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Ulunne777:
Knelt down at 2nd artillery junction to beg me.Dude was obsessed with me but his drama was too much.

Hmm, did you accept him?

aanuoluwami14:
A lots. One of them; One of my neighbours that was very close to me then was just giving me gifts, cash and cloths with laughter, it was suspicious because this man was so stingy but I was calmed waiting for him to say anything rubbish ( because he is married) until one day his wife called me that she couldn't keep it to herself again that his husband's boss was interested in me, came to her husband to seek for my attention, so his husband started collecting money and gifts from his boss, I laughed

Lol, thanks for sharing with us.

helinues:
Well, I wouldn't say it was unthinkable but rather an act of boldness.

So I saw this lady inside the campus, luckily for me, my younger brother was around, so I told him to get me details about the lady.

Before evening same day, I had the info about her name and her house.

Same evening, I took the courage to pay her a visit in her house. When I got there, I met some ladies which are house mates, a house full of Alhajas, the girl too.

The way I asked about her, they thought I knew her before until the lady came out and join the conversation.

She was skeptical and a bit confused when I told her how I saw her and what brought me there. But she was swayed away with my courage and in addition my cologne.

The relationship was actually one of the best cos we were role models to other couples..

Wow, what a great story.

Backward, when last did our boys play well in any continental and global tournament?

Some guys have done unimaginable just to get a lady's attention or please her, some fight over women, steal money from their parents or engage in crime and criminality all to Impress girls, yahoo guys spend all their money on ladies.
I have a neighbor (a bike rider) that wasted all his money and energy on ladies for almost ten years, eventually he borrowed huge amount of money from cooperative that he was gonna buy a bike but instead he went home to marry a wife with the money, I don't know who advised him to do such a thing, he's into serious debt now, he doesn't have anything, he doesn't have his own bike as well, I just pity the poor woman he married, they've taken away all his property in the house including the mattress and cooking gas.
He's now using my gas everyday to cook.

So many guys would have made it big in life if not for ladies that ruined them completely, and the funny thing in the end is that they end up not marrying such girls after everything. So guys should learn how to control themselves and be responsible.

So ladies, what crazy thing has a guy done for you all in the name of love? Or what insane thing have you made a guy do before?

Will some of us ever be known without social media today especially celebrities? their entire lives revolve round social media everyday, they post every minute.
Social media has its advantages and disadvantages.
Social media has become a powerful tool of communication around the world, so many of us no longer watch TV or listen to radio because we have every information online.
Almost all government officials in every country are on social media platform like twitter, Facebook, Instagram, etc where they communicate regularly with the masses about their programs and policies.
People meet and get married through these platforms including nairaland
So how has social media helped shape your life?

These are the people tarnishing our image

NovesaTillie:
Keep it up. If you date me and don't make your moves by the 6th month I will leave..........

Are you serious? Is sex that important to you than true love

He's been keeping quiet on serious burning national issues because of his presidential ambition, he doesn't want to offend the north, He's a wily hypocrite

OdefaGirl:
Not when they are going to stay with Chidinma

Lol, you are right though, that one na coded.
And today's chidinma na Jezebel, but telling a close friend is better than none, because anything can happen

babyfaceafrica:
I have no problem with people leaving the country, but if you hear the place people go, you will be shocked. Libya, Kenya, Iraq, Philippines.. Like WTF? And they will sell their properties in the country on hope. Its sad!

It's really sad, some of them will sleep on the streets after getting there and turn to beggars.
They will start from square one again if they eventually get deported back home.

What else do you expect in a broken and dysfunctional country like Nigeria, non state actors will continue holding government to ransom

I pray he returns back alive, we should always inform family members wherever we go.

Lybia of all places, Nigerians keep risking their lives everyday despite all the warning and ugly stories they've heard, some of them will raise huge amount of money, sell all their properties before leaving the country, isn't that insanity?

I will never endanger my life all because of money. Say no to desperation

Because of the praises they get from sycophants for carrying out their constitutional obligations, then money and power intoxicate them.

Stop celebrating mediocrity, don't worship them, ask questions instead.

Good suggestion, but the northern oligarchy will not accept it

Hmm, she's such a stringy woman

I concur wholeheartedly, the unwholesome political rhetoric, unprecedented ugly security challenges and the three powerful parties involved made it difficult to handle

I support genuine investigation if he has engaged in unlawful act, but I abhor political witch-hunt

Joysticks:
For anyone to get employed,a guarantor must be a staff of chivita.So I didn't have one.But for the ladies,he would sleep with them before he stands as guarantor.

He's a Casanova, his sexual indiscretion will put him in serious hot water someday, thank God you got another job

Mariangeles:
That is because men hardly help their fellow men. I wonder why that is.

