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mineANDurs:
He married her when she was quite young abi?
What does he expect from som1 he robbed of her childhood?

She is living her childhood at an adult age so he should leave her alone!

This always happens to peadophiles who thinks that marrying a kid will make her obey his order's and commands.

Mtchew!

Marrying her young is not that she was a kid but someone who was up to 20years because the picture I saw on his phone is a picture of a beautiful woman in her late 30s & they've been together for about 16 years. He later assisted her in getting a job in his place of work.

crackhaus:
A man is having issues with his wife and baring his mind to a female colleague of his - this alone tells me this man is at his wits end and has no where else to go or anyone else to talk to.

I'm surprised there are men like this still in existence who get pushed around by their wives in every available direction.
Interesting...

Well, not that surprising I guess.

Lord knows what I and those I hang around (friends, brothers, bosses, & mentors) would have done to that woman by now.

Is she mad?
No seriously, she nuts or something?

His daughter passed the model college exams and the wife is threatening hell on earth that her child won't attend a cheap school. My kids attend model college and I don't have an issue with that and to think that I earn and have more qualifications than her beats me. And the man looks so quiet and forlorn. I can't give my husband 10% of that trouble ooh. If I kill him with stress, who will come to my aid

greatgod2012:
This is serious.

In marital issues, I've learnt not to take sides because there's always 3 sides to any marital or relationship issue, your friend's side, his wife's side and the truth.



And if what you narrated here is true, how were they able to have 6 children together.


Definitely, they started well and something went wrong along the way, because I believe if things have been like this between them from the onset, they wouldn't have stayed together to have 6 children together.



Maybe they should go back to the family again or their worship center to help them settle the conflict.


My opinion, please!

I told him that something must have gone wrong somewhere and he said most of these things surfaced when she came over to Lagos and started "big girls" stuff. He further claimed that his wife has been the stubborn type. I advised him to speak with her parents sha and see a way of resolving the issues. He tried calling his bro-in-law today but he didn't pick his call.

For him, the wife is trying to create evidence of domestic violence against him and may one day tear her clothes or cut herself and run to the police.

eph12:
Lol. The man can't handle his home, can't get out. And he is asking what he should do. Maybe he should poison his wife.
The reply you will get is the same from everybody; he should leave the woman. Simple. Or is there something else you were expecting glossy6?

My dear I tire sha oooh. I told him to let her go and don't force the marriage to linger as I am afraid one of them may get hurt seriously as in bodily harmed.

fpeter:
Copied!!!
I saw this on FB. We have hope sisters, if God could do this for her then our cases are settled.

This sister here is 59 and pregnant with twins!!! She'll be 60 when she have her boys Isaiah and Isaac!!! Doctors told her and her husband that she will never have kids, but God said she can have two!!!! It's never to late!!!!

With man it's impossible but with God all things are possible!!!!

wow! 59 ke? God is awesome! If bh read this one, he won't mind slapping me. Am just a little over 40 and am fretting about trying again

Imagine ooh. I just discovered this thread after so many years in nl.

fpeter:
Copied!!!
I saw this on FB. We have hope sisters, if God could do this for her then our cases are settled.

This sister here is 59 and pregnant with twins!!! She'll be 60 when she have her boys Isaiah and Isaac!!! Doctors told her and her husband that she will never have kids, but God said she can have two!!!! It's never to late!!!!

With man it's impossible but with God all things are possible!!!!

wow! 59 ke? God is awesome! If bh read this one, he won't mind slapping me. Am just a little over 40 and am fretting about trying again

About a month ago a colleague bared his mind to me on the happenings in his home and how hurt he feels.

He is married to a beautiful lady whom he married when she was quite young and they birthed 6 children (boys & girls). Both of them work with a Federal parastatal, though different offices. Previously, she was based in the East while the husband has been in Lagos but later brought his family together. He claimed that the wife refuses to assist him in running the home but insisted that their kids must attend high fees paying schools which the man is finding difficult to cope with as it costs him about 700k every term. His pleas for assistance always meets a brick wall as the wife told him she is saving for a jeep. His niece had to stay off school for a term for him to gather money for her fees as she is the one looking after his kids. The wife, he said is just after her comfort and nothing more! She must drive to work, no matter the cost petrol.

I saw him with a polybag on Friday and jokingly asked if he went shopping and he was close to tears telling me how another colleague of ours bought a dress for his wife and his wife was so appreciative that he decided to buy for his wife, only for the wife to berate him saying he bought her cheap dresses (he bought 2 gowns). She demanded for the dresses to be changed to bigger sizes, which he did only for her to choose one and reject the other, hence he brought it back to the seller. He told me a lot of unpalatable things he had been going through and I asked him to summon a family meeting and he said he had had several meetings in the past and they yielded no positive results and he has to maintain his cool in order not to be accused of domestic violence. I advised him to return the dress then and pray for God's intervention because it beats my imagination that a working class women will refuse to assist at home. She buys and keep bottled water I her room but will never replenish pure water for the kids.

Then yesterday, we were paid subsistence allowance and the amount was reasonable and we were all excited. But this morning he came to me with a gloomy face and I was like, what is it? What he said shocked me and may shock you too. He said instead of him to be happy that we received allowance, he is very sad and depressed! His wife brought a policeman to arrest him. He came home before the wife, only for her to drive in much later with a policeman and was told to report to the station to answer to reports written against him by his wife (who also got the allowance alert). He reported at the police station and the wife was called on phone (she stayed back while my colleague followed the policeman ). When she came, she said her husband has been threatening her life, hence her making the police entry. The man denied the allegations and told them that family issues should be settled by family and not in police station as He married her from a family and not a police station. He was released and got home by 11pm.

