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GenyEbere:
Gaily04 thank you o joining sharp sharp at least we don clock 37wks #hopeteamjunenoseemeforline

ginababy na God go help my libido true,while others are complaining that they hate 2mins man na that one I like wella,if e pass 2mins come see my face lol


Enkaydewdrop I believe am healed Amen,funny enough they are family members,reason we need to protect our kids from so called "uncles and aunties" God will protect our children from pervets.

Amen ooo. Some pple r wicked in dis world.
Haaaaa 37wks already? U r gud as team May infact bye bye. Hope u don mak ur hair? No b lyk enkaydewdrop ooo.

enkaydewdrop:
Ha ginababy!!!
Browsing on duty

Receive healing right now!!!

Ahnahn

My own no bad reach like dis oh...

Mitchyy, come and see oh...

Amen! I bliv I receive dat healing ooo. I dey soo pity d guy ehn.

enkaydewdrop:
Me? If I too vex, I go barb the hair...
Who get power

Kikikikikiki (in ur on voice). 4get dat rough play jaree. I no d play wt my hair reach dat level ooo.

enkaydewdrop:
Chineke!!!
Sorry oh...

I hate making my hair oh... Can't stand pain at all at all...

Oga is already telling me to go and change my hair... For where??
Na so we go dey look ourself oh... I no dey go anywhere!!!

Ndo! The pain should subside in a few days...

Dnt tell me u r nt making delivery hair ooo. I'm sure cutie999 kinki braid is her delivery hair. U get strength to seat ooo. I'm planning to make dread by Tuesday as my delivery hair.

Beta start making plans 4 one now b4 LO arrives n u might nt hav tym to do so till afta 2 or 3 months post Partum.

Gaily04:
You still better pass people with zerolibido, them no they even do at all at all.

Mitchyy, u own beta true true. Zero libido go make one no demand for once n wen dh demand na vex go d catch u secretly + while in d process u will just b calculating finishing tym. Somdays I will b browsing while dh is ontop d show. I d pity d guy no b small ooo.

GenyEbere:
ginababy we dey the same boat o but mine was as a result of sexual molestation severally between 6-8yrs,I didn't even know I will get married someday it made me hate men and sex,its past now just got healed some yrs ago

enkaydewdrop so now na #teamnopant and #teamnolibido


Finally the rain is here kikikikiki I want to go and play under the rain

My dh have browsed abt female mutilation ova n ova n I try to ask mum if anytin of such was done bt she objected to it. Na prayer go pull me out oooo. Kinda tired of dis. Bt dh say I sabi give well well oo (spoilt child).

U hav me 2 tank 4 dat rain ooo. Remember my promise earlier. Pls dnt play in d rain ooo.

GenyEbere:
I yaf not come o enkaydewdrop

I still dey find the rain my end o meanwhile libido have gone south kikikikiki

Na 4 sambisa forest u dey?
I will send rain 2 u b4 2maro just chill.

As 4 libido even b4 marriage it wasn't part of my system ooo bt I d do am any tym dh need am.

Mamas wt libido I admire u guys a lot. I pray my system changes afta birth. Abeg make una put me 4 una prayers concerning dis on a serious note because dh no d joke wt kpekus ooo. He loves n enjoy doing it so let me enjoy it too to complete d package.

I'M SERIOUS OOO...

cutienik:
ginababy
..na fried rice dey mine infct i don get all d ingredient sef na only chicken remain
FINA4804...so d service isnt available for lagos mamas...uhn?..hw vigilante.

Dat one ma hungry me bt dh say na jollof him want.

Gaily04:
My dear, its better for the month to run faster so u can meet ur LO. Porting is very much allowed, u knw whether na d package make them quite like this? Vigilante has even made me a semi-peeper cos can't stay without updates.

Back to the koko, u say u wan score us bah, june is just some days ahead, make I c if una hand sound reach us, I knw most mamas hv eyes for next week, package d tomatoes well cos I will need them for naming.

