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Blessing odama and Dantala adamu are friends,it all happened when she came and told me that Dantala adamu Dante wants to take advantage of her and will always buy alcoholic drink just to sleep with her but because of what happened to her sister, she was very careful of men so she and Dante saw each other on a date and he did also tried to get her drunk again so she now decided to take his nudes since he thought she was drunk so as to take advantage of her then she stood up and left the place,later some days later she came to me that she wants to use this to get to him back that I should just talk to him which we did, he gave 150k and he informed the police men and they came to our school and said they needed our attention concerning a case that about one Dantala adamu Dante who accused the girl alleging that it 1million she is blackmailing him for and kidnapping which was all lies.

We got there and was interviewed,we even got to the court but unfortunately Dante did not show up in the court so the judge then granted us bail....the information that she have slept with 30 men and having their nudes are lies and no one treathened to kidnap his wife and child...His 150k was paid back to him. and all this happened last month 10th oct.2018...if it true what was said then they should provide the phone where the nudes pictures of the 30 men are and they should tell us the station we are being kept since they said we were arrested 24th Nov.2018...

24-year-old Zizo Apleni decided to speak about her rape ordeal at the start of the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence in South Africa.

Zizo is a gender activist and has written the book, My Father Took My Innocence after she was raped by her father between 2001 and 2013. She was seven when the first incident occurred.

Zizo said she used to visit her father often.

“As I was young, I didn’t know what he was doing was wrong. I only found out what he was doing after our hostel manager taught us not to have sex with our boyfriends.

“When I got home, I told my father what our hostel manager told us. He started threatening me and said I should never report it, because no one would believe me.”

Her mum didn’t know about it until 2013, when Zizo fell pregnant.

“I told her my father had been raping me for years. We reported it to the police and he was bust the same day. I was helped to abort the baby. In 2016, he was sentenced to 12 years in prison. My mum was very supportive.”
Eluncedweni community-based support centre project manager Nombasa Matwele said: “Rape cases must be reported. Our message is residents must guard each other.”

“The convict met the complainant at Farm City Lekki Phase 1, while he was having his lunch. We exchanged pleasantries and we agreed to have sex afterwards.

Umokoro told me to pay her N50,000 for having sexual intercourse with her but l begged her to collect N40,000 to which she agreed.

” We later took a cab to Awolowo Road at Ikoyi to use my friend’s house but unfortunately he wasn’t around.

“I told Umukoro to go back but she refused and said l must pay her for bringing her out so we had sex somewhere around.

“We laid a wrapper on the floor and had sex after which she demanded the N40,000 but l told her l had only N9,000 but she refused to collect it from me.

“She refused to collect the N9,000 and tried to hold my shirt but l ran away.

“The defendant took me to an agreed place but on getting there, the gateman refused to open the gate saying that the madam of the house was around.

“I told the defendant to call the cabman that brought us to come back and pick us but he refused. Suddenly, the defendant attacked me from behind, tried to strangle me by pressing my neck till l fainted.

“He then raped me and stole my blackberry passport phone and Nokia phone all valued at N131,000.

“On April 6, 2017, l got hold of the defendant at Farm City Lekki Phase 1 and reported him to the police at Maroko Police Station,” Umokoro said.

”I find the defendant guilty of the offence of indecent assault, he is sentenced to five years imprisonment which will commence from the date of sentencing.

” l hope by the time you come out, you would have learnt your lessons to stay away from such act and live happily with your family,” she said.

“I, however, chastise the complainant and urge her to be of good behaviour.

“The state is using this opportunity to warn other intending offenders, those in the commercial sex trade and other perpetrators of sex offenders to desist and have a rethink.

“Control yourselves from such offence because Lagos State frowns seriously at such act,” he said.