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Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Dear OP,

Have you ever asked why some women draw back when it comes to matter of the bedroom after birth?
They work tirelessly to take care of the new baby, without much or no physical and emotional and psychological support from the husband. He would always been expecting that his food be ready at the right time, expects his clothes to all be washed. Expects the woman to rush to the market, expects her to take care of the Children all round the Clock. Why won't she refuse you?
She is not a robot. The moment you change your narrative on how you think marriage should be,you would see changes. it is not all about providing financial support to the family.
Taking part actively in the activities of the house would go a long way in relieving the wife an in all you do pour your love, you would be surprised how your wife would give you what you both want because part if her has been relieved from too much stress. A man who truly loves his wife would never allow her to be stressed over domestic chores because it is never one sided.

primeredge:
Some men don't want to cheat, but some women, once they gave birth they started neglecting the man and hence give the men reasons to cheat and justify their actions

You feel that by the number of likes you got that you have made a very crucial point.
Have you ever asked why some women draw back when it comes to matter of the bedroom after birth?
They work tirelessly to take care of the new baby, without much or no physical and emotional and psychological support from the husband. He would always been expecting that his food be ready at the right time, expects his clothes to all be washed. Expects the woman to rush to the market, expects her to take care of Children all round the Clock. Why won't she refuse you?
She is not a robot. The moment you change your narrative on how you think marriage should be,you would see changes. it is not all about providing financial support to the family.
Taking part actively in the activities of the house would go a long way in relieving the wife an in all you do pour your love, you would be surprised how your wife would give you what you both want because part if her has been relieved from much stress.

Bbbwings:

When are npower getting paid for the month of March.

Alert don enter

Jesuslvzme:
Damn true,ladies submit ursef to ur husby no matter how..

What the hell? Submit, no matter how? No no no, you are only endangering yourself. How can you submit to a man who is not ready to love and respect you. Look, you have to be smart in your dealings with him or else you find yourself 6 feet in the ground

Dear Original Poster,

Indeed, Nadia has a way of showing her family without you seeing their faces. A nice way to keep critics at bay.

Dear Original Poster,

How authentic is this news? What I find inconsistent are the names. The name mentioned in the body of the write up is different from that on her uniform.

Please explain this. If you can't, then Nairalanders should disregard the news.

Thanks.

So her backside has become the 'JuJu' that attracts men to her. It is well o

Story for the gods...

LeHMaR:
See how hungry he's looking, You don't have money and you brought a child into the world... Why not go and hustle and make money before planning on getting a child.. It's for everyone's own good.. You, the child, the mother, the family and infact the society at large... Don't bring a poor child into suffering nah.
Guess what? Now the money needed will be the 15k plus funds for the burial.

Hello dear Narialander,

You completely read my mind. I won't be surprised if he was told that and he didn't listen. This is what happens when some husbands fail to realise to place their priorities right. All they know is that they are married and therefore have been certified to have unprotected sex regardless of the main issue on ground.

CanineOfJackal:
This is FOOD section and not EDUCATIONAL section so travel down there quick.


Do you know how to cook?

Well noted but you seem to have forgotten that teaching one how to cook in English language has to be correct so that the learner will understand you well.

Thank you.

Dear Original Poster, if this information is true, then there is a need to hear from both parties to dig out more information before blaming anyone.

What I find disturbing is the issue of cooking separately. This could mean that there is more to the issue and it could be that that was the last straw that broke the camel's back.

Not having another child all these years could have brought anxiety,psychological, and emotional trauma which could be as a result of how she must have been treated probably in a negative way.

Women generally, get turned on when coaxed in the right way. You don't expect to shout or talk badly to your wife without sorting the matter and expect making love to be so romantic afterwards.

I bet you, understanding men bring out the best in a woman in all ramifications.

Thank you.

Dear Original Poster, I thank you for the enlightenment but I must not fail to say that your grammer is bad likewise your punctuation.

Come to think of it, I have noticed that most schools don't have good English teachers. The 'original' teachers have retired. Anyone can write a novel without having a sound editor.

Let us all be meticulous when writing on social media so as to covey whatever information one has to dissipate appropriately.

Critics are highly welcomed.

Thank you.

I smell campaign strategies...

Ezehill:
even me oh

It means Original Poster

Wow. I see true love.

rainylad:
Ofcourse....you never how bad or good a man is until he becomes rich...Poverty humbles anyone,especially men.

That is not correct my dear

thesicilian:
I can't. My certificate means more to me than 100 million naira that cannot even buy a plot of land in Banana Island.

Na wa oo. Bros, wetin you dey find for Banana island

DrinkLimca:
In the name Of Jesus, i rebuke this..

Tufiakwa..

That moment when you disturb Jesus by calling his name and He then sees what you are rebuking and gets annoyed with you for being so myopic and then makes you lose one of your eyes. Na then you go understand say nobody dey perfect.

Meen!!!! This doesn't work in NIGERIA! Period!

EvilChild:
Wadafork?
So protecting your daughter is now a sin?
The man did nothing wrong by killing that mofo drilling the little girl's kitty.

Na wa for you ooo. Where are you FROM? I don't seem surprised because you named yourself EVIL CHILD

NosoChic:
Very very very preventable!

Clear case of Anencephaly. .it's advised that women expecting to conceive should take Folic Acid.

Also go for your pre-natal when pregnant. I won't be surprised if the mother didn't seek medical support at the early stage of pregnancy. Plus it is often diagnosed during ultra sound.

I concor with you. No wonder my husband kept on hammering not to fail to take folic acid during my first trimester.

Discharge:
Hope they will sustain it.

Sustain wetin??. Story. When the former governor was there, he increased it to 10,000 naira. Corpers at that time benefitted. When he left, things came back to the way it was. Now, this present governor wants to do the same. All na propaganda. It won't last for long

Congratulations dear coursemate.

The truth don dey come out small small

Na wa ooo. If truly na natural beauty then can someone tell me that her so called long hair is natural?

Chai... Her fresh hand shows that she rarely does domestic chores

praizblog:
Too revealing




See more beautiful revealing photos here http://www.praizeupdates.com/checkout-this-revealing-wedding-dress-a-bride-rock-that-has-got-people-talking/

Bia, take your time ooo. Everytime you keep saying see more pictures, bla bla bla and when one clicks it, boom! One sees nothing.

Baldg:
alright. compliments.

Happy new year

Baldg:
Original poster.
any other question?

Thank you. I really appreciate. No more questions.

Baldg:
Highly informative..

OP, this is for you.

LOL. I have been wondering what OP means. Please what does it mean?

Pierohandsome:
Is power bank used only because of power failure? Power bank is a mobile charging Device, u may not have time to charge ur phone and want to go out , u carry ur power bank and charge along the way. What is wrong in that

Wait o. If that is the case, are you telling us that he has time to charge the power bank?