₦airaland Forum

geometricaxis:
nonsense!!! Women will not be happy until theyve emasculated men

Selfish interest will continue to do a lot of damage to marriage.

Some people rush to marriage with high expectations but when they see some different from what expected , they will be thinking of how to separate and look for another mugu.

There are gold-diggers out there, pls be Wise

ceeroh:
I resigned from my job 2months ago (July). I worked with this firm for one full year. It was a rollercoaster ride. I used to be very proactive and full of energy, going all out to achieve things no matter what was at stake. When I took up this job last year, I was hoping to build a career and carve a niche for myself... But I was wrong. Before I resumed, a lot of people had resigned. Even on the day I resumed, I met just one staff on ground (he was trying to buy time before he eventually quits). So we were just two (2) in the office. It felt awkward because the environment wasn't challenging and competitive enough for me, but I had to do what was expected of me. Till the day I resigned, I was not found wanting in any aspect.. But I guess that was where everything went wrong. I was taken advantage of, used and manipulated.
My boss was a chronic micromanager and very insecure.

Despite all these, I tried to allay his fears and made sure I did my best to assure him nothing would ever go wrong. He abuses us verbally with words I'm so ashamed to type here. When the other guy eventually resigned, I was left all alone with him. I took up his responsibilities coupled with mine. I was overworking myself every single day of the week. I became a shadow of myself and always felt sick whenever I get up from bed every morning. I was doing this for 4months till we were able to get a replacement for the guy. And believe you me, we were recruiting every month afterwards till I left because they were always resigning or should I say disappearing after the end of every month. So we practically had a new staff who would work for a month and disappear. And the reason was not far fetched, My Boss. He believes all job seekers are hungry and would take anything just for the cash (stipends). You can imagine a graduate bring sent on so many ridiculous domestic errands.

Though I'm not oblivious of the fact that it's not easy to set up a business here in Nigeria or even to pay salaries. I know what it takes, but that doesn't mean you should now use people like slaves. As a service provider, you should know how to handle your clients, but this man would talk to them anyhow, insult them and then expect me to fix the mess or else I won't get paid. And because I was ready to do anything just for the progress of the company, he believed I had no choice. But I'm the kind of person that hates being idle. Hence, the reason for not seeing it as a big deal. Then came a time, I was at my wits end, couldn't go on anymore. I lost all motivation and up till now.

One of the most painful thing I heard after I left was when someone from the office called to tell me what happened that day. Sometimes, I usually use my money to quickly do some little office stuffs if the man is not around. So there were lapses after I left, he now asked what was really going on. So the guy on ground told him what I usually did.. And his response He said if I knew I had money, why did I come to work then? Imagine. I felt so disappointed!

This is the same man that would refund you if you tell him you spent your money for the company, then go ahead to deduct it from your salary at the end of the month after looking for excuses or an offence you didn't commit.

Now, most people here in Lagos go through same or worse ordeal every single day. Leave home early, get abused at work, get home late. Looking rough and tired all for a pay that won't last up to 2weeks. I pity the married folks more, they can't resign/quit because they've got bills to pay, responsibilities (wife and kids), some even have girlfriends , they're stuck. I also have responsibilities and bills though, but thank God I'm still single.

This is the time to go all out and take chances, take risks and it will definitely pay off in the end. I've been able to focus more since I resigned, sleep well, eat well, learning some digital skills to boost my CV and running a little business of mine. Though it's not been easy, but I know I'm on the right path.

I can't read all your epistle but one thing I will never do is to work in a company and under a boss who Neva appreciate my presence in his office or company

Let ogun state government do the needful...

They shldn't say they don't have provisions for this kind of situation.

Watching from 4D

Another media trial loading.....

All will be efforts in ......

asokoromadam:
Your brain and fish brain like 5 and 6

Why would I join issues with you. Because you don't sound like someone who has stuffs upstairs.

Just look at what you have typed , does it correlate with comments.
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Generation of viper!

ansellotty:
"Then Saul and all his men assembled and went to the battle. They found the Philistines in total confusion, striking each other with their swords".

1Samuel 14:20.


If you know, you know.

Oh Lord, put confusion in the camp of all wicked polithievian that is thieving our money for personal use

ChiefAzubuike:
Only these division of people will dance o'er a paltry ten thousand naira.

Money wey no reach do anything tangible for Biafra.

Dem go soon come share the money for your people also. (
You know say nah like money pass anything,

Juliusmalema:
God bless u.....