Men would rather render "help" to women and expect the "favour" to be repaid in kind.

That's very bad sis, but I do help my male friends a lot.
I will never ignore a very hungry guy who ask for my help

Joysticks:
The position have been relieved from him.But he is still disguising to deceive some desperate ladies.He was surprised when I called his name"uncle Ben,na this man be the manager of chivita"He kept mute.He just finished what he came to do with his mistress and zoom off.

Lol, I don't know why some men are like that, there's absolutely nothing to gain from such lifestyle.
He denied you a job and probably many guys as well, that's ludicrous

Joysticks:
Ladies uses what they(KitKat) have to get what they want.I have caught a manager of recruitment in chivita,ajao estate brought a lady to my former hotel for a short rest.I don apply several times to get employment in chivita before.If I write my name in the list of applicants for employment he would cancel my name.
His name is uncle Ben.Anyone who has been to chivita for job knows him.
I have even listened to some female applicants gossip about him that he would call them at midnight to asked them out.They would declined.
Guys don't have hole and Bobbie.

Too bad, such a person should be sacked

Mercychen:
Men get help but too forget that thing. Only that, ego will not let them divulge it to anyone. Na only women own una dey hear.

Sometimes a woman will seek help and she'll be presented with conditions which if not met will detter her from getting any help. What about that?

That is not to say women don't get help though but I'm just trying to make you understand that it's mostly the same hurdles the men face that women face too. It's a matter of luck.

Hmm, this is casuistry dear, please stop gaslighting and acknowledge the reality.

DaddyRochie1642:
Never Underestimate the power of Kpekus

Lol, are you among them?

Mercychen:
They the "weaker sex" I guess .
Abi you wan become a woman?

Every time your arguments and Lamentations is always gender based with the female gender at the receiving end. Men why?

Are there no cases of women helping men or of men getting help?

Davido made a whooping 150 million naira within 4 days of seeking help online. All the help women have been getting can never be compared to what Davido got in 4 days. So, stop with the genderization already.

I come in peace.

Davido is a celebrity sis, this isn't generalisation either, but you yourself know the truth na

Abdul05:
Unlike ojukwu who chose to seek safety in flight

I'm not a fan of ojukwu but he did his best before running away

Investigative:
So when will buhari lead from war front
The sentence he used to scam Nigeria

That groggy man is incapable of doing such thing

Maxymilliano:
This was how the Buhari vowed to lead the fight against Boko haram from the front.

We know how it ended with Boko Haram and Bandits dictating the pace for the retired General

Buhari is a weakling

We live in a society that favours ladies when it comes to help, whether in getting a good job or receiving financial help from people.
I know a popular young woman on Facebook that will ask her friends and followers to contribute money for the needy who reach out to her and Immediately people mostly guys will start sending money into her bank account, though I appreciate her transparency and accountability in handling the money, she will screenshot all the alarts and post them for people to see, she can raise 100k within 2-3 days and give it to whoever ask for it (ladies/women)
Apart from this, ladies can easily get help from even broke guys as well, meanwhile some guys don't really care about their fellow poor niggas, as for me I help both genders but guys most times because I can't ask a lady for help during emergency, but I can boldly ask my male friend whom I've been helping.

I've helped a lot of female relatives including the ones in school , but not random girls that will think it's because of their beautiful body, they won't even appreciate it, and a day is coming that they will stop talking to you.

Majority of ladies on social media are mendicants, only God knows how many guys they beg for money on daily basis.

So guys share your experience here, who do you help most? Guys or ladies?

Prime Minister Minister Abiy Ahmed yesterday announced that he will join the war front In a social media post shared, Abiy said, "It's time to lead the country through sacrifice. I will join the front to lead the defense forces tomorrow." Calling on Ethiopians the PM said, "Those of you who aspire to be remembered in history , rise up for your country. Meet me at the front." Abiy assured that the administrative vacuum will be filled by federal and regional officials who will work harder than ever to their fullest capacity to carry out administrative and development activities.

In his message addressing the people of Ethiopia, Abiy vowed to fend off 'internal and external enemies' who he accused of attempting to build their strength on Ethiopia's weakness. He said, "Ethiopia's plan was to move forward together without abandoning anyone," the PM said adding, " That is why we focused our foreign policy on our neighbors." He continued, "This struggle is the struggle of all black people. The campaign against Ethiopia is a conspiracy to undermine the history, culture, identity and dignity of black people and humiliate them by subduing their symbol of freedom, Ethiopia." He further called on all black people to stand by Ethiopia in a spirit of pan Africanism

It appears the tigray rebels have foreign support for them to be pressing towards the capital Addis Ababa.

Buhari and his entire administration are a big disgrace