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id911:
Wike, I understand Patience Jonathan put you in power but greeting a woman with two hands is a no no for me. I can't do that for anything...nonsense!

Pride takes you nowhere. Wise people humble themselves to conquer.

FreemanTJ:
I eventually put up my daughters picture then I noticed she brought down the fake page but she said she was still depressed and it would take the grace of God to help her heal. She told me the baby looked exactly like me which I began to notice too when I went to visit them this weekend. My wife claims she can't continue the marriage which I'm supposed to be happy about but I didnt want it to be around this type of circumstances.
The other lady is so confused and devastated and is probably still in love with me.

I didnt wish to be in this mess. If I stay in this marriage I'll be unhappy for the rest of my life. I'll be there for my child whenever she needs me. For the other lady, we could have been perfect but now that her family is against it, it seems a no go area. I've always been financially supportive to my wife and baby even though it wasn't the type of marriage I planned for.
I dont know how to make it up to the lady as she has insisted she wont forgive me for lying to her while my wife cant stand me either.

Nawa. Grow up, man! You can choose to love your wife if you want. True deep lasting Love is a choice not just a feeling. All these long story is because you are looking at life and marriage with fairy tale rose-colored glasses. If this new lady suddenly got pregnant for you before marriage, you will lose feelings for her too. What is it sef. You stay in your marriage or sail. Stop all these neither here nor there character. It's not manly. How can you say you were forced into marriage? You didn't need to marry her if you didn't want. Were you forced to impregnate her or be intimate with her? She was good enough for sex but not marriage. This is the mistake some folks make often. Then they start crying foul. Now you're married, concentrate and see if you can build your marriage. Stop behaving this way.

Prudify25:
Any Enugu mum here, I need a good hospital to register for ante-natal, the one I registered with in my street ehn, I don't even understand their doings, no ante-natal days, nothing nothing, I'm 12weeks plus and haven't been recommended for a scan yet, pls I need help from experienced mums, the first one I lost I wasn't told what went wrong and I really don't want to take any chance with this one, pls help me cos I'm clueless.

Is UNTH and ESUTH too far from you? Teaching hospital is best for delicate cases but if too far, ask mothers around you for a standard hospital that can monitor and care for you especially cos of your past history. If na Lagos, we will recommend General hospital but it's like those in East hate General hospitals . Maybe you mention your area so Enugu mamas can help more.
Above all, hold on to your God.

In the meantime, you can go for scan by yourself in an independent lab. Take the result to your doc or let the lab technician /radiologist interprete for you there and then or bring it to mamas here. By now, heartbeat should be seen etc. Take care.

Sweetnesstwins:
Praisssssssssssssssse the Lord

He turned my mourning into dancing

This God turned my night into day

My wonderful sisters I can't believe my eyes

Its BFP.
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I totally understand. E dey do you like dream for now. Lol.
Congrats! May you successfully carry to term. More end of year bfps I pray.

kosi2018:
pls, do u advise I stop the clomid?

Please work on your tubes as you take the clomid or you stop it temporarily and concentrate on opening tubes.
The tubes is the passage way (road) where sperm meets eggs. It's like one of the most important parts in reproduction.
If you clear road, belle fit enter more easily with or without stimulation.

Well-done and plenty manifold blessings to the givers and chief organiser of today's MHC - mama zaynie .
Congrats to the winners.

AmishaHussnah:
Ah! I'm sorry for being a truant o , e don master me. Trying to take my mind off preggy ni. I noticed it makes my symptoms less serious in my mind. They are dealing with me seriously. One day I had to google will I be back to my normal self after delivery

Awww. Sorry teamie. It will soon be over. N you will indeed be back to your normal self. Hopefully

iomoge2 , Congrats mama! May you, baby and your entire household continue to know peace and blessings from the latest addition. Amen.

ANewMumIJNAmen:
Mummy GloriousHeart please where are you?

Mummy, let's see on the other side whenever you're ready. I dey here. Just saw this.

miraclebaby:
Dearest sis, it came to pass at God's appointed time. Glory to God in the highest heavens

Welcome special mama! *dancing
Congrats again. Wey that red carpet and golden chair.
God be praised.

Many more ATC mums will land here sooner rather than later. Amen.

miraclebaby Congraaaaaaats! Oooooooh glory! I am so happy for you, mama. You shall joyfully carry to term and deliver safely. *dancing.
I pray many more ATC mothers especially those who have waited for long, get their lasting bfps. What a lovely end of year gift.