Haaa.... I no mean 2 compete ooo. Hw many we dey to compete wt crowed lyk una. I b one of una strong supporter.

D month of May is running so speedily, unlike April dat was crawling.

Team May mamas hav bn quite 4 some days ooo. Evidence of porting 2 June. Dis mamas r real debtors (owing bs). I'm beginning 2 score dem low already.

Nxt wk Monday is my b'day ooo u pple beta giv me a birthday mate n I will push trucks n trucks of fresh tomatoes to ur address.

Swt rainy Sunday. D weather is so perfect. Baby shud do n come so we can enjoy dis freshness b4 heat will com n kill our complexion.

Hot jollof rice on my mind right now.

enkaydewdrop:
LOL... No be me oh...
No be ginababy wan carry baby bath go hospital?

cutienik, wt ur bad mouth. Na my matrimonial bed I go carry go hahahahahaha. If u knw ask u no go sabi.

Rhukie:
@ginababy, I pray your hubby remains the way he is but please never advice someone to stay married to a violent man bacause on stigmatization. no one cares about you even the society that will stigmatize you dont care. My sister almost went blind last year due to DV and that was when her brain went to factory setting now she is doing fine and horseband is now begging her to come back but that was after he received 2 thunderous slap from my father because he insulted my mom. Divorce is something I dont wish for my enemy but i will choose it over and over again to staying with a violent man.

@Nwapastor, please seek professional help from a certified counselor and not religious authority. it is well with your household.

@omowunmigan Allah is Arrazaq he will provide for you what you need, want and wish for in multi fold.

congratulations to all May mamas wey don born. may they be a source of joy and pride.

My dear, we dey God hands. My we end dis convo n kip our friendship. Kisses/hugs.

mitchyy:
I never said she shouldn't try God dear. That is not the point i countered. No marriage can survive without God. What i'm on about is, in this era of news of women being beaten to death by their husbands, i can never support putting my life or the life of my baby at risk all in the name of marriage. Neither will i encourage my fellow woman to stay in a violent marriage because one yeye stigma. Its entirely left for them to decide.
Life is precious and nothing(no matter how sharp the woman's mouth is) gives a man the right to raise his hands on his wife he was given by God to protect and care for. And women shouldn't be made to feel they are always at fault for a man's violence.
When my mum finally left my dad, she didn't relent in prayers or her service to God. My dad even married another woman and yes people talked and yabbed my mum. But after a year, he regained his senses and today they are back together and the beating has stopped totally. Every mallam and e kettle sha because i understand we all grew up and learnt differently

It's okay my dear. Ideology differs. Make dis convo on my side end ooo. Kisses darling.

mitchyy:
No offence @ginababy, but the stigma of divorce or seperation and someone's life, which should take priority?
I'm not an advocate for divorce at the slightest issue, and i think it should be a last resort but trying to avoid the stigma of divorce is what led to the loss of my two elder brothers. Today they are no more and my mum regrets listening to those who made her scared of leaving when she should have. Everyone and their own ideology sha but ive learnt a lot to know life should always come first.

My dear, I can't take offence at all. I'm only telling her to try n see if it will work. Trying God is no harm. At all.

I'm frm a broken home too. Mum left dad because of domestic violence. Yet death still took her lyf n it makes no much difference 2day.

Dis whole tin is a two way tin n u choose 4 urself where 2 belong. I'm nt going bak 2 my fades house. Can't stand d loneliness of nt being wt hubby.

D last tin my mum told me b4 her demise was to stay married n marry d marriage she cudnt marry bak den (tears). I hav sign my death warrant in dis marriage base on mums advice n God's will 4 marriage (4beta 4worst till DEATH Do us path)

Dis is just me n odas view abt marriage n divorce I still respect dem. Bt I can only say wat I believe in.

nwapastor:
A very big thank you to all the mamas wey torchlight my matter. Luckily for me we stay in different states @ the moment because of my job. But he stays in the same state as my parents so the last time I travelled I stayed @ my parents place since then he's been threatening to divorce me so that I can go and stay with my parents very well. It is well. This too shall pass.

