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eccl. 3: there is a time and season for everything..


a time to be born , and a time to die...

though its not easy o! but the fact remains that live goes on....


take heart bro..i'm typing from experience

Resurgent2016:
Since you asked: these don't look right:

1. the mother initially seeking to take the child to another country with out obtaining the father's approval. According to the op, the father only "got wind of it". The situation is made worse by the fact that many Nigerians tend to over stay their study visas. That may as well have ended the relationship the father has with the children, and this happens a lot.

2. Notwithstanding the mother's best of intention for the children's welfare, it is wrong to transfer the custody of the child to a third party without getting the father's consent.

3. Implying that a third party should take custody because the father is poor (has no means of livelihood) is plain silly. If any 3rd party has any concern, they can offer their assistance without demanding custody of the child.

4. The op him/herself admitted that the father is poor and the mother's family has the wherewithal to carter for the child, then why so much insistence that the father must meet all financial obligations?

It looks to me as a rich family trying to muscle a poor man from playing an active role in his children's lives and hoping the police would do their bidding.

If you still see nothing wrong with 1 to 4, then I leave you with your opinion

did you read in the comment that they are trying to muscle the husband? instead of of muscling the husband, the police officers are even doing the husband bidding...
as i speak now, they do not want the mother or her parent or her lawyer or any of the wife's family member to have access to the child...

save your dummy comment, the matter will be settle in family court as rightly said by one of the post...


it shall end in praise

he should replace this goatee that is the present chairman of Jamb.

i doubt if the man know what he's doing....


Jega , i will love you to replace malam oloyede the goatee

Ladyhippolyta88:
Nobody is paying for me advocate for other women but that advocacy is not with my family.I don't need to know my worth or value with money I am not under any man including my husband,I am his partner not his subordinate so I am not under him answering his name is if I like it is my choice to make.

feminist spotted...
different folks for strokes...

more money for the police men

mrphysics:
In my place, bride price is N1000. After you have paid, the brides father will return N995 to the groom which signifies that he is not selling his daughter to you, hence the need to take appropriate care of her needs.

Aside the logistics in getting married, traditional marriage is very cheap in my place. There is no much requirements as the lists given is affordable.

I guess u are from the north

calgaryFriend:
@OP A supposed mother abandoned her children in Nigeria to go and do Olosho work in South Africa and you still want to prevent the children father from having access to the children .

Are you okay at all ? It is obvious that the mother of the children does not put those kids as a priority otherwise she will not leave them with a thir party and travel out of the country.

For the father of the child to be able to abscond with the children while still in the custody of the mother shows that those kids are not properly supervised.

If those kids were important to the mother, she will not abandon them and travel to another country.

And for your information, the father of the children has 50% right on his kids, while non of the wives family including you has any right to the kids.

I can't join issue with you because your comments lack common sense and you just depicted your ignorance to the public.

you wrote an epistle to the story you don't have full picture of. What a waste!

You read about my comments that the Matter will be charged to court , you still carry your fragmented brain and your stunted fingers to still be typing trash and gibberish.



May the Lord deliver you from your foolishness.
Keep ranting like a rabid dog

orion7:
after series of violent shia protest they finally released elzakzacky now they want to make mouth. useless fools.


is dasuki not a political prisoner? is he richer than oga bullion van ?


useless people

Senseless comments

Odetokun3:
I will still advice you to be calm with the issue and follow due procedure in due time to avoid more damages please. God will take control.

Yes. God will take control.

funmisticqueen:
i will rather orgasm with your ATM card.

Okay, with my ATM card, I can hand you over to my dog...
Just a question...

This is another madness from police officers in charge of welfare at alakara police station Mushin, Lagos.

It was about a friend that is seriously having issue in marriage.

Fast forwarding, .....the matter was refer to police station at ilupeju and both were invited for interrogation... After the Interrogation, the husband was mandated to be performing his fatherly responsibility on his children which he didn't do and that the children shld be kept in wife custody till the matter be resolved.

The children are kept with the wife and wife family house and the family of the wife shoulder all the responsibility... While the marriage disharmony matter was going on , the wife got an opportunity to travel to South Africa for study...and she was advice by the school she applied for to come alone and keep the children with her mother, which she did.

The husband got the wind her movement to South Africa, and he started disturbing the family of the wife that they shld handover one of his children to him. He came with police officers from alakara police station to deliver an invitation letter to the wife's mother and the wife mother was invited for questioning....they allow the wife mother to go because she didn't come with the children.