Ebonyians from time immemorial has been sabotaging the unity of igboland.


Is better igbos know whom their enemies are.

Is ebonyi not part of SE region?
Either dey join your sit-at-home protest or not , they are still part of you.
Igbo community in the time memorial don't have one conglomeration.

All PDP candidate have their Strongholds.

But I don't think anyone of Dem can give buhari tough time.

Op, Where is your own place in all this Mata?

Op which category did you fall into?

Festus,
Politics has reduced you to noisemaker .
You have lost your relevance.
I pity you if buhari no enter for second tenure

mikemilez:
Nothing like islam agenda cuz the level at which churches are emanating is over alarming

and the level at which Islamic terrorists are gaining territories in NE region of the country for the course of islamalization is alarming.
I sure you know what I'm talking about.

OkaNaUbe:


If there is anyone to resign, it is the holder of NEPA Bill certificate who employed her. Plausible deniability does not hold here because "Oga at the top" knew she has oluwole certificate.

Oga was voted for. But kemmy was appointed on the basis of her qualifications.

See another pawn in the hand of the owner of Lagos boost. Who know you before?

Just a change of thought, then you are a Gunner.

Dafidi, pls quickly do wetin you wan do make we c anoda topic

Some nairaland lady go get hypertension o.
Ladies, wey guys Neva call before talkless of proposing...
Some ladies eyes dey red...
They were like, 'how I wish it's me' .

Dafidi omo adeleke, I knee down beg you, marry chioma and close the chapter.

EzeIgboNwaChukwu:
it can only be a Yoruba woman that can. manage the little money and satisfy her husband with a Good soup. unlike these wayward girls we have here in the East.

precisionfx shey na true wey I tok?

I know you are the one. You don carry your mumu come here.

enemmo:
So marriage is all about cooking stew.
Liar

For me , cooking is the cheapest quality I look out for in a lady.

magoo10:
big blow to zombies
if this can be happening in apc territory they will loose half of lagos votes to the pdp in the coming polls at the federal level.

House divide against each other cannot stand.

mikemilez:
Northern agenda

More like Islamic agenda . Are my right

Hedonisst:
He is not better than the rest of them. Forget the fake pastor and fake born again pretensions.

I swear he will have my respect forever if he resigns his position as vice president and dissociate himself from this madness.

But unfortunately, he won't resign, because like the rest, the so-called pastor Osibanjo loves the power, the siren blaring convoys, the perks and grandeur of office, and all else that comes with it. Using God's name to justify his greed and materialism makes him a blatant fraud.

If his resignation will make you happy, go to Aso Villa and tell him.

Richdad50:
Lagos is single handedly the most sophisicated foolish State ever. Filled with Docile people who have submitted thier destiny to one family

That's your believe.
Tinubu usually leverage on the political structure he has built over the year. The fact that none of the Lagos residence or indigenes have not been able to dismantle the structure doesn't mean the entire people living in Lagos State are docile. -this is misconception.

1kingwriter:
Boeing takes about 396 passengers
Each paying €493

If you add it up, a full flight nets about - N93. 7 million

Bros, the N12 million cost of fuel na change oooo

12 million no be change o! More than 10% ROI for fuel?

cosmatika:
Just 12m? Yet Buhari budgets billions of naira to go and charge his lifeless battery in London? Kparawo

bubu dey kampe.

He has more energy than you have

Government of the northern caliphate.

Your time is limited in the office.

OfficialAPCNig:
We have had 3 republics before this 4th republic. Go and check the records of the 2 regions and come back.

This republic is just 19 years and only NW, SS and SW had produced Presidency, run your mouth when you produce another President ahead of us.

What we have achieved politically since 1950s to date, una no go fit smell.

Kaabo! I don't have your time joo!
Lemme enter anoda thread , sharp, sharp.

Fuqman:
I think they're trying to showcase their beautiful culture.. Cute. If i see cute pre wedding pics like this one, to marry go just dey hungry me but.....

Marriage comes with reponsibility.
If you are ready, go for it.

Blissful conjugal ahead.

I'm also going to purchase interest form from AAN.

I m contesting for the next president. I know nairalander, Christian community and their families will campaign and vote for me.

Pls I need your vote. Support me .

Posters and bill board will be distributed in due course

And nah one man go still carry this empty container


I fear for you woMESS

Ha! Love is truly blind

Bliss conjugal

Ha!
Love is blind....I wish the couple happy married life.