₦airaland Forum

We criticize our leaders for wrongdoings/misdemeanors forgetting that some of us are even worse.

Some have committed a lot of heinous and unspeakable crimes that nobody knows about, the way we treat people around ourselves, our neighbors, family members, friends and colleagues at work explain who we are.

So if we want Nigeria to be great, we all should start doing the right thing.

Southeast should start forming alliances and bridges of love, Igbos need the support of other regions to make this a reality

He should leave Messi alone and head to court if he feels like he's been cheated

This is serious, I hope women activists and feminists will condemn this despicable act.

Messi has achieved everything he wanted in life, so I don't think he's bothered at all

Good one, why is IPOB hellbent on destroying southeast region?

Sad, human error again, this could have been avoided.

Good, nnamdi kanu boys are behind every ugly thing in that region

It's not all peachy out there, say no to desperation, who will build this country if we all leave?

I think it should be DSS

And yet the economy is in bad shape

Congrats to them

Abeg they should stop disturbing us and desist from public display of wealth

This man is the most childish and mischievous US president ever, his presidency exposed the dark underbelly of American society.

Open defecation is a disgusting act

Women need this advice more.

Opeyemiextra:
Envy, jealousy, greed and covetousness is innate to some people and they can't help it. I don't know why you will be angry your friend is getting married or got a job when she didn't steal it from you.

Thanks for your candor

Datboredberry:
Uncomfortable? That you take the few women you've interacted with... Then try to shame the billions more on this planet...

It's not matter of both genders being selfish in doing certain things...

For example; if you say most women are desperate to get married... I would have agreed...

If you say most men prioritise sex... I would have agreed...

Because these behaviours... They are the results of gender expectations: women being wives and mothers... And men being studs...

But as for generosity... Or philanthropy... It's an individual thing... Your love for another person, it's something that's within you... Not influenced by gender roles or societal expectations...

Your experience, values... They determine if you're considerate or not.

You keep twisting this story around.
Beneficence/munificence is truly an individual thing, but men do it more for their fellow males than ladies, that's the bitter truth, I'm not stereotyping

He's the boss, they should listen to him

Datboredberry:
I agree... Same goes for men...

I don't see the need to make it a gender thing... like you did.

Since it's a human quality...

How am I gaslighting?

It appears some of you women hate the home/uncomfortable truth especially if it comes from a guy.

I agree with you that both genders are selfish in doing certain things, but ladies are more guilty in not helping their fellows.

Datboredberry:
Your opinion... People's personality and moral.. these determine how they act.. not their private parts..

Yes, our gender does influence certain actions..

But being genuinely affectionate.. individual..

Women love... Women hate... Men do the same...

It's stupid to assume from your few interactions that all women are selfish and opportunistic...

Ignoring the millions of men in positions of power who would rather squander their wealth on women than give to the struggling men on the streets...

I said some ladies, don't get me wrong please, stop gaslighting and the casuistry dear.

Datboredberry:
And I've done the same... Supported women...

You can't use yourself to represent your gender... I can't either...

The fact remains that men don't help men out of genuine care... The 'favours' they give to women... Mostly out of lust... The same way women don't care for the next woman... Unless it's beneficial

Being selfish is human nature... Maybe there isn't a single honest folk out there...

I still disagree with you on the bolded, though you are right that some men help due to lasciviousness.

Datboredberry:
*News flash*

Your penìs nor vagìna doesn't make you wicked...

Most men don't help their fellow men... The men who readily give cash out to women, they could give it to their male friends... But since they can't fuçk them, they choose not to... Won't you comment on this delibrate selfish act of cruelty?


The corrupt politicians... All men who embezzle millions only to give the struggling youths 5k to vote for them... Men!

You make it seem as though men help each other out out of their goodwill and generosity... In this reality? Men don't even help women out for these reasons... Lust drives most of them to act they way they do... Don't be mistaken...

Where a car would only stop and offer you a free lift if you're wearing a skirt...

Forget gender... Humans... We're our own worse enemies...

Using myself as an example, I've helped countless guys, I just rendered a help this afternoon, I met the bros on this platform.
So I ain't the type that gets carried away because of vagina babe.

Unbelievable, such unspeakable act all because of noxious stuff that will destroy your body organs.

He must be a pettish and pugnacious type that goes haywire always

Farfalla:
Have I not acknowledged that it's envy?

oh sorry for my mistake dear, then I salute your probity

I will give up on this country if tinubu becomes president, osibanjo is far better than him

He should go and sit down abeg

Farfalla:
Envy.

And it's not a gender thing. It's a human trait, hence my reference to the Malaysian dude.

Lol, you already know the truth, I don't expect you to acknowledge it.

True, top government jobs as well, though it's more of connection these days.
Buhari is still ruling us with WAEC certificate sha

Farfalla:
@ topic,

Probably for the same reason as the man spotted by CCTV camera in Malaysia putting juju at the door of his friend.

Stop deviating dear, simple answer the question.

You will agree with me wholeheartedly that some ladies hardly help their fellow females, especially financial support.

Have you ever come across a post on social media from a lady seeking for help before? all the people that will send money are guys.

But when it comes to tittle tattle, they can do it swimmingly.

They are all propagandists fooling Nigerians