Last week , the husband came alone to the wife's mothers shop in pretence of just playing with the daughter. Unknowing to the mothers wife, he has positioned a bike close to the shop... Immediately, he took the child and they left on a bike.

Despite his non-compliance to the terms of the welfare Officers at ilupeju police station , the husband charge the same case to Alakara police station... For me, this was a total mess and embarassment to the civility in the country.
The following are the allegations from alakara police station....(welfare department) headed by DMC Ibitoye..(Mrs)
That she left the children with the third party (i.e grandmother) and travel out
That she didn't take care of the children very well (which is untrue)
That she left the child playing around in the neighborhood.
Folks, I can tell you for free, the child attends one of the good school in Gbagada and she's been taking care of by a nanny without her father contributing to it. She lives with the granny in Gbagada in a good and comfortable environment. While the husband is scoting, have no meaningful source of income and his own mother stays in Badagry.

The wife came back yesterday to claim her daughter ...the police station refuse to release the daughter to the mothers despite her precarious conditions in police custody for over 1 week and some days...
The welfare Officer in alakara police station said they can only release the child to her on one condition that she signed an agreement which all what they wrote in the agreement was in favour of the husband that brought the case to this police.
It is crystal clear to the wife that the police officers is biased in their judgement and didn't consider any request from the wife stands...

I therefore use this opportunity to call on commissioner of police in Lagos State to Wade into this matter so that proper justice be done to dis issue.
The lady is tired all force of injustice and biasness and we condemned it in totality ....

MrsInvisible:
Unbelievable.... how can you not check the time... face your problem on your own

He doesn't need your stupid comment
He said advise , not condemn.

eleko1:
Alakara/ilupeju are both useless, irresponsible, THIEVES .They shhud take the mata to court/b4 Force HQ obalende and Ikeja.

.... While social media battle is going on , then I will think of what next to do....

It can happen to anyone. Police officers always be fair in their Judgement... They don't have the absolute power

Odetokun3:
If your points are true and no hidden facts. Please get a lawyer.

To some extent, I never see police faults in this report. They are even trying to settle a case without court opinion.

The wife has gotten a lawyer and the matter will be refer to court but the way the matter is being handled by the welfare officer in alakara police station calls for concern. It can happen to anyone.

The welfare Officer ask the wife to sign an agreement. all the points in the agreement is in favour of the husband.. there wasn't any aspect in the agreement about fulfilling fatherly responsibility on the child....or fatherly responsibility on the wife welfare.
This is injustice and biase...

This is another madness from police officers in charge of welfare at alakara police station Mushin, Lagos.

It was about a friend that is seriously having issue in marriage.

Fast forwarding, .....the matter was refer to police station at ilupeju and both were invited for interrogation... After the Interrogation, the husband was mandated to be performing his fatherly responsibility on his children which he didn't do and that the children shld be kept in wife custody till the matter be resolved.

The children are kept with the wife and wife family house and the family of the wife shoulder all the responsibility... While the marriage disharmony matter was going on , the wife got an opportunity to travel to South Africa for study...and she was advice by the school she applied for to come alone and keep the children with her mother, which she did.

The husband got the wind her movement to South Africa, and he started disturbing the family of the wife that they shld handover one of his children to him. He came with police officers from alakara police station to deliver an invitation letter to the wife's mother and the wife mother was invited for questioning....they allow the wife mother to go because she didn't come with the children.

Last week , the husband came alone to the wife's mothers shop in pretence of just playing with the daughter. Unknowing to the mothers wife, he has positioned a bike close to the shop... Immediately, he took the child and they left on a bike.

Despite his non-compliance to the terms of the welfare Officers at ilupeju police station , the husband charge the same case to Alakara police station... For me, this was a total mess and embarassment to the civility in the country.
The following are the allegations from alakara police station....(welfare department) headed by DMC Ibitoye..(Mrs)
That she left the children with the third party (i.e grandmother) and travel out
That she didn't take care of the children very well (which is untrue)
That she left the child playing around in the neighborhood.
Folks, I can tell you for free, the child attends one of the good school in Gbagada and she's been taking care of by a nanny without her father contributing to it. She lives with the granny in Gbagada in a good and comfortable environment. While the husband is squatting, have no meaningful source of income and his own mother stays in Badagry.