Grumpyy:
Lol, brother. Imagine me the victim now. I had to morp back into a human being again after losing all trust I have for people. It was quite eventful for me

I hope you have learnt the power of communication. Open up and say this is what you did, this is how I feel, talk to the other person. Let's not keep grudges. Cos sometimes, the other person doesn't even know what went wrong or how things went wrong.

beyedew:
Team February 2020 Roll Call (November).

MONIKER......... EDD...... SEX


1. Legendsmother
2. Gloriousheart..... Feb 20th...... Surprise
3. Sashafm ............Feb 26th....... Hoping 4pink
4. Beyedew........... Feb, 20th........ Hoping 4pink
5. Amishahussnah
6. Cutemarvel.........Feb 25th..... Unknown
7. Asasteve ........... Feb, 20th..... Unknown
8. Omariopat
9. Awesomemama......Feb 21st.....Unknown
10.Stmema................ Feb 26th........Pink
11. Acer123.................Feb 6th........ Pink
12. AmazingGod ........ Feb 17th.....Unknown

Yeahhh, we have a new member.
13. Ligxy..................... Feb 17th..... Unknown

Team February 2020 mamas.
February for supernatural delivery

If you didn't see your moniker please notify me so, I can update.


#teamnoloss
#mommyandbabyalivewithplentymoneyfordaddy.
#teameasypeasydelivery
#teambeautifulglowingmommies
#teamnodullmoment
#teambrotherskeeper

How are we all? ....
tell my boss. [/s]

Present Captain o. Welcome to my new teamies and I greet the rest of my team. Una doo o. We shall deliver safely.

Congratulations to Gloryne , Ruthiegal and others wey don born their LOs. Indeed, I salute mothers. Na now I fully understand them. The heaviness no be here. And to think we still have a few months to go In all, I return all glory to God.

TiffanyJ Congrats! Thank God it ended well at last with baby and you out alive and safe.

Permit me to add that mothers can also go to outside labs to do private scans and tests themselves if they suspect a problem. Cos if we are waiting for some of these hospitals to send us for scans, we go wait tire. I don't know if they want to help us save our money or what

Well done on everything. Quick recovery to you and baby girl

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;DAbeg no mind dat my moniker.


I pray make April be next two months

You don do baby shopping finish? You think say e easy.

Mommadd:
Good morning mothers, please what can I use for serious cartarrh causing me severe headache, my next appointment is 5th novemeber and I just dont feel like going to the hospital before then

plenty oranges is your answer.

Save before spending. You can join your work cooperative or a reliable contribution group to help you save compulsorily.

mummyjason , biggal and rvpbae , Congratulations on the birth of your babies. May they bring you good all the days of their glorious lives. Quick recovery to you all.

beyedew:
Team February 2020 Roll Call (October).

MONIKER......... EDD...... SEX


1. Legendsmother
2. Gloriousheart
3. Sashafm ............Feb 26th....... Hoping 4pink
4. Beyedew........... Feb, 20th........ Hoping 4pink
5. Amishahussnah
6. Cutemarvel.........Feb 25th..... Unknown
7. Asasteve
8. Omariopat
9. Awesomemama......Feb 21st.....Unknown
10.Stmema................ Feb 26th........Pink
11. Acer123.................Feb 6th........ Pink
12. AmazingGod ........ Feb 17th.....Unknown


Team February 2020 mamas.
February for supernatural ...[/b]
#teambrotherskeeper
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Present Captain. Well done. God will continue to see us through.
Pls update - EDD February 20th. Team surprise.

Captain Beyedew don come o. Welcome and happy weekend dear. Oya update roll call.

DOMINGOPAPI:
Please kind hearted individuals on this forum should come to my aid and rescue...

Have you exhausted the option of family and friends first? Even your local worship centre? I think you may have more prospects of getting some money or better still a job from them. Start calling or talking to the people you can see first. There's more hope with those you can see. At least they know you and may be more able to verify your claims. Some online people are struggling to survive too.

Mama Tatacherie , I can't imagine what you and your family are going through now. So sorry you have to experience this. May God grant you wisdom and strength and quick recovery to the innocent baby girl.

Pls do a thorough investigation.

cutiereborn:
Her teacher threatening her not to talk is setting a precedent I don't like cos my daughter actually stopped herself from telling me until I reminded her that as her best friend she should tell me.

