₦airaland Forum

Stop this bickering

Klass99:
I have igede and idoma friends, what's the current crises between the tribes?

it's a complicated problem over electricity.

Both tribes live in the same Benue south senatorial zone, have a long history, though they speak different languages.

Igede people alleged that idoma have been tampering with power infrastructure that pases through idomaland to igede thereby putting the entire people of igede in darkness.

Some igede people went to fix the light and one of them was shot in the process, the rest ran away and later embarked on a peaceful protest to denounce the attack, but this time they were brutally attacked again by the idoma people, killing so many with others injured.

This angered igede people and they fought back, both tribes have been attacking each other since then, killing each other, burning houses and communities.

There's political dimension to the crisis, idoma people voted for someone else as senator in the just concluded election, igede supported the incumbent senator and voted for him massively and he won, this angered the idomas, they blamed igede for his victory.

Supreme court again

This is what we need in Nigeria

Vinnie2000:
The Old Notes is so SCARCE. Seem like some Wildlife species, going Extinct.

you are right, the situation now is even worst than before

Too many questions begging for answer

She's truly a good person

I don't see that happening, south Africa and Russia currently enjoy good diplomatic relations

This is bad, why this again

Too much calamity has befallen my state, from Fulani herdsmen killings to the current crisis between igede and idoma.

Thank God he escaped

Her future is well assured and secured

POS agents are charging N200 per N1000, that's too much

Congrats to them

This is a very pathetic situation, nothing has changed despite using old notes.

To withdraw money from bank now is very difficult, I keep seeing people forming long queues at the ATM machines every day on my way to work and coming back since Monday

Old naira notes isn't even available enough, the new notes is also scarce.

POS agents are still charging N150- N200 per N1000

Good, the governor will surely make headways if he follows Obi's footsteps

Kobojunkie:
1. Yet interestingly you didn't answer any of the questions.
Am I to at least take it that you believe children raised by the rich have better upbringings as a whole than kids from poor homes then?

No I don't believe that children raised by the rich have better upbringing than kids from poor homes

Poverty is a factor, but it shouldn't be the main reason for anyone from poor and broken homes to indulge in prostitution.

We live in an era where every young person wants to use the latest phone in town and wear expensive clothes, so they corrupt each other, we should look deeper into this problem and see what motivates people into such lifestyle.

Kobojunkie:
1. Many of those raised in situations of abject poverty are probably more hardworking than you can ever imagine.

2. Have you actually bought some of them one of these tricycles to have them refuse them as a result of laziness?

3. Let me ask you a simple question. Do all children of the rich who go on to live rich lives away from prostitution do so because they were raised better than all the prostitutes many of whom come from poor dysfunctional homes? Are all rich kids who don't end up in prostitution simply more hardworking than the kids from poor homes who end up in it?

Nice questions

This is where discipline and value system comes in.

Kobojunkie:
1. So, it never occurred to you that a family that exists in poverty exits with indifference to the child's emotional, physical, and social well-being? Dey there dey look for ways to get around the real definition of a dysfunctional family.

like I said earlier, laziness is also part of it, I will never agree with you on this

I've seen young women riding tricycles and doing other tedious jobs in order to survive.

It's all poor parenting and laziness

Kobojunkie:
1. Ignoring what is the reality of these things will change nothing or make them go away.

2. Poverty is the number one factor for driving these kids into such lives. And you claim kids from broken and dysfunctional homes indulge in prostitution the most and it never occurred to you that poverty is itself a broken and dysfunctional situation, to begin with?

Families caught in the cycle of dysfunction often face serious abusive issues like alcohol abuse, drug abuse, domestic violence, physical abuse, sexual abuse, and emotional abuse.

Children of dysfunctional families tend to carry on the cycle of dysfunction into their own lives and into their own families.

A dysfunctional family is one that is mired in conflict, chaos, a lack of structure, or indifference so that the child’s physical and emotional needs cannot be met. Factors that can impair a family’s functioning include poor parenting, distressed or abusive environments, substance abuse, mental illness, chronic physical illness, and poor communication

A healthy family system, on the other hand, is one where family members nurture and support each other. Family relationships are close and individual members within a family have a sense of emotional well-being

I hope this helps you.

Kobojunkie:
1. Reality speaks volumes for itself. That notion that somehow humility is found in poverty is a wicked one created by the wicked to keep the poor foolish and depraved longer. Poverty is a broken and dysfunctional situation and every family that exists in poverty of the same nature, no matter how glossy you try to make the many tales about them seem.

Kobojunkie:
1. Ignoring what is the reality of these things will change nothing or make them go away.

2. Poverty is the number one factor for driving these kids into such lives. And you claim kids from broken and dysfunctional homes indulge in prostitution the most and it never occurred to you that poverty is itself a broken and dysfunctional situation, to begin with?

It seems we have different understanding of broken and dysfunctional families.

Zupay:
Though he developed his country but that man is very deadly, there are many Rwandans in foreign countries that would never set foot in Rwanda till Kagame is dead and buried......very brutal human being.

Yeah, I know Paul kagame embraces absolutism but he's a benevolent and visionary dictator.

Though I don't know what Rwanda will look like when he dies

Kobojunkie:
1. Those with poor upbringing as their reason are in the minority. The majority as into it because they are simply from poor backgrounds and cannot afford what they desire and long to have as a result. And please, do not come back here to tell me that a kid living in Africa should not long for and desire the same opportunities that kids elsewhere have access to and freedom to elsewhere in world.

We live in a very materialistic age and so anyone birthing kids into poverty is to blame for dooming such a child to such an existence.

You are trying to justify why people go into prostitution

Poverty isn't the main reason, it's laziness


Also, kids from broken and dysfunctional homes indulge in prostitution most.

The man that transformed Rwanda into a modern society

He should stop trying to defend the indefensible

This Keyamo has lost my respect.

Kobojunkie:
This problem goes beyond upbringing as it instead is indicative of the high levels of poverty in the nation — over 90%.

I agree with you, but you can't completely dismiss the fact that poor upbringing also contributes to it.

He should not disappoint his people

Kobojunkie:
The point is there is a demand and supply follows!

I thought I was your friend but you made me feel bad today

Kobojunkie:
No, it isn't! There is a demand for sex and these women, who you lot run to in order to get your needs met, choose to monetize their service. Why are they wrong?

And who told you that I patronise them

fergie001:
Yea.

okay man

They are exercising their fundamental human rights

You better reason well with your head this time.

Leave her alone and plan your life, it's not everyone that has such grace to rise up from ruin, she ran away when the chips were down and she's now begging to come back because of the little progress you've made.

I'm advising and warning you not to take her back.

Princewell2012:
Boss we for try for here in Lagos but tinubu boys chase us away with weapons, I didn't vote because of this.
But the presidential election we all participated even waited for the counting of it, because we participated more that's why their ojoro did not overturned our votes.
Honestly Lagos election supposed to be cancelled. I know what am saying.

I understand you bro, you guys truly delivered Lagos state for Obi

Nonsense, this is why people don't like them