. I've bottled dis feelings 4 too long. It might truly b psychological bt hw n where? I tire jaree.

cutie999:
Yes love....its my delivery hair....its better i endure it now than later but it hurts like mad biko

Better now my dear. U can't imagine me planning to embark on lyk 1hr 15mnts trip on Tuesday wt dh just 2 get d particular style made by a certain stylist. I can do anything 4 my hair ooo. Part of my power house.

creamchiccb:
Hello!wats kuku aya??regarding love making,wen I tink of d fact it helps widen d power house I somhw find my libido oooo bcs I dread labour pain!!women are tryin joor

Enkaydewdrop, abeg com n answer dis woman. Wat is kuku aya?

enkaydewdrop:
Ah!
DH and I have been arguing since oh...
I've told him I must barb the hair...

Me 2 d join dh beg u. Stop rough play abeg. I hate low cut seriously.

enkaydewdrop:
This one that GenyEbere is 37weeks so... I surrender oh...
She may not escape May oh...

Make we dey look sha...

Dat woman, dis wk or nxt wk fit no pass her ooo. We still wish her well sha.

mitchyy:
Haaaa! This one is really serious o. Have you tried searching google to see if there are suggestions to keep your libido on the high side?

This is what i do and you might try it out:
Everytime you pass dh, reach out and touch or kiss him. Don't allow these moments to go beyond the kiss or hug. Simply increasing the amount of physical contact you have with your partner will help with desire to have s*x.

Hope dh will nt end up dragging me 2 bed at every touch n kiss. I will try it dearie. Tnx a bunch.

More suggestions pls.