The wife came back yesterday to claim her daughter ...the police station refuse to release the daughter to the mothers despite her precarious conditions in police custody for over 1 week and some days...
The welfare Officer in alakara police station said they can only release the child to her on one condition that she signed an agreement which all what they wrote in the agreement was in favour of the husband that brought the case to this police.
It is crystal clear to the wife that the police officers is biased in their judgement and didn't consider any request from the wife stands...

I therefore use this opportunity to call on commissioner of police in Lagos State to Wade into this matter so that proper justice be done to dis issue.
The lady is tired all force of injustice and biasness and we condemned it in totality .....

GoddyOra:
Still doesn't add up.
#5K to register just business name in CAC
Buhari is really ready to frustrate local businesses and SMEs.


Buhari your plan will not work o

Business name are just for local investors not for foreign investors... Get your fact right.

For foreign investors, it's limited liability company (LTD)

CanadaOrBust:
There is no “abroad”. Every country is different and even cities within countries are different. Also depends on how u enter the country - someone who entered Italy as a student is very different from someone who entered through Libya. So your question is too broad. Maybe narrow it to those who enter legally.

If you read between the line , Op want to make jest of Nigerians living abroad. And either he like it or not some are doing very well here in abroad while some are wasting away.....

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HoneyBee23:
Call for ur uk used phones

Madam pls dash me one fone

I want to use this opportunity to ask this question from MOD ....

Why is it that every dick, Tom and harry can comment on Christian thread on Sunday but not so on Friday...

Either you people like it or not , it is written, "I will build my church and the gate of Hell shall not prevail against it ."

Aldof Hitler did more than what some anti-christ use to do on this platform, he was later destroy without remedy. How much more you that what you have is just your Android phone and dummy brain...

God will judge all of you.

Some foolish ones go still blame Buhari for the cancellation.


See the below post

I'm trying to find the sense in this post. I hope no be monkey dey play with fone come send this post?

Nairalanders, what do you think?

Bridget95:
Your pictures are not complete .....


Where is the office of the agbero general Mc oluomo?

When will you stop posting foolish comments?

dominique:
I knew Kigali will be one of the top 3.

Have you been there?

One nairalander is also part of the ordinanee

Shout hallelujah!

Church of God is matching on and the gate of Hell shall not prevail

This woman nah real and conc. MFM member.

Obaofusa:
God bless yele sowore

I hated this guy before because of his Sahara reporters blackmailing GEJ.

Now seeing this guy his a hero.

All the activists, God bless nmadi kanu also

I'm not an ibo or Yoruba but for young men like this to fight for what they believe even in the face of death we should applaud them


Is not easy many youths nowadays are so scared to even walk in the night, many are on nairaland they're hiding behind keyboard suffering and smiling.


If y'all ever insult this great young men again be sowore , FFK, or nmadi kanu may God punish you

This is one of those who fought vehemently against the tyranny govt during military era . others are not here to tell their stories.. .many have gone ....I lost so many friends in struggle against bad governance...
However, when you take your position against the government, be assured that you will suffer some consequences , like imprisonment, rustication from school, destroying your business, deaths, intimidation, betrayal, etc.
Sir, I have gone through all of these, I have rested the boot of my activist and properly placed it on Jesus cupboard to like a Christian life.

No more activist...but only activist for Christ

Dakolo family are these fool..
Anything that happens in your family concerning is posted on social media.

Many case are like these in various courts.....you have a lawyer for God sake , let your lawyer defend you....and leave the airway for genuine people....


If God no want punish you again , enough of these dakolo foolishness on this platform

Nyamiri and afonja is at it again on nairaland....

All other minority tribe will just be making jest the two tribal.

Nairaland will never stop being the battlefield for both nyamiri and afonja...

Happy battling for superiority , anyway

TSRC:
There is still time.
There is nothing awolowo achieved that can't be surpassed.

You can surpassed anything but you have to give credence to those who pave the way ....

That's why we have the likes of Nnamdi Azikiwe, Tafawa Balewa, Alvan ikoku, they will ever remain in the history book of this country.

Waste of time, energy and money....

Even the Osun Election that was won by PDP was later upturned in the court in favour of APC how much more the AD owolabi Sali that can't even win the chairman of his local government.


Abeg, go sitdon make I see front or else I stone you now.