What is your take on this as he want to leave the house for her.

lala please help.

too bad

Guyman02:
Its like he missed the fights and decided to get a wife quick; twins rivalry. I remember growing up and having twin neighbours who will quarrel and quarrle and fight among themselves, the day you will know that their fighting does not mean they are enemies is the day you dare touch one of them, thats when you will know that they can die for each other.

lol. That aptly describes my twin and I

Merciful Jehovah!

adextaiwo84:
Are u one

Yeah, I am one. Looking fwd to twin birth.

LydayBobo:
Am a die hard fan of PMB but am beginning to think he should be head of EFCC than GCFR. He should please listen to the masses.

His ears are still healing. He will hear when they are completely healed.

zinachidi:
the first guy has bin Ladens kind of beards.

Na im he go take shag 72 virgins

ChangeIsCostant:
bro... dem no born NURTW official well to collect fees from a bus with a military personnel. even tho na traffic warden dey inside the bus sef.... that is Lagos for u

Abioo Staff na staff.

Which dues are the glorified agberos collecting self?

Toluabigr8:
Igbo MILITANT AND HAUSA HERDSMEN go hand to hand awon omo ale

What of Yoluba militants terrorizing Ikorodu and Igando? awon omo ale ghan ghan!

2eggs1goal:
Oluwabusobomi the keyboard warrior.!!!

She don make me laff tire

Na real keyboard warrior, chei

calyto:
Igbo/Delta Igbo people and ritual are like 5 & 6.

Ritual- Igbo/Delta-igbo
Robbery-Igbo/Delta-igbo
Drug trafficking- Igbo/Delta-Igbo
Self marginalisation- Igbo/Delta-Igbo
Fake Pastors-Igbo/Delta Igbo
Baby factory- Igbo/Delta Igbo

SMH

And every body from your side is a saint. Where are from again?

youngnerd:
WHY RE YOU SO BITTER ??

Oko no be am

I vote

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cc:Nljega

youngest85:
Location: surulere
Nepa bill: #239,567.56

Do you operate a pure water company?

Redeemed:
@mumredeemer, thank you for your prayers, the lord will honour in Jesus name.

@ suremum, I'm happy for you, may the lord order your steps and grant you bfp by His mercy and grace.

@mumdidi, all your efforts shall be crowned with a bfp

@glossy6, sorry for the loss, affliction will not rise again the second time in Jesus name. Your next pregnancy, you will carry to full term and deliver safely by God's grace.

@all, we shall receive August visitors of twins, triplets and quadruplets in JESUS Name. Amen!

A big amen my dear.

glossy6:
A big amen.

I had been so downcast since I had a premie @ 35weeks and 3 days. But the baby boy died. Am so scared of trying again.

I have been ttc and has not been able to achieve that feat for a year. Conception has been easy for me, I have 4 live births and 3 of them were unplanned and the 5th was after follicular tracking because my hubby lives outside Lagos (the one I lost). This time around, I've tried follicular tracking and ovulation inducement but ended bfn. My hubby is pressing for another trial and somehow am in between. I've done hormone profile and everything is ok but the major issue here is age and long distance marriage and family commitments. He's supposed to come around early next week but has to attend some family functions down east and prefers I make the journey down east. I am not too willing to travel because I am just recovering from illness except I go by air, but then my boss in the office is so troublesome and unpredictable.

steve308:
smh suspected, accused and here they are condemning the guy already when we are not even sure he did wat he was accused of na wa oo

All the juries in NL has confirmed that he is guilty.

emperorchedda:
Oga sometimes it's not everyone that gets shot was a cultist, sometimes the innocent just fall victim

Red cap and red palm is suspicious.
You dare not enter LASU with a fez cap because of cult wahala

Arlington:
hello my peace,
I had my last miscarriage in March and i saw my period in July.It takes a while for your body to get back to Normal.
Have your doctors run tests to see if everything is ok ?Arrgh i hate the fake symptoms it can make one crazy it is funny how these things happen when you want a baby.
Blessed are the women who just get pregnant have healthy babies without knowing what God has done for them.
May we never ever again cast our fruits before the harvest time again.

A big amen.

I had been so downcast since I had a premie @ 35weeks and 3 days. But the baby boy died. Am so scared of trying again.

MadCow1:
O Girl na wetin?


MEANWHILE Wetin be this: Nairaland is now filled with kids who think owing a phone and having access to the internet make them wiser and smarter than their elders. If you were born in the 90s please don't quote me, because I don't sell biscuits & cheeseballs

Exactly what you read!

Lukmann1:
I am improve small by small. Nice meeting you.

Keep on trying my dear, no one is perfect. Nice meeting you too.

Jesu!!!

Happy New Month to my
omotayor123 optional 1 luqmann 1 ishilove refiner mysticalgal
and all the every every in nl
enjoy your month as we march forward

Lukmann1:
yea them are not ugly at all but them are also not too fine.

It sounds better that way.

But lukmann1, You no dey try for this your grammar ooh abi na play you dey play?

Anyway, make them go marry djoor. Which one be Anekwe twins every time? Na title be that?

drotony:
And when they execute him how will the police fish out the other criminals like the buyer? Much of how wise you think you are. Coming here to insult a whole tribe because of pockets of miscreants.

pockets of miscreants ni few missteps ko? if na omo yebo, this thread go don reach 16 pages with all other tribes masturbating over the thread and NCA doing their work as if it will provide food for them.

madcow1, it is too early to disown them ooh

Ikorodu and killings is like APC and Lies
No wonder people are selling off their houses there.