How do I approach this issue with the owner or the school or said teacher?

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I would rather you speak with the teacher about it privately if possible especially if the school authority can dismiss her for it. I say this because she may not have intentionally hit her to give her a cut. And she knows how parents and management can react. Mistakes do happen. She may have apologized to the little girl for it already and regretted her actions.

Though after speaking with her and she still doesn't see any wrong in telling a toddler not to tell her mother things, then one should escalate to school head. Sorry mama.

Acer123:
Teamies, how are you all doing?
Hope you’re all enjoying the honeymoon phase.
My MS just relieved me and I’m enjoying this new burst of energy but the butt pain is crazy!

My own is upper back pain. Thank God for His mercies. Eating well now and strong too. 2nd trimester is really honeymoon sturvs.
Forgot to say, sorry about the butt pain

beyedew:
#eyesher
#rollseyejoin

Hehehehehe.
Team Valentine.
Team Love in Tokyo.
Love eeeeeeehhh
Beydew, lemme ooo. Lol

beyedew:
Hello ladies!

Team February 2020, where are we all? Please indicate let's do our roll call ejo .

Yaaayyy dancing.
We are here o.
Feb 20th.

Welcome back, Captain!

Oyibo! Oyibo and stunts. I fear who no fear them. Was he a diver? This was not necessary. I hope it wasn't for social media that they pulled that stunt. RIP

Tobaseye ...

You have to help him to help himself. He can't keep overdepending on you. If not, like others say... Your wife and even yourself will become his enemy later if he asks and you can't provide for him.
Help but help with wisdom. Reduce your siblings entitlement mentality. So that problems won't arise later. You have done plenty for them.

Also, get yourself a car and build yourself a house plus investments while you can. If God forbid your fortunes decline, your brother and family will ask what you did with your money when you had money. You think anybody will buy the excuse that you were only busy taking care of your siblings? Even the siblings will look at you like a foolish big brother who wasted his resources. Continue helping in the way you can, but help yourself too. Set your wife up. Put things in place. Set things in place for your coming kids. Help ooo but remember to help yourself too because nobody or very few will help you if things turn.

It's better to start your own ministry, Oga. That is if you're really sure God and not money called you into the ministry.
And by the way, your family is your first ministry. If you fail at that, you may fail at pastoral ministry too. Your lifestyle, family and marriage is your loudest sermon.

Let your wife continue with her school business. Keep supporting her. She will in turn support your ministry with her whole heart. Kindness gives birth to kindness. If she doesn't support moving around, then I doubt you should be in a ministry that moves you around. God will convince her too or you know that's not for you. Open yours. You can start with a fellowship if she doesn't get conviction to move with you. God isn't an author of confusion. Pray and discuss together. Let God and love lead you guys.

CindyByFine:
B.A

My Oyibo pepper prince arrived on Sunday 22.09.2019 by 3pm via (no option left CS) not an emergency nor elective CS, weighing 2.9kg.

B.S
To be submitted later.

@Glory-ne, able cappo
No vex say I port from October to September but looking at my bundle of joy, I am glad I ported.

sexymomiyo:
BA!! My cutie pie,my heart breat,my first fruit made his grand entry into the world on Sunday 22th EDD 25th.Bs coming up shortly.

Congrats to you both. May your LOs grow in grace and stature. Happy every every.

Mummytwins42:
hi mama's who know any fertility clinic at Sango ota, am a busy person my work schedule doesn't give me time to go to government hospitals, and can combo work for someone battling with tubal blockage, this is the second time am asking this question, edakun ooooo

Maybe you try Medicare Clinics along Idiroko road, opposite Justrite. They have many gynecologists and doctors. Don't know how good they are in fertility cases but I heard its a good hospital. All the best.

somehow:
Seem second trimester is the best period for pregnant women

Wifey now jumping about including visiting the market (very far from abode) unlike the first trimester.

BTW, is it possible to have Ante natal at public hospital and then delivery at a private hospital?

What happens to medical history or they don't need it if such decision is taken?

In this case, it's better to use both for antenatal then because I heard most hospitals will still collect the antenatal registration fees etc plus delivery fees if you delivered with them but didn't do antenatal with them. So what's the use? You go still pay them antenatal money. It's possible to deliver in any of them. It's your choice.