D bolded will come to pass if u can apply d following:
1. Watch ur words. Words u speak to ur dh.

2. Respect him even wen it seems he doesn't deserve it.

3. Speak lyf 2 ur marriage always.

4. Take away d mentality of living dh as a solution because I bet u it's not. Someday one1 will tell u hw much stigma u carry.

5. Focus on urself n work on ur self. My hubby is in my palms 2day because I choose 2 walk on myself rada dan forcing him 2 change first.

6. Always tink abt giving ur baby a complete family to grow in dat child will b wat God has destined him/her 2 b.

7. Let ur gaze b on homes dat hav stayed 2geta n u will see strength coming 2 urs.

8. Choose ur friends correctly n put away some.

9. Pray 4 ur marriage often + listen to Godly msgs + go 2 church regularly n encourage him 2 do same. Wen he is around play gospel music n msgs only.

10. Learn to giv him space wen he needs one n allow him to express himself while talking.

11. Do d opposite of what he expects wen he wrongs u.

I'm nt an advocate of divorce, nt cut out 4 dat stigma at all. Dh hav slapped me once bt it was my fault (my words) up until nw we learn to b quite wen d oda partner is pressed.

I'm saying all dis 2 u nw dat u hav nt moved out to still b patient n try oda measures. God will see u through ur marriage n u will council someone 2maro. Just hold in there a little more.

maureensylvia:
hmmmm mamas help me touch light this matter, sorry for derailing this thread but I need to clear my instinct.this is a 13year old gal.

d gal that stays with my parents all of a sudden started sleeping stark naked, sometimes she wears skirts but won't wear pant and when she wakes up she will tell my kid sisters that she had a sweet sex in d dream that she has a handsome husband...this happens everyday o
Dis gal has a special stick and cloth she use in tying together ONLY God Knows.

hell broke loose when my sister who is 8 years older than her broke her mirror cos she was laughing hysterically in front of d mirror, she fought her and threatened to torture her life very soon. even during family prayer times she locks herself up in d room.

pls mamas I don't whether dis is a childish character or is it what am thinking? what is d best solution to this so that she won't harm anyone

Left 4 me dat gal is a gone case ooo. Wat she is doing is even more mature dan childish. Take her 4 deliverance or bak 2 her parents b4 d worst happens. I'm thinking exactly wat u r thinking.

zaynie:
Ginababy...fear fear .
The tummy pain that will follow birth nko?
You cannot escape it
It will twist you inside out!!!!
AreYouScaredYet? Kikikikikikikikiki

Dont mind me o, all these pain will be like zero when you are looking at your baby, just one smile...one smile from him and you will gladly do it all over again

Aunty Zaynie, lyk say I no sabi u I 4 don d cry since. Bt God dey sha. All I knw is dat does hours will come n go.

GenyEbere:
Kai this ending carry enough package o just woke up to be walking like someone wearing over filled diaper,the pain in my vjay is hooot abeg teamjune mamas how una side na the same thing?

Dis vjay pains abi hotness neva reach my side ooo. Heaviness, hips pain, bloatness at night, constipation n bitter mouth is d order of d day. D joy I feel wen my lo kicks supersedes all pains/discomfort at d moment.

omowunmigan:
Zaynie, I got doc Alemo50's contact from his page, called him and he said I should proceed to ikeja even if he's there or not.. I'll leave right now! If traffic builds, I'll just tell dh to park and take BRT nii.
Thanks alot.. Sis.. I'll be back to give you feedback.

God has gone ahead of u my sister. He will make room 4 u among d pregnants dis yr. Do nt relent dearie. Pls do com bak wt gud news. Mwuah.

joychioma19:
my dear, sleep no de gere come my eyes again. body pains everywhere. seriously waiting for June.

Pele my dear. Standing up frm bed 2 ease myself in a custard robber I kip beside d bed is difficult now. I go soon start to d wear pampers slip.

We r almost der.

enkaydewdrop:
ginababy, here's an image of the sitz bath...

Seeing dis 4 d first tym. It luks lyk kids potty. I will luk out 4 it in a plastic shop.

Tnx luv. Mwuah.

GenyEbere:
ginababy no go kee me o kikikikikiki

Noooooo Haba y.

feddy27:
Lol, u don give me business idea o.

I will start packaging 'Post Partum Essentials' for sale

I will b ur number one customer. Pls wen r u starting? Der r a lot of tinz I still long 2 get but my location d dull me + shopping online seems more of cheating 2 me. Abeg start dis mnth na.

feddy27:
The witch hazel pads re something like the attached pics. U put it on ur regular sanitary pad and wear. If you don't find it, ask for the spray. You spray it on ur pad and wear. It will reduce postpartum vjay irritation.

For the spray bottle, u can improvise. Get any plastic bottle, open a hole at d top and each time u finish urinating, spray the area

You can ask pharmacy or cosmetic shops for the witch hazel.

All dis abroad mamas, I kuku no dey city nt 2 talk of abroad. I doubt if I can get either of dis here. Bt I will try sha. Tnx a bunch mwuah.

joychioma19, r u on vigilante 2?

I can't sleep here because of d heat. No light + no fuel in d gen. I will stop paying NEPA bill. #vexingmood#

AwesomeGodIAv:
The spray thing was given to me too when I had my 1st baby, coupled with a lots of ice pack pads with plenty PATA .

The spray is to ease d pain below. And the ice pack works greatly.

Was it given 2 u abroad too?

@feddy27, wat I get frm his comment was him referring 2 d pic I posted n warning me nt 2 use it n nt d one u advised me 2 get. So der was natin connected to d 2 of u on dis convo. Abeg 4give n make peace. Shit happens in conversations due 2 understanding failure. Pls no more warning.

@all d mamas liking deir comments, u r nt helping matas at all ooo pls let's stop.

Na my head dis whole issue start so make e end 4 my head nw. Sry 2 both of u. kisses.

enkaydewdrop:
I'm going to the hospital with my pad and sitz bath...

Wat kind of pad? D normal AF pad or comfit pad?

Hw shud a seat bath luk lyk?

Wat abt baby's bath set?

feddy27:
I was also told to use ice pack which was very soothing too.

Also, get a spray bottle and use each time you urinate

I also used witch hazel pads which also eased the post partum vjay pain

All these were used for my me by my post partum nurse wen I mentioned dat the pain was much and I was also given to take home.

Don't worry sweetie, you will be fine

Now my head is spinning. Completely lost now. First spray bottle? N witch hazel pad is it a normal pad lyk d usual ALWAY or Lady Care etc pad dat we use during AF or its more lyk d COMFIT pad. I'm asking because I dnt want 2 go mess up myself n someone's house since I will b traveling 2 give birth der b4 coming bak 2 my house. Only God knows hw long I will need 2 stay der n manage space b4 coming bak home. D death of a mother is d side effect of all dis confusion n stress. May God help me, my hubby n LO.

Abeg sabi mamas help in feeding me wt all d info dat might b handy 4 me.
Cc zaynie
Cc ahnie (I no say u don troway us bt because of. me sha show face small)
Cc kaffy4bill
Cc all d sabi mamas
Cc God (lol)

mitchyy:
Lmao. Next time she wont tempt us with snail pics

Aaauuuhh! Nw I knw where ur vexation is coming frm. No wonder u want to kidnap her frm our team. NO WAY!

feddy27:
Noo, it's not hot. It has a cooling effect

If dats d case I will patiently luk 4 ur brand dat is tested n trusted. Tnx dearie. Mwuah.

feddy27:
I don't knw dat brand o, ask dem if you can spray it in ur vjay cos Dats wia I spray the other one

Woow! Inside Vjay? . Dat shud